Is anyone here actually in love?

Is anyone here actually in love?

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Not at the moment nut i am trying to bone a 19 year old girl who just broke up with her first BF and he use to be my amigo(quasi)

Yeah, but I don't feel the same level of love coming back at me.

Only with the coco fam

I'm 32
my girlfriend has a job and is a higher level then I am and gives me sex on the daily.
that is pretty much love when you get to be my age.

Kind of. But with a least 3 girls. Life is shitty

Naw m8 shits gay

>This

I know how you feel my dude

Thought I was for a while. Gf for 3 years, living together for 1.5. Things were great before she moved in. Now I definitely don't love her anymore, not even sure if I really like her all that much anymore.

SAUCE!!!

Tawnee stone man the greatest ass of all times

yep

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Whats that smell like OP?

Tawnee stone

>Tawnee Stone

The concept of love was invented by advertisers to sell nylons, before that it was a method of control.

Attraction isn't exclusive. That's why marriages fail, all the fucking time.

Kind of, im in luv with this girl that i meet her sometime while working, but its kinda tricky ask her to hang out for a coffe...

I'm curious, what changed?

No but I've been there. I thought I'd been there 3 times but looking back I've ever only loved once. Still talk to her even though we broke up nearly 8 years ago. And hell I still love her. Luckily though it's no longer a romantic love. In my experience you'll never know if it's true love until you've lost it and enough time has passed but YMMV

I've never been more sure of it

No.

Break up as soon as possible. I've been in that situation. It won't be better. If you let her break up with you, you will feel like shit. If you break up, you won't feel a thing. Do it, faggot. I know that you've been looking at those hot teeny asses every time you went to town. Break up and they will all be yours.

Not true. My parents were marriage and they loved each other. They always were on their side, no balem game, no harrasing, no other typical shit. Rare but possible.

Wewr because moms dead - cancer. Last year. Over 30 years together and they didnt fight even once.

have been.

The best way I can describe it to anyone who's never really experienced it is this; it's like an amazing high, something akin to mdma. You feel like the world could be ending but as long as you're with them, everything will be alright. This, much like any great high, is also accompanied by a great comedown. Eventually you'll split ways for one reason or another and reality comes crashing back down. It's one of the worst feelings I've ever had.

Shit dude I'm nearly 30...is that really what I have to look forward to? Fuck, that's sad

nope i cant be bothered with all my warhammerpainting and basementdwelling ... did have couple of hot girls in the past but since they all broken my soul to maximumautism i just prefer the company of me for a while

Same with my parents. But they were also both married twice before. And guess what? For every successful marriage, I'll show you a thousand train-wrecks.

whats wrong with control?
Well, anyways, I'm not so certain. I had a girlfriend when I was 18 and we split up and stay in contact. We both moved on, and I fucking hate her half of the time but we have probably a better connection then most couples do, even each other. I would say that is a strong form of love. We are just not healthy for each other so we mutually stay away.

Higher level of what black ops 3, wow or autism.

>keep finding shit she's been hiding
>she slowly turned into a control freak
>is a fucking slob, refuses to clean anything
>she's constantly inventing things to be angry about

All you really need to do is communication.

Break it up now because if you wont you will enetually sabotage your realationship subconsciously and it will fall into pieces with shitstorm. Do this now to avoid very unpleasnt experience.

I'm in love with the thought of you killing yourself, so yeah.

Every guy out there is always in love. We sometimes get hurt but that is one of our defect we always love.

I like this user

Was supposed to say yes but I've been there

soudns like what happened to me before she started cheating. sounds like shes bored, move on

Agreed, but she also had GREAT tits and a very pretty face.
I'd be willing to bet that now she's either fat or a crack whore.

Yeah. We've only been together for a little under a year. She's an 8/10, and i'm a 5/10 beta, but she has autism and thinks it evens out because of that. It's really nice, though. She just enjoys the fact that I actually care about her because she has no friends.

Know that feel

i remember last being in love when i was about 19 girl broke my heart havent felt the same about any girl since then, i turned 21 recently

Mine were first and only, no befores. And im aware of this shit thing that is going on. People live in fear so they get involved in wrong persons and afraid to search right person. That is why there are so may fucked up relationships.

Me? I prefer to be alone than in fucked up situation like that. I like myself i have many hobbies and interests and i will not get involved in something i dont want to be.

Might be but damn in those pics and vids? That is a God Hand work right there.

no idea, i was hated my whole life, even my grand mother, cuz i'm adopted, love is not something I'm used to, sorry

I actually did break it off a few months ago. Moved my shit into the guest room. Told her she could take some time to find a new place. Went and found some strange. A couple weeks go by and she still hasn't found a place. We start talking, she promises to change everything. She actually does a complete 180 for the next couple of months so I give it another chance. But now she's back to being the same bitch I broke up with. People don't change, I don't know wtf I was thinking.

