I cheated on the best thing that's ever happened to me and I don't think I'll have her much longer...

I cheated on the best thing that's ever happened to me and I don't think I'll have her much longer. Why am I such a mess up Sup Forums
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Why did you cheat on her?

Not OP but

>vagina feels good
>doing something new is less boring than doing something not new
>drugs/alcohol

You cheated because you trapped yourselves in a preconceived notion of what a relationship is supposed to be.

Do what works for you two, not what works for others.

OP here. It wasnt even physical some stupid bullshit online with someone that doesn't even compare to mine. I have all these knots in my stomach and I was throwing up and collapsing outside last night. She had to help me inside

>wasn't physical

Then you didn't cheat. Are you fucking retarded?

Saying what I said to someone is cheating. You and your partner if you have one may not agree but mine definitely does and the fact that I felt guilty immediately after tells me that it was cheating.

did you come clean or did she find out?

so close to quads

just tell her you seek many lovers

girls like that Sup Forumsro

She found out.

Been cheated on before by some cunt who said they loved me but clearly didn't at the end of the day. You fucked up, by all rights you deserve her leaving you. But hopefully that's not the case.

In my case it was sexual, so if it wasn't sexual i'd apologize profusely and try your best to make up for it. Otherwise, if she does leave, i'd consider taking this on as a lesson for your next love.

Just ignore this fucking troll. If it wasn't physical, you didn't cheat u fucking mongoloid

No, cheating is having sex outside of the relationship. Nothing else is cheating. If your girlfriend thinks talking to other bitches is cheating, drop her.

i fucked a broad at a party once, confessed the next day due to it being obvious that she would find out eventually since i did it in front of a couple of friends.

I got away with it with a std test and a promise to never do it again without a condom and a heads up.

How would you feel if your gf was talking ditry and trading pics with guys online? Oh wait you're a cuck it would just turn you on.

Asking for nudes is cheating. Sorry. I do deserve it, nothing less. Her best friend thinks she's going to forgive me. I begged for one last chance but I don't know. I think she's given up

She's probably been cheating on you and relieved you did it too so her conscious is a bit more clear. Been cucked my friend.

fucking drama queen. you got caught you didn't get shot

You seem like a genuine guy. I am sorry you made a mistake which has put your relationship in jeopardy.

I think you have the power to salvage this relationship. As you said, while you did cheat by sending pics or sexting etc.. you didn't do anything physical.

I believe if you treat this girl right, cut all ties to the online girl you had a thing with.. things should be okay. And even if it's not, there will always be another. Even if, right now, you don't want another.

Thanks man. I've been so fucked up over this for the past 12 hours. I can't sleep and I'm doing nothing but just laying in bed with my dog feeling pathetic. I'd do anything to see the life in her eyes again. It wasn't there last night...

A couple days ago I met up with a girl I had a thing for. She told me about her plans for the future, and sadly there isn't any room for me in those plans. I guess it's for the best. I'm just a little bummed cause I waited for her and it seems like I've wasted my time.

I think you should make some grand jesture towards your girlfriend. If she takes it, that will mean a new start, doing the right thing 100% of the time from there onwards.

As for what the gesture may be, I cannot tell you. Perhaps some flowers, maybe sing her something. You know what your girl is into.

Had my ex made some gesture towards me I may not have left, they were very apologetic but it didn't prove that they felt anything for me.

gesture*

Got the same thing going right now

My gf just told me last week she's moving to Maryland (I'm in Illinois) She is going with her sister who is pregnant because we don't make enough money to keep our apartment.

Girl I met online and have been talking to desperately wants me to go over there tonight and I'm debating doing it because I know my gf will not be able to come back out or vice versa for a long time...

Don't do it. The guilt and ruining your relationship isn't worth it. I wish I had known that. I love her so much and yet I did this.

If you love your girlfriend and have a plan for the future with her, I wouldn't cheat on her. However if you don't love your girlfriend and you're only after a fuck, by all means head over to this new girls place.

