Did you ever cheat or did anybody ever cheat on you?

Did you ever cheat or did anybody ever cheat on you?
How long did it take you or them to notice?
Planing on cheating on my wife tonight. Want to know if I can still stay with her for a few years.

You are a piece of shit human being I hope you die in a car crash on your way home tonight

cheating is natural

Don't do it if you have kids man.

doesn't mean you are not a piece of shit for doing it.

Cheated on my wife st least 14 or 15 times. Never been found out. One was even one of her friends.

used to mess around with a married woman, even when her infant kids were home, can't believe we never got caught tbh.

My mate cheated on his now ex girlfriend with her friend last week, she was a cunt anyway

How do you feel about it?

we don't but I want to have a family with her.
That's why I'm aksking if it's certain to be caught

Don't do it.

If you feel the need to cheat on her it means that you no longer love her and don't respect her, so the best thing here is to leave her. Then you'll be free to fuck whatever pussy you want.

She's human like you OP, don't listen to anyone who tells you to go through with it, instead reverse the roles and imagine it was you on the other end and ask yourself how that would feel.

Sounds like your women must trust you, fucking fag. What happens when she finds out,
snaps and kills you?

This guy gets it. My now ex-fiance cheated on me the day we were making our wedding plans. Took about six months to really get over her, but the distrust of everyone lasts much longer. Ultimate betrayal.

Cheat = cheetah = lol

The thing is, will you be able to live with yourself? Seeing her happy face everyday, making you breakfast in ignorance, knowing that if she ever finds out, maybe even after you have children, that you will be the reason of your kids being mentally unstable. Even if your wife forgives you, and you escape divorce, will you be able to live with the regret of what you did too her when you are more mature. If you can live with it like a psychopath, do it. Or maybe don't be selfish and love your wife.

I never did it.
I feel like I love her and want to stay but the other girl turns me on much more. Also that's why I ask if anybody here ever cheated so I know how it actually feels coming home.

Don't be a dumbass and you wont get caught. Don't give out your number or real email. Create a hookup email and only ever check it in a private browser. Don't use your phone as much as you possibly can. And for the risk that shit turns south, don't downgrade to cheat. If you are laying it to a landwhale or 2/10, then why fuckin bother?

Use a burner phone. Don't tell em your real name. Hotels only

Probably easier to live with yourself if you got a whore or some one night stand vs someone you know or need to come in contact with again.

I'm not a cheater unfortunately, despite having many opportunities it ended up being my ex wife who cheated.

My dad cheat on my mom. And only I know about it. It's wrong. Don't do it.

You mean she's never said that she's found out. There could be a shit storm slowly brewing as she gathers evidence and plots her revenge/exit strategy

In retrospect don't you wish hot did it now?

Christ you're fast

It feels awful. Trust me. And if you start feeling guilty after doing it, which most likely you will considering you're in two minds about it and came here for reassurance from strangers, you'll start avoiding her and start withdrawing from the relationship. And it's just going to be a downward spiral from there. So think it through before doing anything.

I was totally promiscuous for ten years and no relationship ever lasted. Did not matter if I was living with someone, engaged, they were married.

Infidelity is incompatible with a stable loving relationship; if you wanna fuck around, man up and get a divorce.

She knows... She's just plotting the best way to ruin the rest of your life OP.
Good luck you stupid fuck.

When I was young and in insignificant teenage relationships, I cheated a lot.

If you're old enough to have a wife, you're old enough to dump her first or work shit out with her. Don't be a pathetic loser.

so if I'm young it's ok?

Not gonna judge you for what you do, but just know that once that trust is gone its never coming back

Not ok. You still shouldnt cheat on anyone but it's more acceptable looking in, because >teenager

She's gonna notice immediately, unless you're the iceman.

Never ok to cheat, user. Btw, nice super Satan quads.

