General Feels thread?

General Feels thread?

Can't sleep and don't know why but i feel terrible

I keep thinking about school, and this girl im talking to and idk why but i just feel like breaking down

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What a sack of puss

Yea, i know. I wish i knew why, it's not like anything happened and i had a good weekend but my mind is all over the place.

If you can't sleep, just stay where you are and wait.

I have work in 5 and a half hours, which means i should sleep but i dont give a shit because i feel like shit

I'm quitting my job tomorrow.

I've only had it for a week, I feel a little shitty for not giving it more time. But it's in a department in a factory that is so loud, that you can't hear anybody. I've been training, but with the noise level so high, you can't be explained to when you're fucking up, people just point and wave their hands and shit. I'm an auditory learner, so not being able to hear explanations is really hindering me.

Mind you im not here to just bitch. Everyone post what's been bothering them lately and we try to help eachother out.

Try talking to management about it. Having one good talk and having things explained can really help you out.

I also work at a loud ass factory and It was a little hard at first since like you i couldnt hear shit and just went with the flow. Luckily the people there were nice enough to help me out and not make me feel like absolute shit.

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Do you NEED the job? What kinda position are you in? student, have kids etc

Seems Hitler gave him a purpose in the end kek

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so in a way my pic has a happy ending

I've already made up my mind on quitting. I'm really not feeling the work, and while it's not the smart/responsible thing to do, it's been a long time since I've done something because I wanted to.

I'm only 23, there are plenty of jobs out there where I can learn at a rate that is good for both parties. This isn't the last job in the world. I struggled all day with making this decision.

I need A job. This job is a good opportunity for a young person like myself. But jobs are everywhere.

I've never worked well with machinery. And in my department, it's too loud for people to explain to you when you fuck up, or how to do things properly. It's just a bunch of hand signals and shit.

Learning how to choose for yourself is hard. I'm also 23 and everyone I know is grappling with similar struggles, to varying degrees. Pulling back the curtain on adulthood, so to speak.

For sure. He became one of the most respected members in the Nazi Party as head of Popaganda and fought for his country and what he thought was right ; whether we agree with what they did or not there's not much more a man could ask for.

There's always something out there for someone, you just have to look for it in unlikely places i think.

Factory isn't career material anyway. Most states have apprenticeship programs, might be a good bet.

Then quit. Do what makes you happy and dont make yourself miserable for a paycheck unless you absolutely NEED it. What kinda jobs you looking to do instead?

I felt like this last week or so and it was because my living situation changed.Are you going through any change, OP?

I have chosen to do right by other people for most of my life. Not that I plan on changing from here on out, but I think this is a time where I need to do something right by myself for once. And by "right by myself", I mean "right by myself immediately", not in the long run. Obviously sticking with it would be best in the long run ($12.75 per hour, benefits, insurance, advancement, etc.). But it's not what I want right now, and I'm young enough to be able to make a decision like this and not have it affect the outcome of my life.

Nobody really tells you when you're an adult. You kinda have to learn and adapt which is hard and sucks.

I would have feelings about someone... only if i had someone in my life.

I don't know why I even care about losing her. I barely even talked to her, but I did knew her for a long time.

This place is a good place for the long haul. I'm just not into the work or the learning environment. I'm just fortunate to be in a position like this where I have options.

I don't really know. I've worked a few different kinds of jobs, and while none of them I particularly enjoyed, I didn't exactly hate them either. And even if I did, I was in scenarios where I could be explained to where I was going wrong, whereas in this factory, our department is so loud that you can't communicate verbally.

feel the same way

No changes. I mean school is approching and i've been putting off shit relating to that and i hate myself for that, but whats new. and the girl i mentioned is coming back form her summer vacation. I haven't seen her in months so im actually excited but idk.

Do you learn any skills at this job or is it repetitive dronework?

posted this in last thread but it 404'ed
>be me back in HS
>not particularly popular but have a few friends that I hang with
>one day when I was feeling particularly lonely I decide to see if any of my friend wanted to do anything
>all of them already have plans for that night
>whatever no big deal
>later that night on my computer decide to do something other than Sup Forums and go check facebook
>see one of my friends had been posting pictures of the three of them at the movies and eating chines food
>feelsbad.jpg
>tfw they went out of their way to ovoid me
they still do this, it's gotten so bad it's to the point that they don't even try to hide the fact that they do it any more they just plan things right in front of me but don't include me.
>I like going to the movies
>I like eating chines food

Someone will come along. Try to put yourselves in a position where you can meet and socialize with new people if you can.

You never know when you'll find a diamond in the rough.

I've never had a real relationship. I've recently met someone and I'm not sure if my feelings are real or I'm just fucking lonely. I don't even know if she really likes me and I'm definitely fucking this up. I'm a mess over something that shouldn't be this serious.

I quit grad school because it made me want to kill myself. Now my career prospects are fucked, but at least I'm alive and able to feel happy from time to time.

