Anyone has some experience turning a girl completely sexually submissive...

Anyone has some experience turning a girl completely sexually submissive? I'm talking level of begging to be fucked/cummed on and super eager to please in general. Presenting herself as a sexual object to be used.
Ready to jump into position if I order a command.

I'm a super friendly, relaxed and non-threatening guy but recently I am getting more and more aroused by the idea of being very dominant in bed. No idea where these thoughts are coming from.

I have a rough idea how to do it but wanna hear from other anons who might have some experience. Do you think this power difference can exist only in the bedroom or does it necessarily need to spill over into everyday life or even start there?

Its easy
Have money
Have big dick
Do big cums
Win win

comepletely unrelated to your thing, but does anyone have anything that could be mentall scarring enough to keep me awake fore the next 7 hours? Im desperately trying to fight sleep, but I have a bbq in 5 hours

Do you have a girl already? Because there are already women out there like this.

maybe just sleep a bit before the bbq?

also get off my thread faggot

Completely unrelated to your thing, but can we make this a spiderman thread?

yeah you just have to have a girl that's a little slutty. Basically every girl I've ever dated has liked getting held down and fucked. Most girls are sluts like that but they want to be safe about it so they do it with someone they're comfortable with, like their boyfriend.

For dubs, yes

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>have money
>big dick
>?????
>profit

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thanks for the mentally scarring spiderman

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yes I have.

I know there's some girls like this and I have dated or slept with them before. I only realize now which girls of the past would've been perfect for that. But then again these were also girls that I didn't found too appealing personality-wise or that had serious self-esteem problems that I didn't want to exarcerbate. I guess that's the thing. I'm a nice guy, not controlling or manipulative in any way and I care about people. I would never use someone if they don't WANT to be used

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there is no trick, just be dominant, most women like it when you take command, be clear what you want and only make her cum if she does what you say. it will take a while from scratch, but soon they wont refuse anything.

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Have you fucking heard of the word nap? Jesus you must be a fat fuck if you can't sleep for 3 or 4 hrs and then get up refreshed for your BBQ.

To be honest, out of all the yrs on here..this could be one of the dumbest fucking posts I have read before. I mean who would think some fuckhead couldn't think of the concept of taking a fucking nap.

Do the BBQ a favor..kill yourself.

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Just be very open with your girl and communicate. If you make her feel like she can trust you enough to tell you anything, she will become dependent of you. Tell her what you're into and she'll tell you what she's into. Also be dominant. Start off by doing small things like holding her hands down when you fuck or spank her. It'll evolve into more extreme things like choking and slapping. Just be patient, communicate, and be dominant.

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holding her down or being rough is definitely something I know that girls enjoy and that I do already. But I'm talking about a deeper level of submission here. For example saying "bend over and show me that pussy" and she pulls down her pants and bends over instantly to get fucked. Or getting my cock sucked on command. All the while she enjoys it. I guess that's the main point for me. She should willfully submit because it brings her pleasure

Just be open about what you want from the beginning. A girl should have to understand what she's getting into early on.

Power differences can spill into everyday life, if you'd like, but it's best to keep it in the bedroom where it belongs. If you can separate sex and work, it's absolutely the ideal realationship.

As far as actually getting a girl to be submissive, you just tell her what you want, ease her gently into it, and take baby steps into "deeper water," so to speak.

It's easier to guide somebody through the mentality if they're eased into it gently, so they always know what they're getting into and how it will affect them and their sex life.

Girls I know really enjoyed it because the orgasms are phenomenal when they're submissive.

I prefer to keep sex and real life separate, but to occasionally make it feel like the girl has a secret to keep from everybody around her. That's usually the hot way to do stuff like that.

This is an interesting topic. The last three women I've fucked have all wanted to be dominated to varying degrees. Im seen as a nice guy as well, but these are the thongs ive done so far. First I never ask them anything, and say very little. I just put them in the position I want, and use them how i want. Second, I get physical, not in a way that would leave a bruise (except spanking) but hold them in such a way that they can feel my muscle and let them know that they are physically no match for me. Third, a firm hand around the windpipe seems to have a direct impact on wetness with these girls. Any other insight is appreciated.

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I should mention I started dating my girl in 8th grade and throughout high school I turned an innocent girl into my submissive sex object

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You sound like you need a girl that's already conditioned. That nice guy thing doesn't always scream "dominate me" to the average woman. You can get a chick to experiment with you but if you don't know what you're doing then it's pointless. Educate yourself in the lifestyle. Get on fetlife. Go to a few munches. Learn to be confident in yourself. Show you're trust worthy. The rest falls into place.

