is it possible to change a womans mind about doing anal? any advice?
>going out with her for few months
>does everything except anal, has a big ass, have a need to fuck it
>no luck trying to convince her to try it out
any advice from you Sup Forumsros who have gone down this path before?
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My wife was completely against it up until about a year into our marriage. I told her I wanted to cum inside her but couldn't because preggers so I asked to cum in her ass. Now she lets me do i t all the time. Perseverance op but don't haras her.
cool that it worked out for you, i dont harass her, but she does shit like spread her ass while clothed, like in pic as a tease. drives me crazy
Make it desirable for her and she will like it. Be a fucking dipshit cock wad fuck nugget like you see online that just shoves it in and you'll never get it again. Eat her out with a pinky in her butt, give her a few orgasms that way and wait for her to want more. Be patient and don't be a fuck face and you'll be fine.
Been married for 3 years I love playing with her ass let's me put a finger in but never my Dick says it's to big what am I supposed to do..I'm an ass fetishist and love giving her ass a good tounge lick and fuck.how do I get her to give it up
Get her drunk and ask her then usually works better
Sup Forumsro she wont let me anywhere near her asshole, no pinky, nothing
My gf asked me to fuck her in the ass...
congrats you're dating a whore
Don't put your finger in it just rest your thumb on it and add a little pressure next time you're fucking her doggy. Keep doing it and she will start to like it then put a finger. May take some time to get her ready for your dick but it will work eventually
why?
I'm getting as far as contemplating to get me a hooker for some ass fucking action
gradual escalation is the way to do it.
i started with a christian girl who wouldn't dream of anything entering her asshole. i initially put a finger in slowly during normal sex, then we got drunk enough to just go for it.
the first time she was not pleased at all. she was crying into my shoulder as i came in her ass. i hugged her in the shower afterwards and she said she was fine but a little butthurt.
the second time it happened we were both really fucking drunk and i just escalated toward it.
she's been seeing family the last two weeks and is getting back in a couple days. gonna get fucked up and do the same thing.
just wait for it op, start with some ass fingering, the two or three fingers. then start with some toys, and finally the D.
My gf was completely against analysis or anything up her bum. I'd bought some oil meant to spice up our sex since I started to get bored. I massaged her huge butt with the oil for a while (she's pretty petit but that button just is huuge, 85-76-105 and 158cm tall), and she got more and more horny. I started to slide my dick between her ass cheeks and just listened. Gave her some oral from behind and slid a finger slowly in her butt. She moaned the whole time.
She wasn't pleased when I mentioned those times she told me nothing would ever go up her ass.
So just do it. Just be sure she's extremely horny when you give it a shot.
>Is it possible to change a woman's mind
Lol! No
damm hairy ass.
gf gave anal the 3rd time we had sex
For one ask her about it. Dont just ask "Can I push your shit in?" but bring up the topic and see how interested she is. If the very thought disgusts her you might be out of luck talk to a gay friend if you want to feel intestines on your dick. If she might be okay with it grab her ass gradually closer to the hole during sex or encourage her to use toys on herself.
One word OP, lube.
Make sure she's horny, extremely horny then blow your load. Being drunk or high helps. Follow steps and repeat.
i usually have a good chance of letting a girl try it with me because i'm bisexual and they know that i take it up my ass too and that i know what i'm doing.
So my best advice, let her fuck you up the ass
yee boi yeee
This does work
Shes right to reject it.
Anal fucking hurts.
Ive tried it a bunch of times and everyones like "oh just relax and you'll get used to it"
Fuck no! Ive tried and it still feels like im being ripped in half by charizards fire dick all the while trying to not shit uncontrollably.
All the other women and faggots who actually enjoy it are fucked in the head
My gf enjoys it and we're normal, somethng's wrong with you.
No nothings wrong with me.
How in the fuck could that even be the case?
For the first part we arent made to be fucking eachother in the ass. Thats not what our bodies were intended to do which is why it fucking hurts when that shit happens.
That fact alone makes it impossible to justify yourself.
Youre fucking gross and you like shit on your dick and your girl doesnt enjoy it. I ldgaf if she claims she does, moans or even claims to cum. All fucking fake. She takes it up the ass to please you
>a little butthurt
get it together user, don't be so repressed
Someone doesn't know how to slowly escalate to anal. You probably never get foreplay either. You ugly whore
That's not true, we really enjoy it, both of us.
Anal sex is good :)
Throw money at the problem. First anal cost me a tennis bracelet. The next one a holiday in France. Was fucking worth it. Was gonna buy anyway but you gotta make her believe you wont. Just find out what she really wants.
Theres nothing being repressed.
If you read correctly i clearly stated ive tried it a bunch of times.
Its not like i tried it once or twice and then rejected the idea.
I kept trying and trying.
