Broke up with my gf 3 months ago but I can't stop thinking about her, can't stop jerking off to her...

Broke up with my gf 3 months ago but I can't stop thinking about her, can't stop jerking off to her. We lasted maybe a year. Don't have any pics, but she looks like this one. Main reason for breaking up is age, I turned 18 and she's still 15, it turned me off the more I thought about it. How do I get over her?

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just hit the gym alot. and stop fapping to her.

Fucking shit reason for breaking up, even in the US you usually have laws that make your situation legal

You are always going to regret not fucking 15 year old pussy. For most of your life you'll be fucking saggy old lady pussy, usually on someone you don't like very much.

Get laid

Nope, even in florida that's considered child rape. Although it's florida so maybe they don't give a shit considering we got pedos errywhere.

so you dumped hot 15 y/o that looked like kittens. n1 bro

Lmao what part of Florida is your bum ass from

Clearly states it's not her

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I'm in Oklahoma, she was in Texas, it was long distant but we met once every half year. Never had sex, though I fucking wish we did. Too scared of my family who absolutely despises age differences, never told them for a minute about us. It was mostly kept secret on my side but her parents were cool with it.
My feelings towards her are really weird. It bothers me to my core that she's so much younger, but still I can't stop fantasizing or missing her. Haven't been able to move on all summer and I'm not sure I want to be in a relationship for awhile. Doesn't bother me much, I've never really had any more action than making out. Still a virgin.

>>> Don't have any pics, but she looks like this one.
>> that looked like kittens

> Clearly states it's not her

No one said it was, Sherlock.

What is her name on instagram?

>Main reason for breaking up is age, I turned 18 and she's still 15, it turned me off the more I thought about it.

Shallow shit. Enjoy your misery.

get addicted to somethig else

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Get over it summerfag. The more time you spend thinking about lost pussy is time unspent getting new pussy. Nobody stays together for long at your age, both of you will change dramatically in the next 5 years so your best bet is to bump and run.

Absolutely despise age differences? What a load of total shit.

Maybe your mom just knows you're a likely paedo.

She's 15 and you see her every half year?

You've met her twice, you fucking idiot. She's hardly a ducking girlfriend.

No pics of your girlfriend? what insane faggotry is that? Do you even know her name? Die, cunt

That's the truth bro, hit the gym the hardest you can.
I'm in a ugly position too and gym help a lot

I know how you feel OP, I was in your same position a few weeks ago. There are others, and she is pretty fucked for doing that. Shit mine also broke up cause I had money and a car, and that I talked little cause I didn't have shit to say. She wasn't right for ya, especially since it was long distance. My advice, move on. Nothing else to it, just stop fapping to her and do something to distract yourself. Good luck

>broke up cause I had money and a car

Bullshit

>can't stop jerking off to her
>it turned me off the more I thought about it
OP is a huge fag confirmed

It's a love-hate thing

I fucking wish user.

Nah. You can't love someone if you hate the person. Thats the thing about love. Its impossible to hate or even dislike the person because if you really love a person you accept her with all negative attributes.
>OP is new to relationships
>inb4 from relatshipnewbs : its possibru to hate someone you love

that doesnt help at all, kek.
i feel you bro, im in the same position right now. i broke up like 3 months ago and cant stop thinking about her.

but we gotta move on tho. hit the gym, go out with friends, or do what ever the fuck makes you happy. just dont sit behind your pc all day.

I accepted it for awhile. I guess I just fell out of love then. But it doesn't mean I don't miss her and feel awful about it.

Jokes on you, I'm using a laptop

She broke up because you had no personality

you got my point tho.

OFC you will miss her. Same feeling i felt for my first ex. But dude.....you are fucking 18....
you will get at least 7 other girls in relationships and don't even remember the name of your ex.

I suppose I could try out exercising. I've never really done too well though, can hardly do 5 pushups. I'm 5'7, 170lbs. Work in a food court, always on my feet. Good with standing and walking and lifting and climbing, but not really any other kind of exertion.

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Lol yeah I'm just fucking around

just post nudes lmao

Stop being a pedo, and get someone around your age you sick fuck! Don't be a lazy ass and go for the younger and naive girls, just because your a loser who can't get laid.

Hey asshat, I said I turned 18 and dumped her. Nothing pedo about ending a pedophilic relationship first chance.
Truth be told, when I met her I fell for her before I knew her age. We met at a vacation resort.

