Tonight, Sup Forums i cried.
i truly cried for the first time in 4 years. I don't remember how to deal with this shit. My gf of 4 years, from senior year of highschool to my 3rd year of uni, just cheated on me with one of my old classmates. i dont know what to do about this. im not sure who i should be pissed at. He knew i was with her, and he knows i can kick his ass. But i cant believe she would do this.
what do, Sup Forums?
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>He knows I can kick his ass!
So do it. They're both at fault here
Beat his ass, dump the chick, and move on with life
never really been big on violence, but i mean if i get drunk enough anything can happen rite
first off stop being a pussy, yea it sucks but stop being a pussy. second, why the fuck would you beat the dudes ass. its not his fault ur girlfriend is a whore
/adv/ is probably a better place for threads like that unless you enjoy being called a faggot and a cuck.
If i were you I'd just cut them out of your life (as much as possible) and ignore both of them. And focus on everything else. Education, fitness, friends, hobbies. Get rid of texts and pictures and whatnot. Move on.
Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and walk away. Find a hobby, do something different, just don't dwell on things. They'll pull you down too much, trust me, I've been there.
dump gf, kick classmate's ass, live on.
Drop her. Keep cool and make her take all of her shit and just leave.
Kick his ass. This will hurt him physically
Post your story on her fb. This will hurt her mentally.
How do you know that she cheated on you?
fuck you faggot
the gf told me
Whu did she do that? Did she know that you were suspecting her?
i have no fucking idea. she was going on about how "it was a mistake" and that "shell never do it again" but idk man. it stings a lot
If she could do it once she can do it again. Walk away!
This. If anything the dude did you a favor by revealing your girlfriend to be an untrustworthy shitbag. Thank god you didn't marry her.
Don't get angry, don't get sad. At least don't let either of them see it. This is very important user. Cut all ties with both of them. With your (ex) girlfriend because she's a lying cheating whore and she doesn't deserve to "explain" or to have you put her up on a pedastal and forgive her for whatever reason and continue to validate her shitty behaviour, and your friend because, well, think about what your male friends are for. You don't fuck them... they're there to help you. To succeed, to get laid. If your friend is not helping you then he is a worthless friend. If he's actively working against you then he's not a friend at all. Don't get all angry for a bit and then make up with the whole bros before hoes bullshit. If you do that, you'll be his doormat. He'll know he can do anything and you'll still be his friend helping him succeed. He'll know that he can literally fuck your girlfriend and then you'll still be there playing wingman for him at the bar.
Cut all contact. Don't say anything, don't agree to meet, don't agree to "just talk". But don't act bitter. Act aloof. Act like it's an unfortunate situation but it's more unfortunate for them than it is for you. Act like you don't really give a fuck.
Delete them from social media, or block them, your choice. Delete their numbers or block them if you have to but here's what I like to do. if they text, turn on your read receipts and don't reply. It really fucking puts someone in their place and really drives home how insignificant they are to you if they see you've read their message and didn't even bother to say "k". Especially ex girlfriends.
Your buddy will feel like a dick and you'll be rid of a shitty friend. Your ex will want you back so fucking bad her pussy will be aching for it and you'll feel like a fucking god among men.
Cut all contact and don't look back.
Move on, you had a shitty girlfriend if she cheated on you. Now you know it's not meant to be, now get out there and look for someone new.
man she was my gf for 4 years. its not like i can just go "lol ight have a good life"
gonna pack my bags today and leave. il see how this all plays out
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user you are young go out get new pussy after 3 or 4 sluts you will be solid and forget the cunt .
Tell her to fuck off and just move on with your life dude.
Fuck someone else
im not gonna forgive her. not a chance in hell. im just gonna leave without saying a word. as for the guy, i have no idea what to do. If i dont do anything i feel like he'll be an ass about it.
idk man. should i throw a brick through his window or some stupid shit?
You are young. Move on and find a new girl and friend... You don't need toxic people like that in your life
It's hurts, I know.
It's Sucks, I really know.
But don't settle for less, and please for the future of huMANity don't be a cuck. don't do it.
Move on, like many others say if your first bus left you, another Bus will come shortly after.
Probably 1 month to an year. But don't be a Cuck.
Focus on you, love yourself, fuckin go make money.
what if being a cuck is my new thing
You have to kill them both and stream it. Its the only thing that will make you feel free again.
