How do you get over the anxiety of pregnancy from sex?

How do you get over the anxiety of pregnancy from sex?

>Meet this woman on tinder
>8/10
>huge tits
>huge ass
>slim
>texts me every day telling me all of the hot perverted things she wants us to do
>wants me to fuck her ass and cum on her face

I'm having a problem where I freak out after we have sex. Like I silently have a panic attack. I am scared to death that she is accidentally going to get pregnant any my entire life will be ruined.

Does this stop anybody from having sex? She has gotten very angry at me over it, she doesn't even want to use a condom. I'm thinking about just not having sex anymore because it freaks me out.

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if you're uncomfortable then stop having sex or tell her you want to wear a condom. its not that hard op

I did tell her I want to use a condom, she got a little angry about it. She said that she usually does the pull-out method.

Use a condom.

The other day, she rubbed my cock against her pussy while I wasn't wearing a condom. I almost had a panic attack thinking pre-cum may have gotten into her vagina.

Am I being paranoid?

lol pull out method is 94% effective OP if you can do it. Can you pull out and not cum inside of her?

Then make sure she's on the pill. Record her confirming that without telling her, since it could be a trap and she's trying to get pregnant and enslave you.

Be more afraid of getting herpes...
I just got it from a previous co-worker.

You're probably being a little irrational OP, but maybe you have reason to distrust her.

I recommend getting ribbed condoms or something similar and selling it as a purchase "for her"

A random woman from tinder insists on pulling out, and not on birth control?
Nevermind the diseases she probably has, that's just dumb. Enjoy the kid.

She's not on the pill. She said she has been doing the pull out method without the pill for a while and it has been fine.

The only time it's ok to go bare back is when you both got tested, and agreed to be faithful. That should put your mind at ease.

Abandon that hoe, op.

again, that's because the pull out method is effective. But it relies on you being able to not cum inside of her.

Pre-cum rarely has any sperm in it at all.

Look it up, dude. There's tons of studies on it. You're fine.

pull out is really effective if your goal is to pay for child support.

Henessy + weed = no nuttin for hours

Barebacking tinder hoes is no.

Enjoy that for the rest of your life fag

Dude...fuck her ass and cum on face and she wont be pregnant.

Tell her either she goes on the pill or its over, you can't handle a kid and you're not risking it by being pushed into fucking without a rubber

she can basically get it for free, theres no reason she should not be on it. dont ever trust a girls "pull out game"

Yeah man, even worse was I've infected 6 others since i fucked the coworker.

My current gf was next to me when I got the phone call.
She cried.

Effectiveness is an important and common concern when choosing a birth control method. Like all birth control methods, the pull out method is much more effective when you do it correctly.

Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they always do it correctly.
Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant each year if they don't always do it correctly.

- See more at: plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/withdrawal-pull-out-method#sthash.HsTJmfVo.dpuf

She cant 'do the pullout method' only you can, you fuck nugget. You need to learn how to pull out with a girl on the pill, so you learn to know your body. Dont trust some random cumdumpster or else she will skim your paypacket for 18 years

Its not just withdrawal, it needs to be the rhythm method AND withdrawal.

I did not fuck her bareback. I refused to. She started rubbing my dick against her pussy, and I pulled away and put on my pants.

i'm a little paranoid that pre-cum got into her pussy from her doing this.

Later on, we tried again with a condom. I fucked her for a minute and then pulled out without cumming because I was so paranoid of getting her pregnant. She got kinda angry, but I didn't care and just took her home anyways.

I am having borderline panic attacks over the thought that I may have gotten her pregnant. Can somebody just tell me that I'm being irrational so I can calm down? I can't even sleep.

I'm bi, and have severe anxiety whenever I hook up with a guy. Terrified of getting an STD. Even with guys that I know, I still get really bad anxiety before and after we fuck.

you are irrational ffs, if you really cant handle the stress dont date and dont fuck.

You should be more worried about stds. Shes probably trying to get you to get her pregnant though

I got a vasectomy, blow cum where I want

>trying to get you to get her pregnant

That's what I thought. We talked on the phone and I told her that I felt like she was trying to get pregnant because she didn't want to use a condom. She told me

>I've never used a condom, ever. I've only slept with one guy but he just pulled out every time
>I'm going to med school so my life would be ruined if I had a baby
>If you want to stop having sex, that's fine. We can just hang out and kiss.

That sort of put my mind at ease, but I'm still having a really hard time believing her.

I've definitely enjoyed my celibate periods because while sex is fun and great, it is nice to only worry about the small things; the things that don't include the multi-thousand dollar smaller version of you.

>I am scared to death that she is accidentally going to get pregnant any my entire life will be ruined.
Getting a girl pregnant is a part of life. It does not ruin you. I've knocked up three girls so far and all are happy to have the kids.

>ruin you

I am broke. I'm on my last year of college and every cent I make goes to housing. I probably should not even be having sex, but I was celibate for 3 years and I could not wait another week. I was going to fucking explode.

You gave her your number? Dude, get a burner.
You probably told her your real name too, didn't you?
Stinking newb.
I know of 1 girl who I knocked up about a year ago, she didn't know my real name or my real phone number or even my address.
When she told me she was knocked up I got rid of the phone and moved back east to live with my parents.
She ended up keeping it (I facebook stalk her).

>I am broke. I'm on my last year of college and every cent I make goes to housing. I probably should not even be having sex, but I was celibate for 3 years and I could not wait another week. I was going to fucking explode.
Condoms, have her suck you off. I'm a serial impregantor, travel a lot and enjoy the fuck out of it.

if she gets pregnant not ur fault bro. either abortion or ignore her. yes ur being paranoid.

