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i have a problem with premature ejaculation. I think it has to do with the fact that i conditioned my body to cum as quickly as possible to be inconspicuous, i can literally start jerking off and cum in less then 2 minutes at any given time. last time i fucked a girl i didn't even last 5 mins.

A little about me
im 24, overweight but not obese by any means. i use to watch a lot of porn until recently when i decided to cut back (even deleted my fap folder) Also i started to diet and work out. Also I'm not afraid or awkward around girls but i don't want to get a girlfriend for the sheer reason of my premature ejaculation and the embarrassment that would bring.

I'm done being like this Sup Forums
I'm willing to make drastic changes in my life, but i need help. has anybody had problems with premature ejaculation and concord it? Do kegel exercises work? Should i just stop jerking off? have you found any guides or tips that have actually had success?
please help me Sup Forums im getting desperate

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orgasms are all in the mind my friend. because you are in the habit of thinking youll cum quickly you do. i can essentially cum voluntarily.

another technique would honestly be man is just get some viagra

Ever since I got on Paxil takes me hours to blow

so what's the problem?
you get one erection per day?

Dude OP just get a girlfriend and fuck her alot you will figure out your body much more and be able to nut on command.

Why is this such an issue with people?
I'd understand if you were 40 and you were having that problem, but dude you're young.
Just fucking nut, wipe down properly or change your condom and go again.
No need to be embarrassed about it.

I can cum many times, but its always quick. Also i would rather stay away from pills if possible..thanks for the replies bros

Try extending your jack off sessions to an hour or so. With a single load.

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I don't understand why you complain, i had moments then i came in 30 seconds no joke...
on another hand i could last for hours it's all bout the mood
>protip alcohol and don't use condoms idk if its just me or what but they tend to make me cum faster

buy a fleshlight and mount it somewhere or just keep it stationary. use only your body to thrust

I couldn't keep myself from cumming in less than 5 minutes. Did that for 2 weeks and went half an hour no problem.

this

I'm the same way, cum in around 30 seconds after even starting to masterbate. I started falling at a very young age and also conditioned myself to cum extremely quick. Another contributing factor is I had a heroin addiction which helped me fuck for hours for awhile, but now it's made it even worse and I even cum quick on heroin. I'm 26, slim with a small belly, and would love to know what the fuck to do to get back to how I was naturally, I can for sure remember a time when this wasn't an issue. Also I would like some input from femanons, what do you think about this? Could you possibly make something of a fetish out of this? If I was with a girl that came super quick I think I'd be able too, in fact I'd find it cute.

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>just get some viagra
I have a PE problem, but on Cialis, I fuck like a God. Im only 23, and I dont take it very often. I would like to know if it has any damaging long term effects.

how would i go about finding this magic pills anyways? just curious

I cant tell if you are trolling, but something about that sounds genius. I may have to try this.

OP here
glad to see im not the only one with this issue, feeling a lot better about this situation

I don't want to sound like a shill, any quality onahole will work

15 dollar ones at Asian adult stores wont last

The key is to not just sit down and move the fleshlight/onahole with your hands. Keep it stationary and move yourself so you're stuck at your body pace rather than what your hands/arms can put out

>how would i go about finding this magic pills anyways? just curious
My roomate ordered them online off of an indian pharmacy. He wasnt a huge fan of them and gave them to me. Im still on the first package.

Standard advice? Concentrate, pay close attention to your arousal levels, thrust slowly and carefully, and don't overload yourself with too much extra stimuli (grabbin' tits, finger in the butt whatever)

If you're just jackin it just slow it down and be mindful of your pacing. Get used to lasting longer until you can go the distance with the real thing.

I used to have problems with it, and then I made some sort of mental block about it. Now I have to really try to finish to finish, otherwise I'll go for hours without ever being close to done.

First time I had sex with a woman to completion, she said, "You're a bottle rocket and I'm a diesel engine."

Last time I had sex, we fucked for three hours and I still wasn't really that close.

Not really all that sure how I did it, though; I think one thing that helps is having marathon jerk-off sessions just for the sensation. I used to either spend hours jerking it or like a minute and a half, so that's usually the disparity I have between when I want to cum and when I want to enjoy myself.

