My wife doesn't give blowjobs. She used to suck my dick whenever I told her to when we were dating...

My wife doesn't give blowjobs. She used to suck my dick whenever I told her to when we were dating. Even sometimes when we were engaged. Now I couldn't get a blowjob if it was a deathbed request. What do?

Pic unrelated. It's my dog trying to hoola hoop.

Sucks dude but if you let the practice die you ain't getting it back.

It's not all about the sex you horny faggot

take her out to dinner, not normal dinner take her to get hotdogs. then watch her eat it and jerk off under the table.
idk do what you will, thats what i would do.

Once the rings on you lose a lot of things.. Like happiness. Enjoy, OP.

Start asking for anal

Use Mother Theresa, she'll never let you down.

I feel like that might be the case. Should I get a divorce and move on? She really isn't attractive at all tbh I married her because she was obedient and a housewife type and we got along socially but now she's just a bitch all the time and very defiant.

She is sucking someon elses dick, i know cause that dog combined with those 2 floors look really familiar to me. Bump for more info.

Autofellatio is the answer.

He meant to say just start taking anal. Asking is for beta fags

Blow jobs are about feeling desired. If she lays there and takes it and doesn't get sexually aggresive, it's hard to believe she desires it

Nah that I know for sure isn't the case. She would never cheat she's too traditionalist religious type. But she's super defiant of me. Really we don't get along on so many levels. She's Catholic and I'm atheist. She thinks blowjobs are something that only happen in porn. We have different morals, I'm more of a do whatever it takes type.

Haha OP show this guy a picture.

This is why most married men usually have a slut on the side. Wives are great for some things. Horrible for what we wanted.

Your dog looks similar to my dog. What breed is it?

>he fell for the marriage meme

Teach your dog to give blowjobs

Czech'd

As a married man of 7 years. I will say that I believe this happens to everyone. My wife used the "tired" or "headache" and any other bullshit excuse for about a month straight and I thought she was trying to prove a point. Maybe she was, but you just have to be more diligent man. I started texting her after work and telling her I was going to the bat with friends, or inviting her to a friend's with me to watch the game, or anything else that kept us from having alone time. Women see couples time the same way we see sex. It's how they bond and show love, same as us eating pussy and giving them a quality dicking. Make her feel as lame about the situation as you do. Took a few weeks, but she eventually asked what was up, told her I couldn't handle being alone with her with the constant rejection. She got pissed about it and I had to keep up the game for another month-ish, but she then realized I was serious and our relationship has been fantastic for the last 4.5 years, sex is good, blowjobs often enough, anal if I ask really nice and do a good job eating pussy. She needs to realize its a big deal to you before she'll take it seriously

Half black lab half collie

.. could have been me starting this thread.. in the exact same boat.. no blow jobs.. she used to, but not anymore (never let me come in her mouth let alone swallow), also, can't go down on her either.. she just doesn't want it... previous long term relationships gave load of blow jobs and swallowed.. and would love me going down on them.. shit sucks.. just fucking straing up and down sex for sole purpose of procreation and not even fucking kidding.. wish I was..

This man speaks the truth.

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Bro this is my life. She doesn't like oral and I've tried to do it to her and she doesn't like it. Never turned her on or enjoyed it.

I can get sex probably once a week but it's so vanilla and it's only done to shut me up. She just lays there. She won't ride me. Sometimes she will let me do doggy but that's about it. It lasts like 5 minutes and then I cum on her, she flips out and says "why am I taking birth control if you always pull out and cum on me anyways wtf" then I explain I'm not risking having a child in case you forget to take your pill. She gets over it in like 10 mins and we go on about being on our phones until sleep. She also won't do it in the day time.

This doesn't work for me.. the only result is that she doesn't want sex because we are not together and I put friends before her and how can we have sex if we aren't having a good time together.. etc..

So true. I was thinking all I would hear is "the only thing you want from me is sex then you just run off and don't spend any time with me".

Also, I don't really have friends I can hang out with... Idk. I have tons of aquantances from school and work but I've never really hung out with them outside of their normal environments

I gathered the point of his post was you need to outlast her.

