Hey Sup Forums

Hey Sup Forums
You ever meet a girl who was perfect for you?

You ever realise she'll never love you so you shouldn't even bother trying?

Me too

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I'll just go be depressed by myself

You know, I have but I moved on

Well, Sup Forums, even if this dies, I'm gonna tell you

> be me, 18
> take a lot of drugs
> get drunk a lot
> kinda chubby
> awkward
> failed a year of school due to chronic pain illness
> meet a girl at a bar through a friend
> she does a lot of drugs
> she gets drunk a lot
> go clubbing
> do cocaine together
> do MDMA together
> get drunk together
> so much in common
> talk all night
> 7 hours later, friend drives us both home
> "I think I like that girl dude"
> "yeah, but she'll never go for a guy like you... You're fat, talk too much, and don't have a proper job"
> realise he's right
> drink 3 litres of vodka in the next 2 days
> life was shit before
> now I have nothing
> not even the hope that someone out there perfect for me might actually choose me

And for those of you who might think "hey, maybe she will go for you, you haven't even tried!"

No
She's pretty, fun, and likes getting fucked up
We love the same stuff
And we get along better than anyone I've ever met

But I'm just not right for her

Maybe I should just go to /fit/ and try to get good enough for her...
But would that be enough?
And even if it was...
Would doing it for her even be worth it?
If it's not for me, why would I keep going if it didn't work our?

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Nice telling you this Sup Forums
I'm just sorry no one listened

You guys are dumb as shit. Give it time. I felt like a loser my whole life and no one likes me and would never be with anyone. I was way wrong. Got a little confidence and learned how to fuck to talk to girls. I'm no ladies man but I get girls trying to get with me some what often.


And if you guy can use tinder and don't then that's dumb. I'm ugly but I used it for a week and had a fair pick of girls that wanted to fuck.

get in shape fag, it helps a lot with confidence.

And only a dumbass would fall for a party girl, because she's gonna be a huuuuge slut

go for it anyway, worst case scenario you trick her into sleeping with you once or twice.

That's the thing
She loves drugs, and she loves getting drunk, but she's not a slutty party girl

I've met my fair share of slutty party girls
The reason she's special is because she's fun, AND she's loyal

I feel you so fucking hard niggah im living that shit right now

Never ever ever underestimate a woman's ability to make shitty decisions

people who whine like this are either lazy, cowardly, or have fucked up brains that make them like chronically depressed or have social anxiety or something. Either way because of these reasons even if you give solid advice to them they won't do anything about it. A normal person would be like you, identifying a problem and finding a solution instead of wallowing around in self pity and committing suicide.

Yeah. We got along so well. She was hot, her parents liked me, we had similar plans for college, both kinda loners but we stuck together really well. Fucked me up when 7 months in she came out.

sure sure user

make friends with the guys that regularly bang her, then you can live vicariously through them when they tell you about it

life is more like youll meet someone cool, youll end up taking them for granted and then you wake up alone everyday after

I'm not sure whether you're halfway through your own problem like this with some slutty girl, but no

Either she's a super secretive drug addicted alcoholic slut who is somehow very discrete about fucking loads of guys in the house she lives with with 2 other girls and the gay guy who is my friend who introduced me to her
Or she's a virgin...

Good job user

Hey man, that sucks but try to distract yourself. Focus on accumulating money which means focus on your job. Improve your life and forget about love for a bit or women. That's what I did but things got better for me over time.

------> /adv/

the cocaine snorting, ecstasy popping, social drinking chick is a virgin?

Do you even fucking listen to youself when you say shit like that?

Well
This is teetering on the edge of being deleted again
Hopefully it isn't, but y'know

It's been nice talking to you guys Sup Forums

good advice fag, you should go there and stay there

have an unexplainable love
she let me down
started working out
that'll show her, she'll want me back
other women are becoming interested
dont want her back

Hey man, i'll talk

hey look it's another well adjusted guy giving well adjusted guy advice.

You do realize your talking to a bunch of people who are probably mentally ill and won't listen to sensible advice right

I'm finding that to be true

Yea...
Thing is we were together, admitted feelings, then we had to split ways (distance wise). She took her own life.

why has no one else pointed out that if she isn't into you then she is not, by definition, perfect for you.

