I need some advice Sup Forumsros. I've been with my girl for a while now and we haven't had sex for like 4 months. My sex drive isn't particularly strong when I'm with her, she is attractive and i do get hard around her sometimes, but for the most part I'm sexually attracted to other women. However other women turn me off completely when it comes to their personalities. My girlfriend is my best friend and she's really cool. I genuinely enjoy hanging out with her. I like sleeping with her, and kissing, and whatever but i don't want to have sex with her. I want to be with her forever but sex is obviously important. She has been my only partner, i am not her only partner. I am 21 she is the same. Do i go explore my options and potentially lose the best thing that has ever happened to me. Or do i stick it out with her. I'm at a loss, truly. I know she won't wait for me. I would feel guilty cheating on her so that's a no go. I want to keep my honor but also be happy.
I need some advice Sup Forumsros. I've been with my girl for a while now and we haven't had sex for like 4 months...
You should bring these issues up with her and then together decide what are your best options. Sometimes a low sex drive could be indicative of other health problems so maybe look into consulting a doctor. You'd be doing yourself a great disservice by trying to tackle these issues alone. If she really is your best friend, she'd be understanding and would want to help you.
Also, moar tits please.
omg just fucking leave her you pussy
"she is the best thing that has ever happend to me"
I wish i had more user this is some random hot asian. I have talked to her. She is just offended that I'm so blunt. As if she thinks I'm not attracted to her which is not the case. My sex drive is alright, i just feel bored of her almost. She has been my only one. I feel as if I'm missing out on something. Just asking for an honest opinion here. Am i being too needy or is she being unreasonable?
the best advice I can give you, is don't come to Sup Forums for advice.
having said that, you should totally try to get into a three way with her and her mom. guaranteed to save your relationship!
I was in the same situation. I did some thing I'm not proud of, and to keep it short I stuck with my girl and we're fine. Stick with her as long as she feels the same way about you.
Obviously not the best thing you homo. I think that would be learning to drive or traveling honestly. I'm just trying to say i would hate to lose her over something so trivial. Especially when i couldn't see a happier, married, future with anyone but her.
21, best thing ever happened to me. lol, faggot you got 60+ years left on this planet. you gonna spend it wishing/dreaming that your gf could get you hard because she's cool to hang?
fuck many, fuck often, fuck every willing thing till your sick of it.
Try doing kinky shit then, or leave her
Don't be so fucking beta
Never change Sup Forums
If you don't have the sex part but everything else you still have room for improvement
Without the physical/mental connection that comes from sex you'll eventually stagnant leading to people being unhappy and cheating
I've been with my girlfriend/best friend for 10 years and the thought of her still gets me going
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It sounds like you have some underlying issues
Well if that's the case you should figure out what YOU want. If you really want to chase sex, you should be honest with yourself about it. But if you want a lasting relationship with her, focus on that instead. You're not being needy for wanting excitement and she's not being unreasonable for the way she feels either. Take it from me though, of all the girls I dated, the sex is pretty much the same across the board. It's the ones that had a great personality and connections that I really miss.
But you were/are probably both sexually attracted to each other
Sounds like you're a faggot, OP
If you're that young and have no sex drive, you should see a doctor; this may be a symptom of something worse (unless your GF is just physically unattractive, since you say you are sexually attracted to other girls). When you say you are sexually attracted to other girls, do you mean you want to fuck them, or do you just think they are hot/pretty/etc?
>no sexual attraction
>trivial
Pick one
how long you been with her? i was like that for the first 5months ish
That is because she is dating me now.
The only thing that matters...is.pic.related?
Wut
To my defense that was uploaded 8 seconds before my post....lol
You just described what it will be like for you with every future gf/wife. You will ALWAYS want the girls you don't have. And that includes the current gf if you break it off.
You have to train yourself. It would also help to talk, and talk allot, with her about sex, fantasies, role playing, etc. She's your best friend? So make sex and talking about sex a part of that friendship.
Geez guy, almost same thing happened with me... If the lust isn't there it isn't there, sex is a big part of a relationship to me, "fishing in the same pond gets pretty boring" YOURE 21 if you ain't ugly as fuck play the field. Don't try to stay friends, that's where resentment starts. If you wanna let her off without telling her " I don't want to fuck you anymore" wait till you guys argue and then just say "fuck it, can't do this with you" then break up, win win win
Only if you're an unsatisfied faggot
Lrn2getgoodwomen
Holy shit OP you hit the nail on the head. I am 22 and am in the exact same situation as you.
Ha young fag you think that has anything to do with the quality of the woman?
you're going to have to take a cock in your ass op, its the only way for you to find out if you're truly a faggot or not
Best thing, stop watching porn, don't jerk off, then you gotta fuck her. Go to the adult store, grab her some lingerie, tie the bitchh up, smack her around,