ITT tell us about your parents

ITT tell us about your parents

...most of us are fucked up for a reason...

dad:
>complete uneducated loser
>after 20 years he stills drives the same old SUV
>had always an small appliance store with never seems to left him any earnings
>he dress like a hobo
>in his free time the only thing he enjoys is watching TV, specially those retards movies like transformers or fast an furious saga, while eating junk food
>he doesn't have friends or hobbies, is impossible to talk anything because he keeps getting distracted with TV
>my mom complete emasculated him

mom:
>she hit me and bullied me since I was a kid
>she didn't let me invite any friend or have a social life
>she is a medic but at the same time she is ghetto as fuck, she eats with her mouth open, picks her nose, burp, spit bones; eating with her makes me heave
>she has a lot of plastic surgeries done and looks like a monster
>she managed to do some money and she believes she is the boss, she is always screaming and denigrating dad

dad:
>Felon, spent all my life in prison
>incredibly intelligent
>addicted to drugs so did stupid shit

mom:
>selfish
>told me I was her everything
>worked two jobs so we could live in decent place
>only did it so "she" could have a nice house, we didn't need a 5 bedroom
>never saw her between work, and her dating guys
>several husbands

Me:
>Intelligent, but no parents around so I made terrible grades.
>Latch key
>didn't realize until I was older, that all the years my mom tried to make it seem she did everything for my benefit, was really all about her


I could go on, but theres no point.
The best and worst thing I ever did, was see my parents as people without the lens of relation in place. Then I realized I just didn't like my mom.

moar?

dad: wouldn't tell me source of op's pic
mom: op's pic

r u gay i am

...

They just weren't there.

>i still get migraines from all the beatings in the head.
>so much worse when i was even younger.
>violent pedo mom, i don't wanna talk about it.

Daddy-o
>drunk most of his life
>molested as a kid
>told me to fuck off and die when i was 16
>probably on a coke-bender right now

Mommy
>helicopter parent for the first half of my life
>now she's very cool and level-headed but the attack chopper still hovers
>doesnt drink

Go on, user

theyre both great. they help me with anything i need. sometimes theyll get harsh or too judgy, if the situation calls for it, but u know u need somepeople like that in ur life once in a while.

not what you're thinking
>if you're not gay and into 2 year olds
>hurtcore

Dad
>Alcoholic
>Love of alcohol matched only by his former 80s glory
>tried his best
>Best wasn't good enough
>Kicked out for constant alcohol consumption and irritable composure

Mom
>Brave
>Raised two sons
>Worked two jobs
>Instructed/managed martial arts classes
>The when moms a trained death machine
>Teaches brother and myself the deadly arts if northern shaoalin Ku fu.brucelee.jpg

Me
>Head case
>Semi functional
>Take after dad a lot
>Over all not bad
>Emotionally immature
>Demons
>Fun at parties
>Probably not tho
>Probably substance abuse

wow id never look at my family as normies. they are ur blood and the realest connection u have..had** until u spurt a baby in someone else

Dad
>worked as a civ contractor for the army during the irish troubles
>put extreme amount of stress on our family made us possible targets
>ended up fucking off for 10 years came back when he heard mum was dying

Mum
>Is crazy due to fucked up shit she went through as a kid and adult
>dying slowly from a fatal heart problem
>loses her temper without warning has thrown plates at my head etc

I still live at home looking after mum, i'd say i'm well on the way to being as messed up as her.. can barely leave the house half the time

That sucks bro.

reading it back to myself now yeah.. kinda see how much it sucks. Day to day I don't realize I guess

You can't just let her bury herself like that.
You have to limit her stress and get her some therapy or something.
Wasting your time wasting away like that.

>Life doesn't just reward you for being idle.

Dad:
> Hard worker who was able to retire early to spend more time with fam
> Never was really able to connect with kids tho
>supper supportive tho
>good guy

>Mom
>stay at home mother
>as a kid seemed like she was super good at being a mother
>reality she was a good mom, but not all that great at the job of being a stay at home mom.
>always wants her kids happy.
> can and will down a bottle of wine in a single breath daily.

I have a pretty good family.

