My gf does not allow me to do stuff I want. for example smoke weed go out to the bar with friends etc...

my gf does not allow me to do stuff I want. for example smoke weed go out to the bar with friends etc. I've been seeing her for a year and I really love her. but she is really restrictive. wat do

Do what you want to do and tell her to shut the fuck up.

What does she tell you when you ask to do these things?

This

Your habits seem selfdestructive. Maybe she wants to make you a better person?

well I was smoking pot without telling her. she found out by going through my phone while sleeping. said "she was suspicious" and she nearly broke up with me.

you deserve it. if you let a woman control you then maybe she knows best fag. she is the type to use her pussy like its a bargain chip too i bet. u deserve it and she knows it, she will leave you when a more assertive man comes into her life.

i think it's more about her having her way.

she is very loyal and has stuck with me through tough times. I just don't know if smoking weed and drinking alcohol is worth the breakup. I'm only 19 so I want to live a little you know

faggot lol, nice meme

It seems like she loves you being all to her self and not just inherently which would make her love conditional and therefore shallow.

Leave her those type of woman just take advantage of men for their own self interest stop being a bitch she's probably getting Creampied on the side

she also has some issues. her dad left her when she was like 9. she has trust issues and she has literally said "if you leave me I will never trust anyone Again" pretty bitchy tbh

u must be joking. One year is not enough time to determine "real loyal" and through "tough times" you are 19 what happened? You seem like you don't or can't see this. She is just a chick, you are just a kid. Smoke what you want, go out with your friends, what the fuck do you need some anchor for anyway?

doubt she is getting creampied by anyone else. not to be mean or anything but she is not the best looking. and also very socially awkward so doubt it

So, being 19, you haven't lived a lot. Odds are the woman you're eventually gonna marry is telling some other dude she loves him right now. On that note, you're meant to be partners, find some sort of compromise or disband the partnership. It's plain and simple.

i know but we are really similar with everything and we both could spend the rest of our lives together but this shit is getting me off point

why not ask her if shes interested to try those things out ? even when socially awkward, she still might be interested ... shes probably just afraid to lose u

every time I even bring up weed she gets pissed. she won't try it

if this shit, which is petty as shit and indicative of small control issues, is enough to get you off point than no you will not spend the rest of your lives together. Love isn't a disney story bro, it happens to you, you don't happen to it. Complete strangers know you two wont last, what can't you see. Control is a symptom of inner problems with oneself. You dont want those problems bro, and at 19, don't deserve problems like that. Porn is free, woman are easy as shit the older you get. Dont get caught up with someone who wants to control you, unless that is your thing and you are just looking for a woman like your mom who fucks you on the side too.

fuck man. this shit is true though. only problem I hate confrontation. how can I break up with her without breaking her heart..

then ask her why she gets pissed ... my GF used to refuse taking any drugs until i brought up baking cookies with it

she gets pissed cause it's illegal and "dangerous" she won't understand that's it's actually better than cigarettes

I would say you should smoke weed and go out to the bar with friends etc. Don't be a dick about it but do it anyway.

she will literally break up with me if she founds out I smoke

then you know what to do

She's got you cucked. You are her little bitch unless you tell her to fuck off every now n then

OP I was in the exact same situation, there are 3 options. Either you stop smoking, you carry on smoking and put up with her rage, or you break up.

I carried on smoking and just didn't tell her and lied to her, she hasn't found out yet.

Let her break up with you. She will probably be. Back In a week and you showing backbone will gain respect.

To add context, I'm 18 and we've been together for a year, she's not controlling except for smoking, she just wants her way about it for some reason. She caught me smoking on my friends snapchat in the background and I just told her "well, you said you'd break up with me, so do it" and she didn't. So just cuck her if she really loves you.

Who the fuck does what their told? I mean I say sorry when gf yells at me.....but damn.

