Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?
Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?
feels like bags of sand.
It's nature's way of tricking you into having and raising kids
I have and while you're in love with some one and they're with you too it's the best feeling I ever had.
The hard part is when you break up.
You'll feel like you have an unfillable gap inside you, like a limb missing, like a part of you is gone and it hurts like a motherfucker.
With that in mind take your chances.
if you love someone that much why did you let it go? does it ever get better?
better question. Is love a rational thought?
It is often depicted as some kind of magical feelings, like being high on your own feelings or something, but that's not it at all. What you feel when you "fall for a girl" is a lie, an illusion. It's just the body chemistry going nuts, but it doesn't last. I mean, sure, it can last a few month, through which you'll feel so happy it's like being high, but same as an acid trip, you've got to come down at some point. And you always do. True love is what sometimes, not so often, remains left after that.
Most of the time, it doesn't feel like anything. Your loved one are just "normal" people, with whom you can get bored, annoyed, and even mad. You'll only realize how much you love them when they're in pain or if you're about to lose them : then, your heart will boil with pain and you will want nothing more than them to be ok and to be close to you so you can protect them.
That, man, is what love is.
better better question: Is love a thought?
Better question: what is love?
Its like knowing there's someone on your team who has your back 24/7 even if you make mistakes. and also that person makes your dick feel gud.
I had to let it go because I was gonna be away for a long time.
When I came back she was with someone else.
Love is harmony
To me, love is being willing to do anything to help someone else out, with no expectation of reciprocity.
I can name 4 people that by my definition I love.
Imagine it like being on cocaine. Feels so great, everything is so nice until in wears off and you are left with nothing but empty hands and realisation that you are alone
Baby don't hurt me
so have you ever felt like that?
it's being a disappointment but having her still care for you.
Yes, it's like being alone, but with another person in the room. hahahahaha
is it worth it?
is that pic related or are you a lonely disappointment
hmm im starting to get it, the point is, its never the same for everone but there is always pain involved. ok
Love is having a raison d’être.
thats great, good for you:)
wow that is a beautiful phrase
It feels soft squishy and warm, but after about 20~ minutes, it gets Exhausting and old. The initial thrill fades and you are suddenly free to focus upon yourself again. But the Urge will never truly go away. It'll come back soon; How long depends on you. Could be days, or even hours.
BABY DONT HURT ME.
It's like the relieving feel after you took an enormous shit.
scientists compared the effects of Cocaine withdrawal suffering to the effects of the lack of oxitocine (love hormone) in the body. The two effects are in fact VERY similiar.
here is a video with actually verified scientific info, with an interesting take on it.
watch it faggot
love is not real. It is just a advertising gimmick.
Are you a robot or something?
i feel like youre the guy who wouldn't know anything about love, or social interaction or friends.
Too lazy for that, but it only proves my point doesn't it?
no i just dont understand love as well as i thought i did
well.... kinga yes. you can be hooked up (seriously) on love/cocaine and you suffer from withdrawal from both. after it ends, you feel miserabel. they even set back the same sensors in your brain which makes you sad.
so love is just chemicals and science, nothing more?
More or less this. Wife is pregnant, knows I don't want kids, and decided for us we are keeping it. All because she lost her fucking birth control for a week when we moved, didn't say a fucking word.
It's when your new relationship feels never go away.
theres always a way out, abortion? why are you keeping it?
do you want to know the science behind it ?
or the why do we feel those feelings ?
or "spiritual" / meaning of life gibberish ?
yeah, it's pretty much the same
not spiritual just from the perspective of an average human, reasons, emotions, feelings etc no science. i think science makes people look at the little details rather than the big picture.
This. I will sum it up. Love is not a feeling or an emotion. It's a choice. It's an action. It's not something that happens to you it's something you do. I've been married 5 years. You think I still FEEL the way I did when we first held hands? When I first kisses her lips or rubbed my hands on her naked body? Of course not. The fireworks come and go at times but what remains is my steadfast commitment to loving the woman I vowed to love. That's it. You wake up... you say "today I will love my wife, my kids, my job, my life"... and then you DO IT.
she lost her fucking birth control for a week
Oh yeah, I'm sure she "lost" it
yes. exactly. even the feeling of otherwordly passion is the doing of vasopresin in your head, or some oxitocin in your blood. your sweating palm or racing heart is just the reaction to these and many other chemicals, like adrenalin/noradrenalin etc.
the sad thing is that there is absolutely nothing science cant explain, so it kills all our illusions of meanings of life. so yeah, love is natures way to keep you interested in sex, nothing else
Love is the currency of the woman.