Could be worse buddy. We're all just taking it one day at a time.

your mom is gangster

not a word I ever would have associated with her but allright

is this a real post

Dad:
>his parents abandoned him
>lived with his grandparents because of it
>Was heavily insecure
>Kind of a major jerk too
>Cheated on my mom for a whole year while he brought me to guitar lessons and karate
>Treated me like shit for a long time, probably wasn't his favorite because I didn't do sports
>Still kind of does, but not as bad

Mom:
>Was great before I went to High School
>Super nice and friendly
>Though she was easily shit on her whole life I guess
>Divorced my dad and became a lesbian
>She starts dating this woman who has a short temper and has a know-it-all persona
>Turns my mom into a bitch from hell throughout highschool
>Even worse when they forced me into a community college (I use to go to a really good college prior)
>on better terms, though she still wants control over my life

>violent pedo mom, i don't wanna talk about it.

We kind of want to hear about it. Can you tell?

DAD:Abusive psychotic meth head straight from Mexico left when i was 4 killed his dog in front of us lazy screw up

MOM:single mom busted her ass to get mediocre job keeping us alive forver alone kind of big

>Dad: Never in the picture, never met him personally. Just told how he was/is. Alcoholic Native who beats women.

>Mother: Histrionic, manipulation, etc. Military for 6 years before leaving, had me a year later.
>The kind of parent that treated me more like an acquaintance than a child.
>Married all sorts of men. Some shitty, some great.
>First marriage I can remember, guy was an abusive alcoholic. My sister's actual father, and the reason I never wanted, or felt any reason to consider my sister family. Would beat me constantly, belt on the legs, back, etc. Got drunk one night while mom worked night shift at hospital. This was pretty far back, can't exactly peg a year, but ended up that my baby sister shit her diapers, so he proceeded to grab me, take me into my room, beat me, and tried to make me eat the shit. Fast forward a few years later, living on grandparents property in separate house. Mom at work, we had a new Sharpe puppy my grandmother gave to us as a gift from a friend. He proceeds to drive my sister and I out to one of the mountains and throw the dog off a cliff while my sister and I watch...After my mother found out they got divorced. Fucker died from brain cancer 7 years ago. Good riddance.
>Next guy she married was a Mormon, and 19 at the time. Convinced her to do all sorts of shit to my sister and I when we did something wrong. Multiple nights a week of kneeling on black trash bags covered with rice grains for hours until he decided we had had enough and could go to bed. Usually ranged anywhere from 4-6 hours, even on school nights. Got even more creative eventually and stopped punishing my sister. Only me. Stripped naked on cold winter nights and made to sleep outside nude for days at a time, cold, pouring rain, didn't matter which. No food, nothing.
>finally when 17, they kick me out of house, no reason other than I am a bad kid, and they don't want me there. Homeless for 2 months before great grandmother finds out, let's me live with her.

dad:
>college degree in graphic design
>doesn't do shit with it
>self-employed computer technician who barely does even that
>complains about a 20 hour work week
>can't get away from his rpgs worth shit
>lying sack of shit
>wrecks almost every car he puts his hands on
>has single-handedly quadrupled our car insurance payments
>pays for none of it
>parents are rich out the ass, and yet we get nothing
>has literally never known responsibility in his life

mom:
>associates in theater
>works 50+ hours a week as a pastry chef in a position that should be salaried, but was made an hourly position just because they hired her.
>no promotions in over 4 years of working, despite being the only manager in the kitchen who is capable of responsibility
>handles literally almost everything financially within the household
>only safe driver in the household
>only stays with my dad for me and my siblings
>grew up poor as dirt, and unfortunately that seems to have passed on to our family

See, thats what the world wants you to believe.

The old saying, "you can't choose your family".
Bullshit, and utterly backward logic.

You didn't get a choice. So they will always be family, but that doesn't mean you have to have anything to do with them. Being "family" doesn't give you a free pass to be selfish, toxic, or otherwise harmful to other family members.

I took a long hard look at my mom, and realized she's selfish and completely self centered, uncouth, manipulative and conniving, and realized, as a person, she's pretty awful. I asked myself, would I be friends with her if I were just some random person.
No, no I wouldn't. By looking at her without the "mother halo", I was finally able to see how fucked up she made my life through her manipulations and guilt trips.

It freed me.

>lived with grandmother for 4 years before getting my diploma and moving away. Grandmother died last year from old age at 96.
>Mother and I had it out years back, pity party, crying, can't explain why she allowed everything that happened to happen. Haven't spoken to mother since 2012

My dad only cares for his hobby, and thinks I'm retarded because I don't enjoy his hobby too.
My mom lives in fear of everything. She would just live on the sofa if she could avoid going out and doing stuff.

