The last few months I've noticed my gf starting bullshit arguments/starting fights/getting offended like a week before...

The last few months I've noticed my gf starting bullshit arguments/starting fights/getting offended like a week before her period up to her period starting. Every reason is basically bullshit and she's blowing everything out of proportion. And she calms down and forgets("forgives") about the time her period ends and life goes on.
This time she says it's really serious. Another bullshit fight she started on the day her period started. She's saying I'm selfish, I only look out for myself, blablabla, while it's just not true. She herself a little over a week ago said how happy she was to have someone like me caring for her.

I don't know how serious she is about this fight. Maybe in a few days she'll completely change her mind agan, like the last times, but maybe not. I'm thinking the fights are all because she's on the pill. Never had shit like this before she went on the pill.
Do I bring her attention to the fact that she's fucking overreacting and making shit up and overly emotional because of the pill or will this enrage her further? I want her to get off the thing now just to see if that will make the crazy go away but I'm afraid she'll just completely flip. Surely some of you have dealt with this kind of shit before.

>have some tits in return

my gf would flip out the week before, and she'd then get terrible cramps when she had her period. She later started getting on the pill because she was told it would help lesson the stomach cramps, and it surprisingly also helped balance her hormones out and got her out of the bitchy stage

tl'dr
You need to fuck her right.
Did she ever had an orgasm?

You need to have a good level of communication for a successful relationship.

Nonsense
Fuck her right.
She has to cum right on your dick.
Not with any toys or your fingers.
You have to be confident and show her dominance

Holy shit dude. Hormonal BC fucked up my wife really bad. Acne got out of control - weight gain - crazy fucking mood swings - total loss of libido. If you're getting any of these other things, get off it right away. Pull and Pray or maybe a kid is better than dealing with that shit. If you really can't have a kid right now, get snipped.

Take it from me - hormonal BC fucked my wife's life up in every way possible. She stayed on it for too long and now her hormones are almost permanently out of whack. Just tell her to stop taking it and rubber up or get snipped. Cannot stress this enough.

yes you need to fuck her right.

Like, how do I do that?

Does pissing on her help??

Thanks user, your advice is, what I need.

I completely agree with you.
And most of the time we do. Neither of us have any trouble talking about anything with each other and we both know how important it is, but when she's like this nothing gets through to her. Even if I completely rationally explain everything and why it's nothing to worry or be upset about, it does not matter to her. She will just keep her own bullshit going and tells me I'm wrong and I don't understand and there's no excuses etc etc etc.

She is a least somewhat of a bitch to act as she is, but the pill can make it worse.

Wait until she returns to the "sane" part of her cycle, then have a serious chat with her about it. Perhaps use another method of BC. This kind of cyclical abuse is not fair to you.

I blew my load in my woman every time when she was on the pill - shit was cash.

Did not help craziness.

If thats her body u better apologize and say shes right on everything

What the fuck how am i supposed to know this.
Do you have a small wiener or do you finish to fast?
Jerk off 3 times before you get started and ram it in till she can't walk for 2 hours

Maybe she is dumb? Sounds like a low IQ or a kid

Luckily except for the cyclical mood swings every 2-3 weeks and the bullshit fights that go along with that, none of the other symptoms have appeared. But yeah, I'm going to get her off the pill when she calms down.

not her. random porn, bruh

This is normal for my life. I married the bitch. I have a room for myself now. Bed and TV i just move in when sanity regains itself i move back in. Then i have instilled that when its red its blowjob day or ass fucking. She opts for sucking more often. Just a handy work around for her cunty ways

It's the pill op. My wife was the exact same way. Got off bc and she was a whole new person. Her sex drive increased and she was way more rational. No more stupid fights about the smallest stuff.

Same shit here, but a lot of the time my fiance realizes she's a bitch on her period. So if I let her know she's being an unreasonable bitch again sometimes she realizes I'm right and corrects it herself. But sometimes we don't fix things until afterwards and she just apologizes and tells me it was her period. I like to tell her to remember this talk next month so when I remind her she's just on her period and being pissy, she doesn't argue and say that it has nothing to do with it. We don't really argue otherwise, it has everything to do with it.

We all deal with it. Depending on the girl, discomfort and emotional instability can begin a week before they actually bleed.

The problem you guys have is that you're both young, emotional dumb-asses incapable of completely understanding each others position and how you make each other feel.

