Okay Sup Forums, I have a girlfriend for 5 months...

Okay Sup Forums, I have a girlfriend for 5 months. Our work schedules are always clashing so we can only have sex probably 2 times a month.

Today, I learned from her that she never once came while we're having sex. And she mentioned that she always cum when she have sex with her ex boyfriend. Now I feel that my confidence is in a fucking abyss because I thought I was doing good all the time. How the fuck can I redeem myself? I'm too embarrassed to have sex with her now because I feel I'm not good enough. Help me out.

tell her just to blow you. win win.

Just accept that you are a downgrade for her in comparison to her ex. If you dont buy some sex toys soon to get her off then she is going to dump your ass

That's not the point. She compared me to her ex boyfriend. I feel like she just insulted my manhood because her ex can make her cum but I can't.

She did mention that sex isn't a priority to her so it's not bothering her but it's bothering the fuck out of me.

She didn't insult your manhood by telling you the truth of her feelings. Blaming her for her emotions? Bitch move man.

No, I don't blame her because told me the truth. I'm glad she did but at the same time, I feel devastated because it never crossed my mind.

Either forgive her or break up with her. Either up your game or be done with her.

Sorry to hear that, OP. It's never fun to get your performance critisized, but remember that practice makes perfect. Just because you can't satisfy her fullt right now, doesnt mean you can't learn to. Try to figure out what she really likes, or just ask her. Tell her that u want her to cum because it turns u on or some shit.

What kind of loser mentality is that?
>you were not good enough
Oh noes my feelings, I'm dumping u for not faking it

Talks to her instead of /b about how you can make her cum, or make it a priority to train to fuck longer. You have sex 2 times a month? In between get yourself to nearly cumming then back off as many times as you can and then you can go longer and harder for the real deal. Get in that hyperbolic time chamber nigga

I feel I don't have the confidence to have sex anymore because it will be in my mind the whole time and I feel it will be unnecessary pressure. I don't even know now... I just don't know what to do.

Oh no.. That's another issue with me. I take way too fucking long to cum. And I can tell it's annoying her. I don't know what's wrong with me and my sex life.

Stop being such a fucking pussy

You gotta step up your game OP, learn to eat pussy like a champ.
If you lack confidence, try getting a few numbers while going out, that'll boost your self esteem. After that you can either detete those or train some side bitches, it's up to you

Hey fuck you. If you're in my situation, you'll understand how I feel.

You leave the bitch. No business being with a bitch that's got the ex on her mind. Ditch this shit before you get cucked or worse.

>real talk

If she brought up your inadequacies in the bedroom it's time to start looking for a way out. Girls like that are typically hoes and dick fiends. She's pretty much letting you know that if shit doesn't get better she's going to get better. Save yourself the trouble and leave her before she does it to you. Hurts to get cheated on if she chooses that route too.

But she did mention that sex isn't important to her. We were talking about sex and then she brought up the point where she never came while having sex with me. She wasn't telling me I have to do something about it. Maybe she was hinting me? I don't know but it sure fucked up my whole day.

Let her fuck with her ex, don't you see she's asking for it? Be ready to be cucked.

Op maybe she is just telling you that so she can get more pleasure(which is a win win because then she will be down to fuck more). Swallow your pride and ask her what you can improve on

Yes. By all means, take advice from a 12 year old.

I asked her but she didn't want to tell me. She says these things should come naturally like how it did with her ex but it didn't happen while we are fucking.

>Maybe she was hinting me?
She was

>she did mention that sex isn't important to her
Sex is important to women. Don't let her fool you.

Okay cucklord. Enjoy being the female in your relationship.

Then what should I do? I don't have the confidence to have sex with her. I'd rather fuck a hooker.

Is all this modern feminism reducing men to this level now? If you're even considering trying to make it work you're wasting your time. Girls who love and appreciate you don't go telling you you're incapable of satisfying them. You've said yourself it made you feel like less of a man.

Leave the girl homie. I promise you you can find someone better. Someone who will make you feel like the man you are. You don't need someone around you that makes you feel like less than you are.

Do you know why she can't cum? Like is it size are you bad at sex or something else like the emotions aren't strong enough?

It's more than just putting it in and out, ya know.

Fucking right. You can also turn them over and go in and out on the other side.

But it worked for twin towers, didn't it?