No. They can be total strangers, no matter how close your genes are. It depends if they have been emotionally caring or not.

you are only making more interesting, go on already

Dad
>Alcoholic
>Chain smoker (it's getting better)
>Insanely hard work ethic
>Smart
>His family never gave a shit about him and spoiled rotten his pos sister
>He moved to the US at 18 to work
>Built up a business from nothing
>flawed and made mistakes with me
>but he's a good guy

Mom
>Family of alcoholics/wifebeaters
>She doesn't drink herself
>horrible childhood
>Believed in dad and gave her 100% supporting him when he started his company
>neurotic as hell... mental and physical abuse
>caring in her moments of clarity

I'm working on continuing the alcoholic legacy and have some issues but I think they did ok with me. they're good people that started from nothing. i don't really feel like they love me but whatever.

Great picture, more?

I had good parents. That said, clearly having good parents is not a guarantee for a happy life.

What's the hobby?

Minerals. Boring as fuck.

>Mexican immigrants
>0 education not even elementary
>I'm the only one who doesn't smoke or drink in my whole family
>hate me for not being Catholic
>pissed at me for having a white gf
>think my career is trash because its not what they want me to do

Dad
> uneducated with the reading level of a kindergartener
> born with a speech impediment
> spent his schooling in special Ed.
> quit school and started working at 16
> Married my mom at 19 had me at 21
> worked hard back breaking fulltime jobs into his 50s
> messed up said back and now struggles living on disability
> instilled in me respect, honesty, the good work ethic and never to judge anyone based on a disability or lack of education
> told me he loved me every day
Mom
> did all the cooking and cleaning
> helped with my homework
> inspired me to get a decent education
> raised me to do the right thing
> punished me when I needed it
> told me she loved me every day

If I ever screwed up anything in my life it definitely wasn't because of my parents

dad:
>cheat on mom
>complete undeducated loser
>coward that cant face things
>run away from everything that stress him and smoke a cig
>avoidant cunt
>vingative retard
>gets too involved with movies you can say it by just looking his reactions, feels like he is in the movie
>hate fags and niggers

mom:
>knows it all syndrome
>weak inside
>dont take responsability for her own life
>shes a good person afterall
>very kind when happy
>so honest that can scary people that are not used to it

sister:
>feminist scum
>always upset and quiet
>always has a personal conflict to drag people attention
>talk shit from behind
>passive agressive dipshit

dad:
>punch holes through walls right next to me while yelling at me
>tell me if I didn't stop kicking holes in doors (while trying to get my older brother), he'd lose his temper and I'd be the wall
i continued doing it, he never held up his end. I lost respect for him at a young age lmao
he says he raised us to be leaders. kek

mom:
>would yell at me and call me a shit kid, compare me to other shit kids when we were alone
>would tell her friends how good I was, and be super friendly with me around her friends
>I would ditch and run from school because I was targetted by basically the entire class, with a teacher who did jack shit
>she'd charge at me, stop in front of me and yell at me while my dad was on the phone yelling at me
>recently, in car she told me "I don't know where I went wrong with you, and I'm sorry"
i felt nothing. just stayed silent cuz that shit came out of nowhere. she used the excuse "i gotta check the mail" to get out first

all the shit happened while I was in elementary school
now im highly fucking paranoid
think all compliments are superficial, think jokes at my expense are acts of aggression and I should retaliate, and only cold facts matter.
insults without physical action are honestly just pitiful.

I have no mother or father. But my foster dad used to take pictures of us naked in the basement for "medical reasons" and foster mom was an ignorant twat who ignored the perversion or else she'd get beat if she spoke against what he was doing. He'd sit us all down and say "this'll happen to you boys if you EVER tell anyone what happens in the special room!" Then he'd knock the ever loving shot outa her. He killed himself in prison several years ago. I work a gas station in the Sakhalin Oblast. I my life is okay now. I'm moving back to hokkaido after my holiday in the u.s. is over.

damn, we coulda been brothers

Dad
>barely finished highschool
>neuromuscular condition that he passed on to me
>alcoholic smoker
>did assorted drugs
>weed dealer
>would have traded me and my sister for drugs if my mom would have allowed it
>complete doormat
>complained about work everyday, never did a damn thing to improve things
>only friends were people who bought drugs from him
>dead from heart attack at 58

Mom
>bachelors degree in home ec
>worked manual labor most of her life
>always on night shift, only ever saw her on weekends
>did drugs with dad
>has the diabeetus
>co-owner of custom clothing shop
>probably the only person that misses my dad
>possibly alcoholic