Would never do it. I also long for other girls sometimes. But I love my gf with all my heart. It would destroy her, and it would destroy our relationship. I'm a person with high morality and it would eat me up inside. The feeling of guilt is unbearable to me. Besides from being clever enough to not make her find out directly, she would know. I'm not good at hiding my feelings. Everytime I feel funny she immediately notices. All in all: totally not worth it. Get decent OP

I feel the same way

I was suspected to be a serial cheater because of bizarrely timed traffic jams.

ayyy

i'm sort of on the opposite side of this. i'm fucking this girl who is cheating on her boyfriend.

i've been doing it for over a year now. the dude doesn't even know i exist. its crazy how easy it is to get away with, really. its almost sickening. she's such a nice, smart, christian girl, but i'm rawdogging her behind her boyfriends back every weekend.

not trying to come off the wrong way. if you have any questions i can give you my opinion. i'm just some guy though, i'm not a psychopath.

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As a man that has cheated. With a woman that most would say is more physically attractive than my wife. I will say that it's not worth it.. feels like it is for a couple of months, but even if she never finds out, it nags at you forever if you really care about your wife. Save yourself the trouble brother. Even if it seems too late to back out, do it, wish I'd had a kind user to advise me otherwise

Gotta treat it like a fun way to get off. Don't form a relationship, don't wine and dine them. Don't make regular plans and fit them into your life on the regular.

That way you're looking for fun ways to cum, and not actively forming relationships that could be construed as a replacement for yours.

you feel bad ?

yes, but not enough to stop.

i thought it would make me feel alpha and badass, cumming in a girls mouth before she sees her boyfriend. it didn't. it made me feel like an asshole.

i'm using her as a crutch instead of pursuing healthy relationships with other women.

its an unhealthy way to be.

this, but it's a good thing to fill your time with if depressed

Cry some more

you ever asked her how she feels about it?

Cheated once and told her, stayed together another year, cheated again just recently and now I'm going to break up with her.

not really, no.

i figure if i run my mouth off to her about it, she'll come to her senses and break it off.

i don't think any good can come of it-- talking to her i mean.

its not like i want her to break up with her boyfriend. she's a slut. if she's willing to cheat with me, she's willing to cheat on me.

If you're trying to get it out of your system, it'll only make you want more

Do you have an Idea why she cheats?
Also do you go on dates or just meet up and fuck?

well her boyfriend lives a state over. she's here for college.

its weird though, because i met her the first month of school and we fucked maybe two weeks later?

i didn't even find out she had a boyfriend until months after this.

i think that her boyfriend is probably a good christian dude. a good dad, maybe. she wants to keep him around in case of emergencies.

i do drugs and fuck her in the ass and stuff.

we go get dinner or coffee sometimes. usually she just comes over to my place and we fuck and she goes home or stays over.

she tends to separate me from her life. i don't know her friends, i don't go to bars with her. i don't go to parties with her.

she comes and gets fucked up with my friends though. they just think she's either my girlfriend or fwb.

its really low maintenance though. i would consider us more friends than acquaintances.

i'd consider it more a "we are friends that primarily fuck and occasionally do other things" rather than a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship or anything else.

the time commitment is minimal though, so i can still go on dates with other girls and stuff. its not like she stays at my house all day.

and if you had a gf would you dump her?

i would like to think so.

if i thought i could get away with spinning two plates i would. i cheated on a girlfriend in the past and got away with it.

my reptilian brain says "why fuck one pussy when you could fuck TWO PUSSIES?!?!" and i find it hard to disagree.

if i had a girlfriend that i viewed as a stable, long term thing, i would dump the fwb. i'm in college though, and i don't think you can have a "real" girlfriend here.

almost everyone is cheating, and if they aren't, they would if they could.

Sauce?

Ooh, my little pretty one, my pretty one
When you gonna give me some time, sc-rotum
Ooh, you make my motor run, my motor run
Got it coming off o' the line, sc-rotum

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

Come a little closer, huh, a-will ya, huh?
Close enough to look in my eyes, sc-rotum
Keeping it a mystery, it gets to me
Running down the length of my thigh, sc-rotum

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

When you gonna give to me, a gift to me
Is it just a matter of time, sc-rotum?
Is it d-d-destiny, d-destiny
Or is it just a game in my mind, sc-rotum?

