Why is it so hard to find a woman who loves you for you?

why is it so hard to find a woman who loves you for you?
>mfw I'd do anything to have a gf
>not even than ugly, just a manlet (5'8")
>women turn me down a lot and I haven't had sex in 4 years
>would go for any women as long as she's reasonably pretty (7/10 or better) and has a good sense of humor or is fun to be around with
Women in contrast will only consider to go on a date with you if you're in the top 5% of a mix of looks/success/wittiness etc. I'm mildly successful, kinda handsome, but overall only in the top 20%. Am I hopeless?

OP here, it goes without saying that after going on the date you have to give her 'good vibes', otherwise even being in the top 5% won't cut it.
Now, as a member of the male/female human species and a strong believer of equal rights, I wonder what women's role in dating is (eg she's not supposed to be funny or anything)

Just realize that reality is subjective, nothing you do matters. They may be a simulation

Only real option is to kys to stop spreading manlet genes.

i know that feel bro... i've been hitting on women for 3 years now and have gotten rejected 100+ times. 3 long years and hundreds of rejections later i had one girl that gave me her number, we went on a date and I fucked it up sooo hard, she just told me today that she doesn't want to see me anymore. just keep trying user.. try not to make an ass out of yourself like i've been doing the past 3 years. your not as pathetic as me so you'll be fine

As a physicist I'm familiar with this idea. How is this supposed to be helpful provided that human experience certainly feels real real?

post a pic, femnon here
if you are cute ill post tits or ass not sure

WOW - can you be any more heartless? Baiting poor OP.

Not sure why girls dont want to fuck you, bit i have a problem with relationships also. I'm 5' 7" so I'm even manletter but people love my personality for some reason. I fuck alot and girls love it but they usually only want to fuck and not a relationship. :(

the problem is that women want the best for themselves. If you have that it's fairly easy, otherwise you need to keep talking, convincing...

If you are white, black, Indian and/or muslim/arab, you are still in luck. Don't give up - there is always an easy lay white girl out there!

>any woman, as long as she is atleast 7/10
>thinking women only want top 5% of guys
Bitch you are only gonna get a 0/10 with that attitude
You act like you deserve a hot girl

it's because you exude so much insecurity you make every pussy in a 2 km radius clamp shut like a beartrap. try not being a faggot and you might have more luck.

If you had the balls to get into the top 5% of mates, you'd have more chicks than any time in history. That is what I read.

Nah - white bitches just love superior BBC, or Indian cock. OP, you lucked out, faggot.

can you elaborate a bit more? im fuckin clueless, the past day has been nothing fuckery

>me
>dating cripple girl for 6 months
>love her
>plan trip to wash d.c
>"lets take fast transit user"
>spend $$ on two hour fucking train ride in body-retard seats
>enjoy it
>finally get to platform
>notice 15+cops spread all over checking bags
>have coke in bag/system
>survey exit routes to avoid a ruined life
>push her useless body bucket right up to nearest officer and ask to use the elevator
>he points us past sec
>unlock retard basket brakes
>suddenly
>notice gf has some lint on her bangs
>bangs hang over face.
>"user you got some crap on your face"
>go to blow it off
>toomuchmucus.bin
>spit large snotty luger on her face
>nowords.txt
>glance at police person standing 2 feet away
>laughing into both hands
>notice all other cops are laughing at her
>2 femanoncops only one not laughing
>use gf's own leg blanket to wipe her face
>toss it on her lap
>managed to get to surface without bag check
>take uber to holocaust museum

nothing but fuckery *

>get on here
>tell people you have the wrong attitude because they share their ideas
somehow if you're rich af or 6'4", you never have the wrong attitude with women. I'd say your opinion is loaded. I don't think I deserve anything

damnnn thats a bit fucked

you don't really know me, you can't know that

>height, looks etc make dating akin to playing vidya
no need to be interesting them

Bro. I was in your shoes and know the short height feels.
I used to be fat and feel like noone would just love me for me. But i got out there. Got me a job. I was promoted to a supervisor\ mgr in training. I fuck tall girls frequently. (Only two are tall. Ones a co worker the others my girls friend. Both are freakishly tall and dont cate about height)


Im now telling you what to do man. But i do suggest confidence when it comes to girls. That means every fucking thing to them.

The way you carry yourself means more than your height or looks or anything


Confidence is important. That and charisma...

Hope things work out for you man. Believe in yourself.

How is my opinion biased at all?
I have an amazing girlfriend who i fucking love and im a 6 foot tall fatass with an okay face.

i know you're posting on Sup Forums complaining about not getting laid in 4 years

i know you've said you're at least somewhat attractive/successful, so it's not because you *can't* get laid

so either you're a hopeless socially inept autist or you're an insecure little faggot. women are innately much, MUCH more attuned to subtle communication clues. body language, speech, facial expression, that sort of thing. even if you won't admit it, they see right through you.