You know what made me do it? I thought about what I would say to a friend who was in the same situation. It can be hard to extend the same compassion to yourself that you do to others.

New friends and self reflection are best in this case.

Most likely theyre just assholes, or maybe you're doing something unintentionally that they don't like or tat puts them off. Are you nice to them and such?

Maybe you are needy and annoying

any man with this many emotional feels should wear a tampon. Like, holy shit how do you even have any testosterone left?

It's so sad that you think you have to say this. I'm sorry our fucked up society failed you.

OP here, same scenario here. The feelings between me and this girl are mutual but we go to school in diff cities and were both busy but i want to make something work idk, im just thinking of all the worst case scenarios and panicking because i like her so much and literally think of her every day. Idk if thats how you're feeling too

I dont see anything wrong with what he posted. Grow a pair.

I can't sleep either OP. I just lay there staring at the ceiling. I crave people to talk too, but I have no friends.

Either a troll or just trying to asert dominance to try to make yourself feel better.

Without emotions you're just an empty shell, no amount of dude bro-ness can hide that.

Anything bad happenin to you bud?

We're here to talk to, hence why i made this post as i needed someone as well.

Whats going on with you?

>Grow a pair
What do you mean? Testicles? What makes you think I don't have them?

This is what I'm talking about.

I think I'm an okay guy, people tell me Im funny, im nice I don't think I'm annoying and i don't talk all that much the more I thin about this though the more self conscious, but I don't know why this sort of stuff usually doesn't bother me

I'm socially retarded so I don't know how to progress. I've only known her for a month after a drunken encounter at a bbq.We've hung out a few times, but I don't know how to be anything but friends with people, and even then I have trouble. She is nice, but I don't know if it's loneliness or genuine interest.

Grad school for what, user?

Men who agonize over their 'feelings' are acting unnaturally and probably have low T.

20 years later when you see your friends who went down paths they didn't like and are regretting it you will realize you made the right decision.

If you ask people if they could go back in time to change something 80% of answers will be something like you mentioned. Wish they could go back and choose happiness instead of slaving away for something that makes you miserable and wasting away the best years of your life.

i've heard that phrase so many times already....

This happened to me in HS. I was similar, nice perosn most people found me funny but i felt like my friend group almost found me annoying/ignored me. Like if we went out for lunch or whatever, if i just left they wouldnt realize. I had 1 close friend in the group and we kinda split off from them and did our own thing.

man up and tell her how you feel

I think you're just hiding your feelings and forcing them down, because they hurt whenever you let them out.

Nah man, read a book written by any great man in history. Feelings abound. Men invented poetry for crissakes.

I just feel empty. I don't have a horrible life, i have friends and a nice relationship with my family, but i still feel sad on the inside. Most of the time that i am with my friends/family i have fun and everything, but when i'm back home i just feel so fucking empty and sad...

She's coming back from vacation in like a week. I will then and talk to her face to face and tell her how im feeling.

And there's a reason for that

Some shit I didn't even like in the first place. Physics I guess.

Just wish I knew what "choosing happiness" meant for me. But I'm working on figuring it out!

Try exercise and your little problems will seem benign. Men are meant to move forward and not dwell. Great men in history would laugh at your indecisiveness.

Getting a divorce. Husband told me a month after we were married that he didn't want me anymore. Over the past few years it's just gotten worse, so I finally decided to get out. He finally decided to wake up and try for the relationship, but it was too little too late. Since he can't have me, he just wants to destroy me now. Every message he sends me is just full of insults. He wants me to die, etc. I don't understand how you can claim to love someone and then do things like that. I have been and continue to be polite and friendly to him, but it's gotten to the point that I'm afraid of what he might do the next time we're in the same room.

I just want it to be done, so I can build a new foundation for my life. I want to not feel worthless and like a burden to everyone. It's frustrating.

Recently I've just been feeling sad and empty, and it's pissing me off because I have no reason to be feeling this way. Nothing in my life is going poorly, I just got promoted at work, college is going well and I'm moving in with two really good friends in a month, and yet, I think I've been feeling even worse of late. It's pathetic that despite my life going relatively well, I still feel just a lack of anything really.

Same here dude.

>had 1 close friend in the group and we kinda split off from them and did our own thing.
This is exactly what you should do. You don't need to have a hundred (or whatever many) friends to be happy.


To be perfectly honest I've been on the opposite side if that, and I know how it is. In college I knee a guy who really tried to be friends with me and my friends, but none of us liked him. We pretended to laugh a his jokes but didn't find them funny. That kind of thing. It just wasn't going to work. I think he knew the benefit of casting a wide net though, and eventually he had plenty of close friends who he seemed to get along with better.

It just takes time to settle out

>Try exercise and your little problems will seem benign

I life weights 5 times a week and run on weekends. Not everyone here is a NEET basement dweller who is crying over everything.

And the fact that you're here means you have something bothering you as well. Hell you don't even have to post it as a reply to this if its your pride you're worried about, just comment somewhere and we'll help you out.