Unless I guess you're into one sided relationships, then you're all set bro!

otherwise, spoiler alert, there are plenty of other people with her same exact personality. just like there is an entire internet full of people that completely empathises with you.

Did you even listen to what I said? She lives with 2 girls, who I've been friends with for 8 years, and 1 gay guy, who I've been friends with since primary school
She's never spent a night away from where she lives, because she's paranoid about date rape

They're all lying to me
Thanks for opening my eyes dude

Follow that advice, work out and better yourself

well then faggot why don't you just take ecstasy with her and fuck her in her room.

I would judge you user, but I have like barely any standards too lel

After all if you can't get quality go for quantity

see this

I've met her 8 or 9 times, and all those times, we've just gotten fucked up on drugs and booze, and either gotten a lift home from a friend, or sobered up at about 4, just as the club we're in closes, and made our own way home

take drugs have sex. Done

Fucking a huge quantity of girls is the best thing to do if you can't get a girl you actually want to be with?

What about when you get older, and can't indulge your massive lust for huge quantities of girls anymore?

The girl I love is engaged and wants nothing to do with me. The energy us still there and theres tendion between us still. Im cant get her out of my head lately..

you got double dubs bro

you'd best made a lot of money as you aged so you an afford it. Otherwise you gotta fuck chicks your own age or older. Swinger clubs, sex parties, tinder and craigslist. Quality will drop sure, but what are the odds you yourself will be high quality when your older?

(OP)
Whenever I get those thoughts, I just masturbate and feel better.

And if the feeling persists, I go to clubs and bang random drunk chicks.

I post myself with 1234234234 women on Twitter. Whatever girl used to be with me sees it and gets jealous and comes back hopefully.

I have 2 girls I'm crushing over.

A girl named Cady, who was a perfect white girl with blue eyes. We were engaged until I was framed by 2 cops and lost my job. I'm still in court over it 2 years later. But yeah, Cady doesn't even like sex that much. Like, she was horny a lot, but her dad raped her when she was younger, so sometimes she'll freak out mid-sex. And she doesn't like it when I fuck her for a long time.

A girl named Katherine. She's not really all that attractive, but she's the first girl my age who is not overweight that showed interest in me. She's a heroin addict though, and she's had an abortion, and she has HPV. So really I don't see how there could ever be a future with us. Plus, she treats me like shit and places importance on literally every other person except me.

I spend my days fucking my current gf who is nearly twice my age. Living in her big house with swimming pool, looking at porn while she's at work...

Fucking random bitches on the side.

Pic related. One of the bitches I fuck on the side.

Told my best friend of 3 years that I liked her. Thought we really had something incredible. Then she goes and hooks up with 7 guys in a club the night she rejects me. Cool.

Posted wrong girl though. :/

Dude
I've only had sex a few times
All of them preplanned
I lost my virginity in a threesome for fucks sake

I have no idea how to spontaneously have sex
How do things not get awkward on the way to where you're gonna fuck?
How do you even convince someone you've never met before to fuck you?
Jesus
I'm a mess

Met the perfect girl, married her. Worked out well.

Every chick that I've ever been interested in has not worked out.

None of my relationships have worked out.

Eventually, I came to the conclusion that none of them ever gave a single fuck about me. They didn't want to bother to KNOW me. They liked the attention that I gave them. They liked the nice things I did for them

I even had one GF break up with me after drawing it out for a couple weeks. When I asked her why she waited so long, she said "But I liked all the nice things you did for me", fucking selfish bitch.

But none of them wanted to bother to KNOW me. I was just a placeholder to them.

Now, every time I feel that twinge of attraction, I immediately think "Well, I know where this is going to go." and that's the end of it.

I haven't felt anything, at all, for a woman in years.

try going blunt?

Be like "lets make out"

If she says yes then it's time to touch her hips to breasts to puss

if she says no than be like "shit, oh well"

then continue tripping balls and be happy you have closure that the girl you like doesn't like you and find another one

JESUS
ELABORATION FUCKING NEEDED YOU SUCCINCT CUNT

shuts himself away like it will affect anyone anywhere.

Use them like they used you, try getting two girls at the same time. Try getting a bitch you can text "get over here" and know she'll listen

Eventually odds are you'll find a quality girl. You just need to be more shrewd and not act like a retarded puppy looking to please

Was working away from home near london, she was on holiday in the uk, we chatted, exchanged details, kept in touch. Visited her country and got engaged after 6months or so of us going back and fourth between countries. Moved her here 6 months after that. Its been 8 years now.