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-m-m-m-m-my, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum
Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum
Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum

maybe you only tell that yourself because that whole thing sounds wrong

yeah but...
Ooh, my little pretty one, my pretty one
When you gonna give me some time, sc-rotum
Ooh, you make my motor run, my motor run
Got it coming off o' the line, sc-rotum

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

Come a little closer, huh, a-will ya, huh?
Close enough to look in my eyes, sc-rotum
Keeping it a mystery, it gets to me
Running down the length of my thigh, sc-rotum

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

When you gonna give to me, a gift to me
Is it just a matter of time, sc-rotum?
Is it d-d-destiny, d-destiny
Or is it just a game in my mind, sc-rotum?

Never gonna stop, give it up, such a dirty mind
I always get it up, for the touch of the younger kind
My, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-m-m-m-m-my, my, my, aye-aye, whoa!
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum
M-m-m-my sc-rotum

Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum
Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum
Ooooooo-ohhh, my sc-rotum

its me and the girl i'm fucking.

i know its wrong. i would be a happier person if i wasn't fucking her. i possess empathy, and i can understand what it would be like to be the guy in the situation. i would want to know if a dude was fucking my girlfriend.

then again, she's going to fuck somebody so it might as well be me, right? i'm clean, i know where i've been. better me than some profligate with herpes or whatever.

but its like i've loaded the gun and given it to her, and she's the one pulling the trigger. i'm not committing the murder, i'm just an accomplice. i didn't REALLY do anything wrong.

i don't know. i'm just trying to keep my head above water right now. life, ya know?

I understand. Just if you ever have a real girlfriend and ant to have a healthie relationship you'll have to tell her about your life.

she should learn how to shave better...

Gf of three years has been cheating on me and I don't really want to be alive.

If you cheat, you literally do not have a human soul and should kill yourself.

Fuck You.

you're not wrong. i make her not shave though. i'm into that sort of thing.

yeah i know. i don't know what i want though. i'm going to tread water until i get it figured out.

thanks for the chat. i can't talk about this with anyone i know.

Prob ur parents fault

I would love to talk more to you. The subject is just really intresting to me.,

I swear to god all I fucking see is "everyone cheats" "she's cheating on you bro" "cheating is normal" "I love him but I just want dick" "I love her but I just want pussy" "I'm keeping them around because they'd be a good long term partner but this person has better genitals"

FUCK. It makes me so fucking angry. If you think they're a better person, why don't you hop on their dick or get in their pussy instead? For fuck sake, you can't be lying to a good person and telling them you love them when you're going out every weekend and getting on another dick or falling in another pussy. You don't fucking love them, you love their potential and you don't fucking deserve it.

Infidelity is not normal, when you tell someone you love them, and commit to a relationship, or god forbid you marry them, you commit to sex with them and only them for the time youre in the relationship. Thats what a monogamous relationship is and thats how it should stay. Not "ohh I'm feeling a little wet tonight time to hop on three dicks, suck another 2 then go home, tell my man I love him and kiss him on the mouth"

For fuck sake, if youre a cheater youre the biggest scum of the earth and I fucking hate you.

>inb4 who hurt u

Yes! Motherfucker, I feel fucking worthless. I can't trust any mother fucker and every relationship is hard for me. I always fucking feel like they're cheating. It fucking sucks! I can't live a normal life anymore. If you think you love your partner, and if you care about them.

Do not fucking cheat. It isn't that hard. It will destroy them. It will leave them forever broken. Dont. Fucking. Do. It.

here's the thing though, its different when its me.

i can cheat.

if i saw 20$ fall out of a guys pocket, i'd be hard pressed not to pick it up.

if somebody saw 20$ fall out of my pocket, i'd want them to tell me.

i'm content fucking two girls at once. i don't want my girlfriend taking dick that isn't mine, though.

I wont man.
I realised cheating makes me less of a man and more of an stupid ape.

You're selfish, controlling and you should change. That is the worst kind of person to be.

