Need advice Sup Forums.
Basically, I had sex for the first time yesterday, however, for some reason, I didn't really feel much, and couldn't cum.
We did it for about half an hour, but I didn't really get close to climax, and in the end we were both too tired to continue.
Is this normal? I thought I wouldn't last a minute the first time. And could it possibly be because the condom I used was a bit too tight for me?
Pic related. My dick.
What kind of condom did you use? Maybe her pussy was a blown out flat tire or you might be gay. Here's me in a magnum
You've probably masturbated to too much trap and loli porn, and now normal human sex just won't cut it.
Durex XL. 57mm I believe.
But I think I need 60 or 64mm.
You're new to sex, it takes time to work out how to make it feel the best (for you and her).
I bet you didn't cum the first time you masturbated either.
I guess, but still, most people don't last a minute, and I went at it for half an hour without a lot going on for me.
The Magnum looks a little big on you bud kek
Would kill for that body.. if anything just a dick big enough to fit snugly into a condom. A regular sized one fits me lose and I only unroll it like 65-80% of the way
On any medication?
Nope.
"Most people" isn't a thing. I had the same experience as you.
Honestly, now, i get laid a lot, word spreads. Not cumming too fast is a good thing.
You'll learn how to make it feel best for you, then you'll be able to fuck for hours, until she's done, then cum whenever you feel like.
More practice is all thats needed ;)
Unless it counts that I had a paracetamol about 5 hours before.
Try and get her on BC and raw dog it, OP?
Use regular magnums, they stretch easily and are really solid if you're 7.5 inches long or more. Really they best if you're 8+ honestly
I hope that's true. Ill try bigger condom next time, and a bit of lube on the inside or something like that.
And yea, she was glad I lasted that ling. She was worn out before I was. :D
Uhm, no, not an option.
>paracetamol
Paracetamol is a blood thinner which allows for more blood flow, should have made you harder/more sensitive, if anything.
worn out from sex - nope hasn't happened
Trust me bro, you're good. Plus you've got a good cock and body. You'll be a stud in no time.
If you're on antidepressants and/or anti-psychotic meds, that's why. If not, I have no idea.
I hope so XD
Was she a virgin?
Yup normal bro. It happened to me when I lost it at 15. She was a virgin too and so neither of us had any clue other than condom.
Her face was all contorted in pain but said keep going. I felt like an asshole and when the condom broke I was glad it was over.
Second time was marginally better but the third time it was fun from there on out.
Good luck!
>I had sex for the first time yesterday
>I didn't really feel much
>couldn't cum.
>Is this normal?
>condom I used
>Pic related. My dick.
You're circumcised, which reduces sensitivity
You wore a condom, which reduces sensitivity
You've only cum from fapping before, which means as a cut guy you're probably accustomed to using a tight deathgrip.
Because your parents kindly screwed up your dick when you were born you're going to have to train yourself to get sufficient stimulation from a vagina, if you want to cum that way.
No
Did you make her cum?
Yea, I worried that was it.
How would I do that?
Hey op, I had the same thing happened when I lost my virginity and I think it's a common thing. For me I think it might have been due to nervousness and the condom. I was also thrusting really slow which didn't help either. You'll get over it after a while and it will be better. Also if you're not completely attracted to her it can put a damper on it as well. Finally, condoms make for bad sex unless it's just a random hookup or one night stand. Good luck.
I think so.
This guys full of it.
Why the fuck would I death grip my cut dig to jerk off? Light touch from my wife or personal time with lube feels great.
Fuck if anything my first orgasm is annoyingly fast but as I'm not a beta fag I don't lose erection.
That's not always fun for the wife either though just pounding away for ages......
How much do you wank? I know when I jerk off a lot, I can't cum from any sex or blowjobs.
Luckily it doesn't matter anymore, but if you know you're going to get some, don't wank for a few days prior. I'm gonna be getting some dome on Sunday, so I can't jerk it til then after today.
And she knew you were a virgin?
Lol all you fucking beta virgins are ridiculous.
OP, she probably has a loose pussy. It happens.
If you're fucking a vagina and it's "not doing much for you", you can toss that cunt and find a better one.
I'll try that.
This. If you can fuck without, it's awesome. If not, don't bother - just rubber up. I found I just spent the entire time worrying if I'm not completely happy going bare.