Still waiting on prince charming to knock on my door and teach me

yeah

Been there, user.

It's over. End it now, it's the best thing for all concerned.

what do you think went through her mind when she turned towards that spider man cutout to play strip darts?

I love you user.

yeah, the problem with girls you are in "LOVE" with is that you are not so much "in love" its the novelty of something new and idealized. The longer you spend with girls who seem perfect, the more you notice they are not perfect, they are just people.
So its not the heart racing, every moment is an adventure shit that matters. Its that they aren't trying to use you because a LOT of that goes on unintentionally or not. A lot of girls you will date you will find there is an unequal balance. She is usually around because she NEEDS you and less because she WANTS you.
My current girlfriend doesn't NEED me. She has a job, she is independent, she is more attractive then I am, she doesn't cheat and at the end of the day she gets in my bed and we fuck and talk about stuff.
That's love in your 30s. Its not exciting but its very comfortable.

People dont change. The only change that has sense is change that is a result from Consciousness Expanding and Developement. If ones force self into something that he/she doesnt want it will be fucking hard and unpleasnt. So just drop it, hard.

I'm in the casual stages of love, the romantic stages were like a rollercoaster, and the highs were pure ecstasy but, casual sex (like real casual, fuck this one time we got out a torch, shone it to our faces, and started telling spooky stories whilst fucking), cuddles, and getting handfed are great to have and a comfortable environment for any man to flourish

Our anniversary is coming up on the 11th of this month, what should I get her?

'Rawr'

attractiveness

cont.
Last gf was 8 years older half asian very attractive but batshitcrazy ..wanted kids with me (im 26...) im was actually considering but all went to shit fast couldnt stand her crazyness anymore (she told me im the love of her life blabla )..
1 month later some slavguy.jpg looking guy is fucking her and theyre in love now ......just kill me man dont show me the light and take it away

I am in love with my ex. Fucking pathetic, I know. But still she's the sweetest girl I ever met.

Because relationship with love is like you favourited pair of slippers - gets you comfortable as You are, understands You and allows You to be as You are, not changing shit, not fighting or any shit like that.

why make me cry user ?

yes lmao

cuzz you awesome man and...

this man:

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>Implying Sup Forums/reddit/tumblr fags have girlfriends

Yes, I asked the girl of my dreams to come to hawaii and help me grow weed and macadamian nuts. She already bought her ticket so we have a winter to spend in tropical paradise growing shit and fucking like rabbits

unless she will take some nigger with her :D He will smoke your weed, eat nuts and fuck her like crazye :D

but im not wishing this for You man, seriously be happy :)

thank you user, I'll have a good night, thanks

Nope, that shit never lasts anyways

No, I just keep getting obsessed just because I'm lonely, thinking of someone all the time and when I see her I don't feel shit.

Thanks again for all this wonderful insight. I'm not even that butt hurt.

ur welcome :)

First thing You have to do is build a healthy relationship with Self then You can build something with others. Problem is most of people here and now dont know the self.

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Op are u asian?

what shit she hiding bro?

Have gf for 8 years, even have a kid with her. Never had feelings for her though, don't know why.
I never been in love, I've only felt sexual attraction to a handfull of girls. Am I normal?

define "normal"

love isnt like in movies we all experience it differently dont compare ...if it feels like that and its okay why complain

haha you fucked up. you're gonna take that mistake to the grave and i feel sorry for you.

The worst was the fact that she has chronic hepatitis B. She wasn't ever going to tell me, until a routine blood test showed I had highly elevated liver enzymes. Fortunately it was unrelated and I had received a vaccine for hepatitis B before traveling a couple of years before I met her. But if I hadn't, there's a good chance I would have caught it from her.

i wish tawnee never aged D:

dout it.

Love is just a chemical reaction that compels animal to breed

The only thing you will ever love will be the kids that come from your balls
N.W.A said it, bitches aint shit

This is the first time I'm saying this to anyone, I don't love my girlfriend that I've been with for 5 years now. I don't think I ever did either.

She's really nice to me and is an easy 8/10 in my view. But I don't know, I never felt that click with her. She's honestly just safe for me because I know she'll never cheat on me and I've already been an asshole for most of the relationship. Acting like I don't care or acting like I don't even love her but she still stays with me.

