Did losing your virginity change you as a person?

did losing your virginity change you as a person?

wizard here bumping for interest

Yes

i was a closeted faggot before, and after i wasn't as closeted as i used to be

No

It made me only view women as sex objects

How so?

This

Nope.
It's strange because you can always spot a virgin.

yes and no.
by yes, it uplifted the pressure of me having to lose my viginity as each year make it seems like i'll never lose it. also experienced something that everyone wants to experience

no because i still felt like the same old person

Honestly, things aren't really that different. Its not like something magical happens or you turn into a unicorn. You had sex, it felt pretty good probably, and you probably want to do it again. That's about it :^)

yes, before you view the pussy as a conquest to be had and are full of angst because of it.

after its like a relieving feeling and you can function more normally (especially around women)

It lets you realize sex is overrated as a form of love but sex is meaningless and should be for pleasure alone

Nope

exactly how closeted were you before you lost virginity?

No. It just happened, we both agreed that it was a shitty experience, then kept trying until it got better.
Masturbation, on the other hand, has changed me as a person. For the worse. I fap every day and I can't stop myself. I'm addicted to porn. I waste countless hours just browsing absolutely nothing, occasionally jerking myself off to whatever seems novel to my crippled sex drive. Please help me.

Confidence boost, permanent as well. Lets you know you're not a complete desolate loser

No

The girl I lost it to was smoking hot so yeah I guess you could say it was a confidence boost.

Dis

and kids if that's your thing

i thought i was straight but was only attracted to penis, and men disgusted me.

nope.

>did losing your virginity change you as a person?

I lost my magical wizard powers.

I lost my virginity this week to a girl I met online. we only met one time, and it was a lot of fun. but she has not responded to me since. just cut me off completely.

I don't regret it, but I will be sad if i never get to see her again. its also hard to go back to my regular fapping now too...

I did learn a lot from the experience though. a lot about how its actually not that difficult, and that most women secretly want sex a lot more than you would think.

I did get a pretty big boost of confidence too, it feels good that I can simply answer 'no' now when asked if I am a virgin, instead of going into detail about blowjobs etc.

Although this may have been a one time thing, and I won't do it again for a while, it was a good experience, and the memory of it will keep me going for a while...

not in the slightest. maybe some more confidence if anything. male.

did you frequently get asked if you were a virgin?

Absolutely. But it was the falling in love with someone and eventually losing them that changed me. Not just the fact that my peepee had been in a vagoo

Only in the fact that I felt absolutely nothing, got bored, faked it, and then proceeded to feel nothing at all for the next four girls. All of this eventually lead to me preferring cock.

Does fucking a girl exclusively in the ass count as losing your virginity? If so then I'd say no.

yes, wanting even more punani

I think it did. It certainly changed the dynamic of my relationship with my gf. We were both so coy with one another in the beginning, but now there's a sort of closeness that comes with it.

Not so much the sex part. More the way she treated me afterwords. We were really good friends, she knew I had a crush on her. We fucked. She told me to keep it a secret from our friends. I move on, have a real GF cuz just friends. She tells all our friends in front of my new GF trying to start drama. No drama. Stop hanging out with her. Later she turns all my friends against me. Starts dating abusive guy. Who cares. Thanks for the sex weirdo. Fast forward 6 years we're still sorta friends. Have had sex with some other girls since then. Life is life man

well sex is sorta INTIMATE

enjoy the herpies, this why she no answer

I think it's a really empowering feeling, like I sort of accomplished something by courting a woman enough to let me in her pants.

Of course, I'd actually fallen deeply in love, so losing my virginity was like magic that I'll never forget. I guess it made me kind of a pompous asshole at the time though. I'll never forget her aviators and hair that covered half her face.

r.i.p. muse

It unlocked a ravenous sexual appetite and it ended with a pregnant girlfriend. Who I moved in with and will soon marry. We're pretty happy. I guess it just sped up my family plans.

i learned what women will do when drunk despite their bf

i love pie

the love of my life left me after taking my virginity,
I've had other conquests and romances, some spanning years and thousands of miles.
to make it worse, its only been a year and I see them in porn on Sup Forums sometimes.

some people feel a sense of accomplishment or rather they've jumped a life "hurdle". It's all about frame of mind. If you're in a group that doesn't give a shit about losing virginity (aka just go to the whores and get it over with its really nothing)

this is like a scary reality to me

it's like the only thing that gets me hard any more...

