It fucking sucks having a GF that is no fun sexually

It fucking sucks having a GF that is no fun sexually
I had to convince her hard to let me try anything on her other than vanilla sex. I have to fucking nag her to blow me meanwhile I go down on her without her even asking just because it turns me on. Are all girls like this? She's a great girlfriend but she's just fucking boring in bed. The sex is good and feels good but it's just fucking boring. I don't want to have to ask 6 times for a blowjob, I don't want to explain to her in the middle of sex of why I would like her to do reverse cowgirl etc etc.

bum,p

leave. find a woman with a sex drive. it doesn't get better

This guy gets it.

If the drive, desire, or passion ain't there for her OP, go find someone who does.

My whore...you just have to train them is all...teach a bitch new tricks

No, not all women are like this. There are some good women out there, you have just got to find them in the right places.

It has been getting slightly better. It was terrible at first.


And we do have passionate intimate sex but it's just vanilla sex. Like I said, I want the girl that sucks my dick without me even asking. She KNOWS that I love that - I've told her but she'll never do it. She tells me she doesn't like dick like that. Every time she blows me it feels like a pity blowjob.


She let's me do anal sometimes as well but I have to ask about 10 times.

>in the middle of missionary
>babe get on reverse
>why
>just do it, it's hot
>I don't want to

Op are you me? I keep asking my gf to do reverse cowgirl but she's like "I don't see how it would work" like fuck it's just like regular cowgirl but the other way. Also blowjobs suck. She won't go past the head of my dick, and there's no passion to it.

That sucks OP. My girlfriend is kinkier than I am and absolutely loves sucking dick because it turns her on immensely.

I tried bro. At first she never blew me but now she does but she hates it. That's a major turn off. I want a check that worships dick like in those amateur porn videos I see. Is that even real? Do those girls exist?


The sex part is like the biggest thing I don't like about our relationship. She is honest, loyal and does everything for me except fulfill my every sexual desire.

Some girls are really into all kinds of shit. Tell her what you want, if she can't deal, then find another chick. Be upfront and you get what you want.

whatever you do kid don't marry her

My friends tell me she is a keeper because that means when I go away somewhere she won't be craving the dick.

I feel your pain, same here. I want a chick that knows how to turn me on and not just lay there with a hole.

I know right. My dick isn't even smelly or ugly. I wash, shave and shower EVERY time before she comes over. I literally do not mind eating pussy. Half the time it turns me the fuck on. It sucks having a GF that sees giving blowjobs as a chore and that you have convince her to have sex sometimes.

Just tell her to finger your ass chicks like fingering guys

unless you plan to castrate yourself, have fun dealing with a life of frustration. after kids you ain't getting a tap from a girl like that.

>asking
there is your fucking problem.

>Gf found her nudes on here. >Proceed breakup. Dates an asshole for a few months
>They have lots of sex(according to her he was stupid so "there wasnt much else to do") she tells me some things they did
>Apologize, and finally date her again after they break up
>Find out he had a 8 inch cock
>TFW your only 5.5 inches
>TFW she tells you she sucked his cock on a highway once, but says its too dangerous to try again
>Think about him fucking her sometimes as I fuck her from the back

Nigger, if I don't ask her she will literally NEVER blow me. There's a lot of times where I straight up have to ask her "Do you want to have sex?". At least she says yes most of the time to that.

Mate, go and find another girl, one with a hunger for sex. Like wtf are you doing with this one? Find. Another.

he's telling you to rape her. don't listen to those edgy faggots.

I'm in a similar position, OP. GF gets claustrophobic whenever held down, has a gag reflex, gets extremely sensitive during sex, doesn't like cum, and is not open minded.

She is wife-material outside of sex, but jesus, she is making it hard to stay together.

Dude, everything is good outside of sex. She is loyal, does shit for me and cares for me but when it comes to sex, she's just... boring a lot of the time. She doesn't dirty talk, she doesn't build up, she just lays there half the time.

What positions do you guys stick to?

You and me both brother. Every time, she blows me she wipes the precum off my dick. Like wtf? That's such a fucking turn off. You don't see me putting a tampon in your vagina so your mucus pussy juice doesn't get all over my face.

She is pretty open minded ( use to never do anal, videos, blowjobs at all and had a lower sex drive ) but I talked to her about it and she changed a little.

missionary, cowgirl and doggy. Usually missionary and doggy.

Dude, that sucks. How uptight is she? Think she would mind you having a fwb?

>tfw break up with gf because she has a high sex drive and constantly wants to fuck or suck your dick

when I was 13 I never would have thought this could happen but it did

Damn she's fucken hot bro , let me fuck her

Fuck dude, my gf doesn't do anal, videos, or blowjobs (Unless we 69).

We have sex like ~once a week. Mind you, we have been dating for nearly 3 years.

How long have you two been together?