i kinda feel something when i read stories like that, it makes me excited for some reason.
it's real, I feel it
I told her I want an abortion. She pulled the classic "I'm keeping it and if you don't want it there's the door"
So I'm ganna just kick her in my sleep until the problem is gone
love is natures way to keep you interested in sex, nothing else
Reproduction would be no problem for us humans if we had no restrictions about it from society, like "family" and "monogamy". I we could just fuck around we could reproduce way more then we do. Love would rather restrict us from reproduction in this case
sex can get old, committing to a woman goes past all those stereotypical necessities in a relationship like money sex and beauty.
well then, i've been in love once. i had a bunch of girlfriends, but not one interested me more than a sexbag. i know its sad but whatever.. but man, even if i already know love is just the brains's lie, its still a sweet sweet lie.. like when you KNOW that you never can fuck a pornstar, but its good to put on a VR to vritually fuck them. you KNOW its a lie, but a sweet one.
love is nature and evolutions best lie. but i enjoy it while it lasts. but also love is not eternal, sadly.. so you need to redose yourself every few years, but because finding "true love" is fucking hard, this makes you sad more than happy.. if we were animals we wouldnt mind it.
whats wrong with having a kid? do you feel its too early? are you afraid of responsibilities and that your life will become boring or something?
This, so fucking this
sex can get old, committing to a woman goes past all those stereotypical necessities
this is in fact true, BUT commitment is not only a social thing you know. even animals have the "love and commitment" thing going on, but only for a few months.. like a lion will "love" his family until the cubs can survive on their own. not a second longer.
this is why love disappears in humans too. we were not meant to be together for ever. thank christianity for that :)
Too early. I'm 20 she's 19. We live in a shitty trailer
it's feels good man. it's a strange sort of happy though because you always have to accept that it's going to be over soon enough. I'm really in love with my current girlfriend and I know I'll be with her for no doubt at least a couple years but I just know it's all inevitable sadness in the end. unless you're a person who can really easily let go of people/memories. I just drug away the pain and the memories instead of doing something positive with them like a normal person.
love is dope, sex is probably do per though. sleeping with a bunch of people while you can is fun imho. just wrap it up before you tap it up.
we dont live long might as well experience love as a whole, i mean its good to feel pain and sadness, right? its what keeps us human.
Ouais, mais faut pas vivre pour non plus, vaut mieux considérer ça comme...un bonus disons...
But all she cares about now is the baby. So I'm ganna fucking crush that.
i definitely recommend experiencing true love. one year of live is worht a lifetime of sorrow afterwards.
and actually thumbs make us humans.
yeah but the human mind has the capacity for complex emotions rather than instinctual feeling other animals get.
when u consistently care about each other, years pass and u dotn feel any less u jack off to the thought of her you feel good about her in front of anyone even when she is doing wrong
i feel bad for you but hopefully you can enjoy being a father some other time in life
It is called indirect fitness, you dont just care for your genes to spread, you do also for the ones who are genetically similar to you.
Love causes you to make a family and a family is the best way to prepare your childs for all the obstacles in life
Don't hurt me.
Best answer i've ever read 100% true
do we really? and if the answer is yes: is it good for us?
Stay with her and appreciate the sadness no other time will you feel such great emotions than when youre in love. its like an abstract painting theres warm colors and cool colors but in the end its beautiful keep the it going and dont let it end or youll regret it.
I asked her to wait a year or two till I can get my financial situation out of the shitter but she wouldn't have none of it. I hate my wife now, she sort of ruined the whole relationship with how she's been acting since we found out. Honestly I may kill it and leave her.
Quand j’étais en amour, c’était les seules années de ma vie ou j’étais vraiment heureux.
Mais bon. Your millage may vary.
to overcome is what makes you human. any animal can feel
yes. this is exactly what ruins it for us.
beasts enjoy a short love life, then forget, then die
humans enjoy a short love life, they remember, they are wise enough to think about it, to wonder, to be curious, and yet a human life is too short for us to truly understand what these retarded feelings are, so we spend our lives trying to figure it out.
A beast's life is to survive
A man's life is to yearn for knowledge
yes. chemicals and science. what are you some kind of tin foil religious fag?
I will tell you what love is. Love is a constant longing for an other person. If you're in love all you ever want to is to be with the person you love, in a way you can not really explain. That feeling doesn’t go away, even if you fight, disagree about important matters or wherever.
One time i grew a tropical tree from the seed, it took a couple years to grow to a substantial size and i was there every step of the way. This isnt a good metaphor but i was proud as fuck i understand why she would want to keep it.