If you like a girl, make a move. Dont be like OP. Always "bother trying", you never know

I already have her. She lets me do whatever i want, i let her do whatever she wants. Lots of fun, good sex, no drama, no money problems.

Hate to say it dude, but whilst I agree with you that a lot of girls will like you just for what you do for them, and not who you are

But if you give up, you always lose

Keep trying, you'll eventually win

All relationships either end in death, or a break up
Pick which one you prefer, and live with it

damnit. you made me text her again!

lel post it

shes engaged, what do?

Dude
I am OP

The reason I'm not trying with her is BECAUSE I'm not good enough
I've asked everyone
It's been weeks

At least a dozen people who know her have told me she wouldn't want to date me

I'm gonna start lifting
I'm gonna start studying
Not for her
For me

And if that makes me better, good
I hope she wants me eventually
But I'm not sure she'll be perfect anymore if her love is conditional

Stop wasting your fucking lives and find someone else, faggots.

All the time spent on something that isn't going to happen is wasted. I can do other things with that time. When I look at all that I wasted, time, money, my emotional and physical well being, the direction of my life, on women who would never love me or think of me as anything but a distraction or someone to be gaslit into being somebody else...

I could have done a lot of better things with those resources.

I would rather spend the short time I have left on things that actually yield returns.

move on durr

>clyde here
I had a girl who I met a while back, we went out for four months. Absolutely perfect in every way, just amazing. Liked the same things, hung out a lot, lots of sexi tiem. Eventually we started arguing, and fighting, amd finally one day she tells me she isn't happy anymore. "Lost interest" she said. This was about a week ago. Now, my life feelsbso empty without her, but everyone thinks I'm not hurting because I ended it. Feelsbadman.png

But if you actually do find someone perfect... What then?

Wouldn't that be worth it all? Because eventually, you'll be old, alone, miserable, unable to do things

And then what'll you have left? A partner makes life good, and someone who can make you happy even when there's nothing else

Keep trying, and you'll get it
But you have to keep doing it
You just keep doing it, and it gets a little easier
The hard part is keeping on doing it
Every day
Until it happens

And honestly
From what I've heard
It's all worth it
It really, really is

are you happy right now with just spending time on things that yield returns?

sounds naive.

All things in moderation nigga, you seem to be suggesting he throws everything he has into finding a bitch to complete him.

he should probably just try to find a balance between his cynicism and your idealism

You asked everyone? Do you think i gave a flying fuck what anyone else thought? Only one persons opinion matters.. hers.

But yes, get yourself together, your self esteem is low and girls dont find that attractive. Hit the gym and aim lower for a bit, boost your confidence up, get yourself a slam piggy or two

dudes last sentence sounds like he has a sound grasp of the situation.

Odds are he'll find someone else if he sticks with his plan.

I think I'm worse off... I don't know. I've never found a girl that was perfect for me. I've seen girls who were suuuuuper cute to the point of mild obsession but their personalities were always the opposite of mine. I'm just not extroverted. I can go out with friends, drink, and do other stuff but at the end of the night I wish I would've just chilled at home.

This, only nwcaise lifting builds T. Beta to Alpha in 6 months, if no 'tism. Go to /fit/

> "perfect girl" for you
> realize she'll never love you

user, how could that be the perfect girl for you? You'll be taken aback when you meet a girl that actually likes you, automatically. That's what mutual attraction is...

The odds are in your favor considering how many fucking people there are.

guys
the trick is not to get so emotionally attached to a girl. or anyone, really.
don't wear your heart on your sleeve. keep that shit locked away.

You had to take me here tonight didnt you...

I met a girl who was perfect for me, I fucked her then left her and fucked her friend. Don't get hooked on girls OP, not until you're in your upper 20's

moderation nerd. Dial it back a bit

why did you leave her you stupid idiot? You could have strung her along incase you needed a back up. You are the dumb

I blew it today, Sup Forums
> Met a girl online
> We get super intimate several times
> I casually mention I wouldn't mind if things got serious. meaningful, or carried over to real life
> We end up talking about it
> I ended up just giving her my facebook so she can see everything there is to me
> She suddenly just vanishes
That was nine hours ago. She hasn't been back online since. Maybe I'm reading too much into it. But it sure feels like I just got blown off after putting myself out there.
I'm not a kissless virgin or anything. I'd say I was average in the looks department. But been single now for three years.
I'm not giving up or swearing off women. It just sucks taking a blow to the ego after having a small bit of hope.