I'm in the exact same situation, except it's my ex and I also have a girlfriend. I met her after a 5 years, we hung out. She told me about the guy shes been dating for 2 years now. I took her virginity back when we first dated, so I figured fuck why not and just went for a kiss in the car. Started making out and ended up having sex. Now we've been having sex for the last 3 months on the regular. She doesn't have any intentions of breaking up with her boyfriend. I don't wanna leave my girlfriend either. But taking her from her boyfriend just feels so good, I can't stop. At the same time I feel bad for the guy, like I make her call him when I'm fucking her. I think I am a psychopath. I talked to her about it, tried to be the good guy, said hey we're both cheating it's not fair to our partners and she said, it's not cheating, I had sex with you before I met this guy, you've already seen/done everything. I don't wanna be with you I just miss our sex life. So I'm just here like, this won't end well. Not sure what to do but can't stop.

Thank you user, you've become a better man tonight.

Don't get me wrong though, if your relationship is failing and that is the reason you wanted to cheat then you should end the relationship and THEN proceed to fuck other women. Make it explicitly known that you two are no longer together though.

This was meant for

I figured

I cheat on my wife all the time. She is so dependent on me than she does not even question my actions. We've been together since high school she was abused by her parents alot so my mom would always let her stay over at my place. Her parents didn't seem to give a fuck at all. Now we are married have 1 kid together and shes a stay at home mom.

Don't believe her, it is definitely cheating. Do the right thing user

why?

beyond morality, why would i?

if both girls never find out, and i use protection, what's the harm?

i get more pussy, they are both satisfied. neither are any wiser.

of course, it blows up in my face if they find out, but they haven't yet.

Right. In my Experience Cheating is not a good Idea. I got cheated on, it destroyed me (Also helped make me a better Person tbh). In my last Relationship, i cheated. I hooked up with a Girl when I was drunk because my GF was so fucking needy and annoying the whole fucking Time. I couldn't take it. I kept it a secret because she was finishing high school (didn't want her to be obstructed by the News). Anyway, the feeling you have when you hang out, or she tells you that she loves you, or does nice stuff for you is shit. Some People can get over it. I didn't tell her, but because the Girl I cheated with couldn't STFU, i had to tell her. I was retarded as fuck because I chose to stay with her, Trust was gone and the next 1 1/2 Years were a Catastrophe (we moved in together because of her insecurities) I started to abuse Alcohol and Weed heavily, she did too. More and more my respect for her was also gone, learnt a lot about Myself in this Time. However if you want to cheat, its not the right Girl, break up.

>are you a heartless piece of shit and don't give a fuck about her feelings (you sound like me so I guess yes)

fuck the other girl

>do you actually like this girl and know that if you get caught you might never be together again

don't cheat

if you have guilt about previous bad shit you've done, don't do it. otherwise fuck away

yeah i don't know what to tell you. i'm right there along side you though.

might as well get it while the getting is good, right?

hopefully we figure it out before we make some big mistake. until then, though, i'm going to keep fucking this girl

Because it I'd exactly that, morality.
Why do you think it is okay? How would you feel if she was getting 2 other men's dick in her mouth and pussy and she came home with their cum still inside her and kissed you on the lips then told you to fuck her. Thats another mans seed in her user. You're also kissing another mans cum.

Did it make you feel bad? Course it fucking did. Just like both girls would feel bad if they knew there was someone else. Fix your shit, you're fucked in more ways than one.

Cheated on an ex once.

First time was a blowy from two girls at the same time. Then my fuckup friends came looking for me and had to bail.

Second time banged some chick at a house party with none of my friends present

No one found out until i told them. Because:

1) no one witnessed it who knew my friends or girlfriend at the time

2) kept my mouth shut until it didn't matter anymore

Depending on the relationship you have with your wife i would advise you to go for it or not. If the relationship is dead and you don't care about the possibility of her taking half of everything then fucking do it faggot.

However if she still loves you, every time she looks at you or does something nice towards you. The cheating will come to mind. And it will eat away at your mind until you tell her.

Not Psychopath, but definitely narcissist tendencies.