It doesnt feel good at all and even if the pain passes then i just feel this urge to shit my ass out which i dont know about you fucks but it isnt a feeling i enjoy at all
Wtf what a neckbeard lol
Kid i can land more pussy than you and i aint even gay
k just to interject, you're correct about not meant to have dicks in asses. the body isn't meant to have a dick in its ass. however, with adequate lubrication and a calm state of mind it can be achieved with little to no discomfort to the recipient.
most of the pain is mental, or not enough lube. some girls have incredible pain during regular intercourse just because they psyche themselves out so much. once they go through therapy or whatever they're fine.
shit dick is gross tho i just lay down a towel and shower afterwards. i fucked up once and left dick prints all over my bedsheets. that's a mistake you only make once.
Dude, I'm 5 years in and still no anal. Closest I got was when doggy I was circling my thumb around her anus a couple of times but she realised and said no
Ill even say i think its okay for faggots to fuck eachother because they at least have a prostate so it can be stimulating. However, we females dont have that so its a different feeling for us. Which is why i dont take advice from faggots on buttsex.
Now i dont see why guys always see us as these wild bulls when it comes to anal.
Ive been calm and ive used a crap ton of lube...still feels fucking gross
I hear you dude. I fuckin hear you.
I had a terrible experience with it years ago. I'm only down now if they are also willing to take it in the ass via pegging.
This makes me feel lucky that i got a guy whos not into anal at all.
Hes tried it and he says its not really something he enjoys
Out of the 150+ women ive been with ive found only about 5... if that. Of women that really enjoyed it. There were many that would do it but it wasmt their thing but they did it for me. Otherwise if they dont like it they wont do it because it makes them feel on fire blah blah buttrape blah.
My suggestion is is that maybe you can give her a hint that she is lacking at something skill wise. Like maybe you can hint she isnt good at geiving head. Do she may do other things to compensate since her self esteem is low.
A woman should do what you want in bed. When she denies things then its not good at all. Thatd be like you denying her things.
Moral of the story is that anal lovers are rare, but if you can guilt her into it it is your best chance. Given your current situation
well you're actually anatomically wrong there. the anus and clitoris have the same innervation.
i attached a picture that shows the nerve connection, but another one is the clitorial 'crus'. the 'crura' are like legs of erectile tissue that extend all the way around the vaginal opening. its all a part of the clitoris. so you get indirect stimulation of the clitoris through vaginal sex, for one, and also weaker indirect stimulation through anal sex.
some women can reach orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, some can't. some really like anal, some don't. some people have foot fetishes, some don't. some people like vanilla ice cream, some people like chocolate.
you can't generalize shit like that. i mean you can, you're just incorrect for doing so.
HE? Isn't into anal???
What a faggot
Finally someone whos being honest.
There may be a very small percent imof fucked up chicks who like it in the ass but for the majority i feel safe in saying they dont like it.
Guys are just dumb and think just because shes moaning or even asking for it then it means she likes it.
No....girls like to please their man. Girls like to make them happy so if that means taking it up the butt then they will gladly do it for the cause.
Like i could really care less where my bf cums but just to turn him on and excite him ill tell him that i want him to cum in my face or some bullshit.
Guys watch a lot of porn and i know my bf digs it when i act like a porn star.
Reading all these posts made me realize how awesome gf I have, thanks Sup Forums.
She loves anal.
>Out of the 150+ women ive been with
Found the virgin
Yea.....hes a faggot BECAUSE he doesnt like butt stuff.
You got your shit all mixed up.
My boyfriend isnt into smelly shit sex
My girlfriend is now crazy about anal play, but was 100% against doing anything when we started dating. I don't much care about anal, but I do care about exploring new experiences. So, I don't know if this will "convince" her, but it was a game-changer for my girlfriend.
Next time you go down on her, and she's really hot and wet and somewhat close to coming, try gently running your finger close to her asshole. Don't penetrate it, just softly brush up against it. She'll most likely respond positively. Don't do anything more. Afterward, talk to her about it, and she'll most likely be convinced that it's an awesome area to experiment.
The key to getting a person to be more sexually open is to try new things when they're already aroused. Don't ask her to take it up the ass when you're having dinner. Try new shit when she's already horny and her inhibitions are lowered.
All women like anal.
If they don't, you're doing it wrong.
As if. If you were a tatted beast and in the military. Traveling from country to country, town to town. Youd understand. It isnt a difficult feat. Plus zero fatties or ugs
I don't care if others genuinely like it. Maybe they do - not my fucking business.
All I know is that I don't want a torn ass again.
The guys I've met who say that anal is a priority seem to equate it with degradation, possession and humiliation. And there is never a chance to have a reciprocal conversation - that's off limits.
If you had a dick that is 6.5 inches around and have a 4 gage prince albert. It makes some folks reluctant
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