How do I convince myself that a girl is actually not as good as I think and that she isn't actually good for me?

How do I convince myself that a girl is actually not as good as I think and that she isn't actually good for me?

Boi - my gf has cheated on me 4 times. I promised myself this was the last time. I am now waiting for her to text me so i can tell her to gtfo

I meant, emotionally cheat

Dude... man the fuck up.

smoke weed

why wait?

why even say anything?

Hi op. How about instead of her being your gf, she's just some bitch you fuck and have no emotional ties to?

Imagine her taking a shit

Because of my morals. I was taught to understand everyone's point of view. She goes to my uni with me.

Girls are super good at pooping fast and so it looks like they just pissed and didn't just drop a log

This. You have 2 options, you could not give a fuck and ignore the cunt and not let it get to you.
Or
You could be an emotion dandelion and pour out how her getting fucked in the ass 4 times (trust me it was much much more then 4 times) hurt your feelings. And quite possibly shes taking a load to the chest while reading your text.

Who's the camwhore? she looks delicious, fuck Op's bitch.

>cockblocking yourself

you'd better have a damn good reason, OP

Because she got another bf after we couldn't hang out for a while and I need to give up on her

This. It doesn't matter what your problems are. Smoke weed.

m8, this is her ex bf. She is a loyal fem but it was her ex she was texting

"I think about YOU when user is here"

get blackout drunk and kill her. I'd go with old fashioned blunt force trauma

Killing your woman has solved men's problems for thousands of years

You can't, man. Once they get in your head that way you're totally fucked.The only way I've ever stopped thinking about that "One special girl" Is to fail to Keep some other new special girl From taking that spot in your mind/heart.

Wait a fuckin second... So she has a boyfriend right now? Or she will get another boyfriend after? Either way why wouldnt she cheat on him if she cheated on you? Just ignorw her dude she clearly doesnt give much fucks about you. Honestly im saying this cuz i hate whores whondo this shit it happened to me. Just dont say anything and ignore her. At the MOST you can establish your not interested in her anymore. But dont text her. Say it in person. Girls screen cap convos of guys and she could screen cap anything you say

She never cheated on me, we weren't in a serious relationship. We are like best friends but I can stand when she has a bf even if I try to be okay with it. If we were able to see each other often then we probably would be in a relationship

I have no idea what any of you faggots are on about. You guys actually care about bitches? Have you attempted not latching all of your emotional ties onto some cunt who couldn't care less about your dumb ass?

try being a faggot

No, I personally have not

>triggered

Any views on race? I proudly throw around nigger, fucking jew, wetback, mudshark, etc.
If she gets offended by that stuff, that's your way out

She has a hold on you, OP. It's like a crocodile's grip. Once it clamps down, it's nearly impossible to get out.

However, nearly impossible still means there's a chance.

My advice would be, if she's the 'dream girl' that you feel like shit for losing, think about it like this:

Would a dream girl dump you and kick you while your down? Cheat on you? Purposely hurt and cuck you over and over?

My best metaphorical situation for this would be "it's like being tortured in a room where you're free to leave by slitting your own wrists." It sounds stupid as fuck, I know, but it's exactly like that. Would you rather endure all of that slow pain over a while or just let go now? It's your choice, OP, and to be honest, letting go early worked for me. I found others, and dream girls last about as long as an actual dream, I.e. a week or two at the most.

Good luck, OP.

Not op here.

I will do this

Would hit. Jussayin.

Just go and have sex with hookers/escorts OP It's cheaper in the long run and a lot easier.

>pic related It's an escort I was with.

my first dubs

>We are like best friends
ABORTABORTABORT

seriously, don't do this to yourself.

We've known each other for way longer than a couple of weeks, and we decided to stay as friends. This worked for a while until she got a bf. We'll be able to hang out again next year though but I don't know what things will be like.

Are you in the US?

I want to have sex with escorts because I hate talking to women at bars and stuff but I don't really know where to start

quit being such a cunt. who gives a fuck if she's going to bruise your inner child's fragile self image. Get that ass and make it work or fuck off and move on to some other bitch.

Fucking hell

>We'll be able to hang out again next year
what the fuck man. Do you not understand that this girl does not give a fuck about you but doesn't want to cause drama by telling you to stop talking to her entirely? move the fuck on.

