I need help, I'm really struggling with my sexuality. I'm 27 male. I can't figure out if I'm gay or bi...

I need help, I'm really struggling with my sexuality. I'm 27 male. I can't figure out if I'm gay or bi. I lost my virginity to a guy when I was 19, but I've never had any interest in having a relationship with a guy, 0% interest. I've been with 1 girl, and I had a very loving and healthy relationship with her that didn't work out due to distance. When I'm in public I'll stare at girls and their figure, never at guys. But I'll only masturbate to pics/vids of hung guys, it turns me on the most sexually. I've had more sexual encounters with guys than girls 8 to 1. And I enjoyed myself every time. When I see pictures of girls in porn or w/e I do get turned on, but because theyre acting slutty and it makes me want to be submissive and slutty too. I'll end up fantasizing about being slutty and hooking up with a guy. I just can't picture myself being in a romantic relationship with a guy, that only feels natural to me with girls. Sometimes I wish I could picture myself with a guy. Help

No way you're 27 and you haven't figured this shit out. I make more complicated decisions when getting coffee in the morning. I'm calling BS.

Sounds gay to me. If guys turn you on, then you should go with it and try a relationship with one.

Not BS.

I don't think I would like it as much as a relationship with a girl

You like relationships with women because you're like one. Just try dating a guy like you would a girl.

The fuck is it with people like you obsessed with their identity and what it means? Just fucking do what feels right. You don't have to attach a name or or designate it. Just fucking grow up. You are what you are. FUCK.

Stop being a Faggot and just end it OP

I don't know. No has ever even thought that about me even once

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End what?

End your snapchat streak, What the fuck you think.

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I don't understand the issue with wanting to own your identity. I'd rather figure it out then just say... meh

KYS please.

kek

You're clearly sexually-attracted to men...but you're conflicted for whatever reason.

I'm bi. I enjoy sex with men about 20% of the time. I love women, I've always dated women, women turn me on much more, I jerk off almost exclusively to women (less than 1% of my porn is gay). Just once and awhile, I need to suck a cock, get fucked, and cum while being fucked.

Try dating a guy...see if that actually works.

I'm kinda the opposite I jerk off mostly to guys. I'm conflicted because I'm more sexually drawn to guys, but I just can't see myself doing anything considered a relationship with guys. Like once I cum, I have no desire to look at guys.

I'm this guy right here

Why can't you see yourself dating a guy.

Let me put it to you this way.

Have you made out with a guy? Did you get really hard? I take it you're a bottom. Do you cum from being fucked?

Now, do you get really hard making out with a woman?

Just give it a try then. If it doesn't feel right, end it, and just use men to get your rocks off. Nothing wrong with that

Yea I do get hard making out guy a guy, every time. Yeah I like being a bottom. Making out with girls, sometimes I do get hard, sometimes not at all.

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Yeah I think thats prob what I'm going to end up doing

Dude, that's pretty gay.

Try dating a guy. You'll probably be happier in the long run. Besides, it wouldn't be fair to any woman you'd be in a relationship with if women don't turn you on.

Seriously, get out of your head and try dating a man. I'm sure you'll find a gay man that has felt the same way.