Personality wasn't the problem, hours before she told me that her parents questioned her about weed and nonsense, and ofc I use it so she said I did it once. She is a stickler for rules and shit so I putted my money that her parents told her to break it off. She said those reasons and I even called bullshit. I am confident that it wasn't personality, it was situational if anything

Is that Sadcrab?

Don't worry, in a couple years it'll be acceptable to date a girl 3+ years younger. Shit, men SHOULD be dating younger women. We're immature as fuck. I guarantee you date a girl your age, she'll be kicking your ass in gear.

A relationship between a 17 and a 14 year old is wrong, vastly different levels of maturity. Imagine a 14 year old dating a 11 year old.

What's her name?

You dumbass, just try an open relationship or tell her you want to wait until she's sixteen. Girls like that stuff, can you just be friends for a year? Then as soon as she turns sixteen you will have studied enough to know how to BLOW HER FUCKING MIND sexually. And you'll be great friends most likely.

You will know about the Holy Grail of cum, you will do Kegel exercises, you will know where the g-spot is, you will learn everything there is to know about the female reproductive system, you will know what birth control does, you will know every part of the vagina, you will know the history of sex, aphrodisiacs, pussy eating techniques and testimonials, you will have toys, you will have lube, you will have flavored condoms, you will have specific playlists meant for sex for different occasions, you will try cosplay, you will try making a video, you will try anal, you will suggest a threesome (trust and boundaries, you don't actually have to), you will have tried anal yourself so you know how she feels, you will read up on sexual stories and questions from people online and in magazines, you will try dirty talk (saying things other than 'fuck' and 'omg'), you will know all the different styles of porn and find out what turns you on the most, you will draw her naked, you will learn what she has to teach (even if other than sex), you will not smoke, you will pamper her to massages, you will have romantic literature and poetry, you will suffer through the mushy gushy romance and Disney movies (twice!), you will try your own cum or a kiss after a blowjob, you will become COMPLETELY comfortable with each others naked bodies

>good man

a 14 year old dating an 11 year old is just like an 87 year old dating an 84 year old - it's disgusting and should be prohibited by law

Ya only in certain states. And that usually includes an age difference of only two years, marriage is on the table, or if there is parental consent. While honestly, in todays society, young millenials are fucking retards. I dont see a problem with 18 year olds dating 15 year olds. On average, their maturity levels are pretty much the same

stfu you cunt

Statutory rape by the way OP, is a five year difference. When she turns sixteen she's yours' forever if you make it work.

A 87 year old should be banned from dating, full stop.

Well shit we were halfway there with skype calls. I have a paddle and vibrator (we both enjoy anal), we were on snapchat often, we enjoyed it a lot. I had an amazing idea similar to the 'draw her naked' bit but it would have had to wait until we were older and we met next.
I looked younger, she looked older, neither of us had a problem with making out before asking about age. When we did, it was just kind of like "Oh. That seems like a pretty ugly situation, but it wasn't that bad. I liked it." And over a year it went from nbd to the biggest thing that bothered me about her.

Do this. It will get your mind off of her and back on yourself.

It's towards the dark intentions of men who find dominance in aggressive behavior towards women they believe they can make look better. I'm sure it has a name - probably most related to status and image, but this is what it sounds like. Common I'm sure, but easily remedied with time and a little understanding.
>"Honey you look fine without any make-up"
versus
>"You look terrible, why are dressing like that and wearing no make-up?"

Well she turns sixteen at the end of the year. Not that I want to try again or even plan on it. Fear of my family getting me arrested was constant.

Idiot.
It can't be wrong if both love each other.
My dad was 8 years older than my mom.

Actually, her parents were cool with us bc they met at the same ages. 13 and 16. They've been married for nearly 20 years

arrested for what ? Loving her ?
Yes. fucking isn't a thing there but in 3 years, it will. And if you both love each other, it would surely work out until then.

