I am currently 19 and with my first girlfriend ever. We have been dating for 3 years now. However, she wants to wait till marriage to have sex. She still sucks my dick, but no sex. Should I break it off and try to find someone else? Is the fact that I might marry my first gf a bad thing?
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cheat. everybody else is doing it
Except I'm not a piece of shit
Don't cheat. Make sure she doesn't. Wait on it. Recommend anal. 69. Something
I mean it depends on how much she means to you. Sex isn't what a relationship is for. And if you can't see yourself marrying her, then obviously you shouldn't have been in the relationship in the first place.
It'll end eventually anyways so if she ain't putting out, what's the point?
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This should shed some wisdom on that retarded woman.
Sexual compatibility is huge. Now no one knows the ins and outs of each other as intimately as you two so you best idea of how your sex life will be as a couple, but if you ask me, getting married without ever having sex is a pretty big gamble.
She means a lot to me. I definitely do see myself marrying her, but the lack of sex is kind of off-putting. I mean she blows me, but that's not the same. I'm also a virgin, so there's that.
We do other things like oral and hand stuff. We know our sexual turn ons fairly well, as we talk about this subject a decent amount. I just don't know if that will change once actually having sex.
Put here in the kitchen,shes useless for anything else,for fucks sake
go for anal.
Unless you live with her I got bad news for you.
You are being used as an emotional blanket and she's getting the D elsewhere. If you live with her I got bad news for you....
You will hit 30, cheat on her and split. You will then have lost out on all those years of delicious teenage pussy.
>she still sucks my dick but no sex. Should I break it off and try to find someone else?
No. Breaking your dick off would be extremely painful, and also would make you kind of useless for anyone else.
Is she a virgin? Dont lie
Yeah she's definitely a virgin. So am I
Go Anal.
this..
i fucked a girl in the ass a few weeks ago... she wanted to stay virgin till the marriage, but she sucked dicks like a pro...
It's an insecurity thing. She thinks if she has sex with you now, you won't want to marry her. Women are stupid like that. They don't realize you're way less likely to marry her if she doesn't put out. Leaving her is a pretty drastic thing to do, especially if you really like her, and leaving just because of sex is idiotic. What you should do is talk to her and ask her why sex is such a big deal for her and tell her it's kind of weird to cling to this old fashioned notion considering everything else that you've done. I would guess there is a good chance she was raped or molested at a younger age or that she has seen too much nasty porn (which is most porn) so penetrative sex is not currently a turn on for her. Or she's scared of pregnancy. Whatever it is, you won't know unless you talk with her and be honest with each other. The upside to marrying a virgin is she doesn't have anyone to compare you to, but that's also a downside because it could make her overly curious. If you're ugly and fat, count your blessings and stick with her. Ditto if you're poor.
It's a combination of her wanting "a new experience" on her wedding night, her wanting to only have sex with one guy in her life, and her being scared of pregnancy.
It used to also be religious, but after talking about it for a while and doing research, she decided that the religious aspect of it just simply doesn't make sense. So all personal reasons right now.
She would have told me if she was raped or molested, which she wasn't. I'm not sure if penetration is a turn on for her. She says she's scared of the pain that will come with the first few times but she loves it when I put my dick against her vagina. She's told me before during intimate moments that she really wants to fuck me and wishes we were married already so we could do so.
Enjoy the bjs. Sex is overrated. Try to get anal. Talk about mixing up the bjs- deep, swallow, push in cheek. A good bj beats eh sex homeboy
Don't sweat it. Just go ahead and get married within the next year or so.
You can endure it if you really like her, but depending on when do you want to marry or how much this thing stresses you just break up. Honestly I'd lose my shit if I was you. Three years togheter and no sex? You're even adults, goddamn.
>sucks dick
>no sex
Oral sex faggot
>marry her now
>fuck her
>????
>profit
Ah, well then, why don't you just marry her and get it over with?
Im in the same boat OP. We resolved the issue by talking about it alot. I basically said that I don't know if I could marry someone that doesn't fully trust me with that element of intimacy. 3 years is a long time these days, especially at 19. I've been with my girl for almost 2 years and we're 22.
Chances are, that unless she is a bible thumping jesus freak, she will realize that it is important to you, and will give in. She is probably feeling the need to fuck as well. Just talk it over and be like: I'm only 19 idk if I want to get married yet.