Dad
>absent most of my life
>truck driver to this day
>used to bring us lobsters he yanked from his loads
>i joke that i was made because my mom wanted said lobsters
>i look almost exactly like him i guess

Mom
>alcoholic
>worked two jobs to make ends meet but spent most of her money on booze
>wished for a daughter but had a son
>im that son
>still bitter about it from time to time
>was a massive whore
>pill head for a bit but hey thats middle aged floridians
>yelled at me when i would talk when she was tanked
>call me a mistake
>always out late at either her two jobs or one of her fuck buddy's

Me
>socially inept
>massive anxiety
>depressed
>alpha exterior gives way to squishy beta center
>cant raise voice without worrying about getting reprimanded
>starved for attention

Feels weird talking about this Sup Forumsros, nobody i know wants to. So thanks?

Holy fuck. Get a load of thia fucking nigger. Youre in fucking denial kid. She worked 2 fucking jobs for a life she never had.
>blames parents for being a fukko in school.
>kys nigger

My Dad is a self entitled cringe fest. This bitch nigger is an unemployed, hobby-less, rude faggot who expects everyone to treat him like a king. He's the type of little bitch that would give you shit for not serving his table at a restaurant exactly the way he wants his service, and even worse is no matter how much I tell him he's being a little bitch he just gives me that " haha oh son... you don't understand" look. Honestly he's not a terrible person, but he fits very neatly into that middle ground where people are shitty but just good enough that they're not abusive level terrible.

I love my mom with all of my heart, dont get me wrong. God be damned if she didnt try her fucking hardest raising me and my older brother on her own. Shes gotten a bit better, settled down with someone, moved up north, and is trying to quit drinking.

Thanks user, made me chuckle. Was in a shitty mood but feel better now.

man or woman? Was it ever more than photos?

hey sometimes we need to get shit off of our chests, glad it helps

>massive anxiety
>depressed
>alpha exterior gives way to squishy beta center
>cant raise voice without worrying about getting reprimanded
>starved for attention

i feel u

Me
>very intelligent
>bachelors degree in chemical engineering
>failed to find job in field because of shit economy and grades
>worked dead end job for five years
>got sick of it, going back to school for pharmacy
>kissless virgin

dad
>taken care of all his life by others
>complains constantly
>manipulative (not as good as his mother)
>uber-religious
>uses religion as a weapon
>factory work for life, until retired full pension
>married a younger woman

mom
>passive-aggressive (unlike her mom full on bully)
>can't seem to manage money
>unspoken favoritism (it's not me)
>a faulty saint
>works 12 hour shifts to support her mom
>is going all out to break herself

step-mom
>don't know, don't care
>crazy religious bitch
>literally 4 years older than me (40)

I also have little to do with my dad's side of family, a den of crazy zealots and perverts.

That was slightly therapeutic.

Dad:
>Coolest person in my life is always there for me
>both enjoy the same kind of music occasionally head to the same metal concerts together

Mother:
>bipolar
>Has had many violent episodes in my life one ended in me receiving a compound fracture (i know she loves me)
>father gave up on his education to pay for hers she constantly uses that against him that she provides for the family never even remembers how she got to where she is
>was always afraid to invite my friends over she is a functioning human being when guests are over but i never wanted to take a chance with my friends
>got to hand it to her she did give me crazy radar most of the time after getting to know a girl i know whether to back off knowing if they're crazy

dad:
>used to be a hardcore fuck up.
>after I was born he straightened up. >lived very comfortably, had everything I wanted.
>always fought with mom.
>finally they split up when I was 17. >dad goes off the deep end, really likes dope and dope whores.
>I do whatever the fuck I want all the time and ge doesn't say shit.
>he loses all 5 houses he owned.
>I move into my moms apartment. >soon after I get 2 DUIs going into college.
>can't afford to pay DUi bullshit and go to school and deal with my depression so I drop out.
>soon after my dad recovers and is doin good again.
>now I'm a fuck up with no license, a totaled car, no job, living with mom, sleeping all day, and drinking every night because I can't get over my fuck ups.
>thanks dad.

mom:
>totally fucking stupid
>fight all the time
>still supports me for some reason

Dad
>in car accident when I was a kid, suffered from severe depression when I was growing up withhis crippled body.
>very selfish individual, abusive to us as kids, we would clean everything and do washing etc.
>avid gardener, only true passion really.
>quite a wise man albeit uneducated.
>pretty lazy, could of got a job but rides sickness benefits rest of his life.
> he beats mum before I am old enough to remember.
>horrible divorce as I am a young child, move around alot being passed from parent to parent during custody battle.
>bitches about everyone around him, very cynical and negative.