Move on, and never talk to either of them again.
I don't think you should do anything violent either, just make him feel like shit.
Be a man. Beat the guy up bad. Talking panda eyes and broken teeth. Make it obvious to anyone who sees him walking down the street that he got the shit kicked out of him.
As for the cheating cunt, block her from your life. Completely blank her, it will drive her insane. Don't even acknowledge her when you see her in the street. Say nothing.
Oh, and when the other guy is recovered enough, beat his ass again. Situations like this call for MEN of cruelty to stand up.
1. Beat up this fucker 2. stay with your girl -> cheat on her
Youre welcome
She's a whore, he's an asshole.
Kick her out, kick his ass, then kick back knowing that this was on them. It'll suck for a while, but then it gets better.
You'll be fine, OP, but it sure does suck.
now this is something i can get behind
now this is something i can get behind
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Go get you a new one
Man... Why?
Fuck it, It's your life....
For me, I don't share. Fuck no.
Hurt her as much as possible and break his fucking face , don't let them get away with it and shit all over you , don't be a doormat
No. Why let another man's actions influence your own? That is literally the definition of "little bitch". Sure, you broke his window. But he fucked your girlfriend which subsequently caused you to forget all reason, fly into an emotional rampage, and break his window. Break his window and he's made you his bitch. Don't give him the satisfaction.
>When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they cannot tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own – not of the same blood or birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are obstructions. -Marcus Aurelius
Your friend is a dick and he's actively worked against you. He's a shitty cunt, you aren't. Don't stoop to his level. Don't get angry at him, don't get all emotional and petty. Just realize that he's not working with you as a friend should and therefore he is no friend and you really shouldn't waste your time with him.
well, thanks guys. honestly, i feel better about this sorta. gonna knock on my good friends door tomorrow and say hey, and im packing ym things as im typing this.
i love you Sup Forums, never change.
beat the guy to a pulp, get 2 years for assault. best advice yet.
Fuck the guy up , Say its OK and then cheat on her
Karma is a bitch
this, just without the cringey greentext.
fuck those people and move on, they're not worth your time or sadness
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How to deal with the law?
that greentext aint cringey user aurelius was a bomb ass emperor
crack a book
Youve been with her dor seven years and shes not pregnant yet? She should dump you OP
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4 years dipshit
Blame her, pussy was on a plate, I wouldn't say no
She's probably carrying his baby now, after he cream pied that sweet pussy.
Just move on, fuck a bunch of girls for a while.
still, only way to keep a woman long term is to knock her up. Good luck with your future girlfriends OP
yup
Thats fucking easy. First you beat up the guy but not too bad, you know, break his nose a little. Then you tell everybody on socialmedia what a whore your girlfriend is. Then you tell her family but not angrily, more like "i really thought she was the one" and "i even bought her a ring". Lie a little. Make sure her parents cant look her in the eye without feeling disgust and shame. Then after a few weeks you go get your stuff from her place but secretly you hid a camera somewhere and then you seduce her. Use "one last time" kinda shit. Then u fuck her like she fucked u. Do it rough. But also make sure she is enjoying it. This makes sure she will miss you. After this u tell a bunch of girls the tragic story of how ur girlfriend cheated on you, and get pity sex. The end.
Where do you live cos this is like 1st grade shit in finland.
Get some friends and bust ass, you fucking retard.
Kick his ass into next week and dump the bitch
She clearly doesn't care about you, but beating the shit out of her will get you hated by everyone you know because we live in a sexist society against men, so fuck it.
Ditch the bitch, dunk the punk
kek
pretty much this one but i dont think the ring lie part is good idea,
say things like, my heart is broken, i really thought she was the one
etc
I really dont agree with the seduce part tho
Make a post on facebook that you broke up, that she cheated on you and you're doing okay, thanks for asking, etc.
Not only will the pity pussy roll in, you can embarrass her with a public facebook post, all her friends will hate her, call her a slut, etc. Which she is.
Then kick his arse.
What this guy said.. Indifference is the most powerful revenge. Literally never another word. It will bother her and him for years. They will have no closure. Soon it will be a lifelong regret for them
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you cried because someone cheated on you?
i've only had longtime relationships and i've cheated on any of them.
fuck as many people as you want.
do what you want.
so why did she cheat on you?
dont be a cuck. break up with her, and teach your "friend" a lesson.
What do you mean why?