There's always fucking drama in young relationships, and you're not different in any way.

From what I can tell, you think you're not selfish, but you seem like you are. She has been betrayed by her body and feels shit for it, while you just cant man up and treat her nicely, probably getting too offended by what she says way to easily and amplifying her negative moods.

TL:DR: Typical teenage relationship bullshit.

After you fucked her right, go buy her some flowers, go out for a nice dinner, buy her a little present, like a watch, a necklace or a game she desired or so.
Always show respect, patience and love even in hard times or during arguments

Birth control is really fucking my gf up, too. She's completely uninterested in sex now and it's really sad. We went from fucking like every day to not at all and I basically have to rape her to get her going. Maybe you could take some initiative and activate her sexual side by being sexual when she's acting retarded like that lol

Im 34 shes 35 married 10 years. Same shit for me. I just dont give a fuck and stay out of the way

Or just wear a condom? I wouldn't get surgery to never have kids again or have a kid I don't want just to avoid wearing a condom.

Call her on a nickname.
Show her that you are proud to have a special girl.
Pick her up from work or wherever.
Make a little surprise, buy a teddy, try a new restaurant, make a little trip to another town.
Wtf just man up

how can that be normal?

Okay, good to know I'm not the only one.

I care for her, I do everything left and right for her and like I said in one of my previous posts, she herself didn't think I'm at all selfish only a little more than a week ago. Though what you said about amplifying her negative mood might be right. Basically we haven't talked much for the past few days because she just keeps going back to how pissed off she is etc etc etc

You should definately kill her

So after you done that, if shes still a bitch, just leave her. Life is too short. You got no time to waste

Ok my GF of 5 yrs (2 kids together) has recently come off the pill due to getting the implant, like OP said there would be a fight every month around the time of her period. Like stupid petty bullshit

In the last 2 months no fight, nothing, happy as fuck.

I dont know whether or not this is related

yeah it's good to know that other couples have experienced the same shit and overcome it

Of course you talk to her about it, and be completely honest. Relationships are about communication. Tell her you're worried, get her to try one of those bars that are inserted under the skin instead of the pill.

Bait or beta?

>if she's upset it's because of you, there's no way she could just be pissy because of her period. So get ready to buy flowers as an apology.
>if you need to make up after an argument, buy her a bunch of stuff. All girls are materialistic and just want things, not affection.
>best things to buy your special gal are "a watch, a necklace or a game she desired or so."
>or just take her to dinner, because you always need to have a reason to do nice stuff. If you take her out to dinner everytine you argue, she won't just begin to feel like the only time you do nice things is when you fuck up.

Record her in one of her worst moments. Wait until she is in her happy time of the mo the and talk to her about it. If she flips out start yalking about all the things you loved about her before this change and that shes not this person on birth control and that you just want the loving, caring, sweet gf u used to havr. She should have calmed down by now and she will eventually ask "is it really that bad" ...play the recording. She will feel like a piece of shit and hopefully realize she is being an asshole.

^^same thing for

Sup Forumsro, first and foremost thing you simply have to face is, the situation is absurdly simple. Either that will change or youll have to bail.
Now, two steps to try are checking how sure you really are that youre not doing something wrong, and then get her to see a doctor to check if the pill shes taking is right for her. Even the best in the world can be hell to a certain person.

That assured, confront her once. Things dont change, then youre out.
Not being hurr durr alpha male dont care about girls. Im 28 and well experienced and did this to a woman I loved to bits and wanted to wife. Just consider that given the way women work, serious mental issues can be a lot less evident than in a guy. Sudden changes of temperament are much more dangerous than you probably realize right now.

This is too dangerous, user. What youre dealing with could be signal of something serious, and recording her and showing to her might make hell break loose

I doubt that recording her is necessary. But I'll keep that idea as a backup. I think she won't have anything against going off the pill.

Not true dummy. Eat a clean vegan diet, it's the only way to balance everything, including hormones.

I'm assuming you'll never muster up the willpower to do this so yes, enjoy your hormonal piece of garbage.

My girlfriend was on BC up until 22 starting @ 14. She had acne when she got off and her libido was extreme (wanted to fuck 3 times a day)

The acne took 2 years to remove and she followed a strict vegan diet. When we went out to eat at any restaurant, he acne came back, so BC fucks you up for life if you don't take te correct action.

Diet is important you little nigger, especially for women.