gf of 5 years just left me
give me some words of advice or try to cheer me up Sup Forumsros
Gf of 5 years just left me
why she left you op?
she needs to "find herself"
Wow, she didn't even have the decency to tell you the real reason
There are almost 8 billion people on this fucking earth. There are tons and tons and tons of girls out there who don't do that annoying thing she did, who won't leave you. There is someone out there who is better for you because, lets be honest, there will always be someone out there who is better for you. She just made the decision to find that someone a little easier for you.
i dont know why she couldnt
its hard to move on man
Sorry OP.
Instead of our words to you, the power is in your words to yourself.
If you were to write a story of a guy who got dumped after 5 years and he came out like a boss, how would that story go?
Would he take up a new hobby? Get on Match? Go to a pickup camp? Start a business to keep his mind off it?
Write that story. Then go live it.
She probably got tired of you, you changed something in your personality or in the way that you treated her? she was acting strange?
thank you user, that does really help
i didnt change, i never stopped treating her amazingly. she left tonight and 2 weeks ago she kept cancelling plans and would ignore me
Based advice
Die in a fire faggot
Do you think that she changed her personality in the last months?, tastes?, habits?, Hobbies?
You wasted five years of your life on a worthless slut, the pain you feel is the shame of being a beta faggot
yeah but not drastically
When your heart gets broken you should feel it entirely, to its fullest. Get it out of you.
Listen to sad music and get drunk a few times. Talk to a close friend about how shitty it is. She's gone bro and knowing women she's fucking someone else already, or she will soon.
So feel like shit. You deserve it. And when youre done feeling like shit (and you will be done feeling like shit one day), remember what you went through and help the next poor sucker in line.
thank you user.
What changed her? How old is she? She started using drugs?
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>yeah but not drastically
Don't look too hard when the obvious is just staring you in the face: attraction dies.
When she babbles about "finding herself" it's a facade to spare your feelings and cover her dark thoughts.
Maybe the chemical high wore off and she's young enough that she wants to go experience again. It happens.
Maybe two young people developed in different directions until they're no longer compatible. That happens too.
Looking for a reason for a loss of romantic feelings is usually as fruitless as finding why you go crazy about one girl, but not another who's very similar.
Just be a boss OP. That's all you can do now.
shes almost 20, change in style
No problem Sup Forumsro. Ive been there many many many times. Im going out for a beer in a bit. I'll raise a glass to you.
When you say style refers only to appearance or something else?
i appreciate it !
appearance and music
Congratulations on winning your freedom back. You can now do almost literally anything you want with your life without anyone to hold you back. Go have a fucking adventure and start enjoying yourself. You'll fall in love again some day and she will be even better than your ex in every way. You might even fight a nigger or two!
Now you can go out and find the kind of woman that will do all the unspeakably filthy things your prude of an ex wouldn't
In this five years she changed her "style", other times?, If so did you notice something different this time in particular?
First advice is to remember "this too shall pass".
I think one of the hardest things to get over after a long relationship is the feeling of losing part of yourself. I rest assure with you this feeling will go away. The reason you feel this way is because your life became very synced with another person. You will have the opportunity to experience this connectedness with many other people in your life. Try the best you can to keep your mind on the future. There are many fish in the sea. Many beautiful people that can make you feel better than you've ever felt in the honeymoon stages with her.
a few times, shes went back and forth and didnt notice any differences
thank you.
remember things, the good the bad, but remove the feelings attached to them.
yes, they made you happy, they made you sad.
put yourself in the perspective of someone examining a movie or a story.
you aren't the character living the story, you are but the spectator of the past.
look at it as what it was, and nothing more. its nothing that will be.
you do NOT walk into the future backwards.
Good luck to you user.
>"what screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it is supposed to be"
thank you very much user
Because between 15 and 20 is an age of changes, your mind constantly change and you start to want other kinds of relationships and relating to new kinds of people, I'm pretty sure she liked you, no one stay with someone who doesn't like for 5 years, so I thought that she got tired of you, can be another guy too but I find it hard to belive,after all were 5 years and at this point you would have noticed something like that.
Jeez, man, I know it hurts to be broken hearted, but this is silly. Everybody has the right to move on if they don't feel right with their bf or gf. Breaking up is not a crime.
We should stop this emo nonsense of "there will be someone better for you." People can go, and that doesn't make them evil.