Im gonna try this. Thanks bro

Wow! this could not be more exact, except for the timing.. I last a good .. 2 minutes.. once in a while she does try to 'turn herself on' she rubs her clit for a about 10 seconds then gives up and says it's not working.. Also, she doesn't get on top, shes chubby (still chubby, any more and it goes over to fat.. danger zone.. ) but good looking and sexy chubby.. but she thinks shes fat and when shes on top, she thinks shes fat.. I am ranting now out of frustration.. the question is.. do you have kids? We have one and I am willing to take a whole lot before I risk losing him.. also.. just found out we have another on the way, which is really cool and she is a very cool mother and she does work very hard (not a housewife)

Damn... 1 off...

And to that my friend I'd say you aren't letting it build for enough time. Women are stubborn, especially catholic women, and especially when they think/know you're trying to prove a point. You may not have the funds or friends to stay gone as long as you need to. It honestly might take a few months of shrugging her off. Become a bit of a workaholic, if there isn't much draw at home, making a few extra bucks you stash away from her can't be a bad way to spend the time. But no woman on the planet can out wait a man with his mind truly set. It may take 6 months for her to even ask what the deal is, but when she does, tell her it's her, and that you wanted/tried to make things better and she didn't seem interested, so you're working on the one thing you can in your life, bettering yourself financially. Tell her when she's willing to work on things, you'll gladly make the time, but you aren't going to waste your time getting frustrated for a woman that doesn't really want you. Nothing like a true blue guilt trip and sticking to your guns to make her whistle a different tune

No kids luckily which means I can leave if I really wanted to. It's just that it's been four years now and we know everything about each other. Starting all over with someone new is exciting but also annoying. I guess I'll try the typical red pill approach of going to the gym, getting physically fit (I'm about 15-20 lbs over weight) and seeing if that makes her see more value in keeping me around.

13 years married here. I'm 31.
My wife still sucks the fuck out of my dick. Swallows every drop. Gives footjobs. I play with her ass when we 69...

Everyone isn't the same.

I suppose, but I think I have, it's just not in her system, she litterly has no libido,.. very occasionally she gets fucking horny and we fuck like wild mustangs, she gets submassive.. even buttplugs and stuff get involved and .. so.. it's somewhere in her system.. but she could go without for forever, she wouldn't even realise that she is not doing it.

Have you tried improving your hygiene , asking her what she'd like you to do for her ?

Try being open and honest.

Similar situation here... Blowjobs are the most important thing to me and i never get them... the last one I got from my wife will have been a year ago in about 3 days... (yes I keep track) and even then she made me wear a condom....

I can fuck her whenever i want but its not the same.... Once she cums i usually jerk myself off... Mouth > Pussy

BUMP

Shocked at the number of guys saying their wives won't ride them. FUCK that. Tell her straight up. "Come sit on this dick and fuck me"

When she was an obedient girlfriend she would do as she was told, anything I wanted sexually. Cum on her face? Ok. Swallow every drop? No problem. Cum in her ass? She didn't like it but it pleased me.

if you saw her now you'd think I was describing a 10000% totally different girl. Unreal.

I know brother, and I'm not saying my way is an end all cure all solution, but id nothing else he'llget the satisfaction of improving his money situation and if it does end, he can say he stood his ground. I have buddythat bent over backwards to make his marriage work and the bitch cheated on him and left anyway. And while the cheating meant the divorce went well for him, he says the one thing he regrets more than anything is letting her shape how he lived his life when she didn't give a damn to begin with. My suggestion isn't perfect, but it keeps dignity intact at a bare minimum

leave her today any day you stay with her is wasted

Have you tried just bossing her around in the heat of the moment? Like "you're so fucking hot baby, suck this cock."?

Before I ask for a blowjob my dick is polished. 4 different soaps, shaved, cleaned like a sparkling spring.

Yeah I've tried the talk to her thing a dozen times over the last year. I even got a handjob out of it, but I was expecting a blowjob and she refused. Her handjobs are terrible and so not "into it" I could probably build a machine out of Popsicle sticks that gives me a more comfortable hand job.

I kek'd at the popsicle stick line.

