I Just got dumped by my girlfriend of 2.5 years. I have been working too much last years and she felt like she never was number 1 in my life and that I always put work before our relationship. I believe the reason was that she was on a 4 month exchange and directly after she came back, I needed to go work for 3 months (one month left) and she basically fell out of love with me. I also believe she might have met someone as her behviour changed very fast since like the last 1-2 weeks. I don't know guys, I really feel like shit and I have no one to talk to as she was the only person I used to talk to when I had anykind of problems. Fuck we even had plans of marriage that we spoke of like two weeks ago.
I feel like shit and I feel like I want to quit my job and just get her the fuck back. What the fuck should I do now?
Sorry for the rant and for any typos. I'm writing this on my phone.
Robert Brooks
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Cooper Harris
How do I know those shitty fucking feels, definitely someone else OP. On the bright side, someone else always has a smaller dick and is uglier. You might find it funny she went down hill. But it's not just something one can recover from. You're going to feel like shit for the next few months, probably. Just gotta keep going. You have a job, and if you're putting in that much time it must be a pretty damn decent job. If a girl can't appreciate that, she was never long term. I've had girls that talk about having my children and marrying me, in front of their own parents, While cheating on me. Bitches are crazy.
James James
hey try to look on the bright side, at least shes happy now.
Asher Hughes
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Gavin Clark
Thanks man.
I really believed she was the one. She was literally the nicest person ever and she always had my back if I needed to call her or speak to her. I was thinking in my head I should call her to talk about this shit feeling for a split second and I remembered that she is the damn reason for this. I run my own company, even if it's small it's doing okay for itself but I literally work 10-12 hours a day Monday to Saturday and every summer I am 3 months gone.
I was sure she would tolerate it and be fine but fuck man she apparently weren't fine with it at all. Like what happened, what changed? Sure she sometime complained that I worked too much and didn't have time for her but not SO much that she should've dumped me. I don't know whst to do. I'm crying like a bitch and I just was her back. I could fix all of this if I was there with her
Jeremiah Young
Dont quit because of her
Asher Ramirez
take her for a walk at a large state park. kill her. dig a grave with a trowel, wait a few hours, and then frantically call her friends. make sure that she doesn't use the phone while you are there. this will ensure you won't be placed with her there at the same time. speak of her in the present tense when questioned, and repress the memories so hard that you'll pass a polygraph. getting away with murder should make you feel pretty good.
Christopher Wright
Feel you bro my ex left me after 7 years for some bs excuse. Better just getting on with life need to ask yourself did you want to be with someone who deep down didn't love you anyways.?
Michael Lee
There is only one thing you can do now OP. You need to dump her nudes so we can all fap to them. That's the only way to recover.
Henry Johnson
Hey OP I've been there too. It feels like your life is over and you'll never love anyone again. It happened to me too but then I met another girl. She's perfect for me, makes me happy and we've been married 8 years now, HAPPILY married.
The chick before her I thought was the one. She cheated, I forgave. Cheated again and that was it though it wasn't easy. I was a fucking mess. Didn't sleep, didn't eat, had to tale antidepressants and talk to a psychologist. You'll get thru it, it may take some time but it will get better.
Thomas Carter
Time to be a Man who Goes Their Own Way.
Thomas Murphy
Just to add within a month i met a qt had a thing for a few weeks and it burned out bitches come and go your free and single now all that bitching you put up with for 2.5 years is all gone leave it women are horrible species.
Dylan Morris
I know what the pain feels like. I am ugly and I have always had a stuttering problem when I talk to people. Kissless virgin until 18. I met a girl online who was hot as fuck and from Sweden. She learned English just so she could talk to Me and I learned Swedish so I could talk to her. One day she stopped calling and skyping with me and ignored my calls for 5 long months. I knew she didn't die because she was being tagged in Facebook pics. I got depressed and dumped her because I didn't want her to finally respond and dump me. I wanted to spare myself of reading that email. 1 month later she calls me on Skype crying about how she is all alone and what she did wrong. We made a promise not to leave each other, so I did the pussy thing and told her that my dad threatened to kick me out if I continued online dating. She left me a sad goodbye and started dating one of her buff black friends from school. They have been together for 5 years now and counting. My first and only love was ruined by my own insecurities. Live with no regrets bro
Isaiah Sanchez
I just don't get how everything changed so suddenly. Literally 2 weeks ago all was fine and dandy. Now bam right in my face she fucking dumps me. I'm so sure she is cheating on me or something. Doesn't matter though, I might want her back but I would not take her back if I had the chance. There is no going back.