NOT..I MEANT TO SAY **NOT** TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO LOL

Im on a phone sorry

While I agree, some people have confidence AND looks. against them you dont stand a chance

Came in to basically say this. They can sense desperation and your needy aura. You need to start thinking more like a hunter and less like you are seeking a cuddlebuddy

Just don't date if you're so concerned over that, not getting your cummies isn't that big of a deal.

it's biased because you assume my lack of success has exclusively to do with shitty personality. While that may be part of the explanation, there are also objective factors

I don't buy into this. You guys and "dating coaches" make sound dating like there's some sort of magic behind it

Like what? Oh boo fucking woo you arent 6'1" you will never have a girlfriend cause girls only like tall guys. Its just like dick size. You cant change that shit so why give a fuck. You can change your personality. You cant change most of your looks

That's just not true. Stop chasing hoebags and shallow bitches.

This, OP needs to get over himself.

you as a 6'1" guy know more than anyone that it's a competitive game. In a room full of Einsteins, even the best physicist is outshined

Well in that case. If you dont really care for her too much. Try another girl. I swear theres a hotter chick than the one you just saw with a better personality who isnt shallow


Im also alittle drunk so i might make a few typos. Its been a rough week...night..year

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what? i'm the one saying there's no magic secret cure for not getting laid, it's simple. stop being a bitch. women already have a pussy, they don't need another one. if your goal is to get laid, think of what a girl looking to get laid wants. is it the neet faggot making awkward smalltalk or the confident, collected guy who makes her laugh and makes her feel special because he's not shy about his interest in her.

those 'dating coaches' are a bunch of morons who spew bullshit about negging and peacocking and all that stupid shit as a way of peddling a "magic cure" to other morons who don't understand how simple it is.

arent most women such a kind though? wpuld be cool to have the magic recipe to distinguish bitches from normal women

Only woman who will ever love you no matter what is your mum, the others are all bitches

Easy. Talk to em.

A lot. I met this one on the internet. Old ass pic. We been married for 9 yrs

Not OP, but fuck it I'm bored.
>Pic's a bit outdated though.

You might be aiming too high brother. Bang some 5/10s and boost your confidence a little bit and have some fun. Dont search for the love of your life just let it happen.

Social Dynamics bro

>be me
>chillin in heaven
>pre-earth life
>crazy concept, I know, just bear with me
>filling out form to go to earth
>stuff like "would you rather live in a city or the country"
>reach unusual question
>dating difficulty
>options are easy, medium, hard, and expert
>yolo.jpg
>select hard
>mfw I end up a socially awkward 4/10
>mfw I am an 18-year-old virgin

nah man. You can find some girl out there. Shes wishing she could find YOU but you havent found eachother yet. Only those who give up are alone.

Do not

Give

Up

>manlet
>only go for 7/10 or higher
There's your problem. You're acting just like them

Dont worry I was in a similar spot. Honestly just start talking to socially awkward girls you'll click with one and she'll want to fuck (they always do) and then lay the wood. Sex isn't that amazing you aren't missing out on much. Just give it some time and try to get out more. Honestly get pokemon go it got me laid I shit you not.

>loves you for you
>5'8
>literally nothing to love about you
why? for the same reason you didn't become a rock star, you stupid cunt. stop whining about being a genetic dead end and get to work.

it's not a hard criterion, a lot goes into forming a grade. Wonder if I had written 6'1" what your response would have been

you wouldn't be a loser if you were 6'1.

Sorry user, but life ain't no Disney movie.
Love nowadays is based mostly around the superficial, and relationships mostly start from lust and/or infatuation, considering they aren't centered around those traits entirely.
Sorry to drop this bomb on you people still waiting for a day which will likely never come, unless you somehow come into a shitload of cash. But if love ever existed, modern society has killed it. It's best you look for other ways to achieve happiness.

she should use quotes

my point is: being short = lack of social skills + others often take you for granted
It has disadvantages so why bother? The Chads out there are not slacking. It's true that in an ideal world I work very hard and a Chad sleeps all day. Women would go for me then. However more realistically we work comparable amounts of time and I stand no chance because we are kinda copies of each other except for looks/height

>the image

I honestly don't care about getting laid, I was just communicating my situation to the animalistic cucks of Sup Forums in a language they understand. But then again, I do like the idea of using Go to find girls, I've seen some 9/10s playing it. Aside from that, I try and get out as much as I can. I'll keep trying and see how it works. Thanks for the advice!

OP here, exactly my point. And people who excel at infatuation/superficial love are typically Chads, not intelligent, funny, sensitive caring and yet strong manlets

Why you getting your feelings hurt over it.
Women rejected me for years, I could really give a shit about them anymore. They might be able to find a guy that has something better than me, but they probably won't find one with better motives.
I am a pretty damn good package, their loss.