All right, take a dominant stance and make your wants heard. It may seem cruel, for a reason outside of my understanding, but if you are unhappy then you are staying in the relationship for nothing. Fuck her like it's the last day on earth and then see how she behaves.

nice pasta

She gets jealous when I even look at other girls. I do it on purpose to tease her as a joke.


She doesn't like sharing. I don't either. I wouldn't mind sticking my dick in other girls while being with her so long as she was okay with it but then I'd have to let her fuck other dudes and that would digust me.

Basically the same as my GF, but mostly cowgirl.

Same situation as you bro

I hate my life and I get better sex than you OP

We have sex 1-3 times everytime we see each other. It use to be much worse until I told her that I'm sexually satisfied. I'm very open about how I feel and she knows this. Everything you are hearing from me, I've told it to her basically. I made my point very clear that if the sex slows down for us for ANY reason in the future, I would be gone. She didn't like that but understood.


We've been dating 6 months.

Do you have more of her?

hey fam, do girls really care that much if I have a 6 1/4. or did most girls care that you had a 5.5?

pic is not gf, just a random girl who looks like she is enjoying sucking dick. Basically what I would like.

OP here. My GF cares about size. She openly makes fun of the past guys she had sex with who had small dicks, not trying to offend you. I have a 7" x 5" and she considers that "okay" size. Biggest guy she's been with was a 8" she told me.

A good standard.

OP ofMost girls havnt said anything, but sometimes she just stops reacting when I fuck her from the back

no man you're fine. I am just wondering because some girls genuinely dont care and some think its going to be the end of the world if their boyfriend doesnt have a 7+ incher

It amazes me how similar our situations are. I've been completely transparent with my gf, but there is little reciprocation. She has gotten complacent, and it seems that she is not interested in exploring sex.

Current sex is fairly passionate, but it becomes redundant after 3 years.

She does so to make you feel better. Size doesn't actually matter. Pressing on the right "buttons" actually does.

She's a fuckin DEAD ROOT, as we say here in AUS.

That shit ain't normal.

Leave her.

well it sorta does, someone with a smaller dick may have to do more. Like eating her out more often, but otherwise you are correct

She reciprocates but not that much. I don't think you can force a girl to suddenly going from hating blowjobs to craving it.

I warned her very early on that if we slowed down for any reason at all in the future, I would break up, divorce or whatever unless she let me have mistresses. She thought it was a doucebag thing to say but she promised me it would never slow down.

Yep. My gf is the same way. Different positions are better for her. Luckily we figured out her favorites. Plus sex is way different when you love a person.

Ask her what she likes that isn't missionary for the sole purpose of procreation. Then do that.

And yeah, the sex is passionate sometimes but just boring a lot of times as well. It kinda kills the mood that she doesn't dirty talk, doesn't do any build up, doesn't like being touched most of the time and doesn't really do anything period.

Hell at least she does anal every now and then. Some chicks never do that. I'd say just focus on one thing you want her to do more and really push it

I dont know about you, but I really only like passionate sex. going rough and hard straight into it is a turnoff

They have different types of orgasms, the size doesn't actually matter, the pressing on that one fleshy nerve does.

Of course, it is a whole other interaction. BUT what actually matters is what you can put out for that interaction.

Same here bud. I HATE rough sex. I can't feel anything. I like going slow, relaxing my heart rate, kissing and really feeling her pussy wrapping around my dick. I hate rough sex. She loves it. And I do it for her whenever she asks without a second though. You know what I get when I ask for a blowjob or a certain position? "Why?"

Pre-marriage about 50% of women are like this

After marriage 80% are like this

After having a kid, 99% of women are like this

Most likely abused in the past. Or something. Abused grls can go either way. Reserved and disinterested in sex or loves giving blowjobs. I've had gfs from both sides.

I can empathize with yall.
My girlfriend is perfect in every way, except not kinky in a way shap or form when it come to sex. Very boring...

There's your issue! You have to beat the shit out of her, make things rough and she will kneel

brehs, i think porn has done us in...

Well she told me in the 6th grade she had a BF who forced himself on her. No sex or blowjobs but like put his dick on her face and everything.


Her ex of 10 months before me forced himself on her a lot of times when she wasn't in the mood and shoved her head down. She told me this is probably why she hates blowjobs. Thoughts?

Truth.

Lol I wish. All I get a "no" or "later" or "tomorrow"

She sounds like a real pain in the ass, op. If she's this boring in bed, she's going to be dragging your ass to Disneyland in a soccer mom van in no time if you don't ditch her before she's impregnated by your boring vanilla sex.

This is an excuse, she's taking the easy way out.

Maybe. But I think a combo of having a slutty ex. Always had sex whenever I wanted it. She loved grabbing my dik through my pants and jeans. But like said... She was a slut. So there you go.

No I don't.

Been together 7 years. Wouldn't even mind swinging at this point just to taste something more wild and different

This.

Is that Courtney salamon?