>in moments of clarity in quite enlightening and wise.

>alchoholic&weed fiend.

Mum
>works her ass off as a nurse and then in bars to give us a good life.
>fucked up life herself, her mum dies when she was 7 and she's left to carte for a household of 4 men. back in the day when women did everything.
>she is a carer, she takes care of people as A&E nurse, sees horrific things.
>workaholic alchoholic.
>Meets guys in the bars she works, has some abusive drunk ass loser boyfriends.
>all this happening during custody battles, pretty shitty and not nice.
>comes through the other end, still an alchoholic.
>takes us on some holidays experiencing new cultures to the full.
>a good rolemodel super happy I had her as a ma, why I feel so independently strong in the world.
>still to this day is a mother and father for me(my dad is a selfish cunt).

Me
>semi fuckup, alot of substance abuse over the years, to this day have a problem with alchohol.
>lived in foreign country independantly, moved around alot successfully looking after myself with flats/houses.
>crafty fucker, NLP'd my way into good jobs that paid well.
>was an accountant now retraining as an engineer, mum helping me with finances whilst im in Uni.
>I feel pretty prepared to be a parent with the exposure of these two, the day my firstborn comes is likely the day I stop drinking for good.
>still smoke weed most days.

sounds like you need to take some fucking responsibility for yourself. where you get the money to drink? put it to some good fucking use instead.

Alchohol is the worst and I do battle daily with cravings but you gotta focus on getting better man I know how hard that shit is. Had unhealthy drinking habits for 9 years now...

>intelligent
>bad grades
I know it happens but it's more rare than you think. I think you're blaming them for too much that they in no way had control over.

>says not going to post but actively mentions it anyways
Uhh .. tism?

Wtf are you talking about.
>genetics
This is the closest possible relationship with another human being. Who the fuck were you listening to when you thought being family meant u were obligated to them. Fucking leave, do your own shit, if not you didnt have the effort to move yourself out

Holy shit it's like we have the same parents. "Dad" is kinda out of the picture for me now though so that's a good thing.

FOR ALL THE FAGGOTS IN THIS THREAD

If your parents misstreat you then you fucking take revenge or showi that stupid asshole that he/she cannot fuck with you, time to get angry you little bitch grow some balls and take controle of your life.

Holy fuck there are fucked up stories here. I genuinely feel for you guys. Makes me feel I shouldn't complain about a thing but fuck that pussying out.

>dad left when I was born
>just told ma they should divorce and started immediately dating some other bitch
>so irresponsible thing to do my paternal granparents felt shameful for him and supported ma
>dad becomes a weekend dad who changes girlfriends annually
>i meet a lot of their daughters, they're ussually fine and we get along
>meanwhile dad climbs the corporate ladder
>i know he's got to be rich
>still dad chooses to not support me monetarily after i turn 18 even tho moms always made far less money
>somewhere arond 2000's dad marryies a claire underwood
>at the wedding everyone starts singing but i cant open my mouth cause i would burst into bitter, uncomfortable and confused tears
>now see dad about three times a year
>i try to have fun cause thats all he can offer but i despise him
>i dont know if i ever will confront him

>mom is a sweet, shy lady, a broken survivor
>had an alcoholic dad and a stupid mother
>they never care for her
>mom becomes a confused anarchist teen
>runs away from home, no one cares
>comes back and no one notices
>leaves for uni at 17, no support whatsoever from home
>booze and sex comfort her but shes depressed and lost
>finds dad and gets me and dad leaves
>everything she does she starts doing for me because its one of those conditonless love situations
>meets a guy and marryies him later
>i feel confused as a kid and teen about who is my father figure
>its pretty clear now it's the step dad, he's awesome and wise and cares
>mom gets her shit together slowly

>so there's me
>angry at dad
>mom is getting heavy to be around cause shes started to actually go thru what shes gone thru
>but i love her so much
>i find this girl, its a whole other story in itself
>im planning a family with her
>a family thats not broken
>a safe loving family
>because thats all i ever wanted to have

