Sup Forums i have an argument with my girlfriend. i found out she went topless a few times. now i was mad at her...

Sup Forums i have an argument with my girlfriend. i found out she went topless a few times. now i was mad at her , but she pointed out last festival i walked around without a shirt an entire week.

so i'm just having double standards when it comes to her, making me a sexist. she'd rarelly done it when when it's really hot she feels she has the same rights as a man does. and tbh i can't really argue that she's wrong. how do you feel Sup Forums ?

Dump her for calling you sexist. Tits are sexualized by 99% of men because tits are fucking awesome. She knows she loves getting the attention, and she knows how much of it she gets.

Don't let her cuck and guilt trip you user.

I feel that you are acting like a little bitch and making a lot of drama over your girl going topless. Also post a pic of her

feelin good. lets see some more of those tits

that's what you get for giving women the right to talk about equality, move on

that's mostly how i feel, but with all the equality shit going on now she's technically not wrong, they' are double standards

Tell her that if she cared about you she'd respect your boundaries.

Obviously there's boundaries in relationships- you cant just go out and hookup with a barslut while youre in a relationship. Tell her if she feels its unfair youre willing to not take off your shirt in public ever again and be serious.

If she tries to say youre slut shaming me or patriarchy something tell her you dont wanna date a girl who is sexualises herself in that manner in public and you have conflicting interests so you must each go your own separate ways.
simple as that

Dude that's an excuse. That isn't the actual reason. She loves the attention, call her out on it and move on.

That attentions gonna form into full on cheating in the future. Deal with the issue now. I wouldn't call this cheating but it's just fucked.

the're obviously double standards, so end the double standard yourself.
dont go topless anymore expect her to also not go topless anymore.

I mean, she can go out with a sports bra that is tiny, or something but bare tits is just attention seeking bro

i guess this is pretty good. i could live with not taking off my shirt inpublic either, it doesn't happen often anyway and we would be equal then

If after you tell her you'll stop taking your shirt off and she pulls the "why are you so oppressing" it's time to motorboat those tits one last time and move on.

She doesn't respect you, she doesn't value your attention, and she doesn't take you seriously.

see this guy knows whats up
topless girls just want attention from males
and soon that attention seeking its gonna turn some guy on and she's gonna want the attention she gives him and he's gonna grab her tits and she's gonna grab his dick and they'll hook up- youll get cucked and she'll never tell you and you'll never know and next time she sees you texting some girl she's gonna flip her shit and accuse you of cheating and youre gonna end up appologizing and swearing up and down that you're not cheating but she's just gonna get angry and leave and hookup with the guy and use the good ol' "he's cheating on me so this is payback" logic.

trust me im an expert

i don't believe she'd cheat. the only 2 times i've known her to go topless was with mutual friends, so if she tried more i'd know

I don't play these stupid games. Seriously she needs to grow the fuck up, and so do you op.

Grow a set and tell her and be straight forward. Know that you're not wrong, and that she's violating the boundaries of whatever kind of relationship you have.

Move on. There's more to life than getting cucked by someone who's going down the road of being used up and thrown away.

Let her be topless if she wants to or you'll become a sexist, misogynistic piece of shit

>violating the boundaries of whatever kind of relationship you have.

so he can and she can't ? that sounds fair

Yeah neither did I until she called me crying saying "I made a mistake... I regret it so much I'm sorry"

Anyone can cheat. It doesn't even matter if they think the other persons attractive. It's all about atmosphere and opportunity.

Stop trying to convince yourself.

if you're actually considering that bullshit as an argument then you're a stupid faggot and you don't even deserve to have girlfriend in the first place... at least you're into making cuckold videos

oh i remember when i would make excuses in my head for my ex like "the only 2 times" and "if she tried more i'd know"

How clueless i was... How foolish!

Actually, let her be topless in places where people don't really care because it's quite common in that area.

eh, i mean, i'm still not happy about the topless but. if you go by your logic then every person will eventually cheat

you heard it here. having girls be equal is a violation of the relationship and will lead to them cheating.

Not every person will eventually cheat, I'm saying everyone's capable of it.

