ITT: ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION FROM PERFORMANCE ANXIETY

ITT: ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION FROM PERFORMANCE ANXIETY
have you ever had it?
How did you get over it?
Stories?
I just feel like this is a never ending cycle. I always struggle to get or stay hard with a grill.

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Yeah, I occasionally got it. It was more losing the erection during the act though.

The trick is getting a girl who hasn't had good experiences before or someone who doesn't mind if you finish her off in other ways.
For example, I had all sorts of issues with my previous gf stemming from her lack of sex drive and my newness to sex.
The next gf I had (and am currently with) has a high sex drive so I know she wants it, hasn't had great sexual encounters previously and is fairly easy to get off in general. Now I can moderately consistently get her off during sex (depending on a variety of factors) while also being successful in other ways, leaving me feeling confident that I can satisfy her.

My advice is to get good at oral and find a girl who can easily get off from it. That gives you some room to work on yourself because you're not as worried about not satisfying her.

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Thanks man, my ex really fucked up my confidence cause I know how to do oral and g-spot massage but she couldnt ever get off. Also couldnt get off from my dick cause it went limp every 30 seconds. Now I am with a girl who I can get off every ten minutes with my hands and mouth. But Im still worried about fucking her, cause we havent had sex yet.

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disgusting

wow u really like to insult people haha brain dead? Chances are I'm smarter than you hun. You are trying so hard to be funny haha dumb bitch? I have 11 GCSE's A*-B and I'm going to Queen Mary lol. The only reason why youve not been beaten up every time you open your mouth is cos vegans want to protect you, you pig. Have fun being the scum of our society!! Im just laughing haahaaa

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Dafuq is wrong with you

my gf and i used to have lots of sex when we first began dating. now, a year and a half later we do it like 2-3 a week (sadly enough). when a few days since the last time pass, i tend to cum quickly so i start doing math in my head or thinking about the poor people in my country. however, if i think too much about this my dicc goes soft and im pissed. the secret is to not think about how good it feels. you have to try and relax. try it slowly or standing up (that helps me nut alot slower)

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I cant get hard with every new person I have sex with! I don't watch that much porn, and after a while of being with them I can get hard easily so im pretty sure its just nerves and lack of trust thats causing it.

I just talk about it outright. Tell them that I wont be able to keep it up until my nerves go away. Talking about it hasn't solved the issue for me, its not like I can talk about it and then that takes the pressure away and then I can keep hard. Ill still have the problem for a while, but talking about it is good because I dont want them to think I can;t keep it up cause im not into them

Im not having a problem of coming too quickly. I wish I had that problem instead of this one tho

I do this but sometimes the nerves just wont go away

stop masturbating. i guarantee if you don't jack off a week beforehand you'll be more than ok.

nah you dont want that bro. especially if your gf doesnt want to have sex whenever YOU want to ;_;

There could be a couple of things going on. You could be watching too much porn, or just not into them that much, or maybe youre gay?, or maybe it's nerves.

I've been unable to get it up cause of not being into someone enough. Thats fine, sometimes you're just not attracted to someone, even if they're good looking.

If you think you are into them, and you've talked about it how long has it kept being a problem? Have you been with someone for 6 months and never been able to get hard with them? 1 month?

WHOOOOO DAT??

Nerves would get me always when with a girl the first night / time

Fucked plenty but guaranteed performance anxiety each time bar a few one nighters when fucked up, it's all in your head, been with wife 6 years now and she's hot so diamonds all the time but we still joke about ur night we hooked up, same shit anxiety then came so fucking quick, the night after that we banged 4 times a day

It's all in your head champ and helps if girl is hot

There were times when i have been able to fuck for hours with my ex but it was really rare. Most times I went limp fast as fuck. I dont think I'm gay I cant get hard to gay porn/traps. I do watch porn but I'll stop if that helps. Persisted for the whole 1.5 year relationship.

Same fucking same it's a mind fuck sometimes

I know its in my head but I cant get it out. How did you?

Cool then I'll cum in seconds

You have to ride it out, after the first time it's more confortable etc Hopefully be open with her, girls can be retarded and think it's them blah blah and that can make it worse cause it's just gnsrly nerves my hear races like crazy
I'm early thirties banged maybe 22 girls

Have cheated on wife a few times and same ducking thing he first time, then it's fine and bang away

I like your caution about whether you're gay or not. "I dont think I'm gay cause can't get hard to gay porn or traps" haha, I trust you so much because of that.
And since it's persisted so long its probably worth talking to someone about. It could be porn, but it could be anxiety that's difficult to deal with. I'm definitely on the mild end of anxiety, so if youve got more meaningful anxiety it might be worth seeing a psychologist. They'll probably help you deal with other stuff too. I don't know why shrinks get such a bad rap, seeing a good shrink is great!

Thanks man it sucks balls but i guess i'll keep trying. Maybe a little alcohol would help?

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get some pills bro, only soln, its only gonna get worse with age

Essentially this, be open about it and don't give up, you'll relax after a couple times.
I had the opposite problem, I used to come too fast due to nerves, tried all kinds of shit until I decided to relax and live with it and then it stopped.

Totally but not too much lol key is a few drinks lets you losen up, 15 will not help

Nice trick if your ever freaking out is to eat her out and jerk it gives you a buffer zone no pun intended and you can collect your thoughts down there

As long as your also not beating it to gay porn cause that's a red flag but otherwise yeah the old go down on her and jerk it has worked for me a few times

Stop masturbating for a while 90% of the time it works every time.

No, but I do have erectile dysfunction from being a fat fuck.

Shit sucks.

The problem is that in my country a single pill of viagra costs 10 bucks.

Buddy I worked with was a large dude, had the same issue, used to go to Asian hookers at the brothel, there's a submissive nature in them plus your paying them to get you hard

Worth a shot, you could not be more of a loser than this guy trust me

Advertise your shitty youtube videos somewhere else.

Thanks for the tip man. I didnt even think about that. Will do.

Be careful what you say here, this is Sup Forums, there are plenty of people on here could find you and get you kicked out of that school.
How would you like a criminal record? 11 GCSE's don't count for anything if you can't get into Uni of get a job.
Check yourself.

So get generics then.

Sildenafil Citrate generic is insanely cheap all over the world.

Have it mailed to you.

this guy implying Queen Mary is in any way prestigious

cut 1 pill into quarters. A quarter works for me. Also what said. I've bought it from those shady internet pharmacies like 4 times. Haven't been ripped off yet