So do any of you genuinely have zero friends? I'm not talking about a low number I mean literally no one you can talk to or hang with. Even the biggest fucking loser I know has a couple of guys he can chill with. Surely no one has gone through life without picking up some friends along the way?
Tits not related
I have zero friends
I am one of those people. I dont care to talk to anyone or be friendly with anyone for the most part. Im friendly with those who i talk to but i dont consider anyone to be my friend.
I have like 4 guys I can kinda hang with they were my cousins friends and I've known them for so long I guess they see me as afraid I mean I'm not sure
So can you guys just ring someone up and be like, hey let's go do something I'm bored as fuck. Or is it more messaging?
Also dude I don't believe you have absolutely zero friends
I always thought having no friends would be lonely, but I have friends and I'm still lonely. To have no friends you've got to be some kind of bad asshole no one wants to hang out with or like, tapped in the heat .. go to some fuckin nerd convention or something or preoccupy yourself and try find some chatrooms and make online friends.
i actually haven't had a phone for the last year because i am a poorfag
I couldn't imagine having no one to fucking talk to, its not natural.
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Try and find some people that are the same personality type as you, birds of a feather flock together and all that... Might be harder because they may not be looking for anyone to be there friend
I have had friends but I have none anymore
I'm depressive and I push people away
I'm really trying I am
So guys help me out here, I had this friend who was always chill and a decent outgoing guy before we hit university. All of a sudden he gained a HUGE amount of weight and gave up on hygiene and socialising. He never leaves his house and drink alone all the time. As far as I know there hasn't been any traumatic loss in his family or anything bad that's happened to him personally... What can I do to pull him out this spiral or should I just watch him piss his life away locked in his little hole?
Yep. Ten friends on facebook. All family except one out of state old acquaintance. I know absolutely no one in the town I'm in now. If my car breaks down or I slip and fall in the shower I'm fucked.
I know how you feel... it is a big social problem!
The biggest problem is the digital world that we life in. All Male/female only looking at his phones.
But when you life in Austria.. we can chill out :)
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And there many people around you that have the same problems. only make you eyes open and you will find someone.. but you must take a step and say "Hey :) do you have some time to spend with me? or only chill out?"
1/10 says yes.. and it helps when your not be too selectiv.. Idiots are fun too :)
is this a new meme
besides family and gf i dont talk to anyone else
well except for you guys kek but that doesnt probablly counf
Try to convince him to see a doctor and/or therapist. The majority of people who are actually clinically depressed (complete with chemical imbalances) start showing symptoms in their early twenties. If this is true for your friend talking isn't enough. Don't wait until you're talking to his family at his funeral, having the cliche conversation about not thinking he would pull the trigger.
I guess you can say I have friends, but as far as calling them to hangout and do something? No. More like coworker buddies. About double my age.
Hi,
I have literally zero friends. Noone to talk to, noone to hang out with.
What I have though - is one brother and two sisters.
So when it becomes a necessity, I can talk to them.
And pump weights?!
I have friends but depression makes me not want to see them a lot. oxycodone is the only rhing that makes me want to and i rarely do that.
Not realising there's something called leaving your mom's house and socialising
you know the reason of your depression?
last year I didn't have any friends irl but I had one girl I would talk to on the internet.
moved to new city at the beginning of the year and have made 1 friend irl!!!! whoooop!!!!
I have no friends.
Like ZERO friends.
I have Asperger, so i rarely leave home.
I ditch people that I consider assholes, instead of putting up with 'em for years like before I've gone zero tolerance of douchebaggery. I've ditched two entire circles so far, right now I have one friend remaining and I'm considering ditching him too
What's the point? People are stupid assholes, whenever someone leaves after spending time with 'em all I do is roll my eyes at all the stupid shit they've said and done, people suck.
46 yr old father of 4 here. Never had a friend.
Not socially awkward, can talk to people one-on-one or to a room without saying umm or ahh.
Just never had a friend. Know/known many people, but if i have to move house, i do it alone. Any trouble, i deal with it alone.
