I found out that the girlfriend of my best friend is cheating on him... i dont know if i should tell him...

I found out that the girlfriend of my best friend is cheating on him... i dont know if i should tell him.. what would u do b?

Tell him you little shit

fuck off this isnt even a questions

Apparently he's not your best friend if you're gonna let his bitch go behind his back.

Do what's good to do.
Tell him.

ofcourse guys but come one i also know her for a long time and i dont want to be the one that fucks up the relationship....

take pictures, blackmail her, get free blowjobs

wtf? SHE is the one that fucked up the relationship.
Tell him, fuck her

Yup tell him fuck her. You're only saving him from wasting more time on the cunt.

i kinda snooped on her laptop when i was installing adobe shit for her

>not telling guy immediately

op is obviously a girl. show tits.

Do the right thing OP, tell your friend after you give him a blowjob.

at least i think about the consequences

Was in this situation but wasn't my best friend but a good friend.
>At a party with all friends
>Best friend, J tells me that our good friend Z's gf is cheating and has been cheating for a minute with multiple guys.(some of the guys were even our friends, I would've totally hit her as well if I'd have known)
>We spend about 20 long, drunk and high minutes figuring out what to do
>Z's both parents are dead, dad died in the line of duty as a fireman, mom was killed(we think) by his step dad who then proceeded to kill himself
>All of this happened in a span of 3 years
>I decide fuck it I'm telling him
>Tell him
>He looks at us for about 2 seconds then full sprints out of the house
>This was about 4 years ago he got over it
> Saw him again about a month ago, says he appreciates me telling him even though he reacted badly
Do it op it might suck for a bit but eventually he'll appreciate it

shit.. how is he now? im just afraid they gonna blame me for snooping

well, then guide him to finding out for himself. Make him be suspicious about the guy she is cheating with ?

You don't sound like a best friend at all!

tell him. imagine how much it will hurt him when she does it again.

Tell him or your not really his friend

the problem is that i never heard of that guy before and i never believed she would do something like that... she is a shy innocent girl at least i thought so... they seem happy together so thats why im afraid im gonna ruin it

Offer to double team her

Lol your a fucking coward

Stop making excuses. Bros before hoes, always.

Stop boinking your friend's bitch

if you feel like being a scumbag, blackmail her into some kinky shit

or if you gonna be a bro expose the hoe and humiliate her

Dude SHE is going to blame you no matter what...but she is a cunt. TELL YOUR FRIEND, tell him how you found out, tell him the details. Honor and bro code DEMAND you tell him. You are duty bound to this.

what exactly was the evidence, then?

she was still logged in her fb and i read a pretty explicit conversation

It's non of your business. These other fucks know nothing. It's not the job of a friend to do this. I was dumb enough to tell a friend when I was younger. Not my friend anymore. He will always associate it with you afterwards. There are other options you aren't considering. Maybe he's a cuck or they have an open relationship and he doesn't want anyone to know and you coming by being the hero means he has to break up with her for appearance. It's not your relationship, stay out of it.

that was also my thoughts thats why i came her for advice.... i know Sup Forums is bad place for advice but yeah..

Use the info to blackmail her into fucking you. Or sending nudes at the very least and share them here.

im not a guy

mind your own business

cheating is fairly normal even though its not the heathiest of things

your thoughts/beliefs have little to do with anyone elses relationships ... the way to approach such matters is useful when you make it clear that its none of my business that any emotional attachment with whoever is seemingly questionable

DID YOU SAVE THE SCREEN CAP?

OP, the answer is very simple. Do unto others as you would do unto yourself.

Imagine the situation were reversed. Would you expect your bro to tell you? Would you want him to? Would you rather live in 'blissful' ignorance?

If you can honestly, truly tell yourself that you would rather you weren't told, then you should not tell him.

This happened to me a few years ago. I decided to confront the girl. She gave me the best blowjob I ever got.

I'd bring it up to her every few months and get another one until they eventually broke up.

This is literally the only option

no she was also here so i only saw it briefly...

Ignore the cuck. Consider this, with all the std floating around out there and the fact that cheaters rarely use any kind of protection, by not telling your friend you could help expose him to a life changing disease or the sentence of raising a child not his own.

