Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?

Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?

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feels like bags of sand.

It's nature's way of tricking you into having and raising kids

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I have and while you're in love with some one and they're with you too it's the best feeling I ever had.
The hard part is when you break up.
You'll feel like you have an unfillable gap inside you, like a limb missing, like a part of you is gone and it hurts like a motherfucker.
With that in mind take your chances.

if you love someone that much why did you let it go? does it ever get better?

better question. Is love a rational thought?

It is often depicted as some kind of magical feelings, like being high on your own feelings or something, but that's not it at all. What you feel when you "fall for a girl" is a lie, an illusion. It's just the body chemistry going nuts, but it doesn't last. I mean, sure, it can last a few month, through which you'll feel so happy it's like being high, but same as an acid trip, you've got to come down at some point. And you always do. True love is what sometimes, not so often, remains left after that.
Most of the time, it doesn't feel like anything. Your loved one are just "normal" people, with whom you can get bored, annoyed, and even mad. You'll only realize how much you love them when they're in pain or if you're about to lose them : then, your heart will boil with pain and you will want nothing more than them to be ok and to be close to you so you can protect them.

That, man, is what love is.

better better question: Is love a thought?

Better question: what is love?

Its like knowing there's someone on your team who has your back 24/7 even if you make mistakes. and also that person makes your dick feel gud.

I had to let it go because I was gonna be away for a long time.
When I came back she was with someone else.

Love is harmony

Right.in.the.feels

To me, love is being willing to do anything to help someone else out, with no expectation of reciprocity.

I can name 4 people that by my definition I love.

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That's love.

Imagine it like being on cocaine. Feels so great, everything is so nice until in wears off and you are left with nothing but empty hands and realisation that you are alone

Baby don't hurt me

so have you ever felt like that?

it's being a disappointment but having her still care for you.

Yes, it's like being alone, but with another person in the room. hahahahaha

is it worth it?

is that pic related or are you a lonely disappointment

hmm im starting to get it, the point is, its never the same for everone but there is always pain involved. ok

>pic related

Love is having a raison d’être.

thats great, good for you:)

wow that is a beautiful phrase

It feels soft squishy and warm, but after about 20~ minutes, it gets Exhausting and old. The initial thrill fades and you are suddenly free to focus upon yourself again. But the Urge will never truly go away. It'll come back soon; How long depends on you. Could be days, or even hours.

BABY DONT HURT ME.

It's like the relieving feel after you took an enormous shit.

ACTUALLY....

scientists compared the effects of Cocaine withdrawal suffering to the effects of the lack of oxitocine (love hormone) in the body. The two effects are in fact VERY similiar.

here is a video with actually verified scientific info, with an interesting take on it.
watch it faggot

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love is not real. It is just a advertising gimmick.

scientific kek

Are you a robot or something?

i feel like youre the guy who wouldn't know anything about love, or social interaction or friends.

Too lazy for that, but it only proves my point doesn't it?

no i just dont understand love as well as i thought i did

well.... kinga yes. you can be hooked up (seriously) on love/cocaine and you suffer from withdrawal from both. after it ends, you feel miserabel. they even set back the same sensors in your brain which makes you sad.

so love is just chemicals and science, nothing more?

More or less this. Wife is pregnant, knows I don't want kids, and decided for us we are keeping it. All because she lost her fucking birth control for a week when we moved, didn't say a fucking word.

It's when your new relationship feels never go away.

theres always a way out, abortion? why are you keeping it?

do you want to know the science behind it ?
or the why do we feel those feelings ?
or "spiritual" / meaning of life gibberish ?

yeah, it's pretty much the same
yes

not spiritual just from the perspective of an average human, reasons, emotions, feelings etc no science. i think science makes people look at the little details rather than the big picture.

This. I will sum it up. Love is not a feeling or an emotion. It's a choice. It's an action. It's not something that happens to you it's something you do. I've been married 5 years. You think I still FEEL the way I did when we first held hands? When I first kisses her lips or rubbed my hands on her naked body? Of course not. The fireworks come and go at times but what remains is my steadfast commitment to loving the woman I vowed to love. That's it. You wake up... you say "today I will love my wife, my kids, my job, my life"... and then you DO IT.

>she lost her fucking birth control for a week

Oh yeah, I'm sure she "lost" it

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yes. exactly. even the feeling of otherwordly passion is the doing of vasopresin in your head, or some oxitocin in your blood. your sweating palm or racing heart is just the reaction to these and many other chemicals, like adrenalin/noradrenalin etc.

the sad thing is that there is absolutely nothing science cant explain, so it kills all our illusions of meanings of life. so yeah, love is natures way to keep you interested in sex, nothing else

Love is the currency of the woman.

i kinda feel something when i read stories like that, it makes me excited for some reason.

it's real, I feel it

I told her I want an abortion. She pulled the classic "I'm keeping it and if you don't want it there's the door"
So I'm ganna just kick her in my sleep until the problem is gone

