After 6 years, my girlfriend and I broke up after a fight. Years of tension, anger, drifting apart, etc this fight just put the nail in the coffin. She's currently in the process of moving out.
We clearly have underlying issues since a single petty fight shouldn't break us.
She is being a bitch about it. We set up times where she can move stuff out and I won't be in her way. But she's coming home when I have friends over, throwing tantrums in our room, slamming shit around, ripping up our pictures, destroying all of our stuff. Making sure everybody sees us argue.
I've remained calm and am trying to make this break up peaceful. I leave when she needs to pack. I don't speak to her. Blaah blah. She's looking like the crazy bitch right now. She's starting to piss me off where I want to stoop to her level but I'm keeping this peaceful.
SO WITH THAT BEING SAID,
1 year ago I cheated on her and she doesn't know it. Total asshole move in my part. But like I said, underlying issues.
Now that we're broken up, should I tell her? Shove it in her face? Beat her emotionally to the ground with it because she's being a fucking cunt right now?
Or would it just be a complete waste of time? Should I keep my mouth shut and look like the sane one during the break up?
Where does Sup Forums moral compass lie in this matter. Because the news I cheated on her would destroy her. Right now I want to destroy her. But by doing so I'm going to ruin my image. I'm doing a good job right now by keeping my mouth shut. But I want to destroy her.
Jeremiah Walker
don't tell her. You never know if you'll get back with her at some point down the line not do you know what she'll do if you tell her. Just leave it.
Mason Watson
from what i read your the problem. stop being an all around fag.
post her nudes is the best stragety.
Jason Rodriguez
Don't tell her. Coming out of this smelling like roses will hurt her more than knowing you cheated. And if it becomes public knowledge you cheated, she will use it to justify her shitty actions to everyone you know.
Andrew Garcia
I wouldn't want to be told. I'd just move on if I were you.
Time spent being petty is time lost chasing strange.
Dominic Bennett
As soon as you tell her she will admit to fucking half of your friends. Just keep it to yourself op, you don't want to know all the cockpit she got while y'all were dating.
Anthony Collins
You're holding the upper hand right now . Don't ruin it by making yourself out to be the asshole (even though you are) Let her be the crazy bitch .
Hunter Anderson
This
Xavier Morris
>Sup Forums >moral compass
rape her you fucking nigger
Logan Johnson
You know what they say, once a cheater always a cheater. If you throw it in your ex's face, she could wind up reaching out to future girlfriends of yours to let them know as a way of getting back at you. Then suddenly you've got future girlfriends acting paranoid about you, keeping tabs on you.
Dylan Scott
only tell her it the girl you cheated with is a friend of hers. if not stfu it doesnt matter
Wyatt Bennett
how is op the problem kill yourself die u worthless faggot.
Anthony Kelly
dont be butthurt faggot.
Wyatt Cook
kill yourself lil bitch
Caleb Flores
This OP Be the bigger man.
Jose Moore
Never admit this unless you're caught redhanded. Even more now you're breaking up
Charles Baker
judging by how she is reacting now without that knowledge do you really wanna deal with her when she knows about it. Like she seems like a crazy bitch dont give her a reason to be crazier
Joshua Smith
Just move on man , also if you really want to hurt her , act casual as fuck , be cool headed and calm.
The more angry and excited she gets , just remain calm and non-chalant , it will drive her fucking nuts that she is not hurting your emotionally , she is trying to provoke an emotional response because it's what women do . I honestly would not be surprised if she was trying to get you to fight to get her back.
also after she is gone with all her shit , forget her and ignore her.
Bitches don't like being ignored and they fucking hate being forgotten , go out and have fun and post on facebook , if she sees you have moved on and are happy , she will be furious.
A friend of mine had a shitty divorce and was remarried 12 months later to a really nice lady , now his ex-wife who wanted the divorce is still single , miserable and choking on debt,
Oliver Myers
lul take it to the grave why would you ever snitch on yourself
Eli Diaz
she's probably going to fucking stab you. she sounds like a bag of crazy.
Josiah Gray
OP here
She just came home. I could hear her rustling around in our room. I'm in the living room watching tv.
She randomly comes in and takes a picture of me on the couch and said "just showing everyone how calm you are and how you don't give a fucking shit about the end of a 6 year relationship. you never gave a shit"
.... What?
Sebastian Ramirez
this, i don't understand some peoples logic of coming clean, especially when it's over
Cooper Jones
Don't bite , say "Thats cool , I'm guna have a beer now , you want one ?"
Liam Cox
Dude, she's clearly not worth the trouble. Just keep up with being cool until she's gone.
Jeremiah Jackson
Yeah, I know. I only wanted to cripple her emotionally. Leave her scarred to never trust another man again.
But it's only going to make me look bad. As another user said she's going to use me cheating as an excuse to everything she's doing. And she's doing a good job making herself look bad right now.
Camden Hall
she is probably trying to get a rise out of you. Be careful with this one of my buds exs did this and he responded by getting in a screaming match she recorded it and posted it all over fb saying he was verbally abusive for the entire relationship and shit. Not saying thats is exactly what she is doing but it very well might be
Samuel Walker
>when the fag OP doesn't use greentext
Isaiah Brown
DO NOT TAKE THE BAIT. SHE'S TRYING TO PROVOKE YOU.
Chase Fisher
Complete waste of time, and you'd be "lowering yourself to her level" (which isn't entirely true, since you're the cheater, but since no one knows that, appearances count. A lot. A lot more than they should.
Keep it to your damn self. It will serve no good, and only create badness in the world--and there's enough of that without yours added on top.
Brandon Diaz
Plus, this. Words of wisdom.
Hudson Morris
If its weight on you then tell her after she is done packing all her shit and is literally walking out the door for the last time otherwise dont bother with it
Jaxson Diaz
Dude you suck at fights man, when someone's mad at you and you don't care about making it better being completely neutral to that person is the best way to make yourself look good and the other one fucking terrible. In this situation I would've said something like "okay great, need anything else?" or some stupid shit like that. Just act like you don't care.
Also, can you film it and post it here just as a payment for our sound advice on your problemos? I kind of like watching angry people.