Cheating on a spouse or SO is absolutely the worst kind of betrayal and if you know and don't tell you are supporting the cheater.

You're worried he'll be mad if you tell? Imagine how much he will hate you if he finds out you knew and DIDN'T tell him.

I'll also say that I know many people who cheated and if the relationship is a good one, they eventually have to confront it on their own and by doing so they deal with the underlying issues. Makes them stronger. My step dad and my mom for example. One of my good friends he marriage is doing better than ever now. But if it's a public issue, cause friends know, it's over. They cant work out the problems they can only deal with everyone else, hence how my last relationship ended.

make a fake account and write a message to his fb , he should check if something is going on with this guy (place fb id here)
If he is clever he know how to figure it out, if not, he deserve what he got.

Ok if you really want to help out your friend try to get a excuse to get back on her laptop. Try to get screen caps of the convos, or save something related (get a usb/ or just take a pic on your phone). Is she computer illiterate? You could relate it to a update/adobe. Though that still doesn't get you the log in for her facebook so try to get that first. So idunno

This is good, if she wants to say user, but OP could confront the cheated bf about it, and tell him to try to log in on her girlfriends account to see for himself?

Blackmail the bitch
tell her youl spill unless she fucks you win win

Don't do it OP. I was dating the love of my life in college. We were "pre-engaged" to be married after we graduated. My best friend at the time revealed to me that she was cheating on me with one of the football players. Ruined my life. I confronted my GF and she broke up with me. I stopped being friends with that guy and haven't been in love since. Started taking antidepressants. If he kept his mouth shut I'd be happily married and getting regular sex.

Black mail her, make her lick your ass

It's possible they can overcome it - But only if it's brought out in the open. If OP doesn't tell his bro, there's a risk he'll end up not only heartbroken but actually catching some fucking STD as well.

>OP, how would you feel if your best friend got AIDS because you're a pussy?

No you wouldn't idiot

Beta as fuck. Just kill yourself already. The world doesn't need weaklings like you. You do not have the strength to deal with life. You contribute with NOTHING to the world and to society. Either get your shit together or just die. Now.

she has a macbook but honestly i cant think of a good excuse to get on her laptop.. i just installed adobe shit and blocked connections following a readme.. telling him under a other name might be not such a bad idea! maybe ill create a fake fb account idd

I don't agree with you, therefore you are a cuck. Actually, if you must know, my current relationship my girl likes to watch me fuck other girls.
I have experience on every side of this issue, being cheated on, cheating, being the friend that told, and being the friend that kept his mouth shut. Everyone cheats. People either work through it on their own or some hero comes by and fucks things worse.

Oh believe me, I think about it everyday. Probably track down my old best friend who ruined my life and do it in front of him so he can know it was his fault.

sucks to be u, but not everyone falls to pieces after one shitty event. Dont be a beta bitch like this. it's better to tell the boyfriend the truth so he doesn't feel betrayed by his girlfriend and encase his friend for not telling him

if fb is open for user, it will be open for bf too.

When taking screens, everyone knows that user is a spy. Dont know if he wants to get bad reputation just for telling his friend that he gets cheated.

lol come on guys dont fight... im just trying to get advice and weighting the options.. u guys just have different point of views

Do that. Hopefully he'll laugh at you. In my eyes, he's like Batman - Taking out the trash of the world, such as yourself.

>His fault
I think you mean his accomplishment.

If you're really best friends, man up, tell him once. Bring all of the facts to the table and tell him "look, it is what it is, I'm your bro, this is what I know.. take it or leave it" and if he don't believe you, wash your hands and let him get himself hurt

One of my best friend got cheated on at a party where all of his other supposed friends were at... besides him. No one told him.

My ex is currently fucking my ex-best friend, and all of my friends knew about it and no one told me either.. soo.

Tell the man

Stop being a edgy little bitch for your friend trying to help out. It's not his fault you have no backbone and you would have happily lived on in a relationship with a whore.

>Stream it when you eat buckshot

There are no consequences. Bros before hoes. Your friend will be heart-broken, but he will also know that you got his back.
If your friend gets pissy instead, then his man card is revoked.

Iv'e done that before, I knew that my best firend's girlfriend cheated on him, my own girlfriend also friend of the whore girlfriend was aware about that too, I said I should tell him about that, then my grilfriend said if you say that to him I leave you... The first thing Iv'e done after that is talking to my best friend about his whore girlfriend.