>love is natures way to keep you interested in sex, nothing else
Reproduction would be no problem for us humans if we had no restrictions about it from society, like "family" and "monogamy". I we could just fuck around we could reproduce way more then we do. Love would rather restrict us from reproduction in this case

sex can get old, committing to a woman goes past all those stereotypical necessities in a relationship like money sex and beauty.

well then, i've been in love once. i had a bunch of girlfriends, but not one interested me more than a sexbag. i know its sad but whatever.. but man, even if i already know love is just the brains's lie, its still a sweet sweet lie.. like when you KNOW that you never can fuck a pornstar, but its good to put on a VR to vritually fuck them. you KNOW its a lie, but a sweet one.

love is nature and evolutions best lie. but i enjoy it while it lasts. but also love is not eternal, sadly.. so you need to redose yourself every few years, but because finding "true love" is fucking hard, this makes you sad more than happy.. if we were animals we wouldnt mind it.

whats wrong with having a kid? do you feel its too early? are you afraid of responsibilities and that your life will become boring or something?

This, so fucking this

>sex can get old, committing to a woman goes past all those stereotypical necessities

this is in fact true, BUT commitment is not only a social thing you know. even animals have the "love and commitment" thing going on, but only for a few months.. like a lion will "love" his family until the cubs can survive on their own. not a second longer.

this is why love disappears in humans too. we were not meant to be together for ever. thank christianity for that :)

Too early. I'm 20 she's 19. We live in a shitty trailer

it's feels good man. it's a strange sort of happy though because you always have to accept that it's going to be over soon enough. I'm really in love with my current girlfriend and I know I'll be with her for no doubt at least a couple years but I just know it's all inevitable sadness in the end. unless you're a person who can really easily let go of people/memories. I just drug away the pain and the memories instead of doing something positive with them like a normal person.

love is dope, sex is probably do per though. sleeping with a bunch of people while you can is fun imho. just wrap it up before you tap it up.

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we dont live long might as well experience love as a whole, i mean its good to feel pain and sadness, right? its what keeps us human.

Ouais, mais faut pas vivre pour non plus, vaut mieux considérer ça comme...un bonus disons...

But all she cares about now is the baby. So I'm ganna fucking crush that.

i definitely recommend experiencing true love. one year of live is worht a lifetime of sorrow afterwards.

and actually thumbs make us humans.

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yeah but the human mind has the capacity for complex emotions rather than instinctual feeling other animals get.

when u consistently care about each other, years pass and u dotn feel any less u jack off to the thought of her you feel good about her in front of anyone even when she is doing wrong

i feel bad for you but hopefully you can enjoy being a father some other time in life

It is called indirect fitness, you dont just care for your genes to spread, you do also for the ones who are genetically similar to you.
Love causes you to make a family and a family is the best way to prepare your childs for all the obstacles in life

Don't hurt me.

Best answer i've ever read 100% true

do we really? and if the answer is yes: is it good for us?

Stay with her and appreciate the sadness no other time will you feel such great emotions than when youre in love. its like an abstract painting theres warm colors and cool colors but in the end its beautiful keep the it going and dont let it end or youll regret it.

I asked her to wait a year or two till I can get my financial situation out of the shitter but she wouldn't have none of it. I hate my wife now, she sort of ruined the whole relationship with how she's been acting since we found out. Honestly I may kill it and leave her.

Quand j’étais en amour, c’était les seules années de ma vie ou j’étais vraiment heureux.

Mais bon. Your millage may vary.

to overcome is what makes you human. any animal can feel

yes. this is exactly what ruins it for us.

beasts enjoy a short love life, then forget, then die

humans enjoy a short love life, they remember, they are wise enough to think about it, to wonder, to be curious, and yet a human life is too short for us to truly understand what these retarded feelings are, so we spend our lives trying to figure it out.

A beast's life is to survive
A man's life is to yearn for knowledge

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yes. chemicals and science. what are you some kind of tin foil religious fag?

I will tell you what love is. Love is a constant longing for an other person. If you're in love all you ever want to is to be with the person you love, in a way you can not really explain. That feeling doesn’t go away, even if you fight, disagree about important matters or wherever.

One time i grew a tropical tree from the seed, it took a couple years to grow to a substantial size and i was there every step of the way. This isnt a good metaphor but i was proud as fuck i understand why she would want to keep it.

Love is knowing that you'll put up with someone just as much as they will put up with you. You can grow together and be the stability in each other's wandering paranoid minds. Someone you can let down your walls with who you will make feel ethereal.

LOL I'll never experience love: confirmed.

Underrated post

Love is getting hurt over and over again, and you're ok with it...

a "family" in the books of evolution is a small group for a short time, until the child can care for himself, SOMETIMES there are monogamous families in the wild, thats true

in the lives of humans, babies born far less developed and adept for life, thats the reason "love" lasts for at last a few years, and after a family is formed, another few years. parents are required a bit logner than with animals

No moar

Fuck having kids. I told the bitch I don't want them ever.

im not religious at all i just try to see value in things

you come from facebook, dont you boy.

>Sup Forums explain to me what love is? have you ever felt it? is it even real?

Love is an illusion. Dig it while it lasts. Love fades.

dont say that

KEK there is no value in hardly anything.