But it would be unfair to keep it from your girlfriend.


Either man up and dump her or man up and don't cheat.

Don't beat yourself up over it man, it's a waste of time. What's happened has happened, regardless of if you sit there crying over it.

Work on how you can fix it, as I said before, you know your girlfriend, you know what she likes, you know how to make her cry (in a good way). If you really try, you can fix it.

The hardest part is always waking up. I was dreaming about having friends, going to parties. I just woke up and I just think about her, wandering and wondering what she is doing right now.

I'm just tired of feeling alone with all this going on, she went to new York to visit parents and hasn't come back she's cheated a few times and I just don't know where to stand

Thank you user. I wish I could tell you how much this means to me. It's hard not to though. I'm trying to get some weed to give to her because she wanted some after finding out last night but then I don't have money to maybe buy her something

Oh, mate. It's a horrible thing to cheat on someone who is devoted to you. It's a betrayal.

HOWEVER.. if youve been cheated on by her before and you've given her a chance, true equality is being able to fuck up be forgiven by her if she does find out.

Knowing she's cheated on you, my opinion has changed slightly. I suggest doing what will make you feel happier, and only you can know what that is.

Hmm well I don't know the weed prices in your area, but here the lowest is a stick or 25. Maybe if she's into pot, get her a 25, some flowers or even munchies that she likes.

It also helps to make it clear that you've ALREADY cut ties to the online girl. If you say you will cut ties, it implies you don't want to, or that if you break up, you want to keep the online girl there just incase.

She will appreciate knowing this.

"Well you're right im not gonna be with you at least not anytime soon Jordan I can't I thought I could but I can't if I wasn't leaving and we weren't gonna be three hours away then maybe but I just can't do that" I just got this from her. It's over. I hate myself

Yeah in no way shape or form are we talking devotion from her end and that's the shitty thing that I keep going back to her, but I feel like it'd because I couldn't find anyone that wanted to be around me before.

Now this other girl comes along and I don't know. I feel sick all the time knowing that my current gf has been with other people but there's nothing that I can do about it, she has openly admitted that after 3 months of no sex (due to her being further away) She would more than likely cheat so I may just end it

...

Hate to be the stereotype but maybe it's for the best?

I'm the guy posting about the gf living in Maryland I mean, you're three hours apart. I'm about 14 by car and 3 by plane for 150$ and 100$ per night. I can't even afford that.

I am sorry, my anonymous friend.

I know you don't know me but my experiences are very much real and i've gotten through (in my opinion) worse.

You will get through this. You're presumably young. Presumably not socially awkward or inept especially from how you've talked here on Sup Forums.

Again, i'm sorry to say it but you didn't do anything physical and she isn't willing to forgive you, I hate to say it but perhaps she was planning to leave already? Yes you did the wrong thing but you didn't fuck her life up completely. Feels to me like the push she was looking for, unfortunately.

You may as well assume that the bitch is talking dirty and trading pics. Who cares. It's not cheating. Dump the whore and try again.

Man, I'm sorry to say that, but FUCK that bitch. She doesn't deserve a devoted guy.

If you like this new girl, go for it mate. Atleast she'll treat you with some respect.

Hell, why are you with this current gf, sounds like a bit of a cunt.

Fuck user! Why not just write a god damned book?

I don't know if this is related to OP or someone else but whoever this is... you can do better.

You may be overweight, you may be nerdy, this is Sup Forums, after all..

but NOBODY is worth having their partner treat them like SHIT when someone else would happily give them the love they deserve.

Dont know it's been a year but I think she manipulated me because she did this and pulled

"I want you to change me user make me happy"

Truth is I know she would cheat immediately but I think it's the fact knowing that if I leave she's going to go around having sex with strangers blaming me for her problems

Why get caught, retard?

>small paragraph
>a book

What kind of books do you read, user?

...

Obviously picture books.

Sounds like you've fallen inlove with a slut, my friend.

Has she always been so.. "I dont give a fuck, i'll fuck people, i've cheated?" Surely she wasn't such a cunt when you met..

