My girlfriend died, we were together for almost a year. We were even talking about getting married...

My girlfriend died, we were together for almost a year. We were even talking about getting married, I've never been so close to someone. Happened last night, car accident. What do I do, how can I deal with this

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cash in on life insurance
>inb4 didn't have any because she didn't care

She was my first girlfriend, I'm 21 years old I'm so dead

do you believe in an afterlife?

An hero yourself.

Neither of us did, we both really wanted to but science is just crazy

theres nothing we could tell you that would make it hurt less,
all you can do is mourn for her and then move on.

It crossed my mind but no

Stop dating cars.

Cheered me up a little bit

>inb4 xd lololol nice one m8

go to a psychologist man, you really need to and it will help you out. It'll hurt like shit for a while but it'll be okay eventually. I hope shit gets better for you man

who drived?

I feel for you op.. Its gonna sting for a long time, go to a therapist. Dont bottle it all up man. Cry as much as you need to and one day you can move on and continue your walk through life. Sup Forums got me through a lot this year it can do the same for you.

She was alone, I don't know a lot of the details about who's fault it was

Hey, at least she died an angel. My whore of an ex still roams this Earth like a succubus.

go take some LSD.

She was the greatest type of person jesus I can't stop the tears

Mourn then go on.
It's not like you had build a life, got a house or a child.
Sorry for you.

tell me when you found out, its 4 years now staring at the wall

All these whiteknight fags not telling op to an hero. OP is a faggot and wouldn't do it anyways but if he's actually asking Sup Forums for advice he should really consider cutting down the gene pool. Or alternatively he'll move on in a few months. But this is probably bait anyways.

I was watching Malcolm in the Middle home alone when I got a text, was about 9PM, worst night of my life
I'm too much of a puss to kms, she wouldn't want me to either. I know there's a lot of bait shit but I never come to Sup Forums, I'm just so fuckin

>Shit old people say

loot corpse, equip better shit and sell the rest.

Join her

This should help, OP
youtube.com/watch?v=YE0rijL78yE

Love this song... took me way too long to learn it was a Pearl Jam song

I'm glad I wasn't there, my last memory of her is pleasant. But at the same time I wish I was. Holy fuck instant down pour of tears

I meant tell me when you found a way to deal with it, I didnt for 4 years now

fuck man i can't believe how it must feel. how long did u guys date?

In 10 days it would have been a year. I was so excited

You know, If Hot fuzz taught me anything..its that you dont call it a car accident. Its a collision. Accident implies nobody is to blame. Also THE GREATER GOOD

29
> old
What are you? 12?

More people than you are mourning the loss of a good person. Connect with them and share both the pain and good memories, it helps.

>science is just crazy

wow sounds like you really did your research , are you a stoner?

My only family is my brother and aunt, I was close with her family too. I think I'm going to go see them today
Sorry, I never got too into religion

Ehh Carl Jung emphasized that people don't go through true spiritual change until there late 40s or something like that. I doubt this faggot is that old..

female drivers right?

So what are the details on the crash? Single vehicle? Intoxicated?

24. Generic relativism bugs me.

She wasn't, I'm not sure about the details yet so the other driver could have been

oh fuck bro...don´t be alone and support her family too...for good memories...

>but science is just crazy

kill yourself

Who was driving? Her bull?

1) let her go, she died and there's nothing you can do to revert that.
2) don't let the thought of her consume you (read 1), instead, think of her as a good experience that's now over.
3) don't attach to the past, that will only hurt you.
4) this is a traumatic experience that you'll eventually get past to.
5) man up
6) find a new gf; don't waste your youth lamenting on a lost cause.

I drink a lot.. that might help..

Same happened to my girlfriend. Just do what you can to not be alone. Spend time with your family or friends or whoever, just don't be alone. It's gonna hurt though OP, and it'll hurt forever. There will often be times when it's unbearable and debilitating, and then after a while you'll feel almost normal for a bit, and then it will get bad again, and so on and so forth, until you feel almost normal most of the time. Don't try to drink it away though, that makes it really really bad.

Your girlfriend dies, next day you come onto Sup Forums to beg for advice.

Either kill yourself, or, kill yourself.

