Has anyone here ever "beaten" a fetish?

Has anyone here ever "beaten" a fetish?

I can't really get hard or orgasm without my fetish. If I obtain from using my fetish to masturbate for a few months will I turn normal? Has anyone ever had success with this?

Abstain*
I'm on my phone.

Pavlovian conditioning.

Details: I'm 26. Discovered my fetish shortly after I started masturbating.

Just accept your fetish, it can't be that weird

inb4 tiles

I assume you're suggesting I introduce a negative stimulus every time I think about my fetish?

Has anyone here ever had success with that? Does it ever work? I've read that sexual preferences can't really be changed.

Just tell us what your god damn fetish is so we can laugh at you.

OP have you at least tried therapy? I'm not saying it's a cure but it's a start.

I don't want to get into it, but my fetish is difficult at best. It's easiest to fulfill with stories. I want a normal sex life. I don't want to need to be reading a story during sex.

It also causes me a lot of anxiety and bad feelings in general.

I have so many fetishes... they rotate constantly to where you could say I temporarily "beat" a fetish

In short: humiliation.

Question OP: Is your fetish pedophilia? If not, what is your fetish?

I doubt it would work and I'd never trust a therapist.

Bitch looks like a man.

Humiliation. But I only find specific things humiliating, which just makes it more difficult.

I want to chew that puss desperately.

HAHAHA!
>wait, you actually like that.
What slut you are.

Tiles, more exactly, tile patterns.

I've got a serious cuck fetish and I go long periods of time sometimes but I always come back to it.

My biggest fantasy is to corrupt an otherwise ordinary/innocent girl into becoming a complete slut and eventually get her to cuckold me and totally cut me off from her pussy while giving me handjobs/blowjobs constantly while reminding me that the pussy is off-limits and that it was my idea the whole time!

that's retarded. normal me just wants to kidnap girls

Holy shit that is one of the most common and tame fetishes out there. Why would you even need a cure? Are you muslim or southern baptist or something?

Christ just be glad youre not a pedo. Or someone who wants to fuck a cartoon. At least yours can be achieved.

this works, but it is a lot of effort and if you are in a "heat of the moment" situation, your hard work might fall apart and you find yourself unable to finish.

it depends on how long youve had and how often you think about it. find new fetishes and you lose interest in the old ones. It's stupid to think a fetish will never change they always do

There's worst fetishes. I used to do some self-bondage until I almost got stuck. That shit was hot af and I came buckets but too dangerous and too much guilt afterwards.

Abstain from fapping for a few weeks and become more active with people irl.

"Curiosity often leads to trouble" tattooed on her hip, leading to her pussy. Fuck I can understand why women become whores but why would you embrace it and commit to it like that?

I don't really know if you would call it a fetish, but I cannot get off if I cannot get my partner off.

It sucks but your body is eventually going to be found by your neighbors.

Think about how young you are right now. Now think about all the strangle-fapping you have left in your life. Do you really think that at some point something isn't going to go wrong and you wont die?

Since her breasts are very very small I try to think of her being humiliated by this picture getting out. It's not enough to get me hard though even because it's not elaborate or humiliating enough. The worst part of my fetish is that it revolves around a feeling. I can't just get leather and be turned on, or a diaper. I need humiliation. Either my own or a woman's. It needs to fit my mental model of humiliation. This isn't easy to do. It takes a lot of story. I need to understand the situation, the people involved, why it's so humiliating, really get into the emotions involved. So getting turned on can take a while. I've missed opportunities having sex with extremely attractive women because I couldn't get turned on at all. I want to want to fuck her, but 99.99% of my fantasies don't involve sex because I don't see sex as humiliating.

what kind of self bondage would you do?

I can barely go a day without masturbating, let alone my fetishes. The longest I've went is a week and it was tough. I was precumming and thinking about spanking it constantly. I couldn't even look at females without raging.

I just want to know how to fucking stop jerking off, period. I haven't gotten laid but maybe 10 times since 2010 and haven't had a steady girlfriend at all, so my masturbation habits have increased heavily.

I used to laugh at no-fap until I realized my mental focus becoming worse, and me becoming more depressed and tired more often over the last 6 years. I honestly attribute it to jerking it. My dopamine and serotonin has been depleted and it feels like my pleasure center is fried.