Satanic trips checked

>2016
>caring what a woman thinks

ok, i'll agree with that. but i don' see why this is enought to assume she will. i mean, tons of women do it. nudebeaches are also alot more prevalent, i don't think they're any more likelly to cheat either

witnessed

You and your girlfriend sound like a bunch of hippie losers. I bet she does more than just run around topless to entertain strange guys..

yes because society established what social norms are acceptable in public and which aren't and they were predetermined when engaging in a mutual western monogamous relationship. It's not like he has to say, "dont suck a dick that inst mine" Dont give handjobs to strangers" dont let guys fuck your butthole" "dont hold hands with a guy who isnt me" "dont give footjobs" "dont let random guys touch your sexy parts" "
There isn't a list both partners must sign, there are all well known things youre not supposed to do.
boobs are sexy parts for your partner to do sexy things with during sexy time. . So if she's out topless she knows shes doing something wrong, but she's using the "hurr durr double standard" to excuse herself

after i asked about it, she said she only did it once before and both were with mutual friend,s so she never did it infront of strangers before. and that was all she did

Who has nicer tits?

Truly, because I feel as if this situation is attention grabbing. I don't think it's an issue of equality.

Maybe it's not overstepping boundaries because boundaries haven't been specified but if she steps over them once op's voiced his concerns, that's a massive red flag.

Or I mean maybe it's not and I'm just an asshole who doesn't trust anyone. Little column a little column b.

>boobs are sexy parts for your partner to do sexy things with during sexy time

welp; i hope you never have kids. you DO know sex isn't their purpose ? they're for your children. can she breastfeed in public ?

dude its different at a nudist beach
look, if she's a party drinking with her tits out, that's wayyyyyyyy different than sitting at a nude beach surrounded by nude people who arent being sexualised because of the normality of the situation. If i was at a nude beach chances of boner are 5% but if girl has tits out at party chances of boner are 99%

see the difference?

>tits aren't sexual
>titjobs, tit sucking, tit bondage, etc
Everything thing is turning upside down.

has the winning argument
>attention seeking, its gonna turn some guy on and she's gonna want the attention she gives him and he's gonna grab her tits and she's gonna grab his dick and they'll hook up- youll get cucked and she'll never tell you

Tits are sexual male chest are only sexual if there attractive its not equality its the way things are woman equality is bullshit anyway if she cant respect u leave her if u cant respect her dont expect her to be faithfull, either way if you stay together without boundaries its gonna fall apart sooner or later

it wasn't at a party. it was during a hang out with friends. no stranger saw her. she ever did it before but it's been so hot the last few weeks she felt like it.

they function as both dude.
Think about a 10 year old getting breastfed, you dont find that kind of sick? he'd get a little boner im sure, growing up in the western society and all.

just accept boobies are sexy parts dude, sure they feed babies but as soon as they are no longer babies they too will see boobies as sexy parts

Either femanon (which requires tits or gtfo) or a fucking fedora wearing white knight.

you're a fag. let her show off her tits.

It's not about equality if it's the only time she ever mentions anything about equality.
>you have an attention seeking whore op.
>are dem tiddies worth sticking around for?
>nvm, I'll ask everyone else.
>they'll know the answer before you, beta.

>Think about a 10 year old getting breastfed, you dont find that kind of sick?

like... what ? nobody with their right mind breastfeeds till that age. don't get me wrong i've seen articles of people that do but their in the vast vast vast minority.

i'm talking about normal people with a 3 month old for example. you feel that shouldn't be allowed either ?

would you be comfortable with it if it was your gf ?

Boobs have an instinctual effect on people.

look it depends. If it was all chicks then i see that as neutral as the nude beach, but if her guy BFF Charlie Sheen was also there then its a gain a non-neutral sexual situation.

so was it a girly sleeping party where they were comparing bra sizes and talking about their periods and bitching about their boyfreinds or was it a non-neutral sexual environment where they were playing truth or dare and the nervous game.

It's all circumstantial to the exact situation

Were any of those mutual friends male? If so, that's a fucking problem.

Breast feeding in public should be covered blankets or something not just tits out its noy okay i know i wouldnt be if my wife did it.

