What should I do for my dad for Father's Day? Sup Forums? I want to do something nice but I'm a broke failure of a son/

What should I do for my dad for Father's Day? Sup Forums? I want to do something nice but I'm a broke failure of a son/
>Be me
>20
>living with at home, just me, dad any my cat
>dad puts up with my shit since moving in thie him 6 years ago
>Depressed, suicidal, neet, weeb, druggie of a son
>can't hold down a job
>dropped out of college twice
>he still supports me
>I'm a failure
>what can I do for him to make him happy on father's day?
inbf get job, be a better son, im trying on all of that

Now the lawn and leave him alone

Get a fucking job, that will be the best present you could ever get him

I would be we live an in apartment, lawn care is taken care of, I do chores in the house though

Clean the house, do the shit that he stresses about for him. Make sure he knows you appreciate him through actions.

I really want to work, people don't like my scars, tattoos, and/or hair, I'll get a haircut but I can't hide self harm scars too well

Scars...finish the job you started?

Thank you, I'll make sure he knows I really appreciate what he does for me. I want to repay him anyway I can

If you have no money do all the stuff he would normally do that's shit. Cleaning up, cook his dinner (order in food if you have some money), clean the catshit box, sit with him and watch a movie he likes.

Yeah I know, I'm a pussy, I just can't leave behind all the stuff i messed up, he'd have to clean out my body, the blood, the things he'd have to go through while throwing my stuff away, I can't have him go through that.

Don't tell him happy Father's Day god dam don't be a fag and hug him or some shit

I have absolutely no money, I'll surprise him with a meal, good idea and I'll watch a football game or a movie he really likes with him, that made me smile, thank you

Those are consequences of your own actions, you made life harder for yourself, but not impossible, stop making excuses and get a fucking job.

That's what I needed to hear, will do

Hair is literally fixed by going to a barber. Wait a bit after fathers day and I'm sure he'll cover you for a haircut. scars/tattoos can easily be hidden by a full length shirt and trousers, unless facial, in which case you're fucked.

I have no excuse you're right, I just wish I could other people didn't have to suffer with my short comings

No worries, football is probably a good idea if he's a big fan and you never watch football yourself. Shows you're going out of your way to show your appreciation and spend time with him.

Suck him off

I know you're only 20, but you have to try and look ahead, will you still be doing the same shit, making the same excuses in 10 years time? Or will you stop being a pussy get out there and find a job so you can actually have a life worth living?

You know you have to apply for shit loads of jobs right? No point doing it half arsed. Edit your cv for each job so it looks like you've made an effort.

Also you could always go to uni. Just don't study something pointless like philosophy or drama.

Jerk his cock and introduce him to Kimber James

To be fair I wouldn't be surprised if he likes having you around since you're still in your 20's. Living alone with a cat would be incredibly lonely, even just you being there probably helps.

He loves the steelers like nobody can touch them, I think it was his dad's team too.

>Anonymous 06/19/16(Sun)21:14:45 No.690

tell hium that you fucking care. Tell him you're trying to do better but it's hard. Tell him you'll work on you to make him proud

I know fuck all about American Football, but if it's still in season watch a Steelers game with him whilst eating a dinner you cooked. He'll appreciate it.

Kimber James son also show him Sup Forums your dad needs to fap, and remember the apple doesnt fall far from the tree, meaning if you jerk off to traps and tenty porn your dad would too

and don't use this singular day to show him, show him you really do care and talk to him. Parents always feel self regret if their child is fucking up. but if you directly awknowledge to him things are hard in your life and you are actively trying. He will be proud and he will want to help you. Be a good son

Get over it. Even if it's the hardest thing you'll ever do in your life people quit drugs and stop feeling depressed every day.

Just keep fucking working at it. The first few steps are the hardest but once you take them you will start to realise it's not impossible.

If you really want to work, you can always get a job in a kitchen. It might not be what you want to school for but it will be a job. And it might get you out of that week shit you got yourself hooked on.

You should surprise your dad and tell him you've landed a good job and a place of your own and you'll be moving out next week. When your dad is busy during the week, donate all your belongings to goodwill and move out to live on the street. Your belongings will have helped families in need and you will have made your father proud.

Sup Forums can be surprisingly supportive at times.

I think a lot of people on Sup Forums have gone through struggles and no one wants to see a fellow man be shit when he's willing to try. If you're gonna try and make yourself better then good. but if you're on your wya out and you wanna live stream we'll watch

I'm sorry for not responding to everyone. I'm doing a lot of thinking and don't know what to say. Thanks a lot Sup Forums you guys are being fucking great. I needed to hear this.

Be the man you want to be OP. I believe you you! and your father does to. Thats why he took you back in and cares for you. You would do the same for your own sun