Should I see a therapist? lol

Read my other post. It's not simple. I don't like sex. Sex isn't humiliating to me. A life without sex sucks. I want a relationship that lasts more than two months. I want to not be afraid when the girl I'm dating wants to fuck because I know I'll need to find a way to make it work.

As I said, I'm 26 and had it basically since I started masturbating. It's been 14 years and I've probably averaged a fap a day and I think about my fetish 99% of the time, 1% of the time I only half use my fetish (use porn not directly related to my fetish but I imagine my fetish into it).

Your just mentally unstable amd clearly have a deep seeded hatred for women

What? I don't understand what you're saying.

Ropes and or handcuffs. I was trying to achieve a hogtie when I almost got stuck in it.

No longer trying that anymore, it's kind of stupid anyways.

Best thing would be for me to find a partner but I don't know anyone whos into bdsm.

Masturbation is healthy. I'm fem and I do it every 4 days. After two weeks I'm heavily considering dry-hump raping the toilet seat at work.

The more you shove it away, the more strongly it will come at you. Jerk it so often that it's boooring, and never allow your fetish to be part of the process. Get used to this until you don't need to involve the fetish so heavily anymore.

>girl on Sup Forums

post tits with timestamp slut

I have porn addiction as well, was thinking of seeing a therapist, but then I'm sure I can quit by myself.

For some reason I always procrastinate and tell myself I'll stop the next day. But then I don't quit.

i understand you
I have a lot of sex with my gf but can't get orgasm until I do something else from putting my dick into her vagina, can't cum dude and I love her but I just can't, have to touch her feet or ass, or something else, she gets more orgams than me

I don't. But I definitely have issues with women.

I recently met a girl and she's absolutely amazing. We've been hanging out a lot. I am pretty sure she likes me, she invited me to her place at 10pm Friday night and I stayed until 2am. She gave the vibe that she likes me. I am crazy about her. If I could beat my fetish and have a real relationship with her it would be the best thing to have ever happened to me.

I'm trying to motivate myself to stop using my fetish. It would help a lot to know that it's possible to become normal-ish.

Not my thread. I'm not asking for advice, or for anything, for that matter. Simply contributing to another user. I'm within the rules.

Suck it, bitch.

That pic is fucking satisfying

you're not a real girl

I had a similar problem at the beginning of the year. I slowly got over it by focusing myself on college and my hobbies. I'm no therapist but the times I've gotten addicted to shit it usually happened when I didn't have anything to focus my time and energy on. Maybe try finding a hobby or focusing on school, work, etc. . . before seeking actual help.
Just a suggestion.

It is boring, but I can't stop. I honestly don't think it's healthy at all. It feels like it's burning me out mentally and emotionally. I barely even produce a load. I'm almost spitting blanks.

It affects my hobbies, motivation, and has killed me socially. I want to fap too much.

Maybe stop jerking off all day and you'll actually have an urge to fuck. it's not rocket science either your gay or retarded

Isn't it?

Look, even if I wasted time and bothered to take a clothes picture of myself, you'd accuse me of being a trap.

Just not gonna happen, buddy.

I'm both of them hah...

so post vagina pics too

I can only have an orgasm if a girl sneezes on my nuts.

Maybe depressed I get like that when I'm depressed. What do you do to feel productive most of the time? Got a job?

just find a girl that likes your fetish! Check fetlife or something.

BTW: that first post - she's stunning! love the DFC

Same, you're never going to get over it.

I picked up doing art after years of doing nothing creative. Painted a lot of pictures this past year, and even made some detail figurines. Still, I fucking went back to fapping hardcore.

That's another thing. My focus sucks because of it, and I lose interest in everything. I can't even play video games. I built a 1000 dollar PC and only use it for internet and fapping. It's fucking driving me nuts lately.

I play guitar too, and I'll make noise here and there, but again. My focus sucks and I can't even write shitty tunes.

College and shit is out of the question. It's like ADD with a fapping addiction. I wouldn't be able to concentrate. Fuck.

Checked, but far too lazy. I don't even have a smartphone like you rich bastards, and I can't be bothered to unclothe just to awkwardly point a laptop camera at my pussy and e-mail the pictures to myself just to be asked 'sharpie in pooper.' No. Fuck u.

Aww that's cute, every 4 days, I do it 5 times EVERY day.