There is no "heat of the moment". Because she doesn't ever get turned on sexually. She has like a broken fucking libido. Not sure if she's ever actually orgasmed or if she is feeling some other sensation. But she hasn't "orgasmed" in years and any time she starts to "feel good" when we're having sex I will keep doing what I'm doing or go faster to try to give her sexual pleasure then like one minute later she just loses interest and stops feeling anything and wants to just finish up the sex and be done with it.

I know from quite a few friends that this is the case, although my drought seems to be more extreme than theirs. .. I am 40 been married for 5 years, that's the generation I am talking about. My wife has quite a high postion at an insurance company, she works a lot, I do to, I party A LOT! (Shes sick of that and has a bit of a point there I'm afraid..). All the friends with the same problem are in similar situation, both have jobs, kids, too damned busy.. .

Yes, the point is you won't be there as her emotional crutch and she'll begin to wonder what's going on. Tit for tat, if she wants a shoulder to cry on/bitch too then she needs to support you also. There's legitimately no reason to spend your life celibate because another person cbf, you only live once. Married 15 years here, been through/going through this shit, always sucks.

May I ask how old your wife is? Because in my 20s I did nothing but scam 40 something women, if she's on the verge of 40s then there is a good chance that libido is about to turn itself around. Also, a big part of your problem could be the partying, if she wants you to stop and you won't, then she may be waiting YOU out to see if you'll change what she doesn't like, may be running the same game on you in reverse

This.. very much this.. and the fucking asking for it, or commanding.. (which doesn't work for woman with a high position because she see's that the man have all the power, or convinces herself that's the reason she's not moving on ) doesn't work, you ask, you're a sad ass loser.. not very attractive.. I tried .. a lot.. and once in a while a sympathy fuck or handjob.. for which refer to popsicle fapper 2000 as soon to be developed by other user..

>Mouth > Pussy

This is true, although I do like pussy

That sucks man I'm 36 but my wife does everything except anal and dirty talk. Nothing like having a woman ride you tho with those tits bouncing in your face. I hate being on top just pumping away. I'd rather have her up there just nutting on my dick and wimpering in my ear. Hnngg when she's on top and starts getting into it I tell her to "use my cock" or "cum on my cock". She usually takes that as a que to enjoy herself and not worry about me. Which is fine, cuz I can cum just from watching her ride.

Yep,,, she's litterely on the verge of 40's and like I said, just pregnant, .. and pregnancy could be great for her libido. .. and as far as the partying is concerned, yes, she is sick of that (it's been a bit less in my mind lately.. ) and although I don't see her scheming, she is litterly to innocent for that, it is kind of what she is doing..

What's that you say. Married. Yeh... me too.

She straight out told me she never liked sucking dick, just didn't want me to wander.

Now we're married, she doesn't suck my dick anymore... hardly has sex with me anymore. So I wander.

>I explain I'm not risking having a child in case you forget to take your pill
Dude, cumming inside is probably what turns her on and you're not giving it to her. If you're paranoid about the pill, set an alarm for it everyday and have her take it when you're home. Reassure her that you're not trying to be controlling, but that this is to put you at ease and make you more confident when you fuck her. This might not even be a problem, she may be taking it regularly. When and if you suggest this, frame it as if it's your problem and not a matter of you not trusting her.

Advice user from earlier on in the post. With all of my knowledge gained from experience, I still can't break the dirty talk barrier either unless she's wasted or one of the times every couple of years she asks me to get her a xanax for a party or something. If you figure out how to make them do this I'd gladly follow any advice you have, it's the only thing I don't get that I can truly say I want. That being said, I won't bitch about my situation with the plight of other less fortunate anons laid out before us

>My wife doesn't give blowjobs. She used to suck my dick whenever I told her to when we were dating. Even sometimes when we were engaged. Now I couldn't get a blowjob if it was a deathbed request. What do?


Get a new wife. If you don't' leave now you are not a man. If you are not a man your wife will not give you blowjobs.

Its simple. What do you want? Are you man enough to take it? If you are not then you are just a little bitch.