Some of the people i know are the same but they think they have friends. They put up with a lot of lame shit from each other so as not to have to be alone.
I'm a solo, not a loner and not troubled by it. Solitary work and isolation can make a man vicious, egotistical and weird. I have the discipline to avoid that.
Stopped worrying too much about it when i was 24.
I know hundreds of people through work, not one person to confide in, not even my wife.
People try to collect me as an interesting person sometimes. I cut those types off when i was about 30.
No mental problems, not unhappy. I'm suited to this sort of life. It's not for everyone, you need some steel in your belly.
you can do it.. dont give your sickness the fault.
Someone loves you... and you will get new friends.. no one lifes alone forever :) !
And you will get a nice gf.. you will see
I don't have friends you can actually call, but I'm not lonely since I live in a big fucking hippy commune
Remember they think the same of you, but company is a need for social animals.
Don't get vicious and weird.
Your a cool person :) but why is a 46 yr old person on Sup Forums? how do you get here?
I have a girlfriend and a best friend that I've known most my life but I still think about killing myself constantly.
looking for info on how to make gifs at church of the subgenius in 2003, link led to /gif/
Fox News special that year made Sup Forums a middle school fad.
There's people here up to 70 yrs old and more.
I know that's why I still keep the one dude around whenever his precious time allows it, I won't get vicious and weird user, I just refuse to be treated like shit anymore.
I have a few friends,
I don't really care if I did or not though. I'm not dependent on a another person like some women.
oh wow.. i didnt know that..
im like a newfag. (like 5 month)
But i never say a 65-70 yr old here. Do you know how many people are every day visiting Sup Forums or /b?
I have zero friends. I don't talk to anyone.
I have no interest in forming any kind of relationship with anyone.
You know those days where you feel like everyone is being shitty but you're not? That's when you're just being decent, not a saint.
You know when you think, hey, everyone is a bit shitty, so i might as well be a little bit shitty? That's when you're being a massive piece of shit.
Blanket refusal to be treated poorly leads to lonely life in a car or a shed. That's for simpletons. You can be good, not nice, good to everyone you meet and still not be needy.
What you call being treated like shit today will look like nothing in a few years. Won't it?
Yeah. After high school, college, and law school we all went our separate ways. Everyone got married, had kids, moved across the country etc.
For me: i moved cross country for a great job, don't have social media, don't have kids, work from home so i never interact with people. I have a long term (9 year) gf and one friend from college i text occasionally during football season, but he lives 700 miles away
Welcome to adulthood!
Saw a thread once asking people their age. Massive range of ages.
This is one of the fastest boards there is, thousands of people on all day from all over the world.
Zero friends. Zero fucks given.
>be me, be 23, decent job
>literally no friends i can hang out with, except those i know online
>playing dota with them all day
>still got a gf thanks to tinder
>shes a 5/10, thanks god shes not fat
>shes still cute and does a shitload for me
sums up my life as a lazy fuck i guess.
I'm not sure what you mean user, what do you mean it will look like nothing?
I'm not saying I am being shitty when people are being shitty, I try to be decent/good almost all the time, I got this thing where I don't like to upset people unless they push me too far, then I still don't confront them, I just forget they exist or don't reply.
I've realized that it's fun to have company every once and a while but to be honest online interaction like say on Sup Forums deals with that need too.
I've learned that forgiving people for stepping over the line, just makes them believe you're a pushover and they can do it again and as many times as they like.
I've tried talking to him but he's a closed book, I wanna help him but I have no idea how to do it without making it worse...
I have like two friends I've known for over 10 years, one guy I still hang out with regularly. Since I moved for a job a couple 100km away from my birthplace I didn't make any new friends, though. Once you're 30 you're kinda stuck with what you have. Also, I always feel like I'm bothering people when I call them and ask them do something together so I kinda avoid it.
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Don't let people know you're a solo. Predators move in on you if they think you have no backup.
