Does polygamy work? My wife has suggested we try having an "open relationship" for a while...

Does polygamy work? My wife has suggested we try having an "open relationship" for a while. I have a few women in mind that I have always wanted to fuck but I'm scared this will ruin my marriage. Is anyone on Sup Forums in an open relationship?

I don't think it works unless you've been married 10+ years and are that secure and bored. I think it's more of an excuse for the one who brings up the idea to cheat with peace of mind. As a man, I could fuck other girls with no feelings attached and come home to my gf no problem, but girls attach feelings to sex. I'd say don't do it unless you just want to slay some strange and don't care to lose her

Well you two have to be REALLY ''mature'' and open minded about this. I don't see it working out for me but maybe it will do for you

cuck

She's already fucking lots of other guys.

A nigger will destroy your wife's pussy.


Not worth it.

What if she tries a better dick and never wants yours back?
Too risky.

So basically your wife wants to fuck other guys? Sounds more like cucklygamy than polygamy

Bad idea. It's only an excuse for she can fuck guys with bigger dicks than you.

this

pics of wife pls

>My wife has suggested we try having an "open relationship" for a while

She wants someone else's cock. Bit of advice, polygamy/open relationships don't work.

sauce on pic?

Prolly fucked some nigger already and wants more of that ouga ouga

If your wife is suggesting an open relationship, it simply means she's not assertive enough to outright demand a divorce from you and needs rationalization to fuck someone else. If she loves you, she wouldn't cheat on you. Looking at another man or even having the occasional "I would fuck him" thought doesn't mean much, but wanting to act on those thoughts is what crosses the line.

Polygamy is not the same as an open relationship. Polygamy implies that you and her are free to develop multiple serious emotional relationships, whereas the term 'open relationship' suggests that you both agree to permit each other to have other sexual partners on the understanding that the love and emotional intimacy you share is sacrosanct and unique and inviolable. You better make sure which one she is thinking about OP.

Theres a bird in my local ASDA that looks like that and I wanna bone her in the bread isle so fucking hard.

Try this: fuck other married women on the hush.

Only married women so you can ensure cleanliness and that secrets are faithfully kept.

Problem solved

This is the first step towards her leaving you. She's scared to just leave because of the loss of the life you've built together, but this allows her to audition other guys until she finds one that she's happier with and is able to afford her the lifestyle she's used to. Even if you say you're not ok with it, it will be difficult to regain what has already been lost.

Your wife wants to cheat on you without it being cheating. Leave the bitch.

Bad idea just wear a gorilla mask and tell her to pretend youre a nigger

>My wife has suggested we try having an "open relationship" for a while
i got bad news m8

Worked for me and my girlfriend, you just gotta have rules and stick to them. Talk it out see what's acceptable to both sides and try it, rules can can after you talk about it but NEVER BREAK THE RULES! We stopped when our friends' (also in open relationship) almost broke up because one of them had a very loose interpretation of the rules

Sit your wife down and tell her you'd be willing to do a triad. And you already have some potential people interested. See how she reacts, if she's into the idea great. If she's not, she's just being a selfish cunt that wants more dick and doesn't care about you.

Triads are more stable, if one person flips or leaves, or breaks up it becomes closed again until a new person is found.

Also, triads are more traditional than marriage (not in the last 800 years of western civ, but as in the last 8000 years of all civ).

Triads have less chance of spreading communicable diseases.

I've been in many relationships and (close end) triads are the best. I love when my wife and our girlfriend play this one game in bed where they take turns sucking for 20 seconds each to see who can get me to cum. It's very hot, I recommend you try it.

2x this

She is already "tyring" it and is trying to get your permission after the fact.

All of these.

...

Ill go ahead and file this under "Things that have never happened"

>when ur wife is too nice to ask you to be a cuck

/thread

She wants to try open relationship. She wants black cock.

Is she getting good satisfied in bed?
'Cause if not, you're going to have a bad time

Well, not for neckbeards.

What kind of job and wife do you have by the way?

It was fate

Trips chek
Also, if that is the reference to what I think it is, then trips kek

>triads
>triads
>triads
>TRIADS

>polygamy
>"open relationship"
wut

>Implying pronoun fag

your bitch aint a fucking prostitute
fuck polygamy and cancel you ashley madison account

It's worked for my wife and I.

Im gonna have to go with on this one.

I dont think job prestige has anything to do with it unless you're raking in solid 6 figures which forces your wife to put up with whatever you want until shes in a position where taking half of your shit and leaving makes sense, if applicable.

Women would rather have the attention showered on them, aka multiple dicks if anything.

All this changes if your girl has a serious bi side. However, in this scenario I dont think "taking turns sucking" is really high on her priorities.

My assessment: You're a summerfag who watches too much porn to know what real life is like.

As you have women in mind, she has men in mind. Be prepared and all will work out

Bruh get the fuck out that marriage.

lol, you're already in an open relationship, user, you just didn't know it until this thread. go start fucking other women, or drop your bitch.