Just find a way to make a mental block about it, I guess.

You are not the only one. Dont feel bad about it. I dont quite know how to fix this problem, but I fully believe there is a way to do so.

If you cum early with a girl, just own it and then start going down on her

When you're ready to go again, start right away

Its a proactive way to show you want them rather then making excuses

not trolling

got to the point where my cock would outlast my body, started getting really tired near the end and having her hop on top and shit like that

if you really want theres methods to reduce your stimulation during sex. 3 shallow pumps then 1 deep, repeat until completion type deal

I've tried that, I find I end up counting which is fairly distracting, not enough to lose wood, but enough. Some people think about other shit while having sex to try from cumming too early. Think about baseball, working on your car, school/work, crap like that.

I heard about a desensitizing spray you just put on the tip of your dick, wonder if that works

user hit the nail on the head.
I used to be able to evacuate quickly but now I can't cus I've conditioned myself to enjoy sex as a way of deepening or reinstating intimacy.
Basically I decided I wouldn't cum if she didn't.. thus the goal being to Cum together. Now I can hold off until my partner is getting close and when I feel her going and see her face changing it makes me go too.
Find it hard to ejaculate with girls I've fucked on the side though.

I do a lot of kegals throughout the day and when i masterbate.
When ever you find yourself getting hard or anytime just try to do like 20 STRONG kegals.
Depends on how many you are used to just do as many as you can before getting tired.
also edging you self can help.
its all about how well you can control and know your body.
ive been doing kegals a few years now and ive actually gotten bigger in size and can control if i want to come in 5 minutes or in 30 minutes.

I had the same damn problem with my 1st gf. At the start i came like every 3-4 mins, we would continue, then i came again, and it was like this for a week or so. I grew really tired of it. Most people say its about the state of mind - and i guess they are right, but a medical advice is also cardio. I guess cardio can help with stamina. I also tried controling it - when i felt like i was near i started making math problems in my head or imagined some shitty situation like my parents coming in the room or some shit. Just take you mind of the pussy and focus on smth else. When i was a little bit better with holding it in i started something else too - I started going down on her right before i was about to nut. Those are the ways i did it, but mostly i had to stop worrying that i would cum quickly cause that was the main problem tbh. Hope this helps, OP and good luck

I heard Blink 182 is having the same troubles.
My advice: become gay, get aids, acquire the stealthing fetish, and enjoy the results of cumming quick in unsuspecting dudes. "Don't worry, I'll pull out." They'll never see a sub 2 minute ejaculation surprise coming!

Take opiates before sex and your problem wont be cumming too early, itll be cumming at all

Jerk off like 20 minutes before you think you're gonna get laid.

well first off I have the opposite problem. maybe it will give some insight if you think on it. Not sure. first time I came pretty fast. Jerked off a lot and it has kind of desensitized me as has increasing reliance on porn to get off (makes normal sex pretty non-exhilarating). It has been to the point that I have faked orgasms because women think they don't turn me on or something... it's not exactly that it's just the scenarios that turn me on aren't what we're doing and I don't feel safe to ask for that.

few things I think might have an effect: try noticing how you breathe when you are nearing climax and try to change that,
change up the pacing of the thrust or rub or whatever to be less what you like, wear a condom, also try to force yourself not to cum even as you are starting to cum (it results in a better orgasm and seemed to extend my times with repeated practice when I was younger).

do start n stop at the brink of orgasm for an hour everyday and you should be set

Once i paid for an hour with a hooker in TJ and came within 5 mins of starting, she didnt let me fuck her again. Worst $80 i ever spent :(

Take vyvance before sex concentrate on litterally anything else you will last as long as you'd like

Medfag here, get some fluoxetine or paroxetine one a day. You're welcome.

Vyvance will also help you lose weight so procure some

Amphetamine. Hard to get up but when you do you'll go for hours

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Real advice?
Go and make a doctor check if there is any problem with your penis. Is not always a mind or mental problem ,sometimes can be something else ,like heart issues , problem with a nerve ,stress or something else. you can try and do kegel all you want but thats not going to solve your problem if the main problem is something else. The best thing to do is to tell your doctor and he will help you with the correct treatment to your problem.