Absolutely

I honestly would like to know though

i would say that counts as losing your virginity... why are you so against doing it the normal way?

I'm 19 and I haven't lost my virginity yet. I had a chance a while back but I really feel like waiting.

Wasn't an option at the time

how was her penis ? feminine ?

No. losing your virginity isn't the life changing experience people make it out to be . Sex is overrated

> it lifted the pressure of me having to lose my viginity

THIS

Kek

good sex isn't overrated, when you've had it you'll never say that bullshit again

Yes

I was a whiteknight, sex has redpilled me.

it's shit
it's overrated
I tried like everything you could do
you get close no pleasure from it
peeing after holding for a while is ever better than this shit
hand is better and I'm not even joking

I still get sex, but I get my pleasure from degrading the woman.

AMA if you want.

>good sex isn't overrated
Virgin spotted, actually thinks there's sex that's other then good

Nope. Nothing changed. In fact, every time a girl wants to fuck, it feels like a drag. I just don't crave it as much I guess. I'm still nervous around some girls, but it's easier being around fat, ugly girls obviously. Still...I think something is wrong with me

1/10 made me reply

Nah, sex is way overrated, no matter how 'good' it is

>it's shit
>it's overrated

you're obviously doing it wrong

>Herpies
>Her Pies

I love pies.

Fuck yah

>1/10 made me reply
replies are overrated

but does losing virginity to a hooker makes a difference?

sex only sucks if you are uncomfortable... if you both arent getting into it, how is it supposed to be fun? just gotta be with the right person...

...

I was raped by my mother when I was 12. My father denied it, my brother ignored it, and she threatened me into silence for the next 7 years. I cant bear even thinking about sex, reminds me that every time i tried to tell someone they all had the same answer
>men can't be raped

It made me want it much less. Now I'm even more chilled out.

let's put it this way: if it would have been different, I think I'd still be no genius today

Clearly a virgin. If you've had sex you'd know there is such a thing as bad sex because the first time you have sex will be terrible.

Nope,since women are incapable of love

When I lost my virginity it was fucking great

well. I just had sex and it was great. maybe try it with a partner you like, crazy idea, I know, hah ;-)...

I took my girlfriend's virginity. She is still cool.

> such a thing as bad sex because the first time you have sex will be terrible.
Virgin confirmed
everyone faps to their first time, EVERYONE!

I was abused by multiple partners, so yeah finally trusting someone enough to fuck was a huge deal

>everyone faps to their first time
I still am... I don't even watch porn any more. I just keep the scene engraved into my mind, and relive it over and over

Wait, it's impossible to be on Sup Forums and not be a virgin

Made me a lot more confident.

The biggest surprise was when my first fuck moaned when I was inside. Apparently I wasn't totally terrible like I thought I would be.

sure thing, or maybe not

receive deepthroat
rimjobs
handjob

currently my sex life is doing some nasty shit with a girl on her twenties.

I spit on her, I hit her face, she licks my ass and do everything

>doing it bad.

People said I was a very nice shot (that's how they say it in my country), I had multiple partners, they all felt good, but just not me.

Not as good as I thought it would be

Last partner (the current one) does it a little bit better.

Maybe it's just me, and maybe it's physical, because I can last a lot more longer than the majority of men, but look at the cost of it, it makes me feel empty sometimes.

I'm not trying to say "hurr durr mah dick", but more saying that it's overrated and the cost for it is rather painful.

on my 27, read also what I said.

Few years ago, I came to the conclusion that I was maybe just different..

that's just sad

I hate to break it to you...

Dude I totally feel this way too. Before I lost it (lost it about 5 months ago, am 21)
I would always feel strange around girls. Now I'm like normal. It's like in the back of my head I'm like 'heh, I know what that crevice in between your legs looks like and feels like.'

It almost makes jacking it better too since you can picture any girl and imagine what her vag feels like. Luckily the girl I lost it to was also a virgin so I felt the true powah of a tight pussy.