>have her suck you off

She gave me the best blowjob of my life the other day, but then I had anxiety wondering if she was rubbing cum onto her fingers and putting it into her vagina after the BJ. Pretty sure she swallowed it though.

I am not having sex anymore. I can't fucking handle it. If I were making a lot of money, maybe it wouldn't be a big deal, but I'd straight up go homeless if I had to pay child support.

>She gave me the best blowjob of my life the other day, but then I had anxiety wondering if she was rubbing cum onto her fingers and putting it into her vagina after the BJ. Pretty sure she swallowed it though.
>I am not having sex anymore. I can't fucking handle it. If I were making a lot of money, maybe it wouldn't be a big deal, but I'd straight up go homeless if I had to pay child support.
Put a ring on it.

She literally does porn star stuff. It's so fucking hot. She's so fucking hot. She also scares the hell out of me.

Like what? Does she take pics for you?

She does anything. Anal, facials, videos, photos. Absolutely anything.

I want to be comfortable and not believe that she's trying to get pregnant, but I can't. She just freaks me out. I'm scared that she stole some of my cum and got herself pregnant on purpose because she wants a baby and a husband, and doesn't want to go to college anymore.

Don't fuck her in the ass heretic

Go live in Europe...

> Equality
The man has the choice to recognize parenthood of the child or not here.

Have you tried anal?

Will she do scat, i.e., let you crap in her mouth?

Can we see a pic of her?

>The man has the choice to recognize parenthood of the child or not here.
What a stupid fucking regulation. A man has the choice to get a cunt pregnant but not have to provide and care for his children? Who writes the laws in Europe ... niggers?

just get a vasectomy then if you don't plan to ever have a kid. Don't really see what the downside is, and if she cheats on you and gets pregnant with someone else's kid and tries to claim it's yours, you can always demand a paternity test (which is most definitely not going to implicate you)

>>The man has the choice to recognize parenthood of the child or not here.
>What a stupid fucking regulation. A man has the choice to get a cunt pregnant but not have to provide and care for his children?
I'd like to see that law in the USA. It comes form the logic that both the male and female are in agreement to conceive a child no matter how the sexual act as occurred. It leads to very responsible behavior of a woman knowing there is not automatic "winning the lottery" if they allow themselves to get pregnant by a man. Screaming rape also does not work. Keeps the bitches in check.

The pill is free for every woman in my country.

Adults decide when and if they want children here.
> Woman can have an abortion
> Man can decide NOT to be a father

Yours is the land of niggers, you dumb amerifat. But that aside, yes - if a man gets a woman pregnant against his better intentions (such as, if you tell her you don't want a baby and the cunt shoves your cum up her vagina after you take off the condom) - then the woman is responsible and must take care of the child.

In America, the man is always responsible and must pay childcare regardless of the circumstance. In the EU, they try to actually see which person is responsible and therefore which person needs to pay damages - it's not always the man, it's not always the woman.

>Equality

Perfect law indeed, but just note that it doesn't apply if you are married

But user, that would suggest that America is worse than another country in some way.

Clearly that could never be true.

A man has to care for himself in this world.
So:
-vasectomy
-substitute testosterone (works in about 80% of western men so get tested if you shoot blanks)
-heat method (google it, it works IF DONE CORRECTLY)

I know the feel OP, been this for a long time since i got a girl (on the pill, forgot it) pregnant.
Do one of the above methods, everything else destroys your sex-life.Life is short and sex is important.

Buy female condoms

Im like you. But I always try to fuck with condom.

What if I just use condoms? How can I know if a woman will take my cum and shove it into her vagina?

I just can't get passed these things. I'm just going to pray that she's not already pregnant and probably go abstinent until I get married.

She's trying to enslave you, fucker. Your paranoia has actually been your saving grace this whole time. Pic related; starting a family in these times as a straight white man is an actual death sentence. Women get nothing but cash from it, and they know that. You're being lured.

"Oh, yeah, let's just throw that in there with everything else, it's just another sexual thing, nothing really different here"

Only other option is to find a long-term relationship and get her to get an implant.
Pills are simply not safe enough for most girls. The pullout-method done right has a higher success-rate than the pill (although the pill done right is almost a 100% safe...). Girls usually dont do that shit, getting the cum from the condom. Thats paranoid, only crazy girls do this. But the problem is, you simply dont know if a girl is crazy until she does some kind of shit like this.
I would be more worried about broken condoms...this happens often if you have a lot of rough sex.

>Pills are simply not safe enough for most girls
99.8% is safe enough for European girls I guess...

OP here

I think you're right. I am scared that she is already pregnant. She gave me a blowjob where she swallowed. A week after that, she started blowing me/giving me a handjob and asking me to fuck her without a condom. I said no.

After that, we went to get condoms. She started blowing me, then I put on a condom and fucked her for a minute. I pulled out without cumming and took her home because I got paranoid that she poked a hole in the condom, or was trying to scheme against me.

That is all that has happened so far. I have not ejaculated into her yet, but I am afraid that she has rubbed pre-cum into her pussy, or rubbed cum into her pussy after the first blowjob.

What's your opinion on this? What is the chance that she is already pregnant?

>only crazy girls do this

I met her on tinder, and I have known her for 3 weeks. My fear is that she is crazy and she is trying to get pregnant to get a child support check.

...

So she will let crap in her mouth??

OP, is she a black?

She sounds like the perfect type to knock up. Step up and impregnate her and make her yours.

More likely just trying to get knocked up.

Go away Ellie