My girl said that she wants to have a theesme with me and a girl but she also claims that she would like to be fucked...

My girl said that she wants to have a theesme with me and a girl but she also claims that she would like to be fucked by few guys at the same time What do u think about swingers and its influence on a relationship between partners?

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seems fun :/

best thing I've ever done with my wife,
now I'm raising her son and our friends think I'm a generous man who cares about the woman he loves.

Me and wife been doing it for years and its been great, she loves getting gangbanged and is addicted to two dicks in her puss at once once a month we have a whole day sex party with 6 other couples.

the threesome thing is to make you feel like you get something out of it. you're not satisfying your partner sexually so she wants to fuck other people.

my wife and I have done it, turns out she couldn't handle it. She had a huge melt down after watching me fuck another woman, after she fucked the same woman for an hour. Not really worth it IMO.

i think its a great dynamic that could work for certain people who would like to setlle down with someone but no completely be sexually exclusive. it could prove to make for a very healthy relationship.

I've never tried but tbqh I haven't felt the need. My wife has only eyes for me.

I think its selfish on her part. If she wants to be banging other people then yall should just break up.

Having threesomes will only bring up jealousy issues and will also bring up insecurities.

What if she enjoyed being fucked by other guys more than getting fucked by you? Whats to stop her from cheating on you without you knowing?

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>insecurities.
insecurities can be handled if you are an adult.

Spoken like a true B/eta

If you can think of those other guys penis' as an extension of your own penis basically meaning that the intimate connection is only with you and they are basically phantom cocks. And if you are very kinky and horny. Otherwise that relationship is already doomed to fail.

user, she already gets gangbanged behind your back. 100% sure. And you are a big cuck.

Break up with her if you wish to maintain the little dignity you have left. Or become her bitch.

This happened the first time with my wife. She had been bugging me for weeks to let her friend join us and I said no. Finally she brings her over to "tempt" me and I say fuck it why not. My wife and her fuck for about 30 minutes and then after getting a gesture from my wife I come over and start fucking her friend. Not 10 minutes later I look over at my wife (who is having her pussy eaten by the chick I am fucking) and she is crying. I say "fuck this. this is what you wanted I am finishing." Spin her friend around and fuck her and then finish on her tits. Later my wife and I talk about it and she said she wasn't ready to see me fuck another woman. I said too bad because it was going to happen again. She has now come to accept it but in my opinion she should have accepted my fucking no in the first place. When will woman learn that no means no?

That's what they all say.

Shit ALWAYS hits the fan eventually. You're a normal human being with emotions before a fucking cuck. Don't overestimate yourself, buddy.

>inb4 projecting

I would choose a really close friend of yours. like that you know he won't do anything you donr want to ur girl.

Swinger here. Wife and I enjoy mff threesomes primarily. She's bi so she likes to fuck women plus she's also a cuck so she loves to watch me fuck other women. We've swapped with couples a few times. She enjoyed it but prefers the mff threesomes more.

As for health of a relationship... it's not a one size fits all answer. It all depends on the couple and their preferences. Another huge chunk is communication and trust levels. We thoroughly discussed before starting what the rules would be so we each knew what the expectations and boundaries were.

Sounds like a virgin to me. If you have a little sex you'll realize you don't even wanna have sex that much unless they are doing the kinky shit you like.

Here is a tip, always do it with someone who is less attractive or subpar with your partner. First few times, give your girl about 85 pecent of the attention. I set ground rules with my wife in advance so we both know what will piss the other one off.

My girl and I are swingers, but I believe it takes two incredibly secure people to do it and a lot of trust between each other so feelings are not hurt. I wouldnt go into it if you feel the need to ask random people if it's right for you. You either know you can handle it, or you dont. And if you arent sure, you probably cant.

Source please!

This guys right. If you could handle it you would be super turned on by the idea.

>You're a normal human being with emotions before a fucking cuck

Could not have said it better myself

Hate to break it to you OP but your girl is a sex god and you can't give her what she wants. If you love her let her go... get a dick in every hole.