Here's the deal, OP. No girl is perfect, that perfection you speak of is an illusion created by emotion. Don't listen to it. Just wait and see, you'll find her flaws and then understand.

Aye OP has incredibly low self esteem. If you go around asking people if you are good enough for a certain girl then you arnt ready for her. Shes probably not that great anyways. Op needs to realise that.

Aim lower, build yourself up and you will find your legitimate love of your life, or at least have a shitload more fun than moping about after a girl

Yeah, I should have because she's a qt, but I still fuck her friend, who's not as cute, but she's kinkier and more reliable when I need a fuck. So oh well

You're a nerd.

implying im smart enough to be a nerd

jokes on you fag I'm a drop out with low IQ

wow, you sure got me user.

>im a dumbass too, tbh

here we go Sup Forums this is my story

>be me
>depressed aspie with abusive and neglectful dad
>grow up pretty rough, with very few friends
>ridiculed constantly by peers
>laughing stock of the school
>you know, that one guy in every school
>scrawny awkward fuck that nobody likes
>never went to prom, never been on a date, you know
>that guy
>hate myself because everyone constantly pointed out my flaws
>still had some friends and good times though
>be 17, senior in highschool
>moved away from my hometown a few years ago
>living in a town full of chads and spray-tan orange airhead girls
>the school system was inadequate, shittiest town I have ever seen
>can't make friends because aspie
>can't do sports or whatever because asthma and scrawny weakling
>don't like sports anyways
>can't smoke pot with the stoners because I would never get away with it
>lose cell phone, install an app called TextPlus on my iPod Touch so I could text people
>turns out TextPlus has a community of groups
>lots of furfag RP groups
>become furfag and RP with other furfags to pass the time
>it was actual literate RP with interesting characters
>none of that *yiff yiff* shit here, these furfags are serious
>a girl asks if some people are interested in joining her RP group
>I say alright, she adds me
>have fun as usual, have nice ooc conversations with people
>it's her birthday, she's turning 20, she posts a celebratory selfie
>nosebleed.jpeg
>she's a total qt3.14
>talk to her some more, we have a lot in common
>I fall for her
>I write her a story about her character as a birthday gift
>she loves it
>I ask her out but she says she's getting back with her ex
>get_cucked.png

>the ex plays her character's dad in the RP but changes to another character
>wow
>we still keep in contact
>turns out the guy is a total chad irl
>he cheats on her and dumps her
>I comfort her like I felt I should
>she goes and dates another chad over the internet
>that blows up a month later and I comfort her
>that cycle continues for awhile
>I move back to my hometown and start hanging out with old friends
>a few months later we start talking more via skype
>she and I start dating right around my 18th birthday
>we're all lovey and shit, I'm with my friends again, college coming up, everything is good
>a month later she starts getting distant and cold
>suddenly leaves me a message saying she "needs a break", while I'm asleep right before my first day of college
>first day of college is depressing because of it.
>a month passes
>find out my good friend got the rebound, I'm pissed
>she finally messages me like "hey...."
>too late, found new internet gf that treats me better.
>she seems to be trying to get with me again though
>brush her off, even though I still want her, because I have a gf
>a year goes by
>that same cycle continues
>at this point my other gf is gone, we lasted 10 months, new record
>so I'm single
>me and the qt3.14 are talking on skype as good friends again
>out of curiousity, I ask her why she broke up with me
>"I'll tell you user, but you can't get mad, you gotta promise you won't."
>what kind of I, Robot bullshit is this
>promising before you know what's up? bullshit
>"okay fine" I said anyways
>"user... You're too nice. You're not... manly enough. I like bad boys."
>hang up
>rage cry for hours
>this is why I'm insecure, she just hit me where it hurt the most
>I cry to my friend, we'll call her M
>M doesn't want to hear it, she told me to stay away from the qt3.14 because she's bad for me
>M told me she doesn't want to hear about my shit until I get some help
>stop talking to M and qt3.14 for months

