Alright Sup Forums, I need your help

Alright Sup Forums, I need your help.
Long story short my mother packed her bags and abandoned me at age 10 while I was in school.
Came home to an half empty apartment.
I'm 21 now and I finally want to try and find her and ask "why".
Not sure what kind of satisfaction I'll get but I just want to put this to rest.
All I know is her name and birthday.
How do I go about finding someone?

Go to church

Ask JESUS

Facebook or whitepages.com

Meat baby knows

Tried both already, nothing turned up.

self-bump

Did you look in the bathtub?

Ask your dad.

Also bullshit.

sauce pls

Maybe your local police department? See if they have an arrest record

Google her

Post name and birthday, and any pictures you have of her.

Hire a pi or use ancestry.com. the fact you got her name and birthdate is actually pretty huge.

As user says, a good way to go about this would be to find records; marriage, death, and, most likely, arrest.

ms foxxxy

Trouble with getting arrest records is I live on the other side of the country. Also no dad in the picture. Live by myself now but I was living with an adopted family.

Is it possible she remarried?

Could have, it's been 11 years.

intelius dot com

It'll cost you a bit, but maybe thats ok for you

Did you double check the house user? I lost my mother for 6 years, turned out she was just in her bedroom having a nap.

This shit happened to me. Nothing good will come from finding your mother. She left you behind. Only a fucked up person does that. You will not get what you're looking for. It will be disappointment after disappointment. You might get some answers but it will not fix anything.