At least half are underage

There is so much bias in this thread, most of you sound angsty af like a 13 yo like damn

dad:
>hard working person who cleaned toilets in order for me to get a higher education
>is a drunk and has had a trouble childhood that he only really talks about in depth when drunk
>very charismatic
>was bullied but fought back even harder growing up
>very protective

mom:
>dedicated and intelligent woman who also worked hard in order for me to have a better outlook on life
>puts up with constant shit from my dad and the rest of us
>very emotional in terms of her dealing with her parents death
>is at cross roads from her only 2 children moving on with their lives without her
>is not one to take shit from anybody
>smoker

me:
>responsible and always puts the best effort into getting projects done on time
>not one to smoke or drink
>shy but still able to make friends and network with people
>weird and often loner

>selfish
>worked 2 jobs

lol kill yourself idiot

Truth

Dad: drug addict that left when I was 4ish, came back when I was 15, then disappeared again after a year, havent seen him since

Mom: basically destroyed mentally because of my drug addict father, i feel so bad for her

DAD
>i just drove him to an evaluation this morning for his alcohol treatment, because he got a dui at 45 years old.
>full blown alcoholic, drinks from morning till bed.
>cop that pulled him over for running a red light lets him wait around for an hour in his office to help him work some of the alcohol out before he has him do the breath test. Still blows a .25 after an hour of detox time. Said he felt about normal when he blew it. Gets seizures if he goes more than a day and a half without any beer.
>selfish, hasn't had a job in maybe 3 years or so
>completely reliant on his GF for housing and constantly bums money off of family for beer and cigs.
>only going to treatment because his GF is tired of his shit, and if she kicks him out then he is homeless.
>been an ass his whole life. Stubborn, arrogant, very manipulative.
>sent to jail when i was young for feeling up my cousin when he was high on drugs.
>seriously going to die before too long if he keeps it up.

MOM
>fucking amazing human being
>partied when she was younger and shoplifted, grew up in a not very good home
>had kids
>got her shit together
>found a great guy, built their house together, married him, started a business together.
>very selfless, helps a lot of people in our family (her side has quite a few druggies and losers that never grew up)
>literally told me i never had to move out if i didn't want to (i do, just after college, shits expensive dog)

The great thing about my mom is that she never told me anything bad about my dad when i was younger. I would ask questions and she would always give me the most positive answer she could. She left the image of a cool dad in me until i grew up and realized myself how much of a douche he really was. I think that's the best thing she could of done. Instead of brainwashing me and my brother about how we had a deadbeat dad, she gave him all the time and chances to get his shit together, but her never did.

Kill yourself, escape that purgatory.

>Mom
Dead.
>Dad
Remarried three times, lives somewhere in Las Vegas.
I've been doing better than him for quite a while now.

They were both dead before I was 18

fuck you asshat.. while I was getting molested by my baby sitter, she worked two "part time" jobs, so that the two of us could live in a 4 bed room house. Two people don't need 4 bed rooms. She wanted that house because it made her status more attractive to men. So when she wasn't working, she was out with them.

I never saw my mom. Ever. I was latchkey before the term was invented.If I really meant anything to her, we could have stayed in our nice 2 bed apt, and she wouldn't have had to work so much. Oh wait, she was busy out on her dates every night then too.

Go eat shit.

>while I was getting molested by my baby sitter

what happened?

Dad
>never knew him. Just found out where he is and just can't bring myself to contact him.

Mom
>gave me to her mother to raise because she was only 16 . Grandmother was super religious.
She got cancer and fought it till I was 15 and then she passed and left me to mom who was never ready for me she had a girl. My half sister two years younger and. Well I could go on but I am all sewed up

Honestly, I didn't have a dad, and didn't have a mom. All I had were friends, so rather than do homework, I'd be out playing with my friends. Or with my girlfriend (who has a girlfriend at 10? Looking back, I think I was desperately trying to fill the void in my life, with some kind of female companion).

Doesn't mean you have to like them. Can't get rid of them, but if you ever look at them for who they are, instead of who they're supposed to mean, you might find you don't like them. Which is why so many cucks on /b have mommy issues.

see

My parents were awesome.

> both worked, and built and paid off a house on my dad's pay as a liquor store clerk and mom's as a part time bank teller
> No violence or molestation
> Both voracious readers with a great deal of intellectual curiosity
> Supported me in every way possible
> Love them both dearly, especially since realizing how fucked everyone else's parents seem to be

Not exactly sure why I turned out as an alocholic depressed drug user, but at least I managed to earn a PhD and a JD.