She never mentioned anything about my dick size. I don't think I'm bad at sex because I have made my ex girlfriends cum before. I also have this issue that I take too long to cum and it's only recently. Never had this problem.. I can cum in 5 minutes if I'm jerking off but I'll take at least 40 minutes when having sex. Maybe that's an issue as well?

OP maybe you could suggest a threesome with her Ex this way she gets what she needs which you can't give to her and as you watch you might learn how to please her and maybe even make her come for the first time.

Its a win win...

Hahahaha thanks for the laugh mate

Are you bad at sex? Tell us how you go about it and we can possibly help with tips? Do you foreplay before you go in or do you just strip her down and try and wedge it in dry? You could try making her cum with your mouth before you go in so it's less stress on you.

Absolutely not. I always do at least 20 minutes of foreplay before any penetration. She will get wet but she said that's not her cumming. It's just wet because she's turned on. I'm so confused if I am really bad at sex or not.

I put it between her thighs because we usually forget to buy condoms.

You could honestly just be dealing with a high mileage girl user. If she's had a lot of partners or sex in general she's going to expect a certain level from you. If you're not able to meet it who knows what could happen.

He's not OP. She doesn't need condoms because she's on her pills you faggot.

Ask her what she likes in bed. Trust me, she will tell you. Perform said things for her, she will cum.

Well you're doing that part right everyone knows that women's clitoris is halway between the knee an the pelvis.

Im stumped what her issue is.

Post a picture of girlfriend so we can get an idea.

Yes nigga you're horrible at it fag

The clitoris is inside the anus you fool.

That's only for boipucci

>be me 22 dating 19 yo
>know her body almost better than she does and can get her off everytime
>we split and she gets married
>fast forward 3 years I split with girl after her and she shows up at my house
>get her a drink and we start chatting and out of nowhere she just gets up and walks upstairs still talking so I have to follow her to continue convo
>I'm baffled about what shes doing but she walks into my bedroom (used to be ours years ago) and starts undressing and lays on bed
>sure why not she gets off a few times before I do
>sinking feeling hits I just ducked married woman and she notices
>just randomly blurted out don't worry we are getting divorced and you have no idea how long its been since I came
>tells me next time she shows up assume its to fuck so we don't waste so much time talking
>she leaves and I am confused the rest of the day

switch up the positions

It's not up to you, she's supposed to fucking tell you what she likes so that you can do what she likes, I tell my fiancee how to do things in a way I like and he does the same for me, it's HER responsibility, she's just being a lazy bitch

Try some kinky shit. Go buy some handcuffs and cuff her up and blindfold her. Try and find what she's into. Don't be afraid to do some spanking. Never once met a girl that didn't like having her ass smacked from behind. Girls feed on your emotions when having sex too. If she feels your "animal" drive she's going to get into it too.

patrice ? rip man

This is how I feel it might be with my current girlfriend. We've been together for almost three years. I've heard through mutual friends that I was the best orgasm and dick she's ever had. Hopefully when this eventually ends she'll crave it and come back for the occasional quicky.

Is she perhaps having actual difficulty cumming and needs different kind of stimulation than average female?

Learn how to eat Pussy, it takes a couple tries but once you're good any chick will want to sit on ur face

Her pussy stank m9

Whose the girl?

Nigga fuck her like a piece of shit, pull her hair, choke her and maybe even slap her, shit works

also foreplay, biting and shit

Just play with her clit and last over 5 minutes. The clit is a fucking orgasm button for women

I can tell you're a virgin. Porn isn't the same as reality you dickhead.

That sucks dude.

You obviously haven't realised how chad fucks - a literal chad

virgin spotted kek

>her on top
>finger in her ass (if she doesn't go for that, then hold her ass cheeks open whilst she grinds, bitches love that)
>move against her movements
>if you bust, just go down on her man... Doesn't matter how good you are, sooner or later if she's getting eaten out no matter how long it takes she will finish

Stop being a pussy, and become the master of one instead
Faggot

Shit.. The last sentence really got my hyped.

see

Don't listen to this virgin, play with a clit too much (unless it's your tongue) it can become too sensitive for women and make them uncomfortable.

My gf of 10 months said her ex-bf's dick was 7 inches, mine's only 6, but she has a weird fetish for small dicks, so whenever we have sex she makes me get really drunk so it's hard for me to get it fully up.

