I need to know where my fellow Sup Forumstards stand, am i alone on this matter?

I need to know where my fellow Sup Forumstards stand, am i alone on this matter?

Been with my girlfriend for 3 years, our sexual relationship started declining about a year and a half ago.

Currently I want to have sex everyday, if we don't work, I would be completely fine having sex 2-3 times in one day. My girlfriend on the other hand seems to only be interested in sex 1-2 times a week.

Now, I know this is common in some relationships, especially as they age. I was in a relationship for 5 1/2 years when i was younger, and this didn't happen.

But, what my real problem is, whenever I get turned down for sex, wether i ask face to face, through text, or I make physical moves, it makes me hate her. I've never been turned down by any girlfriend in my life whenever I've asked for sex until this one. The most push back I was ever given in previous relationships was "yeah sure let me shower first though".

Now because I know she will never agree to sex I just jerk off whenever I''m horny because I know I'll get turned down, which then makes me bitter and hate her because I've never had to jerk off so much in a relationship before in my life. Because I'm angry I find myself not giving a fuck what she has to say, what's bothering her, or what she wants to do. She has a rubix cube of things that need to be done for her to be happy with this relationship, I just need to get laid regularly. If she doesn't wish to fuck me I don't care about taking her anywhere or doing anything.

Anyone else slowly hating their girlfriend/wife due to lack of sex?

And it may be a prick move, but we fight about this pretty often. I told her it makes me miserable and I hate her for it, I've encouraged her to move out. I flat out told her that I won't marry or have children with her because of lack of sex, I don't wish to willingly experience this for any longer then I have to, let alone have kids and finances tangled in.

Also, in before people just say to leave her. When you live together for a certain length of time packing up and leaving a relationship becomes a lot more complicate, especially if it ends on bad terms.

she's already fucking other guys; when love is gone it's time to move on

talk it out with her. nothing is better than being honest.

I was in the same situation, and it fucking sucked, let me tell you. I'm now with a new girl and we recently discussed about this and now once we can i'll probably be gettin sex on the reg.

If she cant be civil about it, then just leave her or fuck other bitches without telling her dude. Man's gotta nut and masturbating twice a day because your main squeeze wont put out for you is unhealthy.

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after fully reading this... i see that you already tried to talk with her about it. if it's that big of an issue, then it's not a good relationship yo. Girls should do anything to make their man happy, even if it means putting out for them. For gods sake, you are in a relationship with them. If they aren't then they're either sick of you and will find someone else or already have.

me again.

also to answer your question about if masturbating made me mad at them, yes it absolutely did. It made me feel unwanted and low to the point where i didn't care about anything (even working) and we ended up getting divorced after 2 years.

I've encouraged her to talk to other guys so she would be happy to leave me, she won't even try kek. I have the password for her phone and her laptop, she uses her phone around me like normal. She leaves it unattended, unlocked, hands me it to show me funny stuff. I don't think for a second she's holding out because she's cheating. I really truly wish she would cheat so she would leave me and have someone else to distract her so she's not a vengeful cunt.

i have a cousin that looks a lot like sasha grey. one time we were drinking with a bunch of folks and she made that exact gesture at me, real quickly, while nobody was looking. i was confused and aroused.

never went anywhere though.

just fucking leave her

We were recently out drinking with her brother in law, he openly talks about women he sees in public and how hot he thinks they are. He left because he don't drink and my girlfriend was liqoured up and asked me if I think it's ok to do what he does. I said do him and his wife have sex? She said no, they don't anymore, hardly ever. I said well if all he's doing is talking she's got it easy because she deserves to be cheated on. You deserve to be cheated on also, the only reason I don't cheat on you for not putting out is because I don't want the stress of trying to hide what's happening from you. So I'm just kind of waiting this out until i lose my fucking mind and throw you out of my apartment, it gets better, or you leave me voluntarily for someone else.

I was 8-10 beer in so I kind of lost my filter, but the look on her face after this was priceless.

Yeah I would say start taking steps to decouple are you on a lease together? Don't renew stop spending money on her the relationship between you two is coming to an end just take steps to make the inevitable breakup easier

I've been separated from my wife for years. We're still really close. I want to go back really bad but when I read stuff like this it reminds me why I left. I love my wife but it really makes me hate my partner to be rejected that much when I never really slacked off in any department in the relationship, by her own admission. Lack of sex kills relationships. The sex and intimacy are what makes it distinct from a friendship. You're not wrong for not enjoying how rejection makes you feel. This is why I think monogamy is a bad thing. It creates unrealistic expectations that few couples can ultimately meet. Eventually the guy becomes unhappy or cheats. Eventually the woman becomes hurt by this after she eventually figures it out.

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God damn who's that hot bitch??

You pretty much accurately described my relationship with my gf of 2 and a half years, op. Like literally, you are me.
My gf acts like she fucking hates me and I do a whole bunch of shit for her that she seems not to notice or appreciate. I'm just getting fucking tired of it. Next time she broaches the topic of ending the relationship, I'm not even going to fight it. "Sure, that sounds good. Will you be staying with your sister and her bf?"
>it's my fucking house.
Just today, I was working my retail job and this cute petite sports-loving cougar was hitting on me and I was actually flirting back and debating whether or not to get her number.
I eventually decided it wouldn't be the smartest move as I am completely inexperienced with older women, my life is a clusterfuck, and I have no idea how to juggle.
But fuck, now I'm wishing she comes back soon so I can get them digits.

newfag

Sasha gray. Welcome to the internet.