>go to therapy
>start feeling better
>start talking to both of them again
>start dating M, we live together now, been over a year
>finally got laid
>still feel insecure and inadequate
>every time I look at myself in the mirror, the words of the qt3.14 echo in my ears
>still hate myself
>I'm 20 now
>NEET because there's no jobs where I live with M, trying to move back to hometown again
>can't find friends because aspie, everyone there is a fuckin dumbass hick
>constantly feel inadequate, feel like it would have gone better if I'd just been good enough for the qt3.14
>but I'll never be.
>I love M anyways
>just wish I could love myself

you can't user, by the sounds of it you are mentally retarded. But hey at least you got laid

dude, she's just not into you man.
fuck her. forget about her.
why should you care so much about someone who doesn't give a damn about you?

because he's prob mentally retarded no jokes

yeah like 99% of the spergs on this site
>me included tbh familia

I married my perfect girl. Married seven years ago and we have kids now. I imagine if your perfect girl doesn't end up with you, then she wasn't really perfect...not for you, anyways.

>married perfect girl
>cheats on him in the 8th year

come back when it happens and tell us about perfect girls user

Been there OP.. it was great at first, like a damn dream. But she changed...and expected me to become what she thought I should be. Not sure if she actually loved me, but I had to end that shit. Now, I'm just trying to learn to love myself before trying to connect with anyone else.

If I do find someone perfect, great.

But I've already banked enough on that stock to watch it tank over and over. If it jumps on it's own, I'll take a look at the portfolio again. But until then, I have other stuff to do.

I'm certainly often depressed. I'm lonely. I have all kinds of issues.

I got 99 problems and a bitch ain't one.

I'm a hundred times happier than I ever was dealing with a woman who would never bother to put a fraction of the effort into me that I put into them.

More of her op?

If she doesn't like being treated well...that means she has deep internal issues that may never come to light. Either her dad was never there for her, abused her (emotionally or physically), or she created that mindset on her own. Shes not worth it user...be careful when these bitches try to get close to you. Most of the time it's because of selfish reasons..

I dunno why she would, friend. Life isn't always a series of horrible events. Remember that Sup Forums is a board filled with teenage angst - don't let it get it to you.

>often depressed
>lonely

glad im not as delusional as you bro

Im gonna go casually date a girl or two without spending all my money and time on them like anyone with a brain could figure out

I agree with user. Drugs solve everything

Great. I'll just go to the date store and pull up a cart full of chicks who enjoy the same things in life as I do and appreciate the life experiences that I've had.

Sim sa la fucking bim. There we go. That easy.

the only thing drugs can't solve is the fact I don't have enough drugs

I just met this crazy girl who likes the same shit i'm into. She's into Tattoos, piercings, enjoys the same music I enjoy, plays the same Video Games I play, watches the same TV shows I watch, Hates sport, is a Wiccan ect.

And she's dating this dude whos like a wannabe white gangster, who talks in broken English like he's never been to school, hates her type of music, he hates her tattoos, and piercings, (he got upset today because she got her tits pierced) He hates video games, hates her shows, and he loves sports, spent all day the other day on their 8TH YEAR ANNIVERSARY watching some football game.

I've done nothing but support her and watch this idiot drown her in debt, and never give her any support whatsoever, and for whatever reason she loves him. Even though I spend 90% of her life with her.

Women are retarded bro, moral of the story.

dating sites, hobby groups, classes, friends of friends, adult amateur sports.

You think your the first guy who has problems meeting people? There's millions of you and numerous methods conceived to put you in contact with each other.

Why get all hung up on finding the perfect people user? You think everyone in a relationship is compatible in every way?

>Be me
>17
>In a relationship with best looking girl in high school for 2 years.
>Get bored and decide to break up with her because I've never been with anyone else and want to know if this is what I really want
>Date a couple other girls nothing successful
>Start drinking smoking weed every day to try and numb my pain
>Want something stronger
>Find cocaine
>Can't stop doing it
>Some other kid in class sees me doing it and narcs on me.
>Get arrested and expelled from school
>Get sent 1000 miles away to "Therapeutic Boarding School" after rehab
>Realize leaving her was the biggest mistake of my life
>Also realize that I never would have known that if I hadn't left
>Get addicted to lots of other drugs mainly heroin
>10 years later still alone