Ex virgin here; we've got a problem, Sup Forums.
Lost my virginity a few hours ago, but for whatever reason, I just had trouble getting it up. When she sucked my cock, I could BARELY feel it, and I had to keep telling her that it wasn't her.
I ended up just eating her out but I have no idea why I couldn't get hard.
Is it because it was my first time? I can usually get rock hard just by having a slut sit on my lap, but my dick just retreats when it FINALLY gets to be inside a pussy.
stop being so concerned and it'll be alright next time
its normal.
i think you might be gay user
It's pretty much always disappointing the first time.
Give it a few more times, you'll start to like it.
don't worry. same thing happened to me my first time except i eventually got like 87% hard and just fucked her w that. if its w someone you know and trust just go try and fuck her again. you'll get it up eventually
but you didnt lose your virginity...
And dont worry, it happened to me like the 4 first times with my gf, it sometime happens to me in the middle of 2nd or 3rd round but it gets rarer with time.
I got my penis inside of her and thrust a few times, but it kept going limp.
It also doesn't help that the condom fucking desensitized my dick and that my dick had trouble going inside her vagina. I think it was too wide.
Happened to me as well. Anxiety and porn addiction caused it. Quit the porn and just keep trying. Sex is like anything else, the more you so it, the better you get.
It just sucks b/ro.
Based on how old I am, my hormones should be fucking skyrocketing. I get hard just looking at a nice ass, it's insane I couldn't get hard now.
I got diamond hard when she started to grind on my dick while I was wearing shorts, but after the shorts came off and I put the condom on.....limp.
That is normal just don't masterbate for long time 3 days or so then meet her and fuck her, good luck
You were probably just nervous user. I mean I didn't have the limp dick shit going on but I didn't even cum my first time. After a few more times you'll realize it's just sex and you'll get over yourself. Unless you're gay or have autism or something.
How old are you?
Wizard?
You sound like one... having a slut sit on my lap (lapdance); the condom fucking desensitized my dick ;
I'm a summerfag. According to the rules of Sup Forums, I must tell you that I am 18.
So, I am "18." Not a wizard, faggot.
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You got netvous. Stop jacking it so much and next time you will explode.
it sucks but it's normal, happened to me tons of times till I got used to sex. I was 25 and anxious as fuck to finally get laid
the secret is not giving a fuck. preoccupation and anxiety are a boners worst enemy
1st time for me i lost wood while going to grab the condom, dont worry op, yes youre a faggot, but its normal.
youre just too used to porn, give it a 2nd or 3rd try and youll be ok.
I jacked like two days before. I'll try to put it off for a week.
become a cuck or a trap
Normal.
This happens to like 90% of guys. Nobody talks about it.
Are we the same person? Literally happened to me.
Literally happens to everyone.
Its nerves you'll be fine.
Uh... yea... you didn't really lose your virginity dude. Going inside and going limp is hardly sex. Nice try though. Sounds like you need Viagra. Most dudes get rock hard their first time and cum quickly, something's off with you.
not him but condoms still kill my boners to this day. At least I don't need them with my wife.
Really, REALLY hope this isn't just a condom issue.
Having a kid at my age would fucking destroy my life, so condoms are a must.
Yeah you probably don't want to bring that up or it will be the last time she fucks you. Don't blame her pussy for your limp dick man.
And it happens to most of us the first few times, to much pressure.
You are normal any fag that tells you other wise are an ass hole don't lessen to him just do it next time if she is a good girl she will understand other wise she is a bitch that you don't need.
What's this whole "it happens to most guys" bullshit? I got so hard and horny my first time I thought my dick was going to explode.
Yeah, you're just too caught up in performing to actually be able to enjoy it.
Don't worry about it and you'll be fine, remember sex is supposed to be fun. And the more you do it, the better you'll get.
>18
>first time
> doin it cow girl
>cums in 2 secs
>no erectile dysfunction
only hold off on jacking if the chick is a sure hit. If shes not and you let the sexual tension build up and get to you it will turn her off if you look too desperate.