Screwed up .I am so screwedup

did you ever talk with your mom to find out where this fixation for 'big house' came from?

It could work either way. She could have grown up moderately wealthy and thus with a lot of rich social contacts that all had prettier houses than he so she got scared that they would look down on her if she didn't have a mansion.

Or maybe she's from a poor family and growing up was jealous of families with big houses, so she deluded herself into thinking that a woman can only experience 'true womanhood' and be complete once she has experienced childbirth and has a fully decorated mansion.

> but at least I managed to earn a PhD and a JD.
How come I'm the only one on Sup Forums that doesn't have a PhD,Should I buy more crackerjack or something?

It's not that strange. You just have to be too lazy to actually work.

Dad - Mom
> died in afghanistan
>they let us some money so me, my bro and mi sister are fine


Bro
>work hard for let me and my sister study
>perfect brother
>she's iper protective with my sister, so she cant have any boyfriend

Sister
>We alwais do things togheter, we are in love, but our brother wont never accept them
>we feel bad for our brother
>i'm scared about confess

Same here, man. Shame I didn't get out before she took all of my money over the years and made me go to college just so she could steal my loans.

Dad
> Unconventional upbringing
> came from a large family
> grew up in a very small, modest house
> Began working at a young age
> Bought his first car at 14 by working in an ice factory with a fake I.D.
> hardworking labourer, never complains, never makes excuses.
> Provides for his family with unparalleled devotion
> A Very loving and understanding man
> Though he has his flaws I am proud that he is
My father.
> He is a common sense kind of guy, efficient, extremely competent.
> I worry for him, he eats bad from time to time
> Has high blood pressure
> An honorable human being.

Mom
>Molested as a child by the neighborhood pedophile.
> Takes medicine to keep her pleasant
> Very maternal and comforting
> Has had various surgeries to help manage her weight.
> Gets verbally abused daily while working full shifts at a call center.

Me
> Depressive, reserved
> Severe social anxiety I am overcoming
> Emotional eater
> Kisless virgin
> about to turn 20
> I want to make it up to my folks one of these days, maybe paying off their retirement home, I'm hoping.

Ahh, civil discourse. A welcome change.

Not sure to be honest. I saw her go through 2 more husbands as I grew up. It took me a long time to see the real her, even after I took the rose colored glasses off. It was only then that I looked back and saw things from a totally different perspective.

I wouldn't go so far to say that her children are possessions, but she spent the better part of my lifetime using (fake) illnesses and pity parties in an attempt to control my life. When I finally realized it and severed that tie, she turned it full force to my sister. Who has just finally opened her eyes and realized it also. Now she is as resentful as I was when it finally dawned on me.

I think because she was an adopted only child, she was spoiled as a kid. As best as I've been able to put together. Her adopted dad made her the center of the universe. She was a baby boomer who grew up with an intense sense of entitlement. She was also very attractive. I found out she's the reason my father got caught and sent to prison. Why? Because he was out trying to get money so he could take me away from her. (Not that it justifies what he was doing) Simply to keep me, her doll, from being taken away.
When I spoke to him later in my adult years, he pretty much confirmed that she had always been like that. Which is why he divorced her. Same reason my first step dad, and eventually my second step dad divorced her.

dad:
>business man
>CEO of British American Tobacco (you can google him up)
>he wanted to abort me
>never at home barely spoke to me

mom:
>model tier gold digger trophy wife
>do lot of cocaine
>10 years younger than my dad
>she had me only to get more money out of dad
>she is like a friend never was a mom

me:
>handsome because top tier gold digger genetics from mom
>intelligent because dad and best institutions
>spoiled as fuck
>college dropout
>drug addict, world traveler and heavy partier
>basically a NEET with a corporate credit card extension, if I stay lower than 10K USD per month my dad doesn't even notice or care about my expenses

Durante?

We moved from Russia to Germany.