I almost was gonna say 'nothing op you dumb fuck. You're still the same person', but this post reminded me that your behavior towards girls definitely does change. Very subtly. I feel like I can have decent convos with girls now.

Then again, it probably depends on how socially intelligent you are as well.

I, evidently, don't have the best social skills (I've been trying to get laid since 14 and have met a number of girls that would have liked to lay me since then, yet I'm 21 and just lost it) so maybe this is what losing your virginity does to unsocial weirdos like me.

>It almost makes jacking it better too since you can picture any girl and imagine what her vag feels like
Trust me, they aren't all the same ,some are way better then others ,why do virgins think all pussy's the same?

Yes. Getting laid in general changes me as a person. When I have access to sex I am calmer, more laid back, less ambitious and I almost never think about sex. When I do not have access to sex I become more perverted in my fantasies and think about sex all the fucking time. I'm also more angry and sad.


It's always been my belief that sex never seems important unless you aren't getting it.

so you're a little sado I guess. then it's no wonder you get no pleasure out of it ... still, best thing for you would be to find a partner who understands and is compatible ... maybe a bit submissive

It's not what you do, but how you do it.

And there is much more to explore than what you described.

Maybe you're just victim of the patriarchy that compel you to act tough and manly and to dominate your partner, and deep down what you need is to be pegged and suffocated.

From what you are telling us, you look like a guy who is trying to "perform" when he's having sex.

Hence, "you're doing it wrong"

This. The first time I had sex with a girl I loved felt fucking amazing.

yup, I do think the same.

>And there is much more to explore than what you described.

I do agree with that, because I do think sex is just doing something with both people doing it.
I never felt THAT MUCH connected

I do feel different because of the bad experience I have, but I have to hold on on hope.

>you're just victim of the patriarchy

OH FUCK OFF with this buzzword and boogeyman that doesn't even exist you little shit.

>you need is to be pegged
pls go.

>who is trying to "perform"

Maybe, but I don't even know. Spitting on the face, hitting it DOES give me pleasure, it's not even about performing that much, it's just that I tried things and I selected and kept those who could bring me a little bit more than the basic shit.

Because we're fucking virgins...

I still feel like one, honestly. That one time wasn't enough. It was with a girl who was getting on a plane the next morning to fly across the country back to her home. I haven't seen her since. What's worse is that she was in pain throghtout the whole thing so I couldn't take her to pound town, so to speak. It was just an hour an a half to two hours of me slow stroking her in diff positions. I still had a blast either way.

Hitting it from the back was better than I imagined it being, I'll tell you what.

there is a social pressure on men to be strong, to be dominant, etc...

If you are doing the thing you do to "perform" to" impress your partner" because you want to comply to what the popular image of "being a nice shot" is, you are victim of the patriarcal system who prevent some guy from admitting they just want to cuddle and have slow sex or from saying to their partner that they want to be choked

Made me realize I don't like pussy. I'd say it was important.

It makes your dick fall off and gives u uncontrollable diarrhoea for rest of life

>why do virgins think all pussy's the same?

because for the most part it is? sure some is tight and some is loose. some deep some shallow, some wet some dry but for the most part its just some squishy area of skin with a hole for your dick.

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No, but after being many times with hookers I've become competent at fucking.

not him, but penis and milfs.

maybe less porn will help.

>If you are doing the

I am not. People say I am a nice shot. I never tried to be it.

I don't want to be dominant. I am, it just happens

When I do sex, I do not want to be rought, I just do it, I just naturally want to chock the neck, to feel the suffocation while I am fucking, that's just natural for me.

I tried the other way around, it didn't worked, and I didn't like it. I feel that I am quite old to know what I don't like

And stop using that shit word for a concept that doesn't exist please.

Nah dude that's illegal. We don't talk about that stuff on Sup Forums.org/b/

it only gets better after the first time man. i don't recommend fucking a tonne of random girls however. find one and work at it with her. its 10000000x better when you know what each other likes and wants.

what was this bitch's name again?

It can. It's not guaranteed to, but it definitely can. It changed me. Immediately after getting laid, I left a fast food job and got a proper career. Now I've been doing IT for 5 years and I'm a supervisor.

U become permanent normie