Or kill your... Selfies

Sometimes, it's only what's left for keeping sanity.

I think I'm going to go to her house, I need to see her family. Thanks a lot guys

Take some of her clothes

Put them & wank

1. Buy a Delorian

2. Find a Dr Emmet Brown on Craigs list

3. Contact Iran or Palestine for Uranium

4. Travel to last night listening to youtube.com/watch?v=TLQWGoysbgM

>with her for a year
>talking about getting married
brah u dodged a bullet u should be happy

heroin

fuck her right in the pussy

It would only take a few years of studying necromancy to be able to reanimate her. If you really love her then that's how you bring her back

(OP)

Sorry to hear that man. One of my closest and dearest friends died suddenly last week (pulmonary embolism), and unfortunately it's not been the first time I've experienced this, so I'm going to offer some advice.

Don't feel bad about about how you are feeling at any given point. If you catch yourself laughing, having fun or otherwise feel normal, there might be part of you telling yourself that you *shouldn't* feel this way because it's not right.

Ignore it. Half the time when someone close (and young) goes suddenly, it takes a lot of time to process it, throughout which you might just feel numb. Feeling anything at all, whether it's positive or negative is the first step towards dealing with it.

Underrated post

Bad idea, not a drug for a mad mindset

Valium would be better

...

liquor and whores

No you're just a dick head

There's your plan. The quads have spoken.

Bruh, no woman mean you gonna be rollin in greenbacks. Hit that strip club and get some ho to pound the sadness out you with her ass and titties

got any nudes?

This helps a bit. There's always someone, on some forum, somewhere that made a topic about the same shit you grieved about or went through.

>my girlfriend died

Oh look. What a surprise. Results.

No, she's so dead.

Embrace National Socialism

Do you believe in God OP?

don`t kill yourself.
look for an other one. You`re young.

But forget the flowers EVERY week on your first GF`s Grave. She is dead and can`t see them.

Oh fuck kek

Go on reddit for comfort. Go on tumblr for sorrow. Go on Sup Forums for kek.

Cry for a day or a week or a month. how ever long it takes.

and then figure out whether she would have wanted you to be sad or happy for the rest of your life. i think you know the answer. so do what she would have wanted you to do.

Heïl

Alright met with her family, I'm in the bathroom now. A lot of tears and silence, I'm done posting

Rip OP and godspeed

download tinder

Don't let yourself spiral out of control OP. Make sure you have friends and family to talk to.

>love of my life dies
>not sure what to do with myself, I'm in so much pain
>better visit the asshole of the internet

Are they all in the bathroom?

Fucking newfag retard. You just say an hero. Not an hero yourself. Stupid fucking retarded autistic youtube generation kid.

I've been in a similar situation, Sup Forums can b pretty helpful

>What do I do, how can I deal with this

Find her body and fuck it.
At least she won't move now or complain about how she had to finish herself off...

I'm all for joking about his dead girl but at least make it funny nigger

Yeah OP don't let yourself spiral out of control like her car.

you can kill yourself

You are one racist piece of shit.
Go play with your Hitler action figure, you white son of a bitch.

you need to calm down newfriend

>What do I do, how can I deal with this
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>boo hoo muh racism!
were you a Bernie supporter?

HAHAHAHAHHA GUESS YOUR GIRLFRIEND WAS A BERNOUT TOO

ARE YA FEELIN THE BERN YET? HUH?

Heroin. Solves everything.

>being this much of a newfag

Underrated post

Bump. This needs more attention

FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS

Be happy, like Happy Bird.

Well this has to be bait. Blacks on Sup Forums know their place.

well meme'd autist.

Mourn for as long as it takes.
Get accustomed to living alone again.
Play some music if you can't sleep without her presence.
Take walks outside in the sun. Produces loads of vitamin D, which helps to prevent and deal with depressions. Sport also helps to clear your mind.
Stay away from drugs and alcohol, since you are prone to become addicted in such a emotionally vulnerable phase.
If you need to isolate yourself from your friends, tell them upfront and take your time out. But allow them to check on you and eventually open up towards them again at some point.

Don't give up, this isn't the end, and you will find joy again. She also would have wanted you to become happy again.
But there is no shame in taking your time to mourn.

Good luck, user.