My girlfriend only want's to have sex about once a week, I know for sure that she isn't cheating.
We've been together for 1 and a half year and we live together.
Has anyone ever been in the same situation? I'm starting to get really annoyed of her always having no will or an excuse to have sex.
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She's cheating
Have you spoken with her directly about this?
What does she tell you when you ask her why only once a week?
The attraction is fading...
I know she isn't because she's most of her time either with me or working.
I did, about 3 times already, I expressed that the lack of sex is affecting me and our relationship, she simply couldn't give an answer and all she said was that she was more tired because of her job.
She says she is mostly tired or not in the mood.
If she doesn't satisfy you sexually a year and a half in then it's time to find someone new or be alright with the idea of jerking off the rest of your life.
Unless she's alright with a poly relationship.
Leave her. Get another. No need to get stuck in a relationship, bro.
She's not as turned on by you as she used to be. It's normal in relationships for this to happen.
Start acting like you don't care about the pussy as much, but don't do things secretly to get it, like chores or dates or listening to her problems.
Be your own man, and she'll wanna fuck you. If she doesn't start to shape up, go ahead and ship out. Not worth your time.
Some girls and even some men dont need sex more then once every time there is nothing wrong with this it can at most be itritating
Then start masturbating in her presence, maybe watch some porn.
That sounds like bullshit, she fucks at work.
Tell her you'll break up with her if there is not more sex.
Rape her duh.
We used to fuck like rabbits, our average was always on 3-4 times a week. Only in the past 2-3 months she's been like this.
She is a real 10 for me, has always been, I'm scared that this is just some sort of phase and I'll regret it.
You can't rape your girlfriend.
Living together kills all passion
I'm 29, have lived with two different women for a total of 7 years
Domestication is both inevitable and atrophying
Just fuck somebody else you faggot
Some people just have lower sex drives
This can happen. People have different sex drives, and they can vary through time.
If you want to improve your sex life, work on the other aspects of your relationship. Get out more. Be social with other people. Do non-sex things together (other than Netflix). Pestering her about sex will always backfire.
If she uses baby pills then it's normal for her to have a low sex drive.
"Working"
You know how many girlfriends, fiancé, wives I've fucked while they were working for me?
Since when does she work? 2-3 months? Then she's cheating.
Probably depressed get her on some anti depressants and she'll get right back up.
Kill yourself before someone else does it for you.
I do all the stuff a boyfriend should do, I care about her, I offer her massages and stuff. She can't complain on that.
We do a lot of stuff together, I always come up with something to do.
When she started to take the pill she could actually orgasm faster and better and the sex drive was the same.
Femanon detected
>pls respond
I'm pretty sure she isn't cheating at work because I also know some people there.
The last job she got was about 2 months ago, it's heavy on the schedule sometimes but there is still plenty of free time.
She's the happiests she's ever been, she even said that today.
Fem here, I wouldn't want sex more than once per week, neither would any other fem who was being honest.
I guess you could ask her to fake it, but that's kind of a burden and it takes us awhile to regain sensitivity.
She's cheating. Stop lying to yourself
>she's a real 10
Need pics for approval and confirmation.
There is a difference of when she started taking the pills and when a lot of time has passed since she started taking them. I know a lot of people who complain about their sex life getting worse after taking baby pills. Plus they cause a lot of stress and depression.
YOU are the problem and you know this to be true
Stop thinking aloud on an anonymous message board and control your life
This. Another femanon here. My sex drive is actually even lower than hers.
Just go full muslim and rape her. Tell her it is your right as a man.
Indeed
Pics now OP
Could it be that? Is there any way to change the pill or something to get a higher drive?
I know she's not, I drop her at work everyday, she doesn't spend much time with friends and stuff.
I personally get really frustrated if I only get to have sex with my bf once a week.
Has it always been like that?
>Femanon detected
>>pls respond
Not femanon. Pic unrelated.
Does she have other meds tho? They might lower her libido too
Sorry but your both talking shit, been in 4 year relationship, gf wet as fuck everytime have sex at least every other day, OP is not turning on his bitch and neither are your bf by the sound of it, gtfo this thread you boring ass fucks
This, there's a person attached to the sexmeat, you retard. Just play with your dick in between fucks.
Try taking a shower.
No, actually my sex drive requires emotional bond. Now that I've broken up with a guy I used to date I don't really experience feelings of lust. When I am in a relationship though, I'd like to have sex maybe weekly, maybe monthly. But this is just a personal opinion
Keep lying to yourself.
Haha that's even worse
Tired and not wanting sex because of her job instead of wanting release from it
Lold . Delusional op
Yes. The longer we wait between masturbation, the better it feels, too. Playing with clit during the non-fuck days helps increase anticipation for sex. Complaining about not having sex often enough is sexually repulsive, by the way. Wait until the sensation's enjoyable, not just whenever you can get it up. Wait until you're (and she's ) HORNY. Pushing it is gonna make it booooring.
Very likely this. Make sure you retract your foreskin when washing. Also trim neckbeard.
I know that when my cousin was on her pills she didn't have sex with her bf for months... no matter how hard he tried she just didn't get in the mood. After she quit her sex drive got better.. so your case right now is good.. though it could turn from once a week to once every month. You two should go see a doctor together and ask for advice there.
Just how it works somethings, OP. No one's fault. Just roll with it. Ive been with my wife for 10 years. It's about down to 1 day a week. Just how it goes. No reason to be all upset. Jack off.
a lot of girls there 4changirls.jimdo.com
But I don't really want sex every single day, I just ask for 2-3 times a week to keep me feeling good..