Love is knowing that you'll put up with someone just as much as they will put up with you. You can grow together and be the stability in each other's wandering paranoid minds. Someone you can let down your walls with who you will make feel ethereal.
LOL I'll never experience love: confirmed.
Love is getting hurt over and over again, and you're ok with it...
a "family" in the books of evolution is a small group for a short time, until the child can care for himself, SOMETIMES there are monogamous families in the wild, thats true
in the lives of humans, babies born far less developed and adept for life, thats the reason "love" lasts for at last a few years, and after a family is formed, another few years. parents are required a bit logner than with animals
Fuck having kids. I told the bitch I don't want them ever.
im not religious at all i just try to see value in things
you come from facebook, dont you boy.
Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?
Love is an illusion. Dig it while it lasts. Love fades.
dont say that
KEK there is no value in hardly anything.
You did this to yourself
i like it
No. Wait is that an actual quote from a post on facebook? Because I just made that up
so what your saying is we should all get Alzheimer's
That's because it's a real story about real life and that perspective is something many people never get.
I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard Morty then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle user, rise above, focus on science.
nah he just thinks its touchy n shit, but its very true
no. i love my curiousity, knowing stuff is really the only thing worth living...
alot of people who are in love lose their sex drive yet stay together, i know a guy who had sex 6 times in a week back in highschool yet has never loved someone and openly admitted he was very unhappy, almost deppressed.
no, that's just not learning.
Best way to explain it is that when you love someone. You actually care more about what happens to them than what happens to you. The tingly feeling only lasts a few months
some people say that they feel the same way they did at the start as the do now, is this mostly true?
or just being a fucking beta cuck faggot
yea, but the humans of nowadays define almost everything in evolution in a new way
it is called naturalistic fallacy:
you cant compare us with lions in the savanna we have way more complexe structures, socially and neurophysiologically
Yeah, science and chemicals motehrfucker, it's already been proved by new studies suggest that experts.
99.999% of girls don't even think
how could love be real
anything you call "love" is just obsession
if you ignore all social impacts and other things that change our way of living, and really compare basic animal instinct with humans, or even psychology, you will see we have more in common than most of ppl think.. i dont mean oncognitive levels, you would never piss yourself on the streets.. but if you see someone in really stressful, happy or other extreme situation, their instinct kicks in pretty obviously..
and the social structures were made by humans for humans, yes, they do change a few things in us, but compared to evolution its like a second compared to this year... actually not even overestimating.
Love is all endorphins and oxytocin. Sure you don't get the same fix as when things were new and eventually in old age they still let you cum in their puss.
Its just a feeling. Like the feeling you get right before your diarrhea sprays all over somebody else's kitchen sink.
Does the fact of knowing what it is that is going on in our body make it worse in any way?
For me it does not
On the other side this "science and chemicals" motherfucking informations can help so many peoples which have a malignant hormonal balance - referring to love, there are some illnesses which detain you from feeling love
has never talked to a girl
No no sir, it's the fact of thinking one knows that makes it worse in every way.
I don't believe so. Its impossible to feel the same way further down the line. In my experience most people lose the tingly experience but they end up loving / being concerned about their partner more. This obviously doesn't apply to everyone
first of all most of my friends are girls and i have 3 sisters
secondly i dont vape
and to conclude i am most definitely not gay
so does that mean love gets stronger or weakens?
I've been with my girlfriend for three years now, I've known her for four. Every time I see her face, I get happy. To this day.
top of head cut off
tits in the shot
You're in love with a whore, user. I'm sorry for you.
love weakens, ALWAYS.
friendship may or may not strengthen.
getting used to is inevitable.
so it goes like this, you love them, you like them, you are friends, you have kids, you tolerate them, you got used to them (you dont really dislike them so why not) OR you got used to them, you dislike them but you are afraid because you are a fucking beta cuck shit)
For example if a doctor fails?
Science says love doesnt exist, it's just a result of cascading neurotransmitters and is the same physiological process as cocaine. This is why cocaine users are so filled with tender love and compassion. Science proved it already, what are you some kind of nut job tin foil? Maybe stop being retarded and learn some science, faggot.
then you are a happy man. you just hope she she feels the same, and not think about big nigger cocks in her pussy while playing along being your gf.
friends with girls
not gay (sensitive about sexuality)
ok well its settled you are a sissy cuck, being raised around girls lowered your testosterone and all your "friends" think youre actually gay.
Same, my heart just goes crazy
i hope i can feel that way someday
whats wrong with having a kid?