Women wear or
>low cut tanks
>push up bras
>compare sizes
>Bikini tops
>focal point in selfies are clevage
>breast implants

Yeah keep telling yourself they arnt sexualized one bit fagget

not all of them were gilds 2 of them were male;s mutual friends aswell. they didn't lie about it they said they looked but she took off her shirt herself because it was too hot. they never touched her

its all context dude
I dont mind some bitch brestfeeding chances of boner are 5%- but as soon as shes done put that shit back in there.

Just cause shes holding a baby dont mean her tits should be out.
and honestly i dont have a problem with tits being out, i have a problem with being a western monogamous relationship and thinking that having your tits out isn't some form of unfaithfulness when non-sexually neutral situations.

For all i care OPs gf should fly her tits like flags in the wind, but shouldn't do it while trying to force him to accept it as part of their relationship

i'm not saying they're not sexualized. but... so are men's chests. the parfum dude, the coca cola guy. the watercoolerbottle dude. so why the double standards

More of her?

Punish her ass. She's a female, she needs to know her place- and that place has a modest dress code.

Umm was she wearing a bra or are you really that stupid?

Those are all ppl who are fit a regular man with no chest with a belly isnt viewed sexually unless ur into it personally and by that logic every part of the body can be sexualised

OP is right if she was wearing a bra its okay same as a swimsuit dosnt count

but that's retarded. THIS is sexual, but only if the person if attractive. but for the same sex it's always sexual regardless of attractiveness. that's a double standard between genders with another double standard for the male.

people have mistaken the equality of two sexes with the similarity.We are equals but we are not similars,if she can't understand that dump her,better for you,you will save your ass from a dumb cumhole.

If you can't understand it aswell go anhero.

hahah bro your getting cucked for sure!

NO GIRL IN HER RIGHT MIND JUST GOES TOPLESS IN FRONT OF 2 DUDES CAUSE SHES "HOT". girl have this thing called shame

and just cause its mutual friends doesnt make it okay.

Like lets say you pull her shirt down in front of strangers, she wouldn't like that one bit because she would be sexualised by those strangers and feel embarrassed.

The fact she didnt feel embarrased by being sexualised by her male friends means she's willing to slut it up and have no shame.

that's the kind of girl you pull your dick out in front of and say "you should suck my dick" and she does it.

>Foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique is a compliance tactic that involves getting a person to agree to a large request by first setting them up by having that person agree to a modest request.

You sure your friends didnt say, "its hot in here why dont you take off your top" lol

no as i said in the first post. she was topless, no bra at all

Bro, if you intend to be monogamous I am sorry, your relationship is over. On the bright side she seems like swinger material. Infinite sex with hot chicks is pretty chill

if it was just 2 guys i'd feel more like you do now. but there was other girl there aswell. i can see the guys lying, but the girls wouldn't, nothing in it for them.

Set boundaries or break it off think what you gonna say though wording is key to not loosing the argument dont let her interupt either

Im ashamed for you bro
Im sad for you
my heart aches for your pathetic excuses
My soul cries at your logic
Your getting cucked and you just accept it....

Let me guess too, this happened outside by the Pool right?? not indoors nah, its hot why go indoors with AC when you can go topless by the pool with 2 males friends huehuehuhe

Next thing you know she's snapchatting boobie pics to them couse they couldln't get enough that night and she's cool with it because "hurr durr guys go topless all the time"

Don't be such a pussy Satan

Let us see them and we will let you know if it's ok or not.

it doenst matter how many guys and girls there were

0 guys is okay, even 1 guy isn't

I was pretty cool in HS do you know how many times girls in relationships ended up sucking my dick by the pool after taking off her shirt and going topless? (Live in Arizona its hot as fuck out here even 100+ in summer after sunset) and with her friends just pretending nothing is going on looking the other way chatting it up on the other end of the pool cause the situation is too awk for them to intervene, and after all theyre more friends with her than they are with her BF.

Sounds like an utter bullshit made up reason. Complaining about it being too hot that's why she flopped her milk duds out, she's clutching at straws user. You're dating a whore.

they're not my excuses though. i mean i hated the idea at first. but everything she said makes sense. they are actually double standards. but i think i'll try the advice that i'll always wear a top so thne we're equal in the relationship if she had to keep it on aswell

i mean... isn't that the exact reason guys take their shirt off ?