She did.
You don't love her
Funny thing with this post is it makes you look like a sexless asshole.
No fucking way where you king fuck master right out of the gate. Claiming to be gives me thoughts of you being the virgin 15 year old in this conversation.
Try anal with a close relative such as your dad or a close uncle if you can cum whilst pounding your 100% gay verified.
Dude, you're good.
She's gonna tell her friends. Some of them may want to fuck you, if you get a chance, fuck the loudest one, the one with the biggest mouth. And fuck her well, use your stamina powers.
Gateway to unlimited pussy.
This. Had a similar first time. Fucked for half an hour and went limp coz fucking tired. Got it right on the third try. Came together and everything. Had to be on top and banged the shit out of her after she came a few times. Was so fucking relieved that I laughed. Good times. Also use the thin type cono.
Holy shit, I never thought of that :D
Stop masturbating for a few weeks, then next time you do it only grip your dick with the lightest amount of pressure, no squeezing it, and use a lot of lube too to reduce the friction.
You need to try to get your body to respond to a lower level of stimulation than it's been used to. Think of your dick as a drug addict that requires 10x as much to get high as a first time user. You have to wean it off the technique you've spent years working on.
This. And don't watch porn for a while. It can fuck you up.
You are just mad, fuckwad. Anyone who knows the difference between good pussy and loose pussy would agree with me.
Just like some dudes have tiny dicks (you probably) some chicks have a fucked up loose vag.
Its one of two things for people according to my friends and I.
1. You are done in like a minute.
2. You take forever.
This is because neither you or her have any idea what your doing. keep trying it and do more foreplay stuff and youll be fine.
Okay. Starve myself of masturbation. Got it.
Everytime a cut guy dry palms we damage nerve endings
Stop spankin your monkey and it will feel so much better
Gl
She was probably loose dawg
This. Until recently I was single for a year and only had one one night stand in that time. Couldn't cum with my new gf despite her being a fucking filthy hottie into all the good stuff. Gave up porn, started Cumming normally :-)
Will do
It doesn't damage the nerve endings, it just encourages the layer of keratin covering the glans to grow thicker, which buries the nerve endings farther from the surface.
An exposed glans essentially turns into a callus in order to protect itself from friction, as there's no longer anything else to act as a barrier over what originally was a delicate membrane.
So, no jerking off anymore.
How big is it completely rock hard?
This used to happen to me when I first started having sex. It could be:
1) you're bad at it and you need to practice more so you know how to get yourself off.
2) you were nervous or pysched out, even if you're not having a full on panic attack being a bit nervous can cause you to lose sensation because you're preoccupied.
3) You are too used to masturbating and watching porn, sex feels a lot different than jerking off and if you spend a lot of time jerking off then sex doesn't feel as good in comparison. Not necessarily because it's better, but because you are used to masturbation and that's what you recognize as the sensation that leads to climax.
The best thing you can do is keep on having sex and just figuring out what works for you. It's best to find an understanding partner who will work with you until you get it.
It's probably not the condom, but if you want to try something new I think the best kind for less sensitive people is Skyn. They're non-latex and just feel better, but there a hell of a lot more expensive than regular condoms.
Had a similar experience one time when I was drunk and fucked a single mom. But it literally was like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. So I just could not finish.
17-18cm long, 14cm around at its thickest
This happend for me too. I was thinking about why I could not cum while I was having sex, it kinda ruined the mood and made me unable to cum. I think you have to relax and let it "flow" enjoy the moment and do not think about cumming at any time.
This worked for me. It took some times to get it, but it might work for you too.
buy a fleshlight or something.
would that work?
I'm 19.5 cm long and 15 cm thick, yeah try using the kyng size skyn brand. I'm the guy who posted his dick up there in the magnum. Magnums really fit best it seems for people 21 cm or more
That's a fucking thick dick.
Is it? I didn't think it was that big
It should do. The material inside is really soft, and feels much gentler than a hand when it's lubed up, plus the hard case prevents you from being able to squeeze your dick when you use it.
Just don't get one with a crazy texture, as that'll defeat the purpose. Try a smooth one, or one with gentle ribbing akin to a vagina.
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Stop jerking off completely.
Only get your pleasure from others.
Since your body is used to doing it only how you like it you wont cum from normal sexual stimuli.
