Long term GF is a huge fucking bitch. She's always been like this but the longer we're together it seems the more she thinks she can get away with. If I try to talk to her about it she just shrugs me off with stupid fucking things like 'I'm tired'. Told her tonight that she doesn't give a fuck about me and that she should choose between our relationship and going to sleep and she went to sleep.
Can't break up with her. Would have nowhere to go, and my job won't pay rent. Plus I'm not convinced I'll ever see a pair of tits again.
Just need someone to call me a faggot tbh, grill me Sup Forums.
Adrian Carter
ur a huge pussy
Robert Turner
Stoopet fabbut
Owen Garcia
Sounds like youre doing it to yourself dumb ass.. If you cant afford rent yourself, how the fuck is she supposed feel "secure" if you cant take care of your damn self.
Austin Johnson
Break up with her. You will be surprised what life would give you. Get rid of the negative
Noah Rodriguez
I wish lmao
Andrew Sanchez
I couldn't give less of a fuck how 'secure' she feels anymore. I never thought I could feel this cold toward her but she deserves every little bit of it.
Elijah Ward
Bro men are supposed to be the alpha. Eat some concrete and man the fuck up. She is taking advantage of you and fucking tell her whats on your mind waker her the fuck up. Throw water 0n her ass and get to it. For fuck sake man time you start being the bitch. And time to make her your prison bitch
Tyler Mitchell
post pics. we will tell you if it's worth it.
Liam Bell
I wanted to. I fucking scoured my PC for the video I took of her sucking my dick while she was wasted, or of her topless pics she used to send me in highschool. I almost kicked myself when I remembered I deleted them. God I'm fucking retarded.
Anyone know if this sort of shit is recoverable? Was on my iPhone, and I transferred to PC. Both I deleted. Would happily post, but I'm almost certain it's gone. She is the paranoid sort and never sent nudes no matter how drunk I got her.
Oliver Adams
This, from someone who was in the same situation
Jace Jenkins
Ever think that maybe she is tired, and you're being a bitch nigga?
Hunter Watson
I'm at Uni, I'm infinitely far away from any family and none of my friends could or would be willing to take a risk on me. I would have nowhere to go but the street if I broke up with her.
Xavier Kelly
Then we're both tired.
I don't see how she could be tired though. I've been everything she ever wanted. She's never done shit for me. This is a one sided relationship and I'm the one who gets to be tired.
Liam Diaz
Don't be such a pussy, so you go homeless. Better than being around someone who hates you, you fucking tool
Ayden Morgan
Ur a Mr not nice ,sorry if i crossed the line
Aaron Ward
the fuck
Cooper Wood
Just cheat on this bitch
Jonathan Russell
>everything she ever wanted whiny faggot who can't even afford to pay rent
Jack Fisher
God this would be perfect.
Too bad I'm too fucking retarded to ever make this happen.
Gabriel Ward
Why is she so tired? Does she work a lot/study hard in uni?
When you're in college relationships should always come to second to school/work. Sorry bro that's just how it is. You're not in highschool anymore she clearly has higher priorities, and quite frankly you should to
Mason Jenkins
> Not being able to understand the simple concept of sharing rent making it cheaper > 2016 > ISHIGGYDIGGYDOO
I've paid more rent than she ever did.
Zachary Parker
Find a room for rent, where do you live brostein?
Ethan Howard
Why though? Expenses should be 50/50. You being a fucking pussy and not making her pay her way is on you
Isaac Butler
Get an extra job dude wtf is wrong with you? Why do you prefer taking abuse from some bitch over actually building up a sweat? How much of a faggot are you?
Jason Perry
Really? Look how desperate you sound, and no job or ability to support yourself? Honestly I wouldnt even try wooing that gf anymore just ignore her and work towards your own independance. Your lack of care will resonate with her like her abandonment of you feels right now, and will make her desire you again. All the while you are working towards a better future for yourself. Thats a win win situation for yourself, who should be the only one you care about anyways.
Jack Thompson
How long had it been since you've fucked
John Campbell
what a pathetic loser. Man up and leave her
Xavier Thompson
A huge fucking faggot.
Maybe I'm talking out of my ass and I don't want to break up with her. Maybe I'd prefer to deal with this bullshit than take a risk. God I'm such a fucking cuck.
> TFW I'd kill myself but I'm too much of a coward.
Colton Perry
I'm assuming you are both on the lease? Break up with her, get a job. You don't have to move out because you broke up with her. (I hope she's on the lease so she can't abandon the apartment) just break it off, and start dating right in front of her. Show her how happy you are now that all she is to you is a room mate for the sole purpose of making rent affordable. She can't kick you out if you've lived there for more than a month. She can't leave if she's on the lease. Given these 2 conditions, you ate in a position of power.