Probably the thing about her wanting a kid, and him not.
AND the thing about her wanting to have a kid without giving a shit about his opinion.
Bad gf, I say. Good luck with that, user.
"true love" is just the fear of being alone because you're losing something that was so "certain" in your life and you're such an insecure beta cucklord that as soon as that starts to slip away you start cutting yourself and spending too much time in baw threads
love isn't real
you're a bitch that doesn't want to be alone and thus a lesser human being
All you fags and downers saying how love doesn't last. Maybe you had some tough shit in the past. All you need is for both of you to put in effort and keep each other happy. It can only grow with each passing day. Love is the feeling of wanting to protect someone with your life. To hold that someone and never want to let go. To only want to see them when they're away. Pic related.
That's not love thats the brain's physiological response to familiar objects. You gfs face triggers the oxytocin and serotonin pathways because it is a recognizable shape that you associate with being happy. There is no such thing as love, learn science fag.
no im not
also i have extremely high testosterone
i fap at least 3 times a day
Stronger but not in a tingly way that I'm excited to see her. More in a way that they are part of your family and you will do anything to protect them even at your own expense. That's if you meet the right partner of course.
you must be fun at partys
That happiness thing will fade but when it does don't forget that you still love her.
Love is when you would die for someone else...
Until they fuck you over, after that you don't give a shit anymore.
yeah id go though hell to feel that way about someone
HAH I did everything for my GF of 2 years, she almost died every single time i surprised her, and still at the end she fucked a nigger. I immediately broke up with her. i spoiled that bitch. now she has the worst fucking life imaginable. drunk 24/7
Science doesnt say that love doesnt exist, science just tries to find out what it is doosher
There is no such thing as partys they are simply irrational gatherings of two or more individuals triggered by a socio-economic desire to fit in. You're not really having fun at the parties that don't exist, either, it is simply the brain's stress response to social situations and contentment that the social desire is being met. It's alreayd been proved. Science.
Good for you mate. Unfortunately some people on here try to hijack everyone's chances of getting a girlfriend
This guy is winning.
The idiot award.
It's hormonal, similar in every way to a neurological virus.
(Poster of pic) Did you ever see it coming? Was there ever a fallout? Did she put in the same effort as you did?
yeah she's the most perfectly made for me girl I've ever met. we're very different people but we get along so well its unbelievable. hopefully moving in with her after she's done with college (were both 18, birthdays 5 days away from each other so I always joke about how I'm so much older than her.).
I'd love to have her forever, but I just know I'm going to avoid a lot of hurt by always thinking about things realistically :/ the trick to being a "normie" is to tricking yourself that's the way to be. I just get more depressed pretending rather than dealing with the sad upfront.
love is... well love is... tits
Are you basing this on experience?
Yo Andy, lemme ask you sumtin' real quick
Are you a virgin?
Winning doesn't actually exist, winning is the brains physiological response to activities which satisfy basic carnal needs such as eating and defecating. Winning is simply a dopaminergic stimulus response which activates the reward centers of the brain. Virtually anything can trigger this response, therefore winning is subjective and ultimately does not exist.
most of these people are making assumptions
God is real love is made up
This is like saying water doesn't exist. Science already proved that it's just a bunch of connections between hydrogen and oxygen atoms. Don't be fooled by the kooks, water is a myth. Learn science faggot.
if i had the same thought process as you id kill myself
So it does exist, just not in the way that you expect?
This is why cocaine users are so filled with tender love and compassion.
Nigger, literally wut?
GUIZ were giving space niggers harmful information
bottom line nothing fucking exists
Yea from the neck down only if you base it on this boy/girl
Both are just words to describe things we can't explain. Do sent make them real. Just beyond our ability to pick apart.
It's oxytocin addiction. Oxytocin affects dopamine in many mammals, creating a euphoric, addictive sensation.
It cannot be reliably quantified and repeated= does not exist. Love was already debunked by science years ago, do you even neuroscience? There is no compelling or credible evidence to prove it's anything more than chemicals and science.
well, every time i did something big for her, like getting black and blue roses in the school tabel in HER class, which was in another state ! ( i live near the borders) so, every time i did something like this for her, she always said that im too good for her, that she loves me more than anything etc etc. it felt awesome being so appreciated. she tried to surprise me with her own ways, sometimes with special sexy time or whatever. the problem was with her friends... you see, she was a really really shy girl, (black hair, pale skin) and she had the worst friends.. fucking cancer whores all of them. and because she only had them and me, and i didnt want to take her friends away from her, she spent a lot of time with them too. and i think this was the error in it... bad friends man, it can ruin anything..
but tbh i didnt see it coming.. actually she told me it herself. i blame alcohol. i really dont know what actually happened or why to this day.