I learned the hard way as well.
Woman thought i was a sex god becuase i could fuck for hours.
In reality i just liked the stroke on my ego.
Average girth is 4.9 inches to 5.5, you're almost 6
14 cm is 5.5 inches. So that's about average.
It's not that uncommon. We did it for about two hours my first time (with breaks for booze, bathroom, water etc. It was fun but not very sexy). We did it again the morning after and I came in a matter of minutes. It's a mix of high expectations and too much masturbation.
Stop trying to achieve an orgasm when you masturbate, and edge instead. It'll make you more sensitive. You'll get good at controlling when you cum too. Only touch your dick lightly, never grip it hard.
As a 17.5, 15cm around, We can probably relate about confusing dick size (it's "huge", but it seems quite normal, right?) and that feeling that most people seem to be lying about their dick sizes.
(Also, magnums for >21cm? Do you even realize how small their market must be?...)
this.
And don't use porn when you masturbate. It will eventually fuck you over, because your real life partner won't do it for you like the porn does.
Trust me on this.
Upper average though. I'm 5 inch thick, yet 5.5 inches thick feels considerably thicker.
>I'm 19.5 cm long and 15 cm thick, yeah try using the kyng size skyn brand. I'm the guy who posted his dick up there in the magnum. Magnums really fit best it seems for people 21 cm or more
the whole point about magnums is girth, you seem to have a pencil dick, I am shorter at 18 cm but my girth is 17 CM. I need magnums, you could use a regular really
That's why I was recommending the skyn kyngs that I usually like to use
Check em, it's not really a pencil. It's just for how long I'am I should be thicker. It's like slightly above avg thickness maybe and well over avg length
Low testosterone.
I had the same issue, but once I started getting T-shots, I could cum in seconds.
you can harpoon that poon like a spearchucker
Keks
OP here, thanks everyone for the information.
I'll see what i can do with it.
>2
Has happened to me a couple times with really hot chicks. I was super anxious around the same time I was hooking up with multiple girls and I just couldn't cum/keep my dick up.
It really sucked because the girls I fucked i fantasized blowing my load in their mouth
a good compliment is to tell a girl she's hot and that you wish she was in porn so you could jack off to her
>This
Is bullshit. Cut the crap, being cut doesn't reduce sensitivity by much and who the fuck uses a death grip on their junk?
Lol dude no you didn't. when a girl cums you KNOW it
do you jerk off alot? I was always fucking girls in one night stands or drunk/fucked up and never came, then I get a steady girl for awhile, stopped jerking off for like a week/week and a half then BAM I was busting nuts and it was amazing... also find a girl with no morals so you can fuck her raw and if somehow your dumbass cums in her, she has no morals so baby is kill.
Yes this worked for me many times
Yea, I wanted raw, but she's one of those girls that thinks a zygote is human, so that was a no-go.
My first time I lasted for about an hour and she was getting sick of it. Ripped off the condom and was super close in a matter of minutes. Just be sure to pull out.
>Just be sure to pull out
But it feels amazing to just bust without pulling out. Get her on the pill.
Even if you find a chick willing to sex w/o condom, don't risk. Herpes also she will change her mind about baby killing when one's in the oven.
Anyway, stop jerking off entirely. Then try again. Condoms suck really bad, but they're worth it. Just gotta learn to nut with them on, which generally requires stopping jerking it for a while.
>put on raunchy porn
>get bigger condom
>Pinch tip
>Roll on
>Keep in mind its not a sprint more of a marathon
>Gotta stat slow and build up intensity
>When you get tired throw her on top
>And finally, blowing a load laying on your back seems much harder than doggy, miss or pile d.
God Speed.
i didn't come either the first time i fucked a girl. it's nerves i guess, i was so worried about getting it right i just couldn't come. but christ, she did. about 4 times. she'd just go all stiff and shake my dick was so good. and that was when i was 15.. imagine what i can do today.
It was the condom. Had the same problem with my first girl. Could fuck her for an hour without feeling anything. Try to get XXL condoms, they feel much better!!!
>Do you even realize how small their market must be
Actually pretty large, a lot of people buy the wrong size. Magnums etc are a status symbol, and pathetic humans are always buy whatever they can to feel better about themselves.
Sheeeeeet