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>Obviously not an adult.

Basically every girl you know has fantasized about getting gangbanged before pussy. Its the same as wanting two girls to suck your dick.

It's the beginning of the end, trust me, I've been there 3 times now.
What starts off as fun, rarely ends in fun.
You will both fuck what you have and it will deteriorate. You are best off having threesomes with single people.

Well I think, swingers have another understanding of trust and closeness. Jealousy is a normal trait and sign of being a healthy person.

Swingers romanticize not being jealous as something born out of trust, but I think that's plain bs. They rather have a deficit in building up a proper commitment.

Swinging works for some couples, it certainly didn't work for me, when my (now ex-)girlfriend wanted to try it. You'll can make preparations, agreements etc. but in the and you will never now what happens until it actually happens.

Chances are rather high, that one of you two figures it's not the right thing for him/her. But then it's too late and the emotional damage is done.

Not that user, but I agree with him and I'm not a virgin, and I have also been in serious relationships before.
The thing is that people just keep getting more entitled by the day. Big part of a relationship is giving up on some of your desires for your partner, and that includes some fetishes and fucking with others. If you are not ok with that, then just don't get in a relationship in the first place.

Some couples can handle it, but they're the exception, not the rule. I'd say for a fair 85% of couples that try this shit, it ends up killing the relationship one way or another.
If you care about this girl of yours I wouldn't. Great chance you'll end up losing her

This.

I'm sorry to hear your story, brother. You are loved and just remember, it is okay that you were raped. You are no less of a man now than you were before.

this shit is ridiculous. Jealousy is not normal or healthy. Well maybe it's normal, but normal is utter shit. See user here probably whacks it to gangbang vids. He probably whacked off imagining his girl getting gangbanged. But because she asked not him, his little bitch boy ego when on the defensive. Now it's not about him having the power to make her suck another guys dick anymore. Now its about her actually liking dick and he couldn't accept that.

Yup. I was able to handle it until I wasn't. Ended an otherwise good relationship. You can't see the thing that will get to you ahead of time. In my case it was someone a little too close to both of us getting involved and a weird love triangle dynamic rather than disposable fuck toys.

Well that sucks for you user. It means your spirit was broken and now you'll accept whatever you can have.

Your girlfriend is just a whore trying to be a whore. You are a beta if you let a alpha fuck your whore girl in front of you.

Not every girl, but yes, this is correct

how does it feel to know that you can never satisfy her sexually and as a man emotionally?

Test, ignore me, please.

It means you lose. Take your place at the piano.

No, it means that if I get in another relationship (which I don't plan to), it will be with someone who will be content with what I have to offer.

Keyword 'her son'

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Also, you seen pretty content with being a beta cuck. I guess that's all you could have and just accepted it?

>calling me a beta cuck when here
he said hes never gonna be in a relationship again because his ego was so damaged by having a smaller dick then their 2nd guy.

My compromise is give them what they want but I get what I want. She wanna get spitroasted fine but later I'm putting my dick all the way in her throat whether she can handle it or not. I don't feel too beta after that.

>>Jealousy is not normal or healthy.

I'm afraid it is. Furthermore it somehow "protects" you from raising cuckoo childs in the long run. There is a reason why so many cultures go batshit crazy about virginity of young girls.


>>Well maybe it's normal, but normal is utter shit.

I agree with that.


The rest of your post is meaningless speculation.

This, my God this. Wife and I had an open relationship for a while and did some 3 somes...it's good until it's not. And there ALWAYS comes a point when it's not. My case my wife started having feelings for her regular fuck buddy and started hiding their rendezvous from me.

Top fucking kek

No it isn't. Jealousy=Envy wanting what someone else has is not ever, ever healthy.

Only tribal savages who operate barely above an instinctual level. The two greatest and longest lasting Empires ever known to man lasting nearly 1000 years a piece, had huge orgies and let their women fuck other guys for pleasure. The Roman's, and the Viking's. Hell the Romans even man on man action was nothing to bat an eye at.