IMHO, open relationships aren't worth it. What's the point in having a main bitch if you still have to go snag fresh pussy like you're single?

if you say no shell cheat, if you can handle it do whatever, if not unfortunately gotta seperate

Aint no pussy like new pussy. Thats why

You will get no pussy. You will be prepping the bull.

I'm 32, I've been on here since '05.
I met my wife before I finished college.
She gets off on me fucking other women, and other girls in front of her. So that helped.

Honestly man, you're batting zero.

so your wife is fucking other dudes and you just dont know it yet?

no they don't

If she's suggesting that now, it's a roundabout way of telling you she's already fucking dudes behind your back. She's waiting for you to agree to it then be like "Oh good because I've already started".

You're a cuck, dude. Good luck.

It can work out well for both of you. Read the literature. Find a local Poly group and participate in the discussions. It isn't about pussies & cocks only.

>I don't think it works unless you've been married 10+ years and are that secure and bored. I think it's more of an excuse for the one who brings up the idea to cheat with peace of mind.

1,000,000,000% THIS

/applauds

OP, LISTEN TO THIS MAN.
Im sorry to say, but your wife is already unfaithful. Even if she hasnt been with someone else, her heart has.

Only decent advice in the thread, but all the cucks, virgins, and faggots don't know how to process it.

Best dump the stupid cunt before she starts fucking niggers. She sounds like a worthless whore anyway, OP.

Nope, it doesn't. It just makes you a cuck.

same fag

Yeah it works. We wouldn't be here without it. Source: History.

>32
>here since 05

If that's true, your story gets less believable by each new post.

I'm sure there are some real lucky niggers out there but I doubt you're one of em.

I spend about 45 days of each year traveling for work and fuck other married women about half of the time, depending on how hard I try. Its basically an unwritten rule in the sales/business world.

I think my situation compares favorably to yours

Also, oh look! Funny reaction image to emphasize my point! How clever!

Just have threesomes. Same newness, none of the weirdness.

If she really wants to fuck another guy its not the end of the world, but most likely it means something about you.

So, instead of being in a stable relationship with love and respect, and having two beautiful women at once... You fuck cheating whores?

Oh, yeah so jealous.

It is extremely rare to work on a long term and perfecly balanced level. 99% chance that there will be insecurities/jealousy and there is a chance your wife will respond to sex with other men in a way that emotionally distances her from you, which is fairly normal since that's how women are wired.

Now the problem is that she asked it, and thus fantasises about it. She already made up her mind. You can try to make it work or she will cheat. It's over.

>"open relationship"

I have been married & in one for 13 years.
It only works if:
1. Neither of you is the least bit insecure.
2. Both of you are actually taking advantage of it.
(Note: My wife is 32 years younger than me.)

Marriage is not an open relationship. It's a contract. An open relationship is already hard work, but being married makes it even more.

Also i'm not sure how open is a relationship if only one of you brings up the idea. It seems that people with open relationships that worked were already into that before, so they don't meet by chance...they already know first hand that they have the same goal.

She's already fucking other dudes. She just feels sorry for your pathetic ass and wants you to go out an get some too. Grow some balls, go out and get some pussy. Then come home and make her polish your dick and taste the other girl.

Yeah, basically.

Going to Miami, Phoenix, Orlando, Dallas, LA and a plethora of other locations where I earn cash while tapping ass.

My wife takes care of our beautiful children in the meantime and I come home to open arms. Not a bad situation.

But good luck with your wife and girlfriend. Im sure that wont blow up after a while.

Have any of you ever been married? Best case scenario she leaves and he only losses almost everything. Who the hell wants to be monogamous.

>But good luck with your wife and girlfriend. Im sure that wont blow up after a while.

Whoa there captain aggressive, U MAD or just Jelly?

Sorry it sounds like you have to lie to your own family to live such a hallow existence that you think you can brag about it.

Polygyny has a good track record of millenia working. Open relationships on the other hand turn you into a cuck, not saying it wouldn't work for you, there's freaks for evrything, but you would have to learn to deal with your woman losing some healthy amouunt of respect for you. No matter what they say deep down women can't help but feel some contempt for cucks... I imagine it's salvageable if YOUR partners are in some conventional sense better than her (hotter, younger) but I'll make it clear chances are you won't grow old together even if you're the charmed life type to make it go for decades... It doesn't take good cock or even better than yours to have women start having longings...

Polygamy and an open relationship are 2 different things. If you are just fucking other people, that usually doesn't work out unless thats what the relationship was built on. Otherwise its usually that one person has a specific person they want to/have fucked and need a pass or clear conscience.

I am currently in a polygamous relationship, being into BDSM we met at a play party, so involving others was not a stretch. 1 Wife, 2 girlfriends. The wife is a commitment and i would drop all others for her. We share accounts, financial responsibility, a bed, etc. Its a partnership. We have 2 girlfriends, basically housekeepers/fuckbuddies. These are girls into our lifestyle, that help with the house chores since we both have great jobs but 25% travel, which puts a big sexual strain on us, schedules never met up. Works for everyone, they get to live rent free, we get maids that want to fuck. They cam for a little side money. If one of them meets a guy they like, they will move on and we will find another horny housekeeper, there are way more subs than doms, they usually aren't hard to find.