Well, it all depends on intent. If she's topless because of discomfort or convenience, then there's no real issue. But if it's for male attention or anything sexual, then she has no solid ground to stand on.

Foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique is a compliance tactic that involves getting a person to agree to a large request by first setting them up by having that person agree to a modest request.

this technique really works. An innocent sentence like, "its so hot, i have my shirt off dont you find it sexists girls cant go topless and guy can! you should lose the shirt"

Lose the shirt and then she's blowing me, it really works

descomfort. it's been insanely hot here atm. when i'm home i'm basicly just in boxers all day aswell just because of it

Not enough information to make a decent decision op. Please post pics so we have a better idea of the situation

it's early to go that far. everyone there was my friend before they were hers. so they would tell me if she cheated. she just took her shirt off, nothing more.

no dude your relationship is fucked

you dont really trust her or else you woulnd't post on Sup Forums about it

you know deep inside your gut something happened shes not telling you, even if all the pieces fall in place something deep inside you still feels like its not right or you woulnd't be here

everything she said made sense because she rehearsed it in her head over and over and over

oh wait let me tell you, she was the one that let you know it happened right? like two weeks after?

For science

>Believing OP is not a kid with a vivid imagination

Here are her tits

Kid,go get a nap and stop busting our balls with your retarded shitposts.

If you don't know how to handle such a situation then this makes you a twat and i wonder how a twat like you got a girl in the first place.

If this is not a shitpost i hope she dumbs you fucking cucklord.

so what you're saying is your gf whipped out her tits in front of your mates and now they both know how her knockers feel and definitely imagined what they feel like and how they'd look while shes riding their cock? and you take it that your girlfriend didn't know all of this when she was deciding whether or not to do it but did it anyway? fucking dump that cunt she'll be cheating on you in no time assuming she hasn't already

And that's too fucking much. No girl with any ounce of shame would do that. In fact, girls live day-to-day, hyper aware of men's reactions because they basically are forced to live life on the defensive. She knows exactly what kind of reaction whipping her tits out in front of guys would elicit and she did it anyways.

It's only going to escalate, stop making excuses for shitty behavior.

Hey there, my taliban friend, how's afghanistan this time of year?

you implying your long time bro WOULD tell you he fucked you over big time and possibly ruin your friendship and hurt you deeply in the process

friends are just humans, and humans usually lie when they fuck up big time

Had a girl that did this shit, just make her a side piece and find better because she will screw some random dude

check out this thread!!!

>being that new

You can't trick me kid,i don't forget the boobs i see.Go watch some porn and sleep,you got enough attention here.

not OP, i'm not going to post her.

that doesn't make any sense ? if i lived there she'd been dead by now lol

im done with your retarded us OP
Enjoy getting cucked!

buy why would the others lie ? it wasn't just guys there. why would a girl lie about this

Easy to remember when you have seen 3 or less pairs

HELLO GUYS,CAN U SEE MY POSTS?

nice tits indeed.

Anyways back to topic: I get rly suspicious when it comes down to this. I dont think she needs some "rights" to show her tits around, let alone your "permission", but it just isn't my type of women.
Judging from your posts and the fact that you started this thread in the first place, I assume you aren't happy with it either. Unless you are REALLY sure she is worth it and you can ignore this incident and live with her for a few more years you maybe should just dump her.
Reason: Not a good fit. That simple. None of you did (too much) wrong, you just seem to be searching for other things in a relationship

OP, is this a dealbreaker? Because if not, you're wasting everyone's time. Just deal with it and move on. And if so, you're wasting everyone's time. Just move on.

no, which post?

YES WE CAN! HOW ARE YOU NEW FRIEND? IS FAMILY DOING WELL?

Nice try clown,if you try harder post by post you might stop smelling like a dirty newfag.

yeah i am not happy about it. after the talk i understood her reasoning and i couldn't actually find a fault in it. it's just this irrational part of me that's not pleased

because its awk as fuck to break those news to someone

My friends knew my ex was cheating on me and it took them like 5 months for one of them to muster the courage to tell me, and its wasn't even one of my friends it was one of hers

go figure