Leo Barnes
Like, two days? But jesus our sex life is so shitty. It doesn't matter how much I try to work with her she just ends up shutting me down and getting her own way. TBH our sex life is what started this downward trend for us. I've constantly been trying to improve it, to improve us. She's given up.
Mason Butler
> Implying I'd ever date again
You overestimate my social skills.
How the fuck am I supposed to think about other women when the girl of my dreams makes me want to throw up?
Lucas Wright
...
Ethan Brooks
Do you have a picture of her can we see her ugly mug
Charles Johnson
>You overestimate my social skills. >How the fuck am I supposed to think about other women when the girl of my dreams makes me want to throw up?
and you don't want to change any of this? If she makes you so miserable then clearly she's NOT the girl of your dreams. You just seem unwilling to change yourself for the better, and content with playing safe even it slowly kills you
Austin Gray
Make a plan faggot and get out of their
Liam Ward
She's not the girl of your dreams. Unless you are talking nightmares. You don't need any social skills to get a gorl, just find a new one that is in your league. I'm sure you have interests, find some group that organizes around that or hell, volunteer for charity. Girls you meet doing that aren't as concerned about social skills but the quality of your heart and work ethic. Dump the nightmare, work on yourself, seek out community. You might be lonely for a while, but a much better girl will come along and your whole life Will be better for it. We have one life, and when it is over, it's over. Don't waste it being insecure and abused.
Elijah Gutierrez
>girl of my dreams make's me want to throw up Wow Speaking from personal experience If that's how she's making you feel then obviously she's not. Relationships have ups and downs but if your saying you've tried to improve things and she doesn't give a damn... well then it's time to decide if your gonna stick with it or not.
Brayden Scott
this guy is mostly right,
but honestly the fact you made this thread means you know you need to just leave her. it's hard to pull the bandaid off but you'll feel lots better dude. less stress all the time. hang with buds every day until you don't feel sad anymore and it'll be ok.
Kayden Morgan
You guys are right. I need to get the fuck out of this, one way or another. We were perfect together. At least I can be content in knowing I wasn't the one who stopped trying. I'll probably be doing us both a favor.
Wish I had nudes to dump. Any advice on getting nudes from a GF (soon to be ex GF) who has refused to for years?
Michael Barnes
Cuck as fuck. Literally and figuratively kill yourself.
Logan Perry
LOL
>Being financially dependent on a woman >Being able to call yourself a man Pick one OP
Charles Kelly
>my job won't pay rent >I pay more rent than she ever did
So which is it, fuckstain? Good fucking God, you're so fucking stupid it hurts. No wonder she's a bitch, it takes one to know one. (In other words, you're a total bitch, you fucking moron)
What a mong. At least have the decency to admit that you don't want to fix your shitty self, you're just here to bitch. To wit: no one cares. Fucking kill yourself.
Daniel Cox
>stopped trying nigga you never tried at all. maybe you wouldn't be such a bitch ass beta if you did.
Thomas Parker
If she treats you like this, then she's gonna leave you eventually when someone slightly better comes along, and considering you can't pull your own financial weight, that will happen. Ignore her and work on making yourself independent then leave on your own terms. Don't just keep treading water until she leaves you and your homeless. Be proactive dude. Don't be a victim. In this kind of abuse, only you can end it by deciding you are better than this. And you are. I don't care who you are, she clearly doesn't care for you beyond your utility to conform to her demands. That's not a relationship. She's not your girlfriend. This is an abusive cohabitation and she's your abuser. Stop playing victim and take control of your own life. You're not getting any younger and when shit hits the fan sometime in the future, you are going to wish you still had your youth. Change it now. This won't get any easier with time. In life, to get what you want, you need to do things that are hard and painful sometimes. Do what's right, not what's easy.
Hudson Powell
Listen you little dip shit turd. Why don't you get a fucking job and move the fuck out faggot.
Parker Howard
Take a few snaps of her while shes sleeping, fuck it.
Mason Foster
The fuck? I guess I wasn't clear enough since literally everybody in the thread seems to think she's supporting me.
I couldn't pay rent if I moved out
> if I moved out
When two people pay rent, it is halved. When I have no SO or roommate to pay rent with me, then the amount I need to pay effectively doubles.
I could look for shared accommodation I suppose, but where I'm living it's almost impossible to find, and the Uni dorms are in absurdly high demand.
Samuel Flores
You cant even pay your rent or get another girl.. Why shouldnt she be a bitch to you?
