So I need some real advice. My boyfriend has never shown me his bank statements and won't tell me about his financial situation at all. I had to really get it out of him how much he earned per hour.
Then after a while he's become a lot more cold than he used to. It's really worrying me.
We haven't had sex yet because I don't feel like I know him well enough yet. But I finally felt like getting closer to it and he wasn't very interested. Although before a few days ago that we got really far to sex. So maybe that's a warning sign....
Anyways this is my first relationship and I need some advice from someone who's been around the block.
Please help!
Jayden Garcia
He's probably cautious of getting to close to you because now he knows your a gold digging whore. What does it matter to you how much money he makes if being with him makes you happy? Oh yeah it doesn't, because you're only in it for the free dinners and movies.
Gabriel Young
Well I can honestly say that he might be embarrass of how much he makes. Do you live with him OP?
Matthew Powell
K e k and this is another reason.
Xavier Perez
If you find out how much money I make before we have sex
We're not having sex.
Eli Price
OP who's been paying for stuff?
Julian Robinson
No but we hang out all the time.
Well no I never ask him for anything. And if itturns into a marriage he demands separate bank accounts which I'm fine with
James Mitchell
Just me
Chase Gray
Do you have a job?
Blake Morris
Every once in a while I'll give buy him a small gift or the other way around.
Matthew Brown
not at the moment I'm in school to finish off my degree. But he has a job.
Hudson Parker
Ok. What's your degree in?
James Clark
>this You have absolutely no reason to know his financial situation.
Ethan Morris
Faggots not demanding the tits of this money grubbing whore
>tits or gtfo
Cameron Russell
Because it's none of your business. You sound like you were pampered a lot. Prude gold digger. It's a warning sign alright, for men to stay the hell away from you. Advice? Stop being a nosy, greedy cunt.
Josiah Cruz
>Not OP. I disagree. If they're in a serious relationship (as in they've discussed the possibility of marriage) they should know the financial standing of each other so they can have a plan. What if she wants to buy a house but he will never be able to afford anything larger than a shitty apartment? That's going to be an issue down the road so they might as well figure it out now.
Kevin Anderson
Biochemistry
Carson Turner
Then why worry about his finances? You're going to make lots of money so as long as your the one bringing home the bacon what's the problem?
Logan Carter
We might marry after we get our degrees. If things go smoothly as usual we should. I really like him alot. I only asked him about his financial situation a couple of times.
Angel Lee
you shouldn't be his girlfriend if you feel like you hardly know him, what the fuck? are you that desperate?
Ryder Bennett
He's probably gay
Hunter Wright
well I wanted to know if that's a problem. See it's my first relationship and I don't know if that's really okay or not.
Nathan Hughes
No it's not like that, I know him fine it's just I worry a lot about things and I was wondering if these things were serious issues or not.
Brayden Hall
>We haven't had sex yet because I don't feel like I know him well enough yet >because I don't feel like I know him well enough yet >don't know him well enough
Ian Russell
...
David Mitchell
Well it's more of a religious thing too. I know him very well and trust him a lot. But there's more trust I need to gain in order to go as far as sex and he said he understands and is fine with that.
Parker Reed
>B8 confirmed There are NO religious female virgins on Sup Forums
Aaron Russell
You sound Jewish.
And fat.
Noah Hill
im in a relationship, 20 years old. been dating for 3 years. You sound like a gold digger, dont know why you need to ask about his financial state. But even though youre a cheap bitch like the rest, he should easily tell you his statement. how long you been dating?
Ryan Cook
b8 tits or gtfo
Blake Walker
I'm actually the rich one not him. I'm skinny as hell. But I don't know if couples knowing financial info is important or not and why. I've never had a relationship before and we might get married. I just didn't know if I need to know or not. I was asking you if I should drop it as a subject.
Sebastian Powell
Sup Forums making excellent timing ITT
William Brown
My parents are wealthy and miserable. He doesn't pay jack shit for me
Wyatt Parker
Me again
So how long have you been dating like i asked?
Isaiah Watson
>I've never had a relationship before and we might get married Man that sounds bad. I do wish you luck but I think you might wanna consider dating a few other guys to get a feel of what YOU like.
Also: > I'm actually the rich one You sound really Jewish.
Owen Hughes
Yeah we're taking it slow. I'm going to give it a few years before a marriage.
Cameron Sanders
Are your parents rich or you because there's a big difference
Austin Williams
Tits with timestamp or gtfo. You summer fags need to learn the rules
Jace Bennett
My parents are rich and I'm confortable financially. And my degree will land me a wellpayingjob
Isaac Bennett
You dont have a bf.
Camden Moore
I think he needs to come clean. I think you deserve to know how much debt he's gonna be saddled with his degree and other things: cc - car loans - etc.
If you're planning a life together you shouldn't be on the hook for his gambling expenses.
Christian Martinez
Yeah, totally bait, a femanon wouldn't use that image asking this question.
Adam Gray
Wow thanks. That's a good reason to know these things. Appreciate it
Christian Cox
>comfortable finances >in school
so you're living off of your parent's money while attending millenial daycare, and hassling your guy about how much he makes?
He is not going to marry you
Jackson Bennett
I mean if you're really serious about marriage you need to tell him you guys HAVE to talk about finances. You gotta have an idea what to budget for.
I never thought I'd say this to a fem but I think you oughtta get a pre-nup. You seem a bit naive about money/expenses. Ask you dad what he thinks.
Xavier Collins
Alright then I'll get one of those. Thanks
Alirgiht I now it looks shitty. But to be honest it's what everyone in my family has done for many generations. All the other people here are newfag plebs.
Jason Young
>serious relationship >no sex
Ryan Gutierrez
just try to put yourself in his shoes, if you can
Jordan Torres
It's a valid question, but not if you've only been dating for a short while or if you're not planning on living together any time soon. Especially since he got visibly uncomfortable about it, I'd say wait a while. My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years and we know how much we each make per hour, but we have our own individual bank accounts and consider the contents to be private information. We MIGHT get a joint account when we get married, to make things easier, but I guarantee I'll keep all my old accounts too.
TL;DR if you've only been dating for a few months or aren't planning on getting married VERY soon then it's not worth hassling him about right now.
Xavier Baker
why isn't there a pepe and jew meme merged into one powerfull memesayayin lvl 2