I actually read that women hate when men ask them to have sex constantly, so I did stop for some time but nothing changed.
This is so true also
>I'm female
>it gets wet regardless because it's not a measure of being turned on, it's a matter of the body feeling sensation in the vagina and preparing for intercourse
>women are used to going along with it to get men to stop bitching, even when they are't turned on
Ever heard of "faking it"?
So do all the boyfriends of employees I've fucked
D'aww poor baby only has sex four times a month.
I haven't been laid in six years. Eat my scrotum.
That has never worked ever.
None?
Ok, so to make sure you're feeing good, you're ignoring that she most ikely has to just lay there and take it for 2 extra days a week while she's not turned on at all. This may be why your sex life is failing.
This.
holy shit it was so easy in hs
I think I'll do as the rest of the world has done and pass on that.
This.
He makes a very good point here
a lot of assfucking horny girls there 4changirls.jimdo.com
Either you ain't dropping enough dick or she has a hormonal imbalance. Polycystic ovary disease, fibroids... they can cause dips in sexual desire.
But we always used to fuck a lot, she was always really kinky and willing to fuck and experiment. I haven't changed anything to the worse since then
Dude shut the fuck up, you sound like a middle schooler. Not all women are cheating whores
Women do this when they feel secure in the relationship.
Cheat on her op. Or at least let hey know that you have no reason to suck around if you're unhappy.
>This.
>holy shit it was so easy in hs
Oldfag here. Getting laid way more an with higher quality than in HS. Age has little to do with it.
>Having to give a grown man advice on how to clean foreskin
This is why we have a bad reputation.
>Age has little to do with it.
Being around girls has a lot to do with it. I'm not around girls, havent had a girlfriend in years, etc.
OP I'm in the same boat. Don't worry, it's 100% believable that she isn't cheating, mine isn't either, it's frustrating but that's just what happens to couples over time. If you want to keep her, then first of all try jerking off more. Second, try stepping up your game a bit. Buy her flowers, light some candles, turn her on, don't expect her to do it. If you just don't think she's worth it then maybe it's time to move on o someone else
Yes, people try to see what each other enjoy/are into earlier in a relationship, but you're trying to make it into a chore to make sure you're getting all the pleasure you want. That's making you a shitty sex partner. Her body physically doesn't need it that often. Most couples fuck once a week. You use a sex toy 2-3 times a week, not a person who has to act like they want to fuck while theyre not enjoying it. That's bad communication.
My wife has an insanely low sex drive so I'm lucky to even get my fickle wet one a week, when we first started dating we fucked every chance we got its life OP if you love this women get you a pocket pussy or something and just rub one out trust me or you can be a douche and cheat on her, all I know is I don't chase my wife for pussy anymore and when she wants the D the sex is crazy awesome so just chill and if she is getting it somewhere else well then op man the fuck up and fuck her sister
You're shit in bed, have a small cock and she is cheating, 100% guaranteed. Probably with a nïg too.
It is the pill, my gf suffered the same lack of sex drive. It got better when she started eating healthier.
>I'm not around girls
I get that. There's always tindr or okcupid. It' usually works better with girls you meet in real life, but the internet is good practice.
Thought about it. ill just use the king arthur line until i get a positive response
King Arthur line? explain.
But she does enjoy it, she never fakes and I can tell that.
If I have a relationship where I could be sexually satisfied why should I buy sex toys to fap?
By that logic I should also stop giving her massages and other stuff women love which don't make any difference to me.
Her diet isn't shit to be honest, not the best but also not the worst
>he doesn't know
I bet Tyrone is having a great sex life.
You seem to think all women are the same, well they are not, been with my gf for 6 years and the sex has just recently gone down to about once a week from 3-4 times, doubt she was faking her arousal for 5 years. Everyone is different you fuck
Faggot
fuckin' savage
kek'd
>But she does enjoy it, she never fakes and I can tell that.
Count your blessings and fap as often as necessary. That's far better than either:
A. Frequent sex with someone who is not into it
Or:
B. Frequent sex with a crazzes bipolar sex fiend who will make your life a living hell.
I'd love to have qt that wanted to sleep with my weekly.
Guess what? In most relationships, once the honeymoon stage ends the frequency of sex decreases. It's also common for one person to want it more than the other.
london?
Oh, that thing. I didn't make the connection because I didn't see the relevance. Still don't. user should just do himself a favor and get over it.
Same as my gf. She ate normal, some fast food when we went so see the movies. However when she started this diet (she's trying to lose seome weight), it got a little better. She told me she felt it too.
Listen OP, these femanons do not speak for all women, nor do they have any idea how your gf's sex drive is. The best thing to do is sit down to have an adult convo about why she seems less interested lately. Don't be all whiney because you aren't getting any, but find out why she suddenly doesn't want to. When I worked 3rd shift at a factory I actually turned my gf down a lot because I was too damn tired. Could be that she is just not horny due to wanting rest
Faggot
She's getting satisfied by someone else. Something OP can't do because he's a faggot.
she's just fucking tired, why is that so hard to understand? she works hard and doesn't feel like getting pounded after a long day.
i should continue not caring about girls because at this point its a waste of time thinking about it.
if some girl that ride3s motorcycles and likes video games and computers wants to show up at my door and ask if i wanna fuck and cuddle all night long that'd be good but im not going to go out of my way looking for it.
You could always try fucking marathons when she does want to have sex to get enough to get you by for a week.
Male here who only likes sex once a week but gf likes it much more often. Pls don't be too hard on her...