I also very much hate the mood swings. One minute I feel okay, next minute I am crying and want her back, the minute after I am angry at her and want her to die.
It's so weird though. My brother broke up with his gf two months ago. They were together for 7 years. A worker of mine broke up with her bf just yesterday. My bestfriend broke up with his gf of 6 years a month ago. Shit is weird.
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David White
:( I laughed a little
Easton Howard
I left my girlfriend of 4 years for an upgrade. Maybe that's what happened with you. Only the vice versa version
Justin Ramirez
Start see a new woman. Right away. And make sure she know you're dating someone else.
It'll drive her crazy.
Jack Adams
Wot?
Reading that makes me feel like I should try to get her back but I really think it's too late. She was unhappy for too long and fell out of love (according to her). I don't believe it's possible to re-kindle feelings that have been lost.
Jacob Gray
If a three months absence is all it took for her to fall completely out of love with you, she must have no loved you very much to begin with.
Tyler Flores
Maybe. I guess I wasn't the kind of man shw wanted so, she might have changed me for another.
I don't want to get into those kind of games. I have no reason to make her feel bad nor drive her crazy
Daniel Johnson
It's ok OP, nothing lasts forever anyway.
Gabriel Smith
Well it was 4 months of her being in exchange and directly me 3 months of being gone. Something is up though cause she was missing me and all that stuff just 2-3 weeks ago. My gut is saying she met some guy, maybe from her new internship place. Something just smells wrong here
Colton Collins
Talk to her?
If it still doesn't work out, reach out and touch someone.
Someone like a prostitute.
Hudson Green
You faggots need to stop giving this cuck bad advice.....
OP, Post pics of your GF....Topless preferably...
Cooper Jackson
There is at least one other thread right now with people talking about their relationships going belly up. They may not realise it, but their fucked up work-life-balance is in the center of it. "...didn't have time for her, always tired, decline in sex life, yadda yadda". Same here. I feel bad for you, yes. But why the fuck do you just accept to spend over one third of your day working? Human relationships were never designed to exist under those conditions, speaking from an evolutionary point of view. I hope one day people wake up and start actively changing the general situation of the employer-employee-relationship. It's possible; many countries, many businesses already work towards making conditions for working people better. In the US though, the idea of fighting for worker's rights, not to speak of labor unions, is interpreted as socialist madness. Sorry for the rant, but this grinds my gears.
To address your issue: Don't look for your luck in the place where you lost it. You can give it a shot, but it sounds like it's gonna be hard or impossible to convince her to get back together. She probably wouldn't have left you if she wasn't sure or had another option up her sleeve.
Camden Kelly
OP, just move on. I know it sucks, but things have a funny way of working out. Try and surround yourself with friends and family and focus on keeping your business going.
You never know, she might come back. I lost the love of my life back in 2009. I was miserable for a long time but I did the best I could and dated a few other people. In 2012 we happened to run into each other out in public and just hit ir off again. We got married 3 years ago.
I know you don't want to hear of other's good fortune, but what I'm saying is, as cliche as it is, things will work themselves out. Maybe it'll be with her, but maybe not. You just gotta' keep going until you find out.
Jason Morris
The 7 year itch phenomenon or the fact that women just in general crave more attention than you can offer it sounds like she has met someone else. In my case me and my ex were trying for a baby she then became funny with me for a couple of days i asked her if i had done something wrong but she broke down and told me she had feelings for some shmuck at her work. Basically kicked her out the door tried to work through things for a day or so but i realized she wouldn't change anything on her terms in regards to her work commitments Ie changing her times or location which she could have done with no hassle as it was frequent by most staff to stay with me and i just said fuck it why bother is this the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with when she was unwilling to sacrifice any part of her job to avoid this guy she had feelings for. Felt cucked but i still had my pride bro so i kicked that bitch out never heard from her again but that's not to say i don't think about her i mean i never wasted 7 years with her she wasted her own time staying i was in a relationship with someone i loved and she felt different . I'm around 2 months since the breakup and tbh it felt like a death there was no real closure it was her being selfish and leaving . It hurt like fuck man and it still does. I then got in contact with another girl who was a few years younger but her Mum was an absolute control freak and that was that i couldn't take it no more and told her its not working out we ended amicably. Get your shit together first then start dipping them bitches.