This girl use to be kinda slutty.. Didn't do anything other than boring vanilla sex with them though.

At least you guys are getting some.

Been dating 6 years and have a child. Now I can't even remember when I had sex last or what her vag looks like anymore.

Gets shitty when I make a move on her, and then wonders why I don't show any affection anymore and if I looked for NSA sex with someone I'm cheating (social anxiety prevents that anyway) and cant leave, because I love my kid.

You got it good OP.

Dunno man, before having a kid sex was infrequent and mostly tame. But since giving birth she's started getting a lot more adventurous. BJs used to feel like a wet towel hanging on the end of my dick and I'd never cum. Now I fuck her face as hard as I want and she loves it. She also let me cum in her mouth for the first time, and she talks about doing it again.

How is sex?

Might be an excuse... It all depends. If you want to stay with her it could be a lot of work. "Training"

please fuckign let this happen to my gf

Fuck... My future

Anyone else get blowjobs instead of sex?

There are girls that get turned on sucking dick. I consider myself being one of them.

But, to be more exact, I think that part of being in a healthy relationship means that your partner cares about you sexually as much as you care about them. So, it's not sucking dick what turns me on, is the fact that I know my boyfriend is getting pleasure from it.

I think it might be better if you find a girl that wants to give you as much pleasure as you want to give her. It doesn't make you a bad person to want someone that values sex as much as you do, in fact it helps you from cheating and hurting your current girlfriend.

Try to talk about this situation with her if you haven't already. If she's mature enough she will understand, just be careful when you do. Don't go all "I need better sex or this is over", because that sounds too harsh, specially for people that have a hard time trying to be more experimental about their sex life.

Dated a girl with 0 sex drive for 5 years from when I was 13 to now.

Took 7 months to have sex, for a while we had sex once a day or every couple of days, but she was never into it. Skip 3 years later, we have sex maybe 3 times a month, she stops any kind of flirting with me and gets angry if I ask for sex more than once.

Skip two more years ahead, month after 5th anniversary, find texts of her saying she wants to sleep naked with some 34 year old she works with. Break up because of it, after she lies saying she will stop and actually appreciate what I do. Instead leaves me for 34 year old. Does it get better, anons?

Also, I think the pill fucked my girlfriends libido. raw dog is too good to pass on tho

Missionary and doggystyle only, haven't had a blowjob all year

Truth. I told my girl that I get pleasure from pleasing which lead to more experimental on her. Which lead her to be more giving.

leave.

My current girl loves sex, but just plain vanilla sex. Missionary and cowgirl is the only positions she likes with the occasional doggy. First girlfriend would do anything to my dick and it felt great and the next few girls I was with were about equal in terms of variety and open mindedness. Oh well, I suppose.

A slut in disguise. She's his problem now.

I know that feel. Had in the past also a gf who was too passive, not really into it. Sex was so boring that in the end I preferred jerking off and she was fine with it. Maybe she was asexual?! Dunno.

Then I had relationships with other girls more into it but still not as much as me.

Married now to the girl of my dreams. She has a sex drive like me, maybe even higher. She works out and is fit which is great for all kind of positions. She usually initiates changes of positions like reversed cowboy etc without me needing to ask. She blows like a champ deepthroating, loves different locations, experimenting etc. And best thing: she squirts! Never had that before.
I knew immediately I had to put a ring on it!

Would watching porn together help open my gf up?

She has never watch porn, and is hesitant to to do so

I try to convince myself but it still fuckin hurts mayn

Add in loyalty and you got the fucking unicorn of women. She meal preps too?

>be me (who fucking else) two years ago
>brand new gf spends a night at chez anons
>fingerbang the shit out of her cunt, fuck her sore
>she cums four times in 18 hours, makes me cum in her hands
>looks pretty good
>ffw two years
>see her once a week
>"make love" once, half of those times
>she considers it nagging if i mention sex or even joke about it more than once a day, let alone ask for it
>only took the tip in her poopoo once, never again
>kisses my dick sometimes, never blows me
>doesn't want me to eat or finger her
>"foreplay" consists of her trying to nail her dry cunt onto my floppy dick until it's not so dryish, then plead her to fap me to get me hard, put condom, and shit she's dry again
>fml
>halp

bump for interest

Ask her to watch it on her own, that way maybe she will be able to find something she likes. It's gonna be hard, and it will definitely take some time. It may (or may not) come a time when she will try to talk to you about it, then you will be able to know if there was something she liked. That will be your green light to ask her if she wants to watch it with you.

Just remember to be patient and clear with her. I can see that you really want to make it work, and I find that very touching OP.

I was in her situation (as a virgin) many times before and my ass got cheated and dumped 2 times because of it.

Replace. Life is too short to stick with a SO that doesn't like sex. Many girls love sex. Go get one.

this

I'm 6'3 with an 8 inch cock and most girls I sleep with want it all the time / wanna get married. It sucks but the truth is women are as shallow about what you're born with as men.