And every great man in History worth a damn wasn't great his whole life.

You have depression m8. It's treatable.

Love yourself.

I'm old enough to know that doesn't apply always, there is people who will live and die alone and i'm pretty sure i'm one of them.
I just have to make sure to make a great life until my death

>Love yourself.

Some of the best advice anybody can take home tonight.

I'm telling ya man, read a book. They had to take the reigns of life too, they weren't born holding them.

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>17 posters
Well this is embarrassing

I don't wanna sound like a optimistic hippie, but who says they didn't have someone but lost them/fucked up their chance.

There's someone out there for everyone, but not everyone will find them. Thats the reality.

Just hold out to the hope that on this planet of over 7 billion people there is at least another person looking for what youre looking for.

OP here, I try to reply and help every post that I can, so im throwing off the balance.

This is a much more positive feels thread than I've seen and that actually makes me kinda happy

But back to feels. Gf recently broke up with me after being together for such a long time. She said that she wants find out who she is and what she wants from life. The odd thing is that she keeps telling our friends that she still loves me. And here I am feeling completely alone, understanding that this is what she needs but I'm completely miserable.

Inb4 she wants to fuck other guys, she's not that type of girl. She truly is unique and I love her.

This pity party has nothing to do with taking the reins

Try to find happiness is knowing this is what will make her happy. If you love her this should bring you some happiness, it won't be easy tho

I'm not really in this convo, but who cares?

You don't have to get married. Or have a girlfriend or w/e. I don't see what the big deal is either way, but I do see a LOT of young men who agonize about not meeting up to the expectation they have imposed upon themselves.

Honestly I think you are more attractive when you are living as the best version of yourself that you can be, anyway, if you happen to care about that sort of thing.

He's probably just a troll

That's where you're wrong, this isn't a pity party.

Were helping eachother out so we can become these great men that you keep mentioning.

If you can't see that you're blind.

I know there exist a probability, in a mathematical way
But hope is dead for me long ago

Then maybe you'll find something to rekindle it.

Step 0 m8. They're at "admitting they have a problem," which is where they have to be right now in order to eventually get where you seem to want them to be.

>be me last week
>recovering alcoholic with an alcoholic gf also in recovery
>gf relapses tries to drag me down too
>hits me with everything I've confided in her that fuck me up inside
>ouch
>posts on Fb that I hit her
>file restraining order against her
>starts threatening to fuck my car up
>woahbitchnotmyride.jag
>she finally sobers up after almost dying
>apologizes
>fair enough
>house gets burglarized 2 days later
>everything stolen, including roommates stuff
>fuckme.jpg
>almost relapse
>3 days later car gets backed into
>when does the bullshit end?

It has not been my fucking week to say the least.

Yea I just have to face it. It's just been so hard. I haven't felt this alone since before we were together. I just hope I can return to her. She's my everything.

I agree with you man
Look up testosterone studies, it doesn't affect men nearly as much as you think it would
It's sad to see that society has imposed such wrongful expectations on men to be stoic and emotionless

High school fag needs relationship advice of this girl
>>i like this girl since 8th grade
>>ask her one day who she likes
>>says my best friend
>>mfw i sat in my room for about 14 hours thinking about life
>> not that popular have depression
>> still like this girl but have talked to her less
>>she invited me to carnival half a year ago
>>mfw i was the only one she invited

Is there hope should i ask her shes a good friend would it ruin it? and if i did where should i go with her. (never had a gf before beta fag here help)

Me too, stay strong man.

That sounds like shit for you. Stay safe bud.

The only girl that wants to fuck me lives in the U.S. everyone here fucking hates me and I hate myself too. I've been drinking and smoking like crazy lately. We talk constantly and thoughts of being with her are consuming me.

Most people go through life rehashing the same sob stories(excuses). Congratulations if that's not you, but it is the vast majority.

You can't be sad with Fiji!

I will Senpai

Talk to your best friend and tell him whats going on. if he's a bro he will help you out. Also be straight with her, but dont come off desperate.

There's nothing worse then hiding your feelings, doing nothing and having regret eat at you years later ; trust me.

Slam her dude. Get revenge porn on her, or take legal routes.

The law is your friend. Use it to its full extent and prosecute her fucking ass.

So fucking excited for my sadboys sweatshirt. Also this is Fiji guy again.

Self-hate is a cycle, that's right. Helping each other out is one way to begin to put the brakes on it.

Time will tell user...

I set standards for myself that are impossible and any small mistake is the end of the world for me. I'm a perfectionist and if anything goes wrong I just take it out on myself for never doing good enough. I can't accept things for the way they are and it's gotten to the point where I can't enjoy anything anymore I just take everything so personal and so seriously.

Thanks user what would you do on a first date what do i even talk to her about?

I love that sweatshirt. Is it a refference to something or an original piece.

Looks like something filthy frank would make.

High school fag again her dad likes me i know that for a fact and thats a big plus because he is religious