>We're immature as fuck.
thats true bro, but i cant date younger girls. idk why, but i always think of THEM as immature, i just had once sex with a younger girl (she was 1 year younger)
my ex is 30, the last woman i fucked was 37

>It can't be wrong if both love each other.
Is that what your mummy told you?

lol dude, you don't have to read, but check out Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov - just read some of the Wiki.
For history men have been dating and having relations with young girls. It is shown throughout many religions that this was the norm. We take the teachings from scripture and throw away the history it seems.
Yet even today, many, many, countries are completely open with prostitution, open nudity, homosexual marriage, and especially young girl love. These countries majority's might not accept it deep down. But on the cover and somewhere inside these people understand that what goes on behind closed doors and what people want to put inside of themselves is completely their choice.

Maybe you're just finding an attraction towards older women? I fucking love mature women, they are sexy af. But I also would LOVE to have myself a cute, petite 16 year old with NO sexual experience and a blossoming body with an unquenchable thirst for sexual exploration and knowledge. But then my preferences kick in and I start imaging a girl that doesn't even exist and I start debating whether this is just my own unrealistic standards or if it's society's fault I will never find this girl and so on. Point is. Maybe you have just moved on - it's totally normal. But if you find yourself unable to get this person out of your mind you might have an actual, genuine feeling and attachment towards this person. And you shouldn't let something like that go. It can be twice as hard to make sure you stay friends after a break up if you're the only person trying. And that can hurt twice as bad.
So figure this out. Maybe three months isn't bad. I wager she's thinking about college right about now (if you played your cards right). If you want her back you're probably going to have to suffer through knowing that she wants a man who can support her if he has to and that he can 'help her achieve her dreams'. YOU gotta prove you're more than you were before. Don't go making her jealous...

If you go making her jealous by fucking with other girls people are going to think you play with emotions and feelings and they will fucking hate you. It's not a good trait of boys and girls to have.
And a two and three yea difference won;t get you fucking arrested... especially if you talk to her parents first and they don;t seem to mind or if you get their consent. Then what the fuck have you got to worry about other than pregnancy and paying for her birth control an risking the condom breaking when her parents stop paying for everything and you're left up to it.
With this - maybe you found she just isn't your type???.......
Dude you're eighteen, when you turn twenty one you will realize how fucking sexy you are and older women will flirt with you and younger women will compete for your attention in the ways they walk, talk, stare, and stand - everything. You've got a lot of life to live OP.

As far as getting her off your mind goes, watch VICE. Polish your American history and science, try practicing your preferred art form or a new one, find a hobby like model cars or something, anything, listen to new music, learn about the stars and ancient Gods, watch the best movies you can find and think of, exercise, read ArtOfManliness, go hiking or on an adventure, start learning how to cook and try new foods, try learning a new language if you possess the ability, exercise your mind and body. What philosophical ideologies do you know? What psychological disorders do you know? Can you survive the apocalypse?

>Do everything you always wanted, and anything you never thought of before.

Bruh, become a man. It's not that bad.

And if this is you OP, and it's true, for the sake of argument.
It's not worth it. Cops don't like walking away from a car they pull over or a couple they pull aside and knowing that the girl has a bedtime and the guy could hop on a plane to the other side of the world tomorrow. Then there's the tobacco and alcohol thing. Too many unanswered questions. Parent(s) won't mind you if she's sixteen depending on what the girl is like and how her parent(s) are. And if you aren't having sex then what's the fucking point?
Stop wasting gas money on that drive, find a girl from the other states and start seeing the countryside and fucking girls at the same time. I know driving through Texas is fucking sweet, I've been there, but is it reeeeally worth it? Are you just telling us you were tired of paying for gas money and asking for gas money?

Is this some, no God would separate true love in this way debate coming on? People change, you know this right? Just try a girl from your own town and state for once if you haven't.

If she's 15, you just posted her nudes.
That's not pedophilia?

Go to college and start learning stuff. That will take your mind off things, work will too and help pay for visits or the moving in together thing if you stay in touch. Two years shouldn't be the tough to suffer through. You can still meet up maybe once a week if you have the money for gas and a place to stay (I recommend Motel 6's for the weekend, don't tell them you have two people, and make sure you pay in the morning for the room for the night - ugggh - or just sleep in the car somewhere like lovers with no laws)

Make the most out of your visits is the key, and this should include sex. After she's eighteen she can movie in with you if everything works out and you get to see each other every day. Or just move away with her. The world is your oyster.
But make the most out of these two years, or one year, whatever. Next time give more info you goof ball rascal.

She looks LIKE the pic

i am 100% with this guy and hope OP see's it.
Don't throw away relationships like this, it's never healthy.