Be honest. Tell her that while you care about her you also are not going to be dominated by her and your life curtailed in any way by her at this young of an age. Tell her you are ok with casual sex whenever she wants because it ultimately isnt that or her its just the whole control and restrictive thing. Tell her that except that you would be fine and see if she drops it. Be honest, not brash, and she will base her relation with every man going forward off of you. Help future guys out buy telling her whats up instead of just ghosting out and leaving her feeling it was you and not her. Women need us to tell them where they stand, otherwise they will try and prove alpha to you, exactly like dogs, sorry, but i love women, but they need to respect you as the leader and if you aren't in charge then you are really fucked because your life is in the hands of some woman. Good luck OP

That's infatuation. You are addicted to an easy lay. Be an adult and leave her. It's going to happen sooner or later anyway.

Start listening to Patrice O'Neal. Especially his old relationship help talk show.
You will know what to do.

Isn't she similar in age. What makes her so fucking wise about what you should or should not be doing. It also sounds like she doesn't want you to be social and that can be toxic later in life

Smoking a little weed and social drinking aren't self destructive. You sound like a grade A cunt.

You're really similar, except for everything you've said so far. Seriously grow the fuck up. Change or leave her. Only options.

Smoke it for Harambe

i just suck at confrontation. don't know how to do it. she literally said she will never trust anyone Again if I leave her. such a bitchy thing to say

There is nothing to do here besides demoting her to side bitch.

Why you letting a bitch control you man? Fuck that noise son. Tell that bitch she's not in control, you are in control. You are the man! You wanna smoke? Then go ahead and do it and then fuck that bitch silly until she fucking crawls her ass out of the bed to fetch you another blunt. Don't be a fuckin faggot for Christ sakes and live your fucking life. Fuck.

Grow some fucking balls and stop being a beta manlet. That is what you do. If you're a real man, you won't tolerate her telling you how to live your life. She can either get with the program or get lost.

who gives a fuck what she thinks when you leave her, just do what i did man, tell her you're going to smoke and it's up to her to decide what to do about it. she baby raged for a few days and then i smoked freely

cut that bitch loose.

Ignore that passive-aggressive garbage behavior. She has no way of knowing that. You two are going to be miserable together for a long time.

she will trust again. dont trust her when she says that. logically, how could she know certainly that she wont trust again? thats some metahypophysical shit there

So be it mang. You gotta be an adult, and contrary to what most people say, a big part of being an adult is confidently doing what you want and showing that you are capable of making choices that will make you happy but at the same time not destroy your life. You presently aren't satisfied. You would be happy if you were both in a relationship and could smoke dope/go to bars (which is fairly reasonable). Therefor you should be taking a step in that direction. If you have your shit together and keep things mature and reasonable she should recognize that. If she doesn't you're never gonna be satisfied with her anyway. Don't settle man. You do you, hopefully she sticks around for it.

dubz have spoken

Fuck you. He'll only resent her for lack of freedom. Long term it's no good

Who cares? Fucking bitch isn't worth keeping any way. Go get another girl and dump this slutty slag.

How about you grow up, stop smoking weed and get her pregnant and start a family instead of acting like a spoiled fucking brat?

is that your pipe? if so convince her its for a good cause. Light one up for harambe, cos he got lit up for you!

Well it's obvious she should leave him, and he is too much of a bitch to pull the trigger himself. I didn't say changing was a good option you faggot.

Nice quads

Life is too short to let someone hold you back from doing what you enjoy. There's a billions of women out there. You can find another.

She's a good influence on you if she's wanting you to not fuck your brain on dope and blow all your money at the bar OP. Might not be fun not getting wasted but why not turn her into your own personal sex slave and stay home and have her do all the kinky shit you always dreamed of but were to awkward or afraid to raise. Why not stay at home and practice her throatfucking skills Sup Forumsro?

Do you even number bro?

all this shit is making me realize long term this relationship will ruin itself anyway. so might as well save us both the hassle. but still don't know how I would break up. so scared if confrontation lmao

them ain't quadz, you newfag

>my gf does not allow me to do stuff I want

You're the gf in this situation, user.

Don't worry about that shit, just tell her you're done with her telling you what to do and to get the fuck out of your life. You'll be glad you did.

it can count to potato!