DO NOT ever use the fact you have no friends as a sob-story. Think of yourself as a citizen with society and the rule of law behind you, it will show in your actions and how you hold yourself.
A lone person is vulnerable, a lonely person will do anything, i mean anything and that makes them 100 times more vulnerable. Loneliness is a terrible feeling, up there with regret. I don't feel it often or much, but i understand how it crushes and pushes normal people hard.
Watch out.
I have friends for a few weeks a year when they're in town. Otherwise, I just go to Uni classes and sit on the computer
start with a conversation, ask him why
I have friend but I only contact them during work, we work together. I don't have to mood to go out with someone I can only tolerate them when we meet in our workplace but then I am super friendly with them and they are cool too.
In the first days we hang out together but later on I made up excuses. They were mad then but not now and I really do not care.
Wife does this too, probably that is why a married her and boy it was very hard to do. It was like dating myself.
Yea i kind of have no friend. talk to my coworker sometime but after i quit my job I haven't talked to them. Also had a falling out with my two brother so i dont talk to them, one happened 7-8 year ago and the other about 2 year. we just akwardly pass each other by when i go to the bathroom or kitchen. I only talk to my parent which is also starting to annoy me.
>I've learned that forgiving people for stepping over the line, just makes them believe you're a pushover and they can do it again and as many times as they like.
Yeah, it's hard to balance the "I'm tough enough to let that go" with "kick me hard". I'll forgive someone for doing something lame, but not let them inside the line anymore.
Main thing is you don't want to be fuming about crap and declaring people no good in general. Not saying you are.
I think people are basically decent, but act badly under pressure and especially to people that they don't value. City living turns us into vampires, the internet lets us turn into mean vampires.
Sorry about the blogposts, i'm tired.
46 isn't unusual.
i'm 40 an have been visiting for almost a decade.I view time spent on Sup Forums as important to being aware of what's going on as watching the morning news
I have gone 10 years with no friends what so ever. I recently made some again but its rare I go out with them. I am not fat or uninteresting as I have lived in many countries and work an Interesting job, I am just not socially orientated. I can take it or leave.
Haven't had sex in 19 months which is wearing on me a little.
It's nice to have a convo every once and a while even on here! I appreciate your good intentions.
> especially to people that they don't value.
This is what I mean, they do it to people they don't value, so realizing that why invest time in them anymore, if I leave somewhere and feel like shit I don't wanna go there anymore.
I have fumed and declared em no good in the past, but meditation and stuff helped me get over it. I'm an introvert that needs to be liked by people I hang out with, but I just as well can be an introvert alone if those people don't live up to what I think a friend should be.
I actually was kinda upset I guess with my first post because the one guy has less and less time for me I keep noticing, this exchange has helped me reflect and realize I'm fine either way. Thanks for the talk, you a good user.
I have a circle I hang with but one good friend in there. I also have this chick I've know since school and a gf. Looking to meet new people and find another circle as these guys don't get together much. Any advice on how to do that??
>manly tears
32 year old here
I feel like I'm on the same path
I used to have a group of friends in my early 20s but we all moved far away. I'm not one to keep in touch, I don't like talking on the phone or go on Facebook.
For the past 8 years I've had one friend who lives a thousand miles away that I talk to once in a while and my wife.
I prefer being alone. Most people are all wrapped up in social drama, and I have no interest in it. I don't care who's mad at who, or what they posted on Facebook last week.
Cheers.
Trust me I've tried he just refuses to open up, I might just abandon his ass
>wife
normalfag
I live in a house with three other people, but I'm pretty sure one of them hates me, one of them is scared of me and the last one if not all of them thinks I'm pathetic.
I stopped talking to anyone I called a friend a long time ago. I'm too tired to run around after people, and I'm so sick of letting them down.
It's pretty shit on days like today, when you don't feel in control. To know no one really minds how terrible you feel. In truth, there are probably a dozen people that would talk to me if I reactivated my facebook, but I won't do that.
I guess I wouldn't say I "genuinely" have zero friends, but if there's no one there for you when you need them, then what's the difference.