No dude, I didn't mean her pussy was too wide, her pussy was small.
I have a larger than average girth; plus, I think the condom was too tight. The head of my dick just wouldn't go in.
Nah, she probably has a higher sex drive than me. Literally told me she wants to fuck every time she sees me.
First time, is wood time. Solid oak. You should be able to hang your coat off the edge.
Y'all are gay. Just in denial. YOU are the guys who in a few years moves on to 'bating to traps and cucking with your wives. Not yet, however, you're still learning who you are.
Remember this post in a few years.
Btw, you'll always have a limp dick. That's just how it is. Everytime you take off your pants in front of a woman, softy softy. Melt like ice-cream. It's a permenant mental condition.
Er, cause it does, hell even the highly scientific posts in this thread prove that you tool.
Regardless, even if you don't lose your erection on your first time you will be that excited (like you), you'll bust a nut on entry and last 4 seconds.
its simple explanation really
op is a fag
Are those trips? That must be the truth.
Finally someone who speaks truth, and with trips no less. You should be solid fucking HARD in front of a woman if you're about to bang. Either gay, or physical issue, go to doctor.
Was it lights off? Is she hot? Were you drunk? Do you work out? How much porn do you watch and how often do you jack it? Were you anxious/nervous?
All this shit matters. It happened to me, it happens to like everyone.
> few years
15 years and lotsa pussies later, are we there yet?
>highly scientific posts
boi-pussy don't count.
Mean dude, just mean.
quit being a fucking faggot
......Jesus fucking Christ.
Thats the "this never happens" effect
You may have seen it on tv you nay have mistaken it for premature ejaculation.
It's anxiety and psychological. Same thing first few times actually. It took a relationship and not one-night-stands to break that habit.
Shit happens user, dont worry
You need to spit on your hand and wet up her pussy (even if you think she's wet enough). And then spit and rub your shaft. This will get your dick in.
So why don't you give a little of your own bro-medicine. Be that crystal wearing fairy. Up thier limp-dick spirits.
Shiiit, this post has become a magnet for ED, denial fags and the tiny-dicked.
pic related, you'll all not the guy getting sucked by another dude. At least he gets head, you never will. (Execpt if you're paying, like op)
For fuck's sake, when you buy the condom, get a little KY.
First time and you're spitting on everything, dude, that's gross. She ain't gonna bang you again.
This. It needs to be a big fat loogie too
So what you're saying is you're the guy blowing him, right?
Godspeed user, you need a mint?
Right. Nothing turns on a woman more than, "hold up I need to get some lube"
Even going for a condom can be a mood killer if you aren't quick enough.
You spit so it lubes the outside of the vag so you dont chafe your skin and don't go limp dick.
All these poor burgers needing lube and shit cause of their Jew dicks, your chick should be wet enough lads. i feel bad for you.
Or at the very least, if she's wet from you going down on her then it's already lubed up but still spit in your hand and get the head and shaft. Slides right in.
You were just nervous. I kinda have the opposite problem. I got hard, but had a lot of trouble finishing. The one time I finished was the time I initiated. It's a comfort level. Unfortunately, she would indicate most of the times, I'd feel pressure and couldn't finish. She interalized a feeling of inadequacy, and blamed herself.
I wish I could tell her that it was me, not her, but she broke up with me. I just hope she's happy now.
>Tl:dr: I'm drunk
it means ur gay, sorry OP
No dude, it's just a mood killer for you. She can wait.
And I assure you, using sterile lube rather than your redman-stained spit will def turn her on. (And also, not give her an infection.)
You're still at the use-a-condom phase. So see if you can get her to apply it. once you get the condom on.
Dude, anything that helps safe sex is a HUGE turn-on to many women. You're not at the no-condom sex phase yet, so be safe. Srsly, she'll appreciate it, and you'll get second and third chances.
And you'll fuck them up, stay limp and become a champion pussy licker. One day she'll ask if you want to do a three-some...
OP, you're not the first. Many have gone before you.
stop watching porn