>Letting her pick the guy
Thats where you fucked up. She picked that guy cause she kinda liked him duh. You pick the guy, your trusted bro that she barely knows.

One does not simply being paranoiac... you maybe should ask question about it OP.
Proceed as the following :

- Pretend you know it and it's ok, but u just wanna hear it from her. Insist.
- Once done, let go the raging furry, go break your fist into the wall etc.. break with her, cry..
- Find another decent girlfriend.
- Live a fucking normie life and quit chan.

wait people actually enjoy watching their partner getting fucked by someone else? No wonder the fucking immigrants and the black are doing so well when it comes to being dominant. One of the shitty groups have strict rules how to dominate a woman, and the other makes the women come to them for the reason of staying next to a real man. you people are disgusting but sure do your thing and watch the outcome.

Started hiding. Sounds like trust and communication were fucked up between you too already. But since you're a beta, you will blame poly.

Ok, enjoy being this empty then. You're still a beta cuck, though.

Meh, about the same way she has to feel about not being able to satisfy him on her own. Me and my GF does the same pretty much and we both like something new every now and then. Monogamy is just not our way to roll, not sexually atleast.

You lying to yourself fam?

You're the one who got actually cucked user. You know when you're girl left you for her fuck buddy. Never happened to me.

Top kek. No need to lie when the truth is so much more rewarding.

The only important opinion is yours.........what do YOU think

>I'm putting my dick all the way in her throat whether she can handle it or not.
>her throat
>her

Wait wait wait. You are not even allowed to fuck other girls? Only her? While she fucks hundreds of guys?

wow HAHAHAHAHA
It's much worse than I though, isn't it? This level of betaness is too much

on top of that its not like you need to control your partner but fucking have a voice in what you want or dont in the relationship. If your fucking partner wants to fuck other people for the sake of "trust" then just turn your back and let that partner do their thing alone without you getting something out it.

Er, I'm the one who left her. And as long as I know, she wasn't even cheating.

I left her because she was too annoying and needy all the time. Nice projection, though.

>allowed
no one allows me to do anything I allow shit. Thats the difference between me and you and why you couldn't satisfy your women.
If I wanted to sure. But I have a very dirty sadistic fetish if i

JESUS CHRIST

You said yourself she had feelings for the other dude and hooked up with him behind your back. But back pedal away user, just like you run from the concept of love or intimacy because you don't think you have enough to offer.

Sure, user. That's not what your posts are suggesting though.

And you are partially right. In the past, I was too much of a beta who allowed a bitch to take control. The difference is that I changed and left her for good years ago. And you are still someone's bitch.

>>Jealousy=Envy wanting what someone else has is not ever, ever healthy.

Ok, misunderstanding here. For me Jealousy≠Envy. You are not wanting what someone else has, but you fear losing something that you have.


>>Only tribal savages who operate barely above an instinctual level.

Unfortunately, that applies to the vast majority of humans.


>>...had huge orgies and let their women fuck other guys for pleasure...

Nothing wrong with that - I'm not judging and I would like to live in a world where this is actually possible. But in my book, it's not how humans work. They are greedy and don't like to share, that's why captialism trumps communism although 90% make a bad deal with that.

thirded

Look the thing is I know my self. I fucking gagging a girl. I'm not willing to be in a long term relationship where that fetish is not being satisfied. I also know that prudy little virgin princessess can't suck dick. But just because I want to fuck her face brutally doesn't mean I hate her or want her to suffer outside of that sexual experience. And visa versa for whatever shes into. I ask every girl what the dirtiest fetish they never want to tell anyone is. I say tell me the one you just thought of but are afraid to tell me.

Now you're just making stuff up based on your "interpretations".

Also, LOL. So you don't fuck other girls after all? And is under the impression that it is "your decision" and you're are in control? haha

Some random bitch who can't handle my sadistic cock is not going to do it for me

So, you think the decadent sexual lifestyle in slanderous writings about certain Roman emperors was indicative of the entire civilization? God damn...