She said he was too rough and it hurt too much

Man up

Do you tip your fedora on regular basis or only on special occasions?

It's sad because i used to have a collection

I feel you man. I just pretend to hate fedoras because I'm jealous. I lost my collection at the same time as losing all of my good boy points.

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Everyone is calling each other virgin because of different opinions on how to get a girl to orgasm. It's getting ridiculous.

she probably never meant to, and if she did it just to spite you, then consider taking it up with her. Women aren't fucking monsters, she'll listen and probably be happy you explained your troubles with her.

>Women aren't fucking monsters
fucking virgin.

Get her to rub herself while you fuck user. Once they get over the shyness they're more than happy to rub themselves off.

Just as much her responsibility as yours

shove a hitachi up her

She insulted you and this will be on your mind for the remainder of your relationship. That was a total bitch move and i would dump her ass but its up to you op.

Tits or gtfo

I don't understand why people even bring this up in relationships. ANYTIME the conversation shifts towards previous partners I dodge that shit like it's the fucking plague. Nothing worse than hearing the escapades of your slut before you tied her down to ruin a week.

Just kill her

Twice a month?

Dump her.

Exactly, I never told my wife about the sluts i fucked befor her or that they got me off way more than she does, ops gf is a bitch.

Same here. Established early on that I wasn't putting up with that shit. Had some trouble with one of her old party friends who would get drunk and bring up stories I wasn't comfortable hearing. Pretty much acted like I wasn't there while she brought up all the sluttiness they were a part of. That "old friend" was her friend for about 2 more days until they stopped talking. Had to make her quit coming around.

>Dump her ass because she wants you to improve on the bed.

Look guys, we have a virgin over here.

It's not skill size. She told me my penis was underwhelming.

Dump her ass because shes an inconsiderate bitch. I get sex daily cause im a fucking alpha male.

Accidentally got my current pregnant and we're engaged and all that fun shit now. She was a quick fuck buddy until that. Not very good looking. Have to spend the rest of my foreseeable future with this thing now. The only thing that kills me is that I've fucked much hotter girls. My wanting of quick easy sex lead me into taking steps back.

Moral? I know what it's like to have a wife not as good as the previous now too. I feel your pain...

Stop looking at porn and Sup Forums

Pussy stank ? Then tell her to take showers more often or look for the problem's root.

It's like a virgin convention on here lol

If 's bitch says that her ex can do a better job, it means she wants you to step up your game. Maybe you're not eating her pussy or some shit. It's not rocket science to get a girl to cum.

1. Stimulate her clit
2. Stimulate her nipples
3. Tease them at the same time.
4. Slowly tease her pussy
5. Rub the outside of her pussy first
6. Make your way inward, towards the clit a little bit, don't touch it.
7. Start circling around the clit, but still not touching it. The point is to create suspense, you want her on the edge of her seat.
8. Bring your mouth CLOSE but not ON IT. You want to breath gently on it, create heat, it increases the stimulation and blood flow to her pussy.
9. You want to start slowly touching the clit, a little touch here, a little touch there, while circling the outside still.
10. You will now be touching the clit, and with your other hand slowly running a finger or two up and down her pussy, this is teasing, you are creating multiple stimulations, you are attempting to overload her system at this point, this is crucial to making a woman orgasm.
11. You want this don't you. Tell her that, tell her how wet she is, how beautiful it is, how much you fucking love feeling it, experiencing it, how amazing it is. You want her to feel amazing, you have to express it with words as well, critical component here, plus dominating a woman is fun.
12. When she says yes, slowly insert your fingers in, a knuckle at a time, pull out each time you get to a knuckle and ask how badly she wants it, you want more? tell me, tell me you want more, I know you want it, I can feel it.
13. After getting all the way inside, you want to pull your fingers out and plunge them as far as you can go, stop, don't move up and down or anything just yet, let them sit there, play with the clit while preparing your attack.
14. Curl your fingers upwards and move them UP and DOWN, NOT, IN and OUT. this is important, this actually starts to stimulate the g-spot. You can move your fingers in and out slightly while going up and down. Listen to her moans, when they get louder and you feel squeezing on your fingers you have found the jackpot.

15. She will cum at this point.

This guy fucks

holy shit

This man knows what he's talking about. Listen to him OP, an she will cum like never before.

as a femanon I approve

op is beta fag hahahahahaha

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