Girls I've had to cut off: 8

>Girls I've had to cut off: 8
>Girls I've admitted my love for: 0

I just cut off another potential relationship today, guys.

I sort of justify it by telling myself that these were the same girls who made me feel like shit in high school, but deep down inside I know it's my own insecurity. I hate them, but I can't help but feel that a part of me is slowly dying.

wat?

I constantly end potential relationships with girls I've slept with or have an interest in me because I hate myself.

I tell myself it's them.

Yeah man anime pillow cases are so clingy

wtf is this shit Sup Forums?

explain your recent faggotry, faggot

you cant create anything with someone that concluded you werent good enough at one point anyways. quit tying up loose ends with single mom bitches

what does this even mean??????????

>implying being in a relationship is better than having sex with multiple girls

been stuck with the same girl for two years now, we split the rent and she'd be fucked if i left her. She has no family or close friends

im going crazy lusting over every other girl i see

Don't stay with someone out of guilt user you'll just end up resenting her and years down the road you'll mess it up and the whole thing will be a giant waste of time for you and her.

Nothing is good enough for me. I thought relationships were where people were supposed to be happy, but they're misery. I only ever wanted to be happy, but I feel like there's nothing that will make me happy.

that sounds like good advice i will keep it in mind if i start resenting her

The whole situation is fucked because i want to stay with her she just has zero sex drive and i need someone who actually desires me the way i desire them

Relationships take time and effort, getting to know one another and make sacrifices for each other's happiness but there's nothing wrong with being a bit selfish and wanting something the other might not want and both working towards it

chin up bucko this idea you are chasing is not something that exists
nothing will ever make you happy except your outlook on the world around you
thats what you gotta fix

Same guy, I'm somewhat in the same boat, little to no sex drive etc. Try doing specific things with her, ask her what she'd like to do, watch porn while you do it, certain position, location etc

But, and big but, if you tell her what you need (keeping in mind she might not be in the mood but NEVER being in the mood is not ok - not saying take what you want though) and offer to try new things, stuff she likes and overall it doesn't work out or she refuses, find someone else.

I know it sucks but sex is a part of a relationship, if it's what you want and she simply doesn't want to then she's not the one for you (I'd have left my relationship had I not followed this advice and they happened to take to it because they loved me)

I guess I've just never met someone who makes me want to make sacrifices for their happiness. I guess I should just walk away from it all and find out what will really make me happy.

Can take time to find the right person, I don't want to move heaven and earth for my relationship but I'll go through the trouble of doing what I can to make them and thus myself happy

i appreciate your support, guy

i've brought it up often, and she knows thats what i want but she wont ever do anything unless i ask her to each time. her lust is completely artificial and thats a big turn off. she just doesnt get horny, or im seriously unattractive

however ive never been direct about it and she doesnt realize how important it is to me

i just cant tell her that its a deal breaker for me because i know she wont ever change and i dont want to lose her yet

Sup Forums isn't usually this constructive.
I wanna feel like that, man. I'm just another person looking to be happy. Thanks for steering me in the right direction. I guess I shouldn't be longing for a relationship.

I'd just end it user, explain to her why it's an issue and say 'either it changes or I leave' because it's not fair for yourself to tie yourself down to someone who's not compatible with you, you WILL get sick of it eventually, don't waste each others time (sometimes you have to take the big step)

Just learn about what you'd like and when you do eventually find someone be ready to just let things grow, test new things, be honest etc. Hope it goes well user