"Caligula" was not a documentary. You're completely, utterly wrong. Roman women could be put to death for adultery.

>can't handle my sadistic cock

My sides hahahaha
This is gold. Anyway, best of luck for you, cuck user. Hope your life gets better soon.

At which point in Rome's 900 year history are we talking? And did you know that not all areas are equally civilized even in the same nation?

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fuking this. I thought i would be cool with it, we broke up like a month or two later. case in point, don't do it if you need to ask.

Checked dubs indicate my life is getting better soon. Which is great because it's already awesome.

Dubs thread confirms two is better than one

Everyone saying a girl wants to fuck two guys because you aren't satisfying her are stunted beta's for sure. She wants two fuck two guys because one dick can't fuck her in two holes at the same time. If a girl is cool and hot and generally awesome in every other way, are you going to deny her her one kinky fetish because your ego is too fragile?

This.

If she wants to fuck another guy and you say no she's going to end up doing it anyways.

Dump her ass or get used to being a cuck. I don't mean that in a negative way... If you're fine being a cuck then go for it.

At least then it will be "on your terms" and you can feel that your "permission" somehow makes it less beta.

hahahahahaha

Fucking this. Also, there is a big god damn difference in being "cucked" and being a part of your girls gangbang fantasy. You neckbeards just can't comprehend what it's like to be in a trusting relationship with a bad ass bitch who embraces sexuality.

>mfw "her son"
C U C K

You deserve dubs.

>her son

hahahahaha
there are too many cucks in this thread trying to sound like alphas

My wife and I have been swapping/swinging with three other couples for a few months now. It's great. If you are in a relationship, you know there's always a friend or two of your wife/GF that you think is hot and you would love to fuck. Well, I get to, all three of them. Yeah, my wife fucks their husbands too, but if you like porn and like watching chicks get fucked, and if you think your own wife is hot, watching your wife fuck is like watching porn. Most of the time, I am not seeing her do it anyway, as I'm with one of the wives. I have done a MFMF foursome with her and another of the couples, and for her birthday last month, I invited the other three husbands to join me, and we did a MMMMF thing.

If you have any of the slightest bits of jealousy or whatever, I wouldn't go near it. If you are very sexual and like it when she's sexual, and can put jealousy or envy or feelings of being inadequate (as you are almost guaranteed to be less endowed than at least one of the other guys) out of your mind, it's fucking amazing.

Had a FFM with my GF who claimed to be very bisexual. She was jealous of me texting potential partners on Tinder.

At the end of it all, we had a totally hot threesome, but we broke up bc my GF was a nutcase and had some issues with abuse in previous relationships.

I wouldn't do a MMF three some with a girl I'm dating tbh. It sounds more like something I'd do with a bro while on spring break. Bottom line: if you're ok with it then go for it, just make sure the other dudes are cool I guess.

Your GF sounds to be fair at least. If she wanted to get gangbanged but wouldn't let you nail other girls then I 'd dump that bitch.

This.

Can you elaborate on the rules and expectations?

This is a fucking idiot/troll. The only people who believe this are coming from a place of insecurity bc they've never been able to satisfy a bitch.

Group sex is a totally common fantasy for men and women.

>likes being a cuck because it makes him feel that "his" woman is badass

Confirmed beta tester.

Not that poster, but I did a threesome and we communicated it. For example, my Gf at the time was weird about who I came in; she only wanted me to finish off in her, so I did. She also didn't want me to kiss the other girl bc she believed that kissing isn't sexual and is only something for couples to do.

We were all drunk and made out a ton anyway, so it all worked out in the end, but still... There were rules

SHUT UP, TODD!

Yeah reading anthropology and things like "sex at dawn" you start to appreciate how narrowly defined sex became and how religion and uptight waspy Puritanism frames this conversation every time it happens

Is it the thought of another cock in your GF that bothers you, or the cum? Would you use condoms? Any limits on where they fuck her (mouth, pussy, ass) or cum?

>liking being cucked
wow this thread is full of faggotry