I need to know where my fellow Sup Forumstards stand, am i alone on this matter?
Been with my girlfriend for 3 years, our sexual relationship started declining about a year and a half ago.
Currently I want to have sex everyday, if we don't work, I would be completely fine having sex 2-3 times in one day. My girlfriend on the other hand seems to only be interested in sex 1-2 times a week.
Now, I know this is common in some relationships, especially as they age. I was in a relationship for 5 1/2 years when i was younger, and this didn't happen.
But, what my real problem is, whenever I get turned down for sex, wether i ask face to face, through text, or I make physical moves, it makes me hate her. I've never been turned down by any girlfriend in my life whenever I've asked for sex until this one. The most push back I was ever given in previous relationships was "yeah sure let me shower first though".
Now because I know she will never agree to sex I just jerk off whenever I''m horny because I know I'll get turned down, which then makes me bitter and hate her because I've never had to jerk off so much in a relationship before in my life. Because I'm angry I find myself not giving a fuck what she has to say, what's bothering her, or what she wants to do. She has a rubix cube of things that need to be done for her to be happy with this relationship, I just need to get laid regularly. If she doesn't wish to fuck me I don't care about taking her anywhere or doing anything.
Anyone else slowly hating their girlfriend/wife due to lack of sex?
And it may be a prick move, but we fight about this pretty often. I told her it makes me miserable and I hate her for it, I've encouraged her to move out. I flat out told her that I won't marry or have children with her because of lack of sex, I don't wish to willingly experience this for any longer then I have to, let alone have kids and finances tangled in.