Feels thread, if anyone is willing

Feels thread, if anyone is willing.

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just told my mother that I dont love my father. now im worried its gonna hinder things in the future.

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>engaged to be married
>I don't want to invite my mom because she's married to this abusive guy
>the guy hates me with all of his guts because I didn't fall for his bullshit
>everyone else is enamored of him
>I love his daughter, she's like a little sister to me and I want her to be my flower girl
>don't know what to do because I'll regret it if my own mother isn't there, despite her choices
>will regret it if my sister isn't there because I love her and she's the only good thing from my past with them
>feelsbadman

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my advice, invite them all. then also invite a few bros to be 'security'. if he looks like hes going to ruin the wedding, kick him out, and you get not only the joy of having your mom and sister there, but the awesome feeling of knowing you kicked him out of ur wedding.

as long as he doesnt interrupt the actual ceremony thoguh, doe sit really matter? Like think about it, he can just be a face in the crowd.

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This. user you are a genius

>have a dog
>was married to an abusive asshole who kicked around the dog
>finally worked up the courage to divorce
>struggle with depression
>finally get a little bit better and sing again
>dog had had behavioral issues with anyone but me because of this
>started singing the first time in forever
>he came over to me and laid at my feet and listened to me calmly for hours

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are you the original guy or just a random user who agrees?

I worry because the slightest of things will send him into a boiling rage, like say if something were to happen to spill and when he gets mad he throws shit and slams things around like a man child and I worry this would happen.

I'm the original, that was just an user who agrees.

thats a sweet story

ah thats what i figured, as fun as it sounds in power fantasy, anyone in the situation might find it too complex or uncomfortable. id jump at the chacne with my own father but yeah.

have you considered letting it happen? imagine if you will you invite them, you're at the rehearsal dinner, he throws a fit cuz a dirnk spills, then three bros escort him out and the dinner goes on.

i have a small scar on my chin, but im otherwise one very sexy bastard. its almost as if the scar isn't whats important.

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Nah im just a random user.

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I don't know. I have to think about my mom. I don't want his abuse with her to go from emotional to physical, like it had done with me and if he got mad enough at being removed...

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this sounds like a non wedding issue and more a life one. take the wedding out of the picture, and what do you want to do?

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thumbnail looks like a weird bra on a fat girl

I want her to leave him but she won't. I want to be able to do something but I don't know what to do.

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maybe you gotta be stern. how badly do you want this? enough to let mom move in with you?

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youtube.com/watch?v=F44DBpIyAh0

Of course, that's not a question. But she didn't believe anything was wrong with him, even after he suckerpunched me when I was 14.

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thats rough. ur moms almost the bad guy here.

but it does seem a bit to me like you WANT to be conflicted here.

if you dont like him, dont let him go, and know that its the best you can do to open your moms eyes to how bad he is. and if you DO let him there, just know hes going to not say much when you assign him the farthest fucking table and knows theres no talking during hte ceremony. and anything he does bad just makes people understand how bad he is. you get to be the center of attention no matter what

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Please don't let this thread die; it's all I have tonight and I really need to cry

You're right, user. Thanks. I'll think about it more, but I'll probably invite him.

good luck man. just have security bros to be safe.

>695285110

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The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.

sorry i missed ya man. dont worry, im going til my i run out of images.

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>Wherever we go we do harm, forgiving
ourselves as wheels do cement for wearing
each other out. We set this house
on fire, forgetting that we live within.

>I dont hate the world I just havent found a reason to love it yet.

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isnt looking for a reason reason enough?

also

>needing only one reason

there are many.

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“Each one of us here today will at one time in our lives look upon a loved one who is in need and ask the same question: We are willing to help, Lord, but what, if anything, is needed? For it is true we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give or, more often than not, the part we have to give is not wanted. And so it is those we live with and should know who elude us. But we can still love them - we can love completely without complete understanding.”

While my depression has been managed and I haven't really been feeling either numb or sad, I still miss a childhood friend that took his own life last november, a week after my 18th birthday. We were supposed to see a concert with an amazing line up the weekend after I heard he passed. Pic related. This was taken when we went to see a few bands play in October at Webster Hall in Manhattan. It was easily the best concert I've been to in my whole life and I'd do anything to relive it once more.


I miss you so much, Tom.

Cringy af

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kinda, yeah they clearly dont know how to write for a kid. but when you get to the end it feels worth it. at least to me.

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last one here. night guys.

WHO LOVES UNDERTAIL

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I'm not trying to attack you here and I appreciate that you take your mom into consideration but grow some guts? Exactly what said, if a group of people sees this guy being an actual fucking child at someone's wedding it won't look bad on your part. OR YOU COULD ALSO JUST NOT INVITE HIM WAS MY POINT OF GROW SOME GUTS OR EVEN BETTER YOU TAKE HIM ASIDE AND TELL HIM TO FUCKIN BEHAVE CAUSE IT'S YOUR WEDDING AND FOR YOUR MOTHERS SAKE. IF YOU DO THIS AND DO IT WITHOUT COWERING OR BEING A BITCH AT ALL AND HE STILL FUCKS YOU OFF, FUCK THAT RETARD AND BASH HIM. Kinda serious about kicking his ass but in all honesty either take him aside and tell him to grow the fuck up it's your wedding and you will gladly have him removed if he throws any tantrums on your wedding day. or you don't invite him and you tell your mother why, it is YOUR fucking wedding lad not theirs. Fuck em.

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Pure gold, these ones.

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