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You're a fag

That's right just keep bottling things up you're gonna be just fine.

boo hoo! I cant knock on a door because im a fucking pussy.

Fuck this thread.

I know of these feelings you speak of as I too have suffered from "anxiety." In retrospect I've realized it's nothing more than just being a scared little coward. Either get help or get over it you crybaby pussy.

>I cant knock on a door
>cant
Bullshit you can you just dont want and instead hide behind excuses like a spineless coward.

crying and fueling my alcvoholsim at 3am, what we doing bros?

Almost noon here

hows everyone doing today?

long story short

i met a girl, dated her for half a year and she went back to her ex
we had no contact for a couple of months
started to text each other again
told me how much she missed me yada yada
she couldn't bear it
again no contact for a month
then out of the blue she asks if i'm down for grabbing something to eat
she'd be in my town for a day

and just with that, she starts texting me as if nothing ever happened
tells me she thinks she's now okay with texting me and that she feels meeting up will be fun.

now i don't care about friendzone or whatever bullshit i might've gotten myself into, i accepted that she's with that guy
but i feel that it's bringing me down again, knowing that i'll see her just for shits and giggles and now being able to be around her like i used to

should i accept the offer and tell her that this isn't going to work out, whatever she thought this would be?

Nothing my dick don't work man :(

My meds keep me from being too sad. I pushed away this girl I had a thing with. She's a stripper and too free spirited and into party drugs, etc. Although everything else about her is perfect. So I'm getting my distance and going back to finding comfort and companionship in beer and my cat.
Eh, better luck next time.

not at all my nigga? or just when yopu pissed it doesnt work?

The strongest anti-depressant I know is lifting

Why not fuck buddies?

Don't be a fallback second choice cuck user, stick up for yourself

hm now that im thinking about it
that might be her thoughts here eventhough she told me she doesnt want me to think that

she did say shed pay, so i might just go enjoy free food and listen to her rambling?

Only when i watch extreme bukkake type porn it works. I'm desensitized i guess

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don't let your dreams be dreams. nothing is impossible! what are you waiting for...? DO IT!!!! JUST. DO IT!!!!

I always end up getting feelings for em. That's mainly why I'm getting my distance. So I don't wind up repeating the past catching feelings for someone who I shouldn't be in a relationship with

She's a human. You're a human.

What makes her so special that she can control you?

>but muh feelings
Stop thinking emotionally and start thinking logically.

I too have anxiety user, stay strong

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no idea user no idea tbh...

except for hwo you have literally no control over a movie you watch.

life is much more like writing a movie. the studio has very heavy restrictions and requirements for your genre, and its your first time so you arent sure what you're doing.

but you dont kill yourself just because its hard, you keep writing hoping that you can redraft until its good.

Any other anons feeling existential today?

i relate to this one hard. i put too much investment in my friendships. i dont know why i crave it so much when most people crave strong romance. i think its cuz i got the romance out of my system growing up. i went to 5 highschools so getting a new date was easy. despite the memes that TV and movies promote where new kids are picked on for being new, its not true. you tend to be the most interesting thing happening. plus just having 5 different highschools worth of girls who dont have your history makes it hella easy to date.

you still make friends to, but at best you're their new friend. especially when they know you move next year. no one wants to get too close. they all still have their friends they've known for a few years at least, since kindergarden in many cases.

sucks fam.

Oh yeah

Fuck me bro

I used to be like that ,
>at school I could barely go to the bathroom from the thoughts I would probably fall or walk weird. >Could barely get myself to talk to people I didn't know.
>Constant state of crippling anxiety.
>But from years of pushing myself outside my comfort zone and being self aware I feel a lot better these days
>easy to talk to people and be around people in general and I don't constantly second guess myself anymore.
There's always room for improvement

Yup. Sounds like me.

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Spot on

sucks man

it gets worse

>have supposed best friend
>things start to fade out
>by the beginning of 2016 realize he will only ever hang otu with me if its a group thing, never 1 on 1.
>i develop brain damage
>explain to him
>get platitudes
>he doesnt check in on me for over a month
>his only question 'want to play board games?'

didnt even bother asking if id gotten better or worse or anything. just 'want to play board games?'

I moved away from my best friend freshman year, and have been pretty lonely since

I moved away from my best friend freshman year, and have been pretty lonely since

Fresh Oc boys

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still have a few pics

Can't rooster the plooster

bumping

am i dumb for accepting her offer?

it would be the best if after that evening i'd tell her to stop having contact ever again right

it happens. like i said, five highschools. and that was just highschool i went to so many elementaries i lsot count.

tbqh im kinda glad and sad that i never got to go through losing a long long long term friend like you did. a little bit of both.

Don't do it, user. She is toying with you to see how far she can get.

bad luck then ive already accepted her offer

she said she'd even pay so there's that

Jesus christ I didn't know this was a ylyl thread

Losing that friend really sucked but I can't imagine never making one like that
It's the question of:
Is it better to have loved and lost or never have loved at all?

I was depressed so I drank and went for a drive, told someone close to me, now i realise how much of a piece of shit I really am

I'm so emtpy inside, this thread is really getting to me

what the fuck? thjis moves toof ast

i like to think ive loved another guy that hard (no homo of course) but honestly the longest friendship ive ever had is 3 years. before that 2 years. before that, 9 months.

in highschool and being military i often met other military kids and we bond fast but... i would never really know if its the same as what you describe and that does make me really fookin sad. i figured i could make up for lost time and get one as an adult but... its rough.

love my best friend, known each other htree years but weve really only been close this last year, and in the last five omnths he got a gf and made it abundantly clear im second priority

>me and his gf have birthdays the same weekend this month
>i talk to her and ask if she has plans
>none
>ask if its okay for me to take saturday (hers is friday)
>shes totally cool with it (shes a total bro tbqh)
>my friend chimes in 'CANT YOU JUST DO YOURS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE WEEK?'
>me: no... the discount deals are only friday and saturday, plus i and many others work during the week
>him: WHY CANT YOU JUST GO IN TIRED.

and no, it wasnt because he was planning an entire weekend away or anything (unemployed atm) he just hadnt decided what to do for his gfs birthday so was insisitng i plan mine on an entirely seperate weekend/week so hed have both days open if one or the other didnt wokr for whatever plan he concocts.

i feel petty typing that, but its kinda the crowning achievement of his ditching of me lately.