I'm assuming this is a satire of the guy saying love doesn't exist. If so, good job. If not, you are an idiot.
Sorry. Despite all the trolls on here I wasn't trying to make you feel like that. There are nice women out there and love is a real thing even under a non sexual sense.
well im only 21 with no kids, but i've seen this pattern in a million families, even in my own. multyple times.
i dont say true love doesnt exist, i just say fake love is a bitch
There is no compelling or credible evidence to prove it's anything more than chemicals and science.
So it does exist, just not in the way that you expect?
This is love.
I'm very lonely.
(Same guy) Well man, best of luck. Seems like you're someone who knows how to treat someone well and make them feel special. It's all about timing. One day a girl will be able to give back to you as much as you've given and sacrificed. You'll find her. Don't give up and don't feel any less of yourself just because of someone else's mistake.
I'll agree with you there. Fake love actually is a bitch. I've seen it happen with my friends where people pretend to be in love to get married. But there definitely is such a thing as love. Its not like in the movies but it does exist
kek this picture was taken right before I met her actually
A neurological con job
lol i didnt feel less off myself the moment i turned my back on her. but i also am very picky in girls, so i guess i will have to wait for my love..
and also, being "the one who knows how to treat girls" is really a stupid statement. actually its so damn easy. you just have to know her, and from time to time show her that you know her.
Love is having a chick like this cuck you!!! Feelsgoodman!!! U jellY?
love is something which no-one on /b will ever know or feel
Well I hope she's a respectable person now.
she was a respectable person then as well. She was just... looking.
It's a chemical con job.
I felt it once OP.
I love stuff, but being jn love is a scam.
Try it sometime though, it's an amazing feeling and I hope it works out for you.
She was just... looking.
What did he mean by this?
it feels like being at piece with the world around you. Romantic love is not real.
The closest thing I experienced was a dependency to the attention somebody was giving to me. I hope there is more to it than that otherwise love would be way overrated
so love is real but most of the time its fake. that gives me alot of hope actually
Love is when you find someone who pisses you off to the point where you want to fucking strangle them, yet you don't.
Can't say I have ever felt love, but given my body count, it's not for a lack of trying.
Neuroscifag here - that is correct, but no one described love as a physiologically conclusion but rather an idea of the collection of feelings resulting from what you described
You know that feeling, when it's in middle of winter and it's cold as fuck.
You wake up in the morning, all nice and toasty under a couple layers of comforters.
You feel like you've never been more comfy and secure since you've been in your mother's womb?
Kind of like that, but on the inside, too.
she took that pic to try to find a guy and she found me
I've been listening to this while reading the thread, man the feels.
Its like when you tell your gf you want to drive aimlessly around a park and go to mcdonnalds after, and she grabs your phone charger and her phone and loads up pokemon go.
The only thing negative here is you, Rust Cohle.
Every fucking time
Ah, I see.
It still means that she was trying to attract a guy by using the extremely common whorish tactic of cutting off the top of your head and leaving your tits in the shot, which might mean that 90% of what she has to offer is her body.
Dont get me wrong, I hope I'm wrong and she's a nice grill.
You ever have a dream where you win the lottery or something and you wake up and you think "Fuck... none of that was real... my life sucks."
It's like the exact opposite of that. You wake up from a dream and remember who you are, and then you remember "oh that's right, I love someone, and they love me, this is amazing"
You know when you watch donalds trumps debates and you get shivers down your spine, then you remeber you love America its like that.
Do it faggot
You can only love someone as deeply as you know them. Infatuation is desire to be with them because you think it would be fun. Love is care for their well being. Love takes time and shared experience to grow, whereas infatuation can cloud reality, especially at the beginning.
Love is when u go someplace because she might be there. It makes ur day when she says hello. She the cutest in the world when she smiles
that's a pretty good way of describing it
The fuck am I reading?
and to conclude i am almost definitely not gay
Fixed that for you
Love is when you would die for someone else...
Almost no one would do that. Just parents maybe
This made me think. Can one literally be addicted to love like drugs?
pile up all your money. everything you've ever earned, all your hope for humanity, all your creative energies and dreams. take a shit on it and set it on fire. then go to Sup Forums ... boom.
Its like being all the way up, nothing can stop you cause your all the way up, then you be like shorty what you want i got what you need. Then you all the way up.