You're a wanker mate

I forgot to mention, that she's still into me. She's developed some kind of dependency of me, its weird as fuck, because we've been seperated for 7 Months

because i can get away with it. that's why its okay. if i could walk into a bank and walk out with all the money in the vault, no strings attached, i would.

i would cut her loose if she cheated on me. i'm not going to be in a relationship with a cheater.
i know how badly i would feel if i found out my girlfriend cheated on me. i know the hypocrisy in my words, i'm not a fool. i just don't care enough to stop myself.

The problem is I'm the one that started it. Cause I wanted to see if I could make her cheat, I wanted to see if I could still have her after 5 years. My ego? Now I'm stuck cause doing something bad feels so fucking good. And also she has hinted that she will tell my girlfriend everything if I try to break things off. And I said if she does that I'm gonna tell her boyfriend. She said ok then gotta keep doing what we are doing till she gets bored. I can't risk her telling my girlfriend cause my girlfriend is a forieng exchange student and she has no body here. I've been there for her when she felt alone and sad and everyhting and she trusts me enough to give me her virginity. So if she finds out what i've been doing I'm not sure how she will react and simply I don't want her to get hurt, I can't stand the thought. This just made me realize OP don't cheat if you care about how she will feel if she finds out. If you're okay with her finding out then go for it. As for me I don't know what to do. I wish I never did this and I feel like I'll kill my self if my girlfriend finds out what I'm doing cause I don't wanna be there to see how shes gonna feel, I don't wanna be the reason for making her feel like that. Shitty part is no one to blame but me.

So there's only Yes or No to Cheating?

Exactly how i feel user.

Fuck you. Fucking kill yourself. Get a 4m length of rope, tie a fucking noose and kill yourself. I've met literal niggers who gangbang with nines and blades who have more compassion for another human than you do

Holy fucking shit. You actually don't deserve to live.

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>your
>self
>fucking
>end
>it
>now

That just shows that your still a child. Be a Man and take Responsibility. If you cheat, you've gotta take the Hit.

i'm just playing the game dude. it's the same game you're playing. i'm just going by a different set of rules.

sorry it upsets you so much. i know i'm the problem, but like fuck am i going to stop any time soon.

Just get a divorce you degenerate fuck.

Have some respect.

he's kind of right tho.
Like I can get behind open relation ships but doing shit like that ruins your life you'll never be able to be honest to someone you really love and want to spen your life with. I feel sorry for you actually. Id rather have THE pussy then never get it.

I already saied I wont cheat.

You need to break up with your girlfriend before she finds out about you ex. Even if you love her.

You fucked up. She deserves better. You need to use some excuse to break up with her. Or stop being there for her when she needs someone and slowly distance your self and she will stop liking you. Trust me there is no other way.

Your ex sounds crazy and you stuck your dick in crazy. Never stick your dick in crazy. Once you break up go and tell your ex's boyfriend everything cause he deserves better too.

:O

Why are you thinking about it you could of already done it

We're not playing the same game. Go fuck yourself. If I had two chances to choke people to death and in the room was you, my ex and an Isis leader I'd fucking kill you twice.

You're a literal pile of shit. I hope they both leave you soon.

Why are you so butthurt.
Did your ex cheat on you?

Sad thing is, your a Normie because you get angry because of this. It shows you have Empathy, and it is the reason why you won't be as successfull as our Friend without a conscience.
He is a Psycho/Soziopath or a Narcissist. The most successfull People are of this kind, why? Because they don't have Emotions to hinder them in their Rationality, they do whatever it takes to achieve a goal. The Price for this is never to achieve Happiness, and always be on the Hunt for greater Things (Power, Money, Fulfillment). Don't Judge him, because he is different, accept that you are not the Center of the Universe and that others have a right to be different.

the reality is that they won't. i'm going to keep doing what i'm doing forever, in all likelihood.

when i'm done with the girls i'm doing it to now, i'll do it to some new ones. there are billions of people on earth, and plenty of them are just like me.

what i'm doing works for me. if i feel like changing, i'll change. i'm just living my life, man.

keep on keeping on.

Yes, she did. It ruined me, I can't have a normal relationship anymore and I'm always fucking paranoid about it.

She told me she loved me user, clearly not when she'd had 7 other dicks inside her in the last month we were together