After 4 years of being single and 6 months of no fwb i finally find a girl who is both attractive and cool to hang out with (and has interest in me).
I keep telling myself not to get involved because it will only end in hardship.
Should i give it a go (being with a girl) or just not bother and save myself in the long run.
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You're either a troll or stupid. Just in case you're stupid, YES, go for it
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just broke it off after 4 years and am enjoying the free life
I just dont think relationships are for me, alqays being obligated to someone. Im too introverted and we started dating too young to realize that.
you gotta figure out what you really want. Pursue it or not
do you want a gf/wife? or just someone fun to mess around with
Either way communicate to her your intentions
If all of our lives were spent thinking, nobody would get anything done. Enjoy your life op, youre not old and dying yet.
What I really want is to be able to afford hookers every 2 weeks but thats not happening right now.
The more time i spend with the girl the worse it will be when she doesnt wanna hang any more, which she will eventually, because I will lose interest in her or perhaps she will in me before then.
yeah but i cant turn off the thinking. i know how much emotional bs hurts even if i want to think im above it or can deal with it.
Being alone sucks. It gets old fast. I was single for 2 years. Partying, drunk all the time, smoking and sleeping with the occasional girl (some decent, some ugly and one 9/10 who I actually dated for a couple months) the life gets old tho. Now... I have a kid, a truck and a house... oh and we own a dog. I wouldn't give this up for anything. Find someone that makes you happy and just do your very best to make them just as happy.
then yeah fuck, if i were you i would enjoy it for a little more them cut it off, as long as she knows the intention was to never become a couple
alright guys thanks for the advice ill hit her up and see how long i can ride it out for. (no pun intended)
Give it a go, you wont lost anything dude
well that was quick
1. i already felt like im just being a little bitch about it
2. hate being the guy asking whiny questions
3. 0 "dont do it" comments
Get involved OP. Sounds good.
your life would be awesome with just the truck and dog tho. you don't like being lonely? enjoy your divorce
Why are so many people hung up on being in a relationship. A FWB should be as far as it goes. Odds are that your relationship will end horribly. Divorce rates are damn near 50%. Why bother? Sex and friendship should be able to sustain people.
Whiny bitch.
>culture
>peer pressure
>grills want "solid" foundations for giving childbirth
>girls are the keepers of sex, men are the keepers of commitment
personally, I had a LTR just to feel how it was. I knew it wasn't going to work out in the long run because I don't want kids, but it has been really educational. I do miss it sometimes, but I don't miss her. I miss the image I created of her in my head, sadly that person is now long gone.
yeah fo sho that's what i want. this is just the first girl i've actually started eliciting feelings for
Go for it, just dont let her feel like u just wanna be friends...