Dad:

>Alcoholic
>Smokes
>No real education, drives for a recycling company
>Can't speak german properly, more like broken as hell, no real grammar or anything
>Always asks me for money to buy more beer, demands that I drive him to the store since he's already drunk
>Makes me do work I'm unable to do due to my shitty body or things I've never done and then proceeds to yell at me because I didn't do it perfectly
>Doesn't do anything at home except for drinking beer and watching stupid series

Mom:

>Doesn't drink/smoke
>Yells at me on a daily basis, used to hit me when I was smaler
>Blames me for every little thing that happens
>Demands I give her all the money that I earn and that I'm not allowed to buy stuff for myself
>Tells me to do stuff like cleaning the house, but then proceeds to get angry at me when I don't do everything perfectly
>Doesn't care about me, but always asks why I'm not going out with friends or why I don't have a girlfriend (I have but I don't want to tell her)
>Keeps telling me I should respect her and that speaking up about her bullshit and what not is something for adults and that I'm too young for stuff like this
>But then proceeds to tell me that I'm already an adult and that it's my responsibilty to act like one
>Constantly threatens to kick me out of the house for no reason whatsoever (I'm still living with my parents so I can save up from my job to move as far away as possible from here)
>Always takes, never gives back

Homeschooled is all I have to say

>

As soon as you get the chance, cut all ties and tell them to go outside and play hide-and-go-fuck themselves.

Lots of problematic homes here jesus. Makes me appreciate what i have more.

Dad
>intelligent guy but no degrees
>immigrated at age 19
>had his own restaurant since 28
>most awesome guy in the world
>works 80 hours a week to pay for me and my sisters education and for my mother to be able to stay at home, because he thinks that their kids should have a parent at home at all times
>was only strict with me regarding school
>understands all my choices
>drink whiskey with him once a week and work at his place once a week as well
>he has the perfect friend/dad ratio in his behaviour towards me
>makes it no secret that he is fuckin proud of me that im in grad school (finance, bitches)

Mom
>was born here to immigrant parents from the same country as my dad
>also intelligent with no degrees, but it was kinda racist around here when she grew up so she never had good education
>seriously im not talking dindu terms. I saw her report cards from 6th grade until graduation. Straight fuckin 8 student (which is straight A in the US: 4.0 GPA) but she wasnt allowed to go to university because her teachers refused to recommend her
>stay at home mom, i loved it but now i kinda feel sorry for her
>loves me and my sister unconditionally and would literally give us the world if she could

God i love my parents.

Dad
>probably the smartest man I've ever known
>early alcohol and drug addiction, went to rehab right out of high school
>two marriages early on that left him with 2 kids
>because of those two things he never went to college
>also means that he never trusted me in the least
>worked really hard to support us but that meant he was an absentee father
>really stubborn asshole
>love him but can't really talk to him, especially on an emotional level

Mom
>decently smart when i was younger
>early marriage and 2 kids prevented her from college
>worked very hard too but managed to be there
>Went back to college for nursing school before the house fire
>after the house fire she got in a series of really bad crashes (none of them her fault)
>spends my middle school and early highschool years an alcoholic and an opiate addict
>dropped out of college a second time
>she wasn't there mentally
>basically grew up by myself from that point on
>the drugs ruined her mind. She's dumb now
>she's also still an addict, swiped my pills after i had my wisdom teeth out
>i try to love and forgive her but deep down i hate her for what she put all of us through.

If you give me a few minutes I'll post some of her worst moments towards me.

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.

When i was in 7th grade she was driving me to school, she passes the school, so i tell her to turn around. She turns, stops on the side of the road and just passes out on the steering wheel. I don't know what the fuck to do and I'm late for school. I take the keys, lock the car, and call my dad while i walk the rest of the way to school.

She's high as fuck one day and driving around. Ends up going the wrong way on a one way right by a high school. Sits in the car in front of a bus for about 10 minutes honking at it before the cops come and give her a dui. I had to go with my father to the bail bondsman just to get her out of jail. He should have just left her ass in there.

Also on my mom she lost her job after the crashes and got addicted. Been jobless for most of the rest of her life and whenever she gets a job she can never hold it.

Jesus, I was going to be all like
>My parents are awesome, deeply caring, supporting people...
>my brother and sister and I are very close and we love each others...
>We all got higher education and are doing very well...
etc
etc

but now that I have read some of the replies I don't really feel like it. You'll got some fucked up sad childhoods

Or, you know, humans are not perfect and as such they got to practice virtues to get past their shitty mental and physical habits.

Now time to leave Sup Forums for 6 more years.

That's what I planned to do once I move away. I still gotta live there for 2 years because of my apprenticeship tho. So I hope I'll survive that shit.

That poem accepts humans aren't perfect, but no parent completely removed the negative traits put onto them by their parents.

I'm not sure I agree people shouldn't have kids, but if you do accept that you're probably going to fuck your kid up in some way, and just do your best to change it