OP here, there's another guy answering because he's in the same situation. I am 24 and wife is 23 so we are still very young. I'm the one with no kids, he's the guy with one and one on the way

My cousin is unmarried and was in the same deal.. except they still did it all the time

Though one day, sadly she took her pill late or some bs and has conned him into a child and a relationship

Honor&Loyalty are foreign concepts to women

She would tell me to fuck off and mind my own business and stop fucking nagging her about the fucking pill because she hasn't fucking forgotten (even if she did she would never tell me)

In those exact words. It's a beaten dead horse. If I even mention "hey did you take your pill" she flips shit cause I've asked so many times. Cause she doesn't express that she understands how important it is to not miss a single time.

Same.. dirty talk is a huge turn on for me and I want nothing more than for her to tell me to shoot in her mouth or something. .but like you say.. I'm lucky she even opens up for it the way these guys are talking..yikes..

Sometimes I try to ask her shit like "do you like sucking that cock?" She usually just says "yes" or "mmmhmm".. she's too shy and it isn't her style I guess but fuck it.. she does most of the dirty shit I like so I consider myself lucky

Yep, I'm the older one wth Kids... sorry don't mean to hog your thread.. BUT OP! Know that we know your age.. fuck.. get out man for fuck sake! No kids.. and already in the 40's year old situation before hitting mid twenty.. RUN RUN!

Well loyalty is debatable, but honor is 100% over their heads

I've seen women lie to my face about the stupidest shit I have just called them on, thoroughly believing their own bullshit and trying to argue about how they are right and your perception of why or how they did the stupod shit is the problem

They get this look in their eyes.. like an enforcing hope that you will agree with them, for the sole purpose of being right.. because fuxk progress

ITT: The horrible future

Dude... at 23, she's horny.. she is playing you, and you are young enough to not see it. Try the work thing, it'll get you away from the situation to breath, it'll give you the money I'm sure you need, and improving housing situation, living comfortability, or even something as small as the quality of meals you guys eat at night will show her you're making an effort, plus give her time to reflect on her selfishness. Learn to cook, and I mean cook very well, I did at around 28 and wish I did at 20. Become invaluable to her, and at the same time you'll be giving yourself skills for other women to admire, which is a big deal. Make sure you are a decent handyman. Her friends will comment about what a good husband you are even if she doesn't take notice herself, and that's a plus for you brother. At 24 the best thing to do is make yourself the best decent human you can be, and that'll change her attitude, or make her so self conscious that she'll improve herself or leave. And the new skills you aquired while trying to fix things will attract a more quality lady if she does decide to go

nigga what? who asks their bitch to do stuff? just cum in her mouth.

yeah leave dude

Maybe... But the underlying fact is she will never enjoy giving blowjobs. She will just never enjoy it. And people will tell you if you don't enjoy it it sucks.

not if you don't get married. The retards ITT failed to realise relationships never last forever, expecially if you tie yourselves together by children, living together and marriage.

I'd say smell the ashes and only go for girlfriends. I'd rather have dry spells that are my own responsibility and not some frigid woman I'm stuck with

That sucks....and it kind of is your business. How often do you remind her? I admit I'd be annoyed if/when my husband nags me about something. When something between us keeps coming up, we'll sit down and make a decision and settle the issue. This seems like a sensitive issue so it may not be possible for you.
This just works for us, it's "Hey, this keeps coming up and harping on it is annoying, let's take a couple minutes and just decide what we're going to do about this and leave it at that." I know this isn't an option for all couples, just thought I'd put this out there.

nah dude these retards are cucks. do snything for this woman, even suck a dick

eat her pussy so many times she feels the need to reciprocate.

sounds like you are still getting sex, I wonder how long that will last

Ding

tits or gtfo

Generally chicks that have low libido and or wont suck a dick sure as shit aren't gonna let you eat them out.

no. you cucked piece of shit. you dont over feed treats to a retarded dog that enforces bad behavior

Stop talking about it and just nut in her pussy

She obviously wants it. And tell her when you're gonna do it so she can get hers.