Ah, so it's a "once best friends and we became a couple" episode.

That's the bad thing about best friend relationships. Once they're over, which you never expect since you two ARE best friends, the friendship goes away too.

My best advice us to mutually agree to pretend the relationship never happened and continue to be friends. Sometimes, you have to stay in the friend zone to stay away from being dropped out of her life entirely.

Backpage is pretty good for the most part, but I go to Thailand once a year to have sex with local Thai's. They are literally incomparable to American girls. I also have a lot of pics of different escorts I have been with.

Also yeah I am in the U.S.

What's the average one look like? In terms of race, looks rating from 1-10, age, etc

I dont think this is the case

Probably for the best. We're both excited to hang out again and see shit just as friends (I haven't been to the city before), but it's just really difficult for me to be comfortable with the situation I'm not sure

Well there are some that are ugly and some that are hot. In my experience there are more hot ones then ugly ones though, you just have to go to different Go Go bars. Pattaya Is like Disney Land for adults.

>Here is another one I have been with.

Remember this quote from ghandi
>bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

there is no such thing as male/female friends where one doesn't want to fuck the other.

you are a faggot.

>I dont think this is the case
you also seem to think it's a good idea to hang onto a girl you like (in a girlfriend kind of way) who has a boyfriend and won't hang out with you because of it. You will save yourself a lot of pain if you man the fuck up and drop it. Trust me; been there, done that

If you seriously can handle just being friends, by all means, carry on, but if you still have feelings and you're just acting like you want to be friends because its more comfortable than cutting contact while hoping down the line for a relationship again, you will only be strung along and disappointed.

You get used to it, at least in my case. Just shake it off and pretend it never happened. And especially, ESPECUALLY treat her just checking like you did when she was still a friend. Don't act like she needs special attention just because you were together once.

Any STDs? Illegal shit?

OP just get a hooker, In this day in age there is no point in getting into relationships. Just go to collage, get a good paying job, advance in that job, then you get all the hookers you can handle.

So this situation sounds retarded, but if I'm getting it, the gist is, you are best friends with a girl but it never went past friendship. But you crush on her and grow jealous enough of any boyfriend she has that she has to actually cut you out of her life any time she's in a relationship? Mate, you sound like the toxic one here.

If you two can't date but you can't handle seeing her with anyone else, then man the fuck up and get over it or move on. Unrequited love is tough, but being a jealous little bitch and ruining a friendship over it is fucking stupid. Go date someone else, there are hundreds of potential "dream girls" for every guy because you two are not the unique snowflakes you think you are.

I'm not saying this isnt the case, but just cause we want to doesn't mean we should.

The reason we don't hang out is because we are nowhere near each other right now. I think I'll be fine once I start hanging out with other girls but right now I don't have any time or opportunities to go out really.

I'll try

>Any STDs? Illegal shit?
I get checked every 4 months, so none so far.
Also prostitution is illegal in Thailand on the books but they literally couldn't care less. They only make it illegal to appease western society but a major part of there economy is prostitution. As long as you wear a condom you will be fine.

>here is another pic, not as cute but I really liked her.

OP, don't listen to them (too much, anyways). Find a nice girl who likes you for who you are, but keep that priority low. Concentrate on your future and wait for someone to cross paths with you. Maybe it'll never happen. But it's better than being hurt and wasting your time fucking around with a lost cause.

It was mutual but long distance is stupid so nothing serious happened so we tried to stay as friends. I'm not ruining the friendship, everything's okay but I can't help but be uncomfortable. It will probably go away eventually as I get used to it though maybe

Date her. Absolute best way to ruin your opinion of a woman.

I believe in you, OP. Good luck.

OP, please just focus on bettering yourself and your finances. Women want a guy that is confident and has money, that's it.

Just go for escorts OP.

Yeah, women are odd in that once you make yourself worth dating, they'll actually pursue you and want to date you. So do what this guy says, OP.

lel as fucked up as that reads, its actually really true. OP just go get to know her. Works every time.

Yeah it's always a priority but this stuff is still pretty prominent

Wait a couple years until she gets fat. Or realize that under those clothes are stretch marks, imperfections, a dark vagina, and a lot more you maybe didn't notice at first.

OP are you even paying attention to this thread?

>Here is some more escorts I have been with to show you It's easier and cheaper.