OP here, enjoy your life alone I guess? And remember that we are hardwired to want love and suffer by a lack thereof (I don't like it either)

I really dont though. I know im not a great looking guy. Im not an alpha im not alot. I just try to be nice and understanding to everyone. And i like to make people laugh and be happy. The moment you stop caring what other people think about you is the moment you become a much better person.

The girl i got was an easy 8/10 and we just happened to meet both looking for a charmeleon near our houses and then we went to my place and one thing led to another. Pokemon Go is a god send. Have fun with it brother

Eh you really haven't got over the disney romance fantasy. When I think of a lack I try to imagine being in a relationship with single females I know, and it snaps me right out of it.
You're just imagining some fantasy dream girl that doesn't act like real girls do.

>a third of the world is fat
>most dudes are poor and barely pass even in public school
>people spend tens of thousands of hours on video games and collecting shit
>"comparable amounts"

you could regularly go to social events and there won't be a chance in hell that you'll stay single for long, even as a manlet. the "point" you should be making is that your standards are all fucked up from anime and porn and you should find other people who are a little awkward and retarded like you first, and build up rather than giving up when the tippy top of the ladder spits on you a few times. there's no other way i can explain this shit, i've seen the worst of the nasty fucking worst types of dudes with not a single remotely acceptable quality put the effort in and land solid relationships with no exceptions. if you're competing with chad after being a fucking 4channer for 10 years, yeah you deserve to die instead.

with all of that in mind, the world would be better without manlets in existence.

ITT:
>short people think they cant get girls because they arent tall
>they think they are a total package and deserve a hot girl
>it certainly cant all be my personality and how i treat others that makes people hate me its because my dna made me short

OP here, I also tried being super nice and understanding. I was witty and some girls told me that openly. (nowadays I've admittedly become cold and bitter). Then systematically I would get the "I really like you but as a friend" treatment. I don't believe this happens when you're 6'1".
So essentially being a manlet translates to having a big personality, NEVER acting beta (whereas to a tall guy 1-2 beta moves are always forgiven), acting not too slowly (risk of getting friendzones like I was) but also not too fast (desperate manlet). It's a very thin line, if it exists at all (I've come to doubt it after years)

That's why I've tried to distance myself as far away from the notion of this "love" people rant and rave about as best I can. I instead focus on my studies and music. In other words, my advice to you is to forget women and relationships in any way you can. Find a hobby, join a club (auditioning for a band/musical counts), and other shit to keep your mind occupied and away from superficial bullshit.

>Nah man, it's just that every girl I meet already has a boyfriend.
These idiots sound like fucking Chris Chan some days.

whats the problem with manlets on this board?
im 5''11 and I still get messages from random girls a couple times a month. your probably just ugly or look like shit causer you dont take care of yourself. go to the gym, copy chad tier popular style clothes, forget about getting a girl and they'l come to you, im only 17 why do you i have to tell you this?

Alright its time to abandon thread.
Op literally entirely blames the fact that he cant get a girl on his height.

OP here (and manlet as I stated)
The point I was trying to let come across is:
-tall guy who acts insecure = he must have had a rough childhood or be a rockstar. True, some girls won't go for him but chances of getting laid even if you're a total beta are not 0
-manlet who acts insecure = eww work on your personality that's why you don't get laid

believe it or not the social circles I hang out in are actually composed by successful people who are very well educated and only a single friend of mine even knows what videogames are

Op im a total fucking beta and i still have a girlfriend. You dont have to be alpha to have a girl. You just gotta not be an asshole

your point is basically "if i have multiple shitty qualities i'm worse off than someone with one of them" which is just basic geometry. stop hanging out with people who are ten million times better than you in every way unless you're just learning from them.

OP here,
As I stated before, I'd love to do that but I think humans are hardwired to want live and in my case this is exacerbated by losing my mother at the age of 3 I guess

Literally kill yourself
Like chop off your arms and attach them to your legs so you can finally be tall enough to get a woman according to your shitty thinking on how women work

disagree. Having physical traits help a lot

>be me
>last gf was in 2010
>got cheated on but w/e
Don't worry, I've had strange since then
>keep myself busy
>keep fit
>focus on career
>only one of my friends in military and at home not married/have kids/engaged/with a gf
>"user, when are you gonna have kids?"
"Gotta find a girl first, guys lol"
>"dude, how are you still single, man? You should've landed a damn good one by now"
Most of the time I push it out of my mind, but some times it creeps up on me at night as I lie in bed
>no parents
>no siblings
>no family
>haven't even been hugged since 2010
Sometimes I wish I died in Afghanistan