Dude I had this issue when I was your age.

Five years later I realized I am who I am. I am proud of myself. Smoking pot is not productive but it's a part of me.

Find a girl who likes you for who you are. Faults and all. There will be more.

/thread

>straight edge cock mongling faggot.

Pfff. Barely.

or just tell her that you're a grown ass man, and you will do what ever you want. if she doenst like it, she aint worth it.

Haha

Yes I do. 2. 4. 8. I even number

Lol

She sounds stubborn and incredibly ignorant. Since you're leaving her anyway, accuse her of having "dangerous" hobbies so she knows how it feels to be bullied for having fun.

Good point. "I'm going to do these things. If that is not acceptable, then goodbye". Best option yet.

Hey fuck you faggot throatfucking your own personal whore isn't exactly straight edge XD

Do what you want bro

Check em

You seem like a real cunt. Maybe we want you to be a better person?

And with the dubs!

this is how you get dubz, Sup Forumsro

thanks for the therapy sesh guys. I know what I have to do.

If you have to change for some cunt, she isn't worth it. Dump her sorry ass. Accuse her of fucking one of your friends and dump her.

say...them are some nice quadz :p

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Are you 12? Are you aware that this website is for grownups? You'll find more of your kind on Omegle.

And to you!

missed it by 1, god damn it :(

That's good to hear man. Hope everything works out.

Only a /btard would consider having conflicting opinion yelled at him by strangers to be therapy. I fucking love it here sometimes.

>woman are easy as shit the older you get
40s fag here: this is truth. Stay smart, stay fit - you'll need a stick to beat all that pussy back just to have a little peace a quiet.

The downside being, all of that "free" and "NSA" pussy is really just bait to snag you in. Do not be fooled. Oh, and I only date 30-55 years old. Under 30 are generally shitty in bed.

Back to your problem -

>she is very loyal and has stuck with me through tough times
No, sorry, one year is not long enough.
>she also has some issues. her dad left her when she was...blah, blah blah
Bro, if you feel sorry for this girl, want to do the right thing, be real for her, etc. then you are being manipulated. Bro, if you take anything away from this thread it's this: if you even suspect that you are 'white knighting' then get out. People stand on their own two feet. Or they stand on your head.

>doubt she is getting creampied by anyone else
Me too, execpt when I read about you wanting to do the right thing. Feeling sorry for someone and wanting to help is manipulation. You are teaching her what works. How to get you to do what she wants. Keeping you inline and fucking other man go hand in hand.

Younger, I've been introduced to boyfriends as an "old friend" 3 times in my life.

chill brah, smoke a bowl, fuck your gf in the ass (don't ask just do it) and then go hang with your buds at the bar for a while

Sage

Dude youre 19? Stop being such a puss and do what you want. Youre supposed to be banging as much strange as possible, not playing house. Pussy is not worth freedom, and by the sound of it, her Iron fisted death grip on your nuts is only going to get harder if you letter. Are you the man or is she? If youre not, its not going to get better and she'll eventually cheat on you with a dude who knows that bitches are for fucking. Later on in life, yeah then maybe settle down or whatever but stop buying into the feminization and pussification going on everywhere. Do your thing. Don't be controlled.

Lol ur girl wont let u smoke or drink and u listen to her? There is no hope for u fucking cuuuuuuck

Tits or GTFO, you are obviously a woman

Leave her "suspiscious" ass.
That cunt doesnt deserve a partner, she wants a child she can control.

>There is no hope for u fucking cuuuuuuck

Controlling women like that usually are cheaters, so i'd have to say there's a good chance OP is a cuck

if you're willing to let a chick do that to you just for pussy you're too far gone for help

Hey man how was your work interview?

i know im not getting cucked

Stop giving her the power. Let her break up with you if she doesn't support your decisions. You'll be a happier guy and she'll be off bothering some other poor soul. Either that, or she'll be the bitch in the relationship like she should be.

I'm not with her for the pussy tho