>day after yesterday i met up with the girl who i had something going with for half a year >she ended things with us to be with her ex >months passed with no contact and we started texting again >she started reminding me of things we had >she came to my city for her country trip >we had 2 nice days >talked about everything >she still has feelings for me >told me she wants no contact at all >deleted each others numbers
the sad part about this was seeing this outgoing girl always happy, making others feel happy when youre around start crying, tears running down her eyes and genuinely looking sad
she told me she needed to cut off contact this time for good, to get over the fact that i'm giving her a special feeling, special kind of approval and attention she is not getting from her bf anymore imo she's just going to be much sadder now, than if she'd stayed in contact with me
is there hope some time down the road we might be able to get back in contact? not like the times we did in the past 8 months were we went no contact for 3 months, contact for 2 months, no contact again etc.
i really like this girl, i like exchanging with her and i already am sad about having that kind of girl not there anymore
Brayden Diaz
No youre fucked lol
Oliver Sullivan
Just give it time. If you try to force anything, you could burn what hope you have left. Go on with your life and pursue other women, and by giving you and her that distance, it will really show you that either your relationship was meant to be or not.
Eli Young
how come
Logan Jenkins
our...relationship? she did choose her ex instead of me, that was like 8 months ago but during that time she still held feelings for me and through this contact cut off thing, she hopes to finally get over it, eventhogh she enjoys my company, yet sees me as a way to escape the problems in her relationship i'm the one who makes her feel happy, wanted
Tyler Allen
Man these "feelings threads" are getting old. Its extremely obvious what's going on here and if you can't tell then I'm assuming you're not experienced with many women. She's using you to have her own mellowdramatic pity party one man circus around your ass and she doesn't give a fuck about what it costs you. Some women are just expert deceivers and will play games with guys they find gullible
Mason Wood
It could be true that she is cutting herself off from seeing you because she doesn't know who she really wants to be with in her life, but you never know what the other person is truely thinking. If you try and make contact with her that she "doesn't want" or try to force anything, she may take that as a reason not to go back to you. But sitting around and just thinking about what you can do or what might happen will not be good for either of you. If she wants to go back with you, she wouldn't want a person who hasn't been able to handle her requests and depressed thinking about her all the time. That just scares off people. You need to go out and live a normal life and not let these thoughts control you.
Josiah Sanders
This can definitely be true, and has happened many times over. But if you are going to give her the benefit of the doubt, you should try to understand what she might be fighting in her own head and give her the space she asked for.
Anthony Morris
i confronted her with the fact that i think that she's using me to stir up some drama because god knows why she told me she likes the way i treat her, the way i make her feel she wants to be with him, for her life, as far as anyone can tell that for certainty with 20 the other person, her bf with whom she broke up a year ago, slept with some muscular dude for weeks and then had that thing with me, knows about me, not in detail, but he knows
>If you try and make contact with her that she "doesn't want" or try to force anything, she may take that as a reason not to go back to you. makes sense i guess then again after we were done talking and just sitting there, staring in each others eyes for what felt like hours she told me she was thinking about how it would be if i'd kissed her, her eyes were undermining that fact aswell
>You need to go out and live a normal life and not let these thoughts control you. nothing else i can do yeah self loathing 24/7 won't do me any good
she couldn't give me an answer why she was doing all that with me, when she had the guy she wants to be with her whole life, her "best outcome"
Owen Bailey
Most feels threads consist of this type of theme though
Connor Harris
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Dylan Flores
checkd!
Tyler Thompson
bump
Owen Campbell
bumping
would a birhtday card in a couple of months be considered as re initiating contact, instead of a nice gesture?
Joseph Walker
I agree with most of these posts, give it time. Maybe when when she's done fucking and sicking other guys she wil realize that she loved you all a long and come back to you. In the mean time you just have to be prepared to give it all up for her when she has nothing left.
Lucas Brooks
not too sure if she "loved" me, but she was definitely attracted by me a lot
she wants to be with her bf, she told me a lot of times that hes the one who she wants to grow old, spend her life with yet a small , irrational, side in her wants me
Aiden Lopez
Then move on, nothing left to talk about then from the sounds of it you have a lack of self respect. Work on yourself.
Kevin Bailey
is it too much of me to ask to stay in contact just because we enjoy each others company then? we live far enough from each other that we won't see the other person, yet texting with one another is something we both enjoy
Hudson Thompson
No, stop being a faggot and make something out of nothing. Find someone new, again have some self respect and get someone who can make you happy.
Ayden King
i see...
Tyler Lewis
Stop living your life on a single notion, it sucks when the reality of it all hits at once. So might aswell move on while you still can.
Landon Hernandez
i might just have been confused by her contradicted actions first she needs time off, we then start texting after some months, same thing again and now she says she has to cut contact once and for all
yet i know that, if she was that into me still after 8 months, now she will be even sadder about the fact that she doesnt have me as a means of escaping, when things go downhill in her relationship
it does suck yeah, guess i wanted to believ that we could be friends, because all that we did was texting by the time she ended the more relation-ish stuff
Jose Torres
FEELS
Jason Baker
this actually made me laugh thanks user
Elijah Scott
She sounds like a girl who doesn't know what she wants and is making others pay for her indecisiveness. It sucks you fell in love with such a conceded, terrible person-- but it'll do you much better to let her go and move on.
Jaxon Wilson
spot on user, she's also the first girl that actually agrees with that
i genuinely thought we could be "friends through texting" but i guess even that's too much for her
Kevin Jenkins
Best of luck to you buddy
Christian Perez
thanks user
Nathaniel Torres
You're welcome!
John Rodriguez
Why are you such a pussy OP? Seriously, she chose to cut off contact. Stop getting yourself cucked and move on, Pussy can't be that good.
Jayden Allen
that pussy was phenomenal though but that's not what attracted me
i just like to text her, we're on the same level, like the same stuff and have the same kind of fucked up humor why give that up if we won't even see each other again she has countless other people she met through the internet whom she never saw, just texts with
Jeremiah Perez
Been in a very similar situation op If you have any dignity just let that girl go You will only hurt yourself
Ryder Nelson
nothing much i can do against that we talked for hours i tried to reason with her but she kept on returning to the argument that she needs to do this to get over it, like shes stuck in a loop
Juan Gutierrez
Youre the one stuck in a loop dude.
Bentley Fisher
How so
William Gonzalez
>She doesn't want to talk. >You keep wanting to talk to her and won't take no for an answer Get over her.
Jason Allen
It's not like she doesn't want to talk, she just wants to have no contact because I've been her way to escape. She enjoys my company and texting with Me
Jace Davis
>she dumped me to get back together with her ex >now I want her back Unrelated question, do you have a cuck fetish? Just curious.
Jack Myers
I might haha Nah I think that's the type of girl im attracted to
Austin Russell
Plus, I dont want her back, I just eant to stay in contact with her brcause I see her as a friend and a girl with whom I can talk to easily, more so than other girls ive met
Justin Evans
The kind that leaves you for someone they were most likely cheating on you with? If you still have feelings for her that's just torture brah.
Jace Reyes
Nah, the young kind, don't know what they want, needs a little drama kind.
8 months ago when she told me she is eending it to get back with her ex I accepzed that, I still likedtexting with her. But she, even after 8 months, still had feelings for me Ofc im sad because I dont see many girls whith ehom I can exchange myself on that kind of easy level, if that makes sense