I haven't lasted longer than 2 minutes with a girl, but I put that down to us always doing far too much foreplay and the fact that I've only recently started having sex and have only done it like 4 times. I'm 19, pls no bully.

Anybody else have a problem with cumming to blowjobs?

If you mean you can't, I tend to have that problem. I think I've just not had enough good head; I want a chick who can actually deepthroat my whole dick.

I've got some, doesn't seem to work well. It rubs off. I guess you could have it in a condom but I don't usually use them. Plus it's really bitter, rules out oral after

i find alcohol helps

theres a perfect point where you have drank enough so that youre somewhat numb and doubly horny

rum works best for me

also makes eating pussy less gross

It depends on the girl really. One bitch can make me cum in like 5 min or less and another will try for 45 mins for nothing so I'd have to nut in her pussy, instead.

>i find alcohol helps
This so much, there's a perfect balance between enough and too much which is just right.

I will try this. I feel like you may have just changed my life. Thanks user.

>eating pussy
>gross
What're you fuckin gay?

Sex is so boring when I'm drunk that I've literally only done it once. I'm probably never having sex while drunk again.

You are what you eat.

>A fucking pussy

Same problem here
In the beginning many years agi I lasted 15-17 min
Now at 33 I last about 1,5-2min. From time to time I last 15-20 but rhat is v rare. I fuck my gf every day or every 2 days. I hopped with the time I'll last longer.

I've tried many advices sone of them posted here but didn't work.
I like rough fast sex. I don't like sliw thrusting. During rough sex you can't thing of shit/awkward situation to last longer and makes me not enjoy sex. After all that's why I'm fucking to enjoy fucking not to set a record or just coz lol sex.
Conyrolin or cganging breathing is very diverse and awkward when you fuck the shit out of a girl.
The good thing is after I cum I'm still hard as a rock and I fuck my gf untill she comes too. I'm happy she is happy.
Although I would like to make her cum before me I just doesn't happen that often exvept if i eat her out and play with her until she begs for dicking. Then she cums really fast 2-3 mins of hard fast ball deep fucking

Under five mins sounds bad but it sounds like something you can work on. I'm a femanon and I have experienced a guy who came on the first thrust, then he got a girlfriend and she told me he had the same problem with her and she tried everything it's literally so quick it's not even like having sex also my friend had a boyfriend who was under thirty seconds all the time. Do pelvic floor exercises try lasting longer when you wank and wear a thick condom so you don't feel as much when you have sex. also find a girl who comes quickly and likes quickies. It depends if you can recover quickly, I had this boyfriend who didn't last very long but we just used to have a joint and go again it was great. Try not to worry too much about it because it's really off putting when your with a guy and he's not in the moment and he's just worrying about how long he's going to last.

>The good thing is after I cum I'm still hard as a rock and I fuck my gf untill she comes too

That's the difference between having a real issue or not. If you cum quick but can keep going until she is happy there is no issue, you may even be better off since the average guy cums long before the average female but many guys who last longer initially are done once they cum.
My best piece of advise though as an old fag is just don't go multiple times using pulling out as birth control. Jizz gets trapped in the bend at the base of your cock after you cum and doesn't start coming out until after you go totally limp or you piss it out OR you go for multiple rounds and the pre-cum pushes it out right into her twat where her cervix is waiting to lap it up and give you the dreaded missed period call a month six to eight weeks later.
Women get off on foreplay, you do as much as you possibly can to her before you ever stick it so she has already cum or is about to by the time you go for the bang.
It makes things much more intimate anyway and you stand a much better chance of cumming together.

Well in the beginning after cumming I removed the condom whipped my dick clean with some wet tissue pop out another condom and continue fucking util she cum
Now we are trying to have a kid so we fuck bareback

Stop fapping only fuck yer bitch and for the love of lucifer stop watching porn. You'll be better before ya know it.

Smoke a good indica weed before you fuck....you'll last much much longer.

>Basically I decided I wouldn't cum if she didn't.
What if she thinks - ok, I won't come until he doesn't.

you'll screw into a paradox and destroy the Earth..

I actually believed your post untill you wrote i've gotten bigger in size.