"I'm gonna cum in that pussy"

> gonna cum in you
> gonna banana creme this pussy
>take my tokyo banana
then pull out and cum on her face for not telling you if she took the pill today

oh no! she "missed" a pill and got pregnant.

faggot, she missed all thirty at least

If she truly doesn't enjoy it, then you are right. But in that case, it isn't wrong to hit her with the guilt trip, and if she still wants the sex, you can withhold that, if she doesn't, we circle back around to withholding the personal time. If she can't appreciate you while you are around, she can see what it's like to go without while you better yourself. It may take some time, but she'll realize the error of her ways or move on. I know my wife isn't super into anal, takes a lot of slow work up and pussy eating, but when I ask (which is about twice a month) she always let's me do it because I do plenty of things for her, and it's not because she feels like she owes me, it's because we have a mutual respect for the others desires and our relationship works because we both give a shit.

Is her ass tight?

I already work 40 hrs a week, and go to college the other remaining two days. I study constantly to maintain my 4.0

If we spent any less time together I wouldn't see her face. She claims this is what bothers her but idgaf life is hard and you have to work hard to get ahead I'm not trying to work my shitty job for the rest of my life I want to graduate and get an excellent career started.

Also I am very business minded and she is definitely not. We just see eye to eye so differently on financials.

nah my girl tried saying that but when we try stuff I make her feel sexy and alive and she begs for it after, you have to enforce how you feel and how she looks and how she makes you feel and how bad that makes you want to jizz all over her face. Also, dont cum easily a few times then cum easily ine time doing something you enjoy but she doesnt, she will get wet faster than she ever had before and beg for it later

cute doggy

also, rape?

yeah shes dead weight

Fucking brilliantly tight bro.. not trying to brag in front of the crowd, but I last about 4 minutes once I make it in, it's like a vice grip on my cock, and if I fuck her ass, she always wants me to cum in it. She knows I have a bad creampie fetish so she gets on her knees doggy style and let's me watch her push it out, then walks ass bouncing to the bathroom to clean up. Comes back in the door once shes good, and finger beckons me to take a shower with her. She knows exactly what I like and how to control me, I'd let her get away with about anything if she did that twice a week instead of twice a month lol, and she knows it

and here is the fucking problem

Pull your head out of the sand user. She's EXACTLY the type to cheat. Always has been good and outward appearances are perfect. But all she needs is a little thrill in her life... some guy compliments her, listens to her, she goes to church Sunday morning and sucks his cock in the parking lot.

>She also won't do it in the day time.

There are only three times my wife won't let me fuck her.
Day time
Night time
Eastern Standard Time

I hate to agree with the other "dead weight" user after trying to help. But it sounds like you have your priorities straight, rare at 24 I'll say for one, so bravo. But she's still acting like a kid. The most important thing is setting yourself up for success, and the earlier the better, if she cant take her future seriously, you seriously can't take her into your future.

Read up on the 180. You don't need friends, just a certain mindset.

Why am I the problem?

start fucking a whore from the office.

I agree, this is what I was saying

Autism.

Kek

tbh, you sound desperate for it
>do anything she wants
what? what sensical sane person says shit like this?
why? because she gave you some ass for 4 minutes a WEEK? dayuum should pay workers with a bitch with a tight ass, would be cheaper than USD

Dude, while I admire your determination and drive, you are sacrificing your relationship. You can't say "I'm doing this for a good career to secure our future" when there will not be an "our future".

Women need non-sexual bonding... conversation, face-time, cuddling, hand-holding... in order to feel a bond with you. If you devote all your time to work and school and the meager time with her looking to get your cock sucked, she isn't going to bond with you.

-Married 40 years

This is the same user that has the great relationship with his wife of 7 years.. I say this because I love her, and while she could make me do things I don't want to, she doesn't, because we have that respect for one another. I was trying to say that a marriage built on a mutually beneficial base is great, she doesn't like it up the ass, but takes it because I like it, I don't like some of the things I do for her, but I do them because it's always rewarded, AND appreciated, which is the biggest factor.... insecure user detected bro, learn to have something real with a real woman, it's the best brother , I hope every guy finds that in a partner

fucking lol!!!!

I get having something real, but I'm not foing to associate that much value to such a short mundane task anyone can do.