If you tell him, he is hurt, they break up.
If you don't and she keeps cheating, he is hurt maybe they break up maybe they don't.
You don't and she stops on her own, highly unlikely but everyone happy.
I don't see how you're helping him by saying anything

People don't get in bad reputation for being the one who finds out, even if so it would at top 1 or 2 friends close to the cumdumpster. Everyone else would appreciate it and the boyfriend would thank you.

Of course unless your this user a beta bitch who would have happily lived on with a cheating whore

This is the correct answer.

Saving him from AIDS, and allowing him to find someone worthy of his time instead of being with his current whore. You are looking at it from a "I'm a wizard" perspective where you assume his friend won't find someone better in a few weeks. It's not that hard.

the problem is she is really sweet and they look perfect together... both seem very happy.. i dont want to ruin that

You can't possibly be serious user

>You don't and she stops on her own, highly unlikely but everyone happy.

Once a cheater always a cheater. OP if you think like these boneless anons at least do it out of principle for your friend

Blackmail her, Fuck her in the ass then tell him anyway

Femanon here. Sometimes a girl cheats a little but it doesn't mean anything. If they look cute together, leave them be. That's my advice tbh.

Have a pepe for being a Bro in a tide horrible friends, seen in this thread. What sort if thought process was your ex in thinking that would be a good idea?

Tell her if she does not give you a bj you are going to tell your friend.

Fucking kill yourself cunt

Tits or GTFO

Has fb still these sound when getting a message? One could just pretend to have paid attention to it when it came up, instead of saying "I browsed your gfs laptop".

wisdom

I know what u should do.... fucker her I did. You know she is hot and tidy. And she jean for cheating.

Femaon pls just just help a bro out, you know for a fact that if this was happening to you, you would want the info

They also have date and time. The last time they spoke on messenger was last thursday

Bro Code: You have to tell him, it is only right. Unless that guy is you, thn you are no bro shit stain.

faggot......screen proves nothing. easy to fake it.

Fuck the bro code he did follow it when he was balls deep in ya mum

you could try to fuck her. Just as a test to make sure she cheats.

wow, tell me more about this invovative programm

Hella just send her a text saying I know

Not everyone would instinctively think it would be fake. Especially a chat log, if you really think this all OP has to do is try to take a pic of it with her finger in frame on her phone of the chat log.

Don't tell him yourself, you don't want to get dragged into that drama.

Make a throwaway email address or whatever, message your bro saying "your gf is cheating on you"

That should do it, his suspicion will be kindled and he'll start watching her and figure it out. Unless he's retarded

this, if you do try and blackmail her do it face to face or over the phone, dont send any texts/emails that can fall back on you

This is good but OP if you think the dumpster if manipulative enough of the Bf you need to step up and explain everything you know to help support his suspicions

fuck of aids spreader, go back to fucking niggers you worthless cunt

her fb: sofia.fifi.soufiani can someone msg her saying: "i know" ? Dont say its coming from me tho

This one?

>Everyone cheats

No. People with scruples don't cheat, just sluts like you who try to justify it with lines like this.

You wanna do the whole open relationship thing that's fine, as long as everyone is on board. When one partner in a relationship makes that decision unilaterally, it's cheating. And it fucking hurts peoole in ways nothing else does. I've heard betrayed spouses say it would hurt less if their cheater had died suddenly than it did when they found out about the affair.

Fucking mobile

>sofia.fifi.soufiani
haha message sent!

>Meanwhile in shit that never happend

Sit him down, give him a beer, and EXPLAIN what you saw and under what circumstances.

Dude was trying to get your back. It looks like you did him a favor by not talking to him anymore. Nobody needs a little pussy beta cuck faggot as a friend.

yes but please dont let her know how u know

I wish ,y girlfriend would do this then describe every detail to ,e - wouldnt want my best friend knowimg though

Could you maybe provide a direct ink to her fb?

the fact that you don't have honor or respect for your best friend to tell him immediately what happened gave it away.

another proof that loyalty and especially honor are male abstractions.

fuck you, you're the type of person who doesn't stand up for your BEST FRIEND.

how could you stoop so low, whore?