Of course, it works for women while they are under 40

Not an emotional response, just a statement of fact. My situation is sustainable, yours is not... assuming its even real.

Im sensing a bit of rustling

>Im sensing a bit of rustling
Nah my jimmies are fine.
Just your use of the language "blow up" - Yes, we've had break ups, but most have been cordial.

Me and my wife are good, always have, always will, girls coming in know what I say goes, and what she says goes. Only one time has ever been a problem and that was the girl thought she could be "higher up" in her mind than my wife- she got real conniving, but kicked that drama shit bag to the curb.

Everything else golden.

What'd she do?

OP Simple Solution... Tell your wife that she is free to fuck other guys but that you have no desire for anyone else, that you only love her and want her to be happy.

If she goes forward with it or wants to, dump the bitch, you are better off. Put a high price on yourself. Stop letting pussy run your life.

This I like this!
Make it subtle though! dont make her feel bad. If she decides she wants more dick then dump her ass and find a loyal girl.

Drama will always be stirring in that set up. Some will be worse than others but drama will be the only constant

Imagine a nerdy tumblret (this was before I knew what tumblr was so forgive me) that was emotionally abused, and said she'd love it if she could be in a closed relationship where she was a little.

So that's fine, that dynamic works.
She was a little bratty, okay I've dealt with that before.

She started telling my wife a bunch of shit, like criticizing me. And not just normal women bitching shit either.

My wife was a little put off by that at first.

Eventually, she kinda just wanted to fuck me alone, whenever my wife was out. That's not a problem at all. But it started to become this thing. For example
>She's out, lets fuck hard and quick. Oh and don't tell her we fucked today, I wanna see if she can tell.
Which evolved with in a few days to.
>Can you just fuck me and not your wife, just deny her. Tell her you're not in the mood.

First off my wife would never buy that, second, I didn't like the dishonesty aspect.

It got worse from there as she was trying to control both people. I was trying to be patient because her background. But the last straw, she started talking about "Feminist Living Points" or some shit. This is when I found out what tumblr was, and kicked her ass out.

My wife said thank god.
We took a small break until we found a cute girl that we had a nice 3 year long relationship with.

If she suggested it, she is already cheating.

This was meant in response for you.

assuming one wanted to go ahead with polygamy, where would one find a willing third party?

/Thread

Happened to me and I played it just like that. Happy single.

Your marriage is effectively over at this point.

You'll be on your own, trying to get laid, you'll have problems. She'll have partners, and plenty of them. Because guys are thirstier, she'll be getting laid and you'll be getting rejected.

Pack your shit and go. Hope there's no kids.

ITT: A bunch of jealous assholes who can't understand that polygamy and polyamory are different things.

Most males within the animal kingdom are naturally predisposed towards seeking more than one female partner to mate with - the end result being that his seed will spread as far as he is able to mate.

Naturally, not all females will be able to bear children, or will only be able to bear so many. If a male is constrained to a single female, then he may not be able to produce as many offspring as he desires. In Darwin's theory this must be avoided because there is then a risk that overtime it may reduce the population of a species.

People wonder why animal conservation centers have such a high fail rate. The reason is simply that we apply human sexuality to the animal kingdom, and this is wrong. We place one female and one male in a cage and expect them to mate, the result is that there is a small chance they may conceive a child. Simply because what we understand to be correct animal psychology is in fact wrong.

Males within the animal kingdom demand more than one female. Yet, our post-feminist society sees it as wrong for a male to have more than one mate - yet it is an intrinsic value that merits towards the success of a species.

While this is targeted at animals, if you apply this theory to humans you can see how conflicts emerge in human relationships. Females rely to heavily on a single male, because they are conditioned since birth to pursue only a single mate - you can blame this on Christian driven capitalist markets and advertising. However, men conversely have something that overrides the synthetic psychology driven into us by 21st century marketing - testosterone. I am not sure what studies will conclude this, but testosterone is extremely powerful and drives the human population. Most men therefore are naturally polygamous in my opinion.

My latina QT girlfriend for 5 years proposed an 'open relationship'. I obviously denied it.

She ended our relation previous week. When I asked if it was a matter of months or weeks before she fucks another guy, she answered more like weeks.

Fucking women. She still wants sex after our relation though. Should I do that? Or just completely delete her out of my life? First long relation, need some help because I can't objectively see what I should do

Fuck her as soon as you start successfully flirting with other women. You don't need to date or fuck another woman first, but you need to get any hope of being with her again out of your head before you have sex with her again.

Yes, our sexual desires do incline us to desire multiple partners but calling the current monogamous a product of post-feminism society is wrong.

The monogamous system is designed to be the most successful for our species. Humans are different than normal animals because our intellect and the way our society works.

Kids from single moms typically end up shitty but unlike the animal kingdom, they dont just die off. They get shitty jobs, cant form relationships, take food stamps and other hand outs that tax the system and end up here.