So I told myself I have an 8/10 girlfriend that won't ever leave me and I won't need to be alone. I guess I'll just stay with her. I also like having sex with her and she gives it almost whenever I want it.

Don't get me wrong though, I definitely love her as a person. It just feels more like the love you have for a friend.

OMG LOL
Wouldn't that be something, "hey user I forgot to tell you I brought Tron the gigganigga with me"

see

Yea I am, dated my best friend during highschool but ive known her since middle school. Been going on six years now.

The world will surely beat love out of every one of us. It's part of growing up, I think.

that alone is worth taking a dump on her head while asleep. End it.

If you refer to my kid as a mistake, his not. I care a lot about him and would not be without.
Its not like I hate his mother, she is a good girl, I just don't love her. If she ever left I would'nt care. It would be sad for the kid though, guess thats why I'm still around her.
I'm 32 and had a lot of gf's, never met one that I had feelings for. So why don't keep the girl who is a good girl, not a stupid cunt and clearly love me?

Just broke up with Gf of 7 months. We were in love.
But she was generally an unhappy person. I would do great things for her, take her out on daytrips and spend a lot of quality time together. But then at the end of the day she would literally invent some shit to bitch about.

I told her that she needs to look deep inside herself, and start appreciating all the good things around her, instead of focusing her energy on one tiny bad detail.

At the end of the day im 22 years old, and im in college. As much as i did love her, i dont have time for literal bullshit, especially when i have my whole life ahead of, and im surrounded by a sea of women everyday.

Sep 26 would be our 1 yr anni. Long story short: op moved from ar to tx, exgf moved 3 hrs to be together. Exgfis straight edge. Op has drug problem. Op finds heroin. Op gets hooked. Op then finds heroin + coke and iv's daily. Op hides drug habit for 3 mo. Gf goes out OF town

Op on heroin and coke, became a sadist and playing to roughly ACCIDENTALLY KILled her cat. Big big fucking mistake. And so, op wanted to run.

She forgave op but it was rough after having to explain. Fighting. Op spirals down, exgf gets onto ops fbook (she said I left it open maybe I did), finds op talkin about dealing. And this was after OP broke up with Her out of anger and lack of sex.

Op starts using heavily and slangin back home (15+ hr drive).... after 1 week op wants girl back. Op visits. She had been on ops fbook that day. She kicked op out. Been trying to het ger back 2 months

I am, but crippling fear of rejection compels me to hide it.
Never been one for confidence issues in the past, but this one's got pretty deep under my skin.
Wat do?

>love my gf, but not really in love
>can't imagine waking up with her every day
>she's insecure and will randomly ask me about other girls, and then get mad, regardless of how I answer
>every time we fight and I feel like we're gonna break up, I get legitimately sad
>don't want to be with her, but don't want to be without her

funj weeg, what is the context?

I fell in love with a chick who left me for some Chad who cheats on her pretty much daily and treats her like complete shit. I will honestly never understand women.

Well user, My girlfriend is breaking up with me and I wish she wasn't, I'd say keep it together as well as you can, dont take her for granted.

>dont take her for granted.
I try not to, but at the same time, sometimes she's just irrational

I want to talk to someone without the fear it'll randomly become a fight, which is how I feel most of the time

I don't want to lose her, but I also feel a ton of extra stress since getting with her

She was born and raised in China. Apparently that shit is everywhere in Asia. Like 95% of the population has been exposed to it (it doesn't always turn chronic). They just don't see it as a big deal.

Moral of the story: watch out with those Asian bitches, anons. Make sure that bitch gets tested and make sure you got all your shots.

Yep, and it's completely mutual. I've been through some relations but I've never felt this. Me and her, it's like we live in symbiosis.

We understand eachother, we think the same things and I really feel that she loves me just as much as I love her. In the beginning of the relationship I was a jerk to her (without her knowing) and now I regret it more than anything. I've found something really really special.

My parents love her which is amazing, and my friends adore her and are all like "how did you find her" etc etc. She develops me and I develop her, I'm more creative and she's more logical and both of us feel so complete when we now have access to the missing part of ourselves. It sounds stupid as fuck even to me, but I just know that I will be with her for a very very long time, it's not impossible that I'll be with her forever.

Also, she's way hotter than me (for scale she gets around 3-500 likes on instagram and all of them are from her school/city, very popular.

Op became bipolar.ocd texts. Speedballs all day mean as fuck. Op saw dr and got on bupropion / lamictal a miracle combo. Op no longer on drugs. Op still trying. She ignores me 90% but said she 'might ' see me. Treats me like shit. Ignore her?

Id ask her about it. Just be upfront and tell her what bothers you. But this is coming from someone who's soon to be single...