This is a western woman we're talking about
They cheat if you breathe while you're in a relationship with them
Beat his ass. Don't go hogwild, just enough to assert your dominance and let him know how much of a mistake he made by putting his dick in the wrong hole.
Then leave her ass. Once a cheater, always a cheater, there's no way she can prove she won't do it again so your only option is to leave. Source: personal experience.
You don't have to become a total emotional robot, but these two people betrayed you in the worst way possible. Never trust them again. Leaving the gf is going to be the hard part; just block her on your phone and social networks, don't look at her facebook page. You're going to want to know how she's doing because a part of you still cares, but don't look her up for the sake of your own sanity.
deal with it
now you should bang his mummy
not bad user, not bad.
you still come out as an edgy neckbeard
You should fap furiously, cuckold is the new rock & roll
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No easy way to deal with this friend. Accept that she is a cheating whore and not who you thought she was. It hurts to think but it's just the truth. I had to go through something (not similar, but painful all the same) and just accept that's how it was no matter what I previously thought. Fight on Sup Forums friend, a kek for you pain.
> fuck ur girlfriend on the popper till blood and intestine pop out the anus.
> Then call ur old classmate
> Bring her a bit away from the civilization
> Break his arms and maybe, if u 2 mad, his fingers too.
> Then go home and jack of while u watch some heavy-r porn.
You should sleep with him so your gf knows how it feels. It's the only solution here, OP.
seems legit.
Do eet!
You should be mad at her, every man would fuck any woman he finds attractive given the chance, it's in our nature to want to fuck attractive woman. Give her a chance to prove herself, if she cheats on you again, fucking dump her whore ass on the street, and make sure everyone knows she's a whore and not up for a serious relationship. To avoid such issues in the future, try to find a girl that, doesn't have a history of multiple boyfriends, looks good (in your opinion, don't choose your girlfriend based on others' opinions), isn't more outgoing than you and doesn't dress like a slut. I'm still together with my girlfriend from senior year of highschool too (21 now), and I know she has never cheated on me because she stays home all day unless we go somewhere together. She is my first, and I'm her first. Her cousin also works where I work, and he has told me a lot about her, and how he thought she'd never find anyone because she doesn't try and further things that make it obvious to me that she wouldn't be able to cheat on me.
You fucking cuck. You'll be posting pics of her any day now asking Sup Forums what we'd do to her. It's all part of the zeitgeist now.
You got cucked.
You got a taste.
Now you'll never be able to go back.
You fucking disgust me.
>find out where he lives
>rig up a system of pulleys to hoist a grand piano above his front door, make sure it's connected with a quick release catch
>place a delicious piece of candy on the ground infront of the door
>knock on the door and run away
>when he steps out he will not be able to resist the delicious piece of candy on the ground before him and will bend over to pick it up
>release the piano and squish him
>problem solved
Can you fuck off
Kick both. But kick her harder because she is the one who had a relationship with you
Fuck off you faggot cuck
Beat his ass, dump the bitch, fap to this
This
I like this approach
Give the girl a big old pimpslap, beat the shit out of your old mate. walk out of there with your head high and no regrets.
This shit will make you a stronger person bro.
as cliche has it sounds, if you move on, break up with her and (as least in front of her) act like you don't give a shit, it'll fucking wreck her.
females want attention, don't let her have it. immediately DL tinder or w/e, even if it's not working out, it'll be worth it.
Haven't heard any wiser words spoken on Sup Forums
Why the fuck would you assault him? Nigger, he didn't fucking cheat on you, she did. Don't assault anyone, though, you dumb cunt. I fucking hate autistic man children like you that cannot deal with the fact that you aren't universally liked by everyone. Fucking kill yourself.
Too sexist for me.
two ways of dealing with this.
if you are strong enough and think the relationship is something "special", thats worth working for it, then talk about it. find out why and how things came together. is this something serious or just a one time mistake.
if you cant handle, just drop the girl and move on
if she promises it will never happen again, it will. give it a few months or years. once she has a taste of someone else she will always be prone to secret affairs, it's too fun. u r her daddy and she wants to rebel against daddy by being "bad" and breaking your rules. so go find a girl who doesnt see u as her daddy if you don't want rebellion behavior
If this is really you OP then no wonder she left your ass. If you don't have the balls to do something while server and can only think about doing it while drunk, then you're a fuccboi 2.0