1) Be an awesome guy - polite, trustworthy, non-douchey, friendly

2) Then be good at kink - learn rope, flogging, basic D/s, go to munches, etc.

3) Be patient - you'll be a newb for a good year or two. Once you have the hang of things, if you still are an awesome guy and actually practiced kink you will be well respected. Then people will want to play with you, and want to do the things you both enjoy.

okay, let's assume you're serious. You're going to have to decide at the outset what, exactly, are you looking for? Wife material that does kinky shit? Or a true submissive bitch that will really do almost anything? If it's the former, just start by holding her hands above her head as you fuck her. If you start to pull your hands away from hers and she keeps hers in the over her head position, you're on the right track. Expect a lot of slow going and it will never get to be hardcore (usually.) On the other hand, if you truly want to completely dominate a bitch, you're going to have to start with the right material. Look for a woman who has daddy issues, maybe was abused as a child (those are the best!) Start at a modest pace and add a different element each time you interact. Just know that she will eventually look to you for every decision when you achieve the level of submission that's complete. That can be a drain.

True story..I mean it actually it is true true.

I met a woman on my commute to work..she is married. happens to be freaking amazingly hot. We just started chatting(I actually complimented her on her giant wedding ring.."nice rock, that's a beautiful ring" it was that simple) and became commute buddies. Eventually we start meeting for lunches dt, then goes to grabbing a drink before ride home. Turns out her hubby while well off, younger than me, bigger dick, taller, better hair, father of her child. Just was not an alpha in bed. I am a dominant guy in bed. Well 5yrs later, she is my cumslut. She comes over as ordered weekly and does what she is told. Nothing harsh, just a little rough sex. But now she is deep throating, takes it in the ass only from me, gets dp'd. Will do as I order and wants me to give her orders. Actually feels like there is something missing if she is not here weekly to be my little cumslut.

It's great..it can be done, you just need to find the right one. That is the challenge. I got lucky

Also, I dominate everyday but you have to understand the submissive ultimately has the power. Submitting is a choice. You can influence it, but it's still get decision. You have to make her WANT to do what deprived things you're into. Don't let the internet confuse you. This shit is way more complicated in real life.

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I have the experience that with sex it's often a thing of not saying things explicitly but letting actions progress naturally to a point that you want. But for this situation it might be different. If you have had these kinds of conversations before, how would you strike them up? I probably can't just say "I want you to be my super submissive fucktoy"

I agree on all of these things. Light chocking definitely is a turn on and being very physical. With the putting in position: I do that too, but also like it if I just say something and she does it exactly like this. For example: "Pull down your panties and then sit on my dick reverse cowgirl style so I can see your nice ass"


how so?

The 'nice guy' thing is a myth. Practicing kinksters understand you can be perfectly friendly and easy-going and a badass in the bedroom. Vanilla personality =/= kink personality.

This is what I did. I also have to turn down new play partners these days.

The reason I mentioned that is because it proves you can turn any girl submissive. All it takes is time

Honestly op doesn't seem legit. Just another vanilla that wants to fuck girls hard like in porno. Doesn't wanna put in the work. He's gonna try to fake alpha, then a guy like me can come in and snatch whatever girl he fucked up with and have her greeting me on her hands and knees when I come over to see her

The truth is that all women fantasies and aspire to be turned in sex slave by an alpha male. You just have to unleash her slutty mode.

definitely not into violence as shown in the video and doubt that I will ever be.
didn't know about munches. Thanks, man.
As I said before I'm not a controlling and manipulative guy. Definitely not interested in exploiting any childhood issues or abusive experiences. That actually sound horrible. I don't want to be with someone unstable. Thinking about all of this I think I don't want the submission to spill out into real life beyond the bedroom.
Is she still with the husband?

yeah yeah. Big talk there.

Luckily my girl begs for fucking without me even pushing her to
Upgrade your sex game, care for her issues while being strong/dominant when clonflict arises between the two of you.
Stand your grund on matters that you care about, dont be a cuck

Here is my slut. I take me like 1 month to have sex with her and 1 year to turned slut. But take me like 3 years to make it my sex slave. Now I no just owner of her body and in bed so I m owner of his ideas, future desires etc. By the way I'm not married yet. But she is starting for a ring lol maybe some day. What do you think.

I think you need to take an english class

It takes time to condition a mind to enjoy following your commands. It's taken me years to finally get mine just the way I want her. If you are not dominant then it won't really happen the way you want it. The relationship must be under the common grounds of "I'd gladly do anything you ask me, as long as you do everything I say".