Crazy situation. Plz help, user.
Here's where I'm at:
>met a 47-year-old woman from China randomly through college (she's doing an english language program)
>started fucking
>realized she is crazy
>says shes miserable when shes alone but so happy when shes with me
>emotions super up and down
>im basically her only friend
>started to get red flags
>told me if i leave her "she doesn't know what she will do" (suicide??)
>fucked some more (oops)
>realized she has had some major trauma (family ashamed of her, also got raped)
>damn i want to help her
>huge cultural gap in everything we do
>is Chinese culture really that different? she makes it seem that way
>unsure how to help
>realized it's not my responsibility to help
>but she's so vulnerable and miserable and alone i can't just do nothing
>told me she doesn't want to see a counselor
>i stop wanting to see her
>she's so clingy
>cling cling cling
>ahhhhhh
>CLING CLING CLING
>very irritated
>start having thoughts about killing her
>there's this counseling center for asian people to deal with problems (they understand chinese and american cultural nuances)
>haven't told her about it yet
>saw her today, told her i don't want any more sexual interactions
>she still tried to make moves multiple times
>we drank some beer, she talked more about her problems
>when i left she said we're gonna kiss and fuck again sometime
>can't respect the boundary i set
>FUCK terrible mixed feelings
>want to kill her or tell her to kill herself
>also want to help her
>either way, i want this shit to end. i do not want to have anything to do with her anymore
WAT DO, /b???
potential options:
1. kill her
2. bring her to 4th of july party, then kill her
3. dont kill her
4. cut off communication completely
5. suggest the asian counseling center to her then cut off communication
6. see if she will go to asian counseling center with me
7. tell her to kill herself
8. other???
trips decides