Thomas Gonzalez
I'm not posting her pics unless I know somebody is gonna enjoy it. Even I never enjoyed her shitty PJs.
Carson King
No man. Your gonna be doing yourself a favor. Don't waste your time with people who are not willing to give you any of their time. If she doesn't feel like improving things, well that's on her.
Also who gives a shit about nudes. If your saying that you might still have to live with her after you break up then don't fucking dig yourself in a hole for any of her bullshit in the future.
Brayden Allen
Just because you break up doesn't mean you have to move out. You are both in the lease right? Or were you stupid enough to be the only one on the lease? Also, find a cheaper place. If you can't afford a cheap effeciency or studio, then you aren't working hard enough. Anyone can afford an efficiency working part time on min wage. Sure, it's small and lacks basic luxuries, but it's better than being homeless. Until then, focus on yourself and tell her to fuck of. She can't just leave. And if she does, sue her ass. (Unless, again, she's not on the lease. ... in which case, you are an idiot).
Ryan Hughes
She's on the lease. How the fuck would I be able to stand living with her if I can't stand being in a relationship with her?
I'd also probably still want to try to put my dick in her, which I know would be the wrong thing to do.
Carson Cooper
Nothing I said implied she was supporting you, just that you aren't supporting yourself, which you aren't. None of these comments imply you ate being 100% supported by her and stand true against your petty objection.
Carson Johnson
So I'll say it again since you're literally too stupid to get it:
>first you assert that you can't afford to pay 100% of the rent >then you assert that she doesn't contribute 50% to the rent. You obliquely imply that what she contributes is SIGNIFICANTLY LESS >you then call us stupid for "not getting" the idea that the rent is split when you have roommates. (Y'know, right after you said that your roommate doesn't contribute to the rent)
If this is how you act all the time, no wonder she "stopped trying". You're such a whiney bitch.
Also, there's another solution for you, you idiot: move out and get a roommate who actually contributes to the rent. Maybe Tyrone Mandingo will pay 100% of the rent if you service him and let him use your sloppy boipucci, you fucking beta cuck.
Leo Stewart
You just do what you gotta do. Ignore her. So caring about her. Treat her as a male roommate. Hell, doing this will get you laid. I lived with an ex for a year after we broke up. Me living for myself and not for her made her want me and we fucked line we never had while dating. And I never let it sway me because I remember how much of a bitch she was. And every time we fucked, she just got more desperate for my attention, which I denied (except when I was horny) until the lease was up and I moved out so that dating other girls would be easier. Seriously, it sounds like you ate looking for excuses to enable your sick need to be emotionally abused. This isn't on anyone but you. Where would you be if you never met her?
Luke Jones
What I said
> I have paid more rent than she did in total
What you read
> SHE IS PAYING SIGNIFICANTLY LESS THAN ME WEEKLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your conclusion
> You obviously can't support yourself!
I'd try to explain why absolutely none of that makes any sense, but it's pretty obvious that reading comprehension isn't something you're good at so best not.
Jordan Hall
Holy shit. Can you not see that none of that matters? Fuck it, you're hopeless. Enjoy your miserable life.
Thomas King
Faggot
Matthew Green
You'll be fine, OP. Just go shopping for some nice skirts for yourself. Buy a dildo to practice taking in the ass. And always remember to apologize if the sammich you make for your gf isn't up to her satisfaction.
Also, review cuck videos on YouPorn to get a preview of what your sex life is going to be like in the future.
Enjoy!
Jayden Phillips
Don't go back and edit your words to make yourself right. You said:
>I've paid more rent than she ever did
Which has a radically different connotation than
>I have paid more rent than she did in total
See, the former does, in fact, make greater use of passive voice and therefore implies (although vaguely) a greater discrepancy.
You just can't clearly say what you mean. My guess is this is either out of fear (you lack the confidence to speak with conviction), or you prefer the use of weasel words so that you can change the meaning in the fly that way you're never wrong.
Either way it doesn't change the fact that you're a bitch who can't take care of himself.
Jack Scott
If you have ever owned a dog it is a matter of conditioning.
People creates habits out of reactions.
She knows that she can treat you like shit because you will still be there.
Ignore her when she acts up! ALWAYS!! Ignore her when she acts like a cunt! ALWAYS!!
Give her attention and compliments when she's cool.
If she says she's tired say "Cool. Go to sleep"
Don't talk about the relationship either if she doesn't want to. Just ignore her a bit more than you, act cool. Make up cool things to do and then go to the movies alone or something. Act like your life is amazing without her and that you don't need her.
Give it two weeks and she'll start swooning again.