One thing that I kind of don't know how to argue. I say that I don't need anything done to make me happy besides having sex on a regular basis. She has the rubix cube of emotions that needs to be perfectly aligned for her to be content. When I point this out she claims I don't really love her and any girl could make me happy then, because all I care about is wether or not she fucks me.

So how do you really explain to your spouse how much being sexually rejected makes you hate them, without sounding like all you care about is sex?

She's jerking it too with out you cause it's better that way and you quit making her cum a long time ago

dumb ass

Yeah it's deffinately hard, I've never hated someone so much before and been made to feel like such shit but stayed with them.

What also rots my soul is I'm not ugly, and prior to meeting her I was chunky. And i was smooth enough of a talker i got laid on a regular basis while being single. Since I entered into this horrible relationship I've lost 50 pounds, so I know and have complete confidence that if she left me tomorrow I could have someone else on my dick within a few days.

So it rots my soul even more knowing that this isn't the end all of pussy, I can easily get it if I was actually single, but I'm not single and i put up with this stuck up cunts bullshit daily.

You can try counseling, or end it. Those are pretty much your options. Don't stay in a relationship when you're unhappy. I did that and lost 7 years of my life. I'm married now to a fucking awesome woman, but I wasted a lot of time trying to hang onto a relationship 3 years too long.

Your there for the wrong reasons, leave and be happy.

She is deffinately finger fucking herself on the regular, but she's one of those girls that cums within 3 minutes of penetration and then I'm soaked for the rest of the fuck. So although nice try at insulting me discretely, it's not the case.

femanon. I dated a guy for two years, who after one year, only wanted to have sex maybe twice a month. it was almost daily sex before that. he didnt want blowjobs, he didnt want to make out, he didnt even care about porn. ended up cheating on him then eventually dumping that douchewaffle. best decision ever. now Im with someone who will have sex with me everyday, going almost two years strong.

>tl;dr dump her

That's my bad sorry.

rape her.. the more orgasms you give her the more addicted to sex she will become.

I'm in the exact opposite situation. I don't really have a high sex drive whatsoever, so I'm perfectly happy to have sex just 2-3 times a week, but my GF of about a year and a half wants to have sex every night, and it's just sort of exhausting. Furthermore, she makes me feel fucking awful if I don't have sex with her which just kind of seems unfair. That's not to say I don't enjoy having sex, but I feel like it's better when it's more spread out, but that's just me.

She is deffinately finger fucking herself on the regular

shes prob needing some kind of fantasy that she isnt sharing with you. this is why she would enjoy masterbation over actual sex.

Shouldn't have cheated on him, harlot

Not just you man I feel that way too. Honestly 2-3 times a week sounds like alot I'm content with like 1 time a week unless I'm really in the mood. Been with my gf for 2years. When we travel we fuck like twice a day, public parks, mall bathrooms you name it. But in day to day life it's not so important to me

I know. I done fucked up.

Being rejected fucks with your head. I'm a pretty chill person and it's like it's chipping away my mental stability. I can understand how it would upset the gender that is already not so mentally stable.

same over here. I feel so terrible that I don't get "in the mood" often enough but I can't help it! I just don't crave it that much.
once a week is ideal for me as well, unless its a special occasion or we want to try something new.

I don't know how you do it. Whenever I'm fresh with a girl we fuck like rabbits, 3-5 times a day everyday. Once it's kind of old and settles down I still want it everyday, sometimes multiple times that day.

When we first get together yeah, it can be pretty often (daily, multiple times a day) but once it dies down and all we are is in love and comfortable there isn't much else i need. Been with current partner nearly 5 years. It's really nice to not feel the urge to fuck all the time honestly.

tl;dr BUT--
If you have a relationship founded on the basis of sex, it will not work. One of you will get sick of the other's aging shit unless you are just both animals and still madly in love as long as you have sex no matter what. That's why only some people can have sex in a non-committed relationship and the masses are best to avoid it. This effect mostly happens to guys since guys will have sex with anyone at any time relationship or not. So if you are a girl and put out, prepare for the relationship to end. If you're a guy and the girl advances but you are willing to say no, it might work unless she is just a nympho. Just my 2 cents.

Grow up, faggot.

Yep OP. Been there. Dated this girl for 4 years. Started off with a normal sex life, at least once a day. Then it declined to maybe a couple of times a week. And then in those last 4 or 5 months it got to where I was lucky if I even got it a couple of times a month. Shit was awful. That being said OP reading the thread you sound like a massive fucking cunt. There are better ways to approach the situation without acting like a massive crybaby bitch.

Plus, I know my partner wants sex more often but i also don't fear that they would stray because of how i feel on it. And thats an even nicer feeling. You have been together with yours a good amount of time(assuming this is OP). Don't you feel like being with her is enough? I strongly believe a relationship built only on sexual attraction will not last. Theres gotta be some serious love in the mix too.
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