Lol i hope she fucking breaks up with you, you dont deserve her because you dont have any self control

>I am sorry, my anonymous friend.
So, you a newfag or a summerfag?

The bitch looks like Colin Kaepernick, I know that is why you cheated on him.

Lol, OMG cucklets relax, I guarantee you are over her in a year regardless of if she forgives you or not.

She wasn't per se a cunt, she just more or less disclosed that the reason she got out of her last relationship was because her bf and her were not faithful people and tried getting revenge.

She did more or less disclose though that she often had sex with people for the physical aspect which who doesn't?but after everything I just don't believe her

Probably a summerfag, i've been around since 07' though. Boxxy m i rite?

Don't listen to this guy. Definitely never had a girlfriend before, nor been in any other relationship.

Look, it's hard to say what's really going on here without pics. user, can we see some photos of the both of you, and the online fling? It sucks, but so much of poeple's relationships are made based on physical appearance.

If you have a girl who is good to go, and the thing holding you back is this girlfriend who disrespects and mistreats you.. the answer is quite simple.

Go for things with this new chick. Can't be any worse than how you're being treated right now, can it?

The remedy for this is simple; she gets an hour of throbbing black cock while you watch. Problem solved.

More of a winterfag myself. I'm in the south so it gets hot as balls down here in summer.

Rape her!

All cucks.

Suppose not, appreciate the thoughts user

OP here. She has been with a guy in the past named Raheem and I'm hoping she doesn't go back to talking to him

That sounds good. How would you go about doing this? Any strangulation involved?

Fuck that. The bitch burns tar sand? That snatch is tainted. Why would you even worry about getting her back?

You cheated on this friendly beaver? Why? Looks like he only wanna chop wood and swim...

Virgin spotted.

Dude, women don't break up with men because men have other options, they break up with them because the men *don't* have any other options. If some other woman wants you, that makes you more valuable to her. Besides, unless she's already cheating on you, she doesn't have someone ready and willing to take your place, while you have someone to replace her immediately. She's not gonna dump you until she's got someone better, and once she finds him, it's not gonna matter to her whether you were loyal or not. Stop looking at this through the lens of arbitrary morality and start thinking logically and practically.

That said, she's not gonna have any compunction about cheating on you now (assuming she would have had you not cheated, which is not safe to assume). I wouldn't get too attached.

Beta as fuck

she's been cheating on him throughout her whole trip.

This is one of the most middle school things I've ever read.

he sent nudes to the girl, and his gf said it was cheating.

>"best thing that ever happend to me"
>still cheats

Dont fucking cry about it you fucking phagot if you cheat then you dont truly love her.

faggot virgin

She's been cheating on him throughout her whole trip, and he just sent nudes.

Thanks for the update big ben. Is looking at porn cheating also? Rofl

>phagot

The he should have dumped her ass.

it probably is, in her eyes.

Yes this. user knows his shit for once.

YES, I GOT QUADS FOR THE FIRST TIME!

And dubs... Congratz user

Are you fucking shitting me? You wanna know where you stand? You're her meal ticket/security blanket. You already let her cheat on you, which means she's going to do it again the moment she finds someone worth the "guilt"(as if that cunt feels any).

Why the fuck are you stressing about some pretend online cheating when she's been stretching out her snatch? Tell her she's a fucking hypocrite and to get fucked if she's not already.

This whole thread is just a cuck fantasy isn't it?

Yeah, I hadn't read that far. OP is one massive cuck. I thought he was just beta at first.

OP must be stupid or have brain damage. The bitch has been cheating on him. He sends a nude and that is somehow the same. Now he gets dumped. Obviously she was just looking for an excuse to get back with Rahim. Unless you are ready to put on one of those plastic locking chastity devices on you cock, move on faggot!

That's what I thought from the start. Cuck fantasy.

Sometimes I think that Tumblr radsluts come on here and post shit like this, or coerce their betas into doing it, to make believe it's more common than it really is.