Anyone? Has anyone ever been in a similar situation to me and beat it? I've had this fetish forever and it's the only thing I'm interested in. I try to understand what people like about sex but I can't really. I really like this girl though and she's so fucking hot, I want to fuck her. I hope people understand me. I find her.physically attractive and want to fuck her. I'm just not turned on by sex. She could be naked in front of me, and although I'd enjoy looking at her and touching her, I wouldn't really be aroused. Because I'm only aroused by humiliation. To get my heart racing and all that I need humiliation. I want to change this.

I only jerk it once a day. Sometimes 2 times.
I also have an urge to fuck, I just don't have the energy to put in the effort lol. It's a funk, man. I don't know how to fix it.

that's because you're not a girl

just do it and get it over with, unless you're scared we'll see your fat body and hairy cock

Yeah, that would ruin my sensitivity unless I hadn't had an orgasm recently.

Did you read my posts? My fetish mostly just works with reading stories. What am I to do, find a woman who wants to have a story printed out and taped to her back so I can read it while doing her doggie style? And I'm very picky about women and already found the perfect one.

Once a day is too much you enjoy your fetish and don't want to fix it that's the problem, go cry somewhere else

no it wont. just go hard on it, at some point ull get bored eventually

Sweet bloody jesus, your dubs are magic.

Seriously, though, on here, I really don't give even a half-shit if you think I'm male.

It's been 14 years. I don't think I'm going to tire of it any time soon.

.99% of my fantasies don't involve sex
>>because I don't see sex as humiliating.
Become a feminist, then all sex is rape, and therefore humiliating.

Made me smirk. But I'm still fucked. I don't see rape as humiliating either.

Maybe I should just get viagra.

I'm at about 6 times a day. Wake up and need to get off, an hour later I'm randomly hard. By noon I usually am empty but I still get the urge. Feel pretty empty inside but I guess I'm too weak to fight it. Most of the time I'm fapping to the idea of being with someone I love. That usually makes it worse after I ejaculate. I'm so alone.

fuckin' post em or stop posting at all mane

Has anyone here ever beat a fetish in a similar situation? Is it actually possible?

moar of her?

>mfw the cycle repeats itself

kek blesses me today

Then you clearly don't understand rule 31, because if I'm not trying to gain something from you by using my femininity, or trying to be treated better or more kindly, (plus, I didn't even MAKE this thread)

I am not obligated in any way to show tits.

At this point, it'd be a kindness. But considering that you're unaware of that, you're likely yet another underage who waddled his way in here to find porn over summer break. You may GTFO.

Obviously it's possible but it takes willpower and commitment something your incapalbe of you pathetic cuck

t. boy

You brought up your femininity bro

Your only purpose in this thread is to carry on about how your a female. Post tits or stop posting you boring cunt

Doesn't matter. Not using it for gain.

nice dubs, but u clearly don't have a nice feminine bod

I'm assuming you meant to say abstain in a pathetic attempt to make yourself seem more intelligent but fucked it up.
Idiot.
Also fetishists need to be burned. Freaks.

Please don't feed the newfags. They use mental gymnastics to continuously defend their retarded understanding of the rules.

Eat an ass, faggot. I do what I want.

Are you sure? I know that I can stop using my fetish with willpower, but can I actually become aroused by normal sex as a result?

kek you're muslim and southern baptist?

Pretty used to them. I don't mind. I'm on vacation from work this week, I've got extra time to waste before I waste the night on steam.

If you read the first reply you'd see that I'm on my phone. It was auto-correct. Wasn't trying to seem intelligent, it's just the word I used. How would you have worded it?

You'll have to get used to it, or not fap. Create that standard for yourself.

Fap constantly, but don't allow your fetish to take part, even after your dick's raw.

>being this jealous of my three dubs streak
I'd fuck the hole with your cock

So mash my soft dick or what? Wait for random erections?

Literally the only reason you exist is so that you'll get filled with cum and raise my offspring until he's old enough to leave you.

Well? How committed are you?

What the hell are you talking about?

What makes you think that will help?

Replace with other fetishes you idiot nobody is aroused by just normal sex. you cucks are pathetic

was ment for the cum dumpster who hasn't posted tits

Okay? Suggest me a good one.

Set high goals for yourself - like making her cum twice, or lasting 40 minutes you will constantly be self-humliliating or a great lay.

I assumed so